23M here. Last night my (now ex) bf broke up with me over text. My best friend for 10 years is moving overseas in July.

23M here. Last night my (now ex) bf broke up with me over text. My best friend for 10 years is moving overseas in July. When he goes, Ive got nobody IRL. my only other IRL "friend" I'm on shit terms with because hes an ex fwb who I got too attached to. my only other mates like out of state. I dont know what to do

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    make some friends chump

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how? every friend ive made leaves. everyone I date says "we're just different people", I dont fit in anywhere. I've tried hobbies

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I cant help with your gay lovers but did you think friends were all supposed to stay forever? you know you have to die sometime

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What’s wrong with friends coming and going? How do you grow as a person if you’re not willing to grow as a person? 8 billion people and you think you’re only allowed to have 3 friends?

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I don’t know what to do

    I think you do know what to do

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no I dont mate, illucidate me

      I cant help with your gay lovers but did you think friends were all supposed to stay forever? you know you have to die sometime

      I'd like them to stay more than a month

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >My best friend for 10 years
        sounds like they do man, being pouty about a few new friends not being lifelong friends isnt helping you

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I met him when I was 13 in school, my long lasting mates are all from school or from that group

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            have you been through uni already?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yea, I'm 3 years out of uni, I'm doing well in my career and really all aspects of life except social and romantic

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            idk dude, you have any extracurricular interests? take an improv class or some shit, youll find your people again

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I am a member of my local furry community and went to a meet the other day, I do lots of stuff (art, chess, gym, running etc) but never meet anyone rlly even when I try

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >furry community
            oh bro you are fricking in, those people frick like rabbits literally
            theres lots of different genres of furry too, no? mingle around, pry open the folds you havent explored
            >art, chess, gym, running
            these are good if you can find a lot of groups in your area but you may do better just seeing whats available around you that you arent already involved in but are interested in trying
            they say life gets shorter as you go, but it mostly just gets more routine, keep trying new shit and meeting new people and it will always feel full, I believe in you

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            sex is one thing, I have no problem getting sex, especially with guys (im bi). but fwb only last so long, I want someone I can really connect with.
            >I believe in you
            thanks man, I'm not in a good frame of mind rn because of my friend moving (we live together and have talked every day for years), hes like a brother to me so Im going to feel lost without him. My plan was to at least have my now ex to hang with when he was gone but thats not happening. All my other mates who live interstate have partners and I'm just here, soon to be with nobody to shoot the shit with if its not in discord

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > I want someone I can really connect with.
            thats good man, theres surely furries who want monogamy too right? I just mean they seem like a very tight community, most of them are there for the community more than the actual furry shit am I wrong?
            and there will always be downer periods in your life, its very healthy and normal to mourn for people who are not in your life anymore but dont give up on the people yet to arrive you know? even discord friends are worth something

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >theres surely furries who want monogamy too right?
            100%, tbh I'm not looking for romance here as much. recent events and my exes have shown that I dont need that shit in my life atm. I just want mates, people I can chill with like I did with my bros from school when we all lived in the same shitty town in NSW.My discord friends are also school friends. I cant stand them at times but I cant shake them even if I wanted to. Every friendship after school ended in tears or fizzled out. I'm hoping theres other c**ts out there that just want to shoot the shit

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well it sounds beyond my experience to help with man, dont give up on yourself and dont give up on the possibilities still open to you, thats all I can think of, do that and youll be doing well in no time I swear by it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I hope so bro, thank you

            [...]
            just exchange discord IDs and frick already

            nah bruh had one discord bf, never doing that shit again

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well it sounds beyond my experience to help with man, dont give up on yourself and dont give up on the possibilities still open to you, thats all I can think of, do that and youll be doing well in no time I swear by it

            just exchange discord IDs and frick already

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >unlike people cant have positive convos
            youre really lame anon

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >waits until his boyfriend replies to come up with a response
            say again?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            he posted while I was still typing
            Im sorry you were socialized to believe supporting your fellow man is gay but its just humane

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >claims not to be a homosexual
            you must be a liberal which is even worse

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            cringe. you got advice for me bruh or no?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            this is a vent thread anyway if you hadn't noticed

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah mate I know I'm OP, so did you have advice or not

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >furry community
            Can I ask in all honesty what a furry community does exactly? Like is it just sex or what? Like do you get together and draw furries or LARP or tell stories or what? I'm legitimately interested in what you guys really do

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            so at our meetups we just talk about kind of projects we've got going, like what we're drawing, fursuits we're making, events we're going to. We go for dinner and hang at the park. Theres about 15 at the meet. If you were into the sexual side, you'd probably do it moreso online but I know a lot of people at our meet are into it sexually as well, people are very respectful of boundaries and never bring it up at the meet. For me its not really about sex (if I meet a hot person I wont say no tho)

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >furry meetup
            >they don't talk about their private ERP in DMs
            What's the point then?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >the meetup is sfw, not everyone is into it sexually, but if you were into it sexually, you would go to the 18+ section of the discord and discuss with people there and then meet them at the meetup ig

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            SFW meetup is just the shit they use to groom minors right?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So, is it a fetish or what

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >my best friend for 10 years is moving overseas in July
    My best friend just moved overseas last week. I used to see him at least once a week, now I have no one. Another friend I'm kinda close to has his own life with his own people and doesn't want me in it.
    We have to look for new people I guess, but I don't know where to start even. I'm 30 and have no social hobbies. Maybe we should pick up one of those.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It must suck to be one of those sensitive women brained gay guys who get emotionally attached to guys. The average gay guy is a complete sex degen with 500+ partners and all you want is to be loved. Thats gotta be a bleak outlook. Im sorry OP
    My only advice is stop having extended friendships with former sex partners it doesnt work

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >It must suck to be one of those sensitive women brained gay guys who get emotionally attached to guys.
      >The average gay guy is a complete sex degen with 500+ partners and all you want is to be loved.
      These are the same people, just through different phases of their life

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Those people dont exist.

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