>28. >virgin. >lonely as hell. >have never worked a job. >no friends. >no hobbies

>28
>virgin
>lonely as hell
>have never worked a job
>no friends
>no hobbies
>don't know anything about movies or games or any media
>can't talk to anyone about anything
>can't stand being around people at all
>can't even get vaguely sexually aroused
>have never been in love
>all the people who ever supposed to guide me just abused me

So its over? I'll just never be happy huh? I'm never going to hold hands with a girl. Thats it. I'm never going to go out with friends. Thats it.
I just don't understand why this happened to me

It hurts guys. It really hurts so much. I think about suicide every day. When I go to bad I have and insomnia. I have screamed myself to sleep wishing I could go back in time.
I'm in so much pain
I just want to feel like someone cares. I want a hug so bad. I want to eat across the table from a girl.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > I just don't understand why this happened to me

    that’s right. you’re the victim. this happened to you. instead of “why did i do this to me”. you assumed friends and more just fell into your lap as you grew older. you don’t realize how hard each of us works for each friend. for each girlfriend. for each hobby. we are nothing like you. we want to experience life and make it happen. you sit still, alone, and b***h why the good times don’t just come to you. frick you

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But I have tried very hard

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >But I have tried very hard

        >have never worked a job

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You need a job. Need one. Most of a young adult social circle has to do with your coworkers.

    In your shoes some years ago I got a job bussing tables at a restaurant and eventually got promoted to being a waiter. It was awkward and nervewracking at first, but it forced me to be around young people (waiters are often college age) and improve my social skills (my paycheck depended on it). I got a gf and went to my coworkers’ parties. The money was also as good as $30/h some nights. It’s not the only way out, but it helped for me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody will hire me. And it feels pointless because I don't need a job to survive. That's not something I think all the time and I don't think I'm better. I just don't really give 110% which is what they want. I have walked all over my city begging for a job and nobody really wanted to hire me. And who can blame them? I must wear my incompetence on my sleeve.
      And it just doesn't make sense. I don't think I need to stack more on my plate. Working ajob would make me miserable
      I don't know what to do

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Keep trying! Something will open up eventually. Food service, retail, cleaning, anything.

        Having a job isn’t just about whether you technically need the money or not. It’s about instilling a routine, developing a sense of pride and accountability for your work no matter how simple, and bonding with those around you under the same circumstances. It’s life-changing. Don’t give up on it.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Oh give me a break man. Keep trying? Its been 6 years.
          I feel so fricking empty

          I've started cutting myself. I don't know what else to do.
          I can't talk to anyone about anything. What am I supposed to relate to people about? I can't identify with 2000s nostalgia or any pop culture stuff. I don't like talking about games or anything. I just can't I just can't I just can't.

          I feel like I'm in actual hell and nobody can see it. They expect me to be normal when I'm on fire
          And all for what? T this point its too late. So I'm just going to settle for a girl who doesn't even like me after busting my ass

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >people try to help and give advice
            >ignore all advice and cry about why you cant make your life better

            You need meds bro.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you don't have hobbies, don't consume any media and you don't work, how the hell do you manage to spend your time? Do you just stare at a wall all day?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I sleep. I stare at a wall. I lay down in the floor. I go out for 5+ hour walks. I go on NSFFW. NSFFW is getting hard though. I don't understand internet jokes. I can't relate to the sex talk. And I just mindlessly click around random boards.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I wish I wasn't in a permanent state of exhaustion and stress. Its overwhelming. I feel helpless. I just can't believe in myself no matter how hard I try. And I just can't see a future worth building to. Because I don't like living here. And I am too invalid to live on my own let alone immigrate.
        Being alive is so painful to me

        You actually legit need meds. It is not normal for a human to not seek mental stimulus. The way you write is not even depression at this point, it seems to be a case of schizophrenia. You are right now in a limbo of existential loneliness moreso than physical, so if somebody would to give you affection you wouldnt be able to perceive and take it as somebody making fun of you. Actually just go to psychiatrist first

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Literally me (

        Me too. I have never had a single hobby or interest in my life and I don't engage with any media or sport so I have nothing to talk about even with the dumbest of normies. I am a complete human dreg.

        ). I just sleep, switch between NSFFW boards, stare at the wall thinking about things, walk circles in my backyard for 2 hours a day. That's it, that's my life.

        [...]
        You actually legit need meds. It is not normal for a human to not seek mental stimulus. The way you write is not even depression at this point, it seems to be a case of schizophrenia. You are right now in a limbo of existential loneliness moreso than physical, so if somebody would to give you affection you wouldnt be able to perceive and take it as somebody making fun of you. Actually just go to psychiatrist first

        What would a psychiatrist even do other than pump us full of meds? We have nothing to start from, no relationships, no interests. I talked informally to a psychologist family friend and he suggested that to feel better I should start with focusing on my hobbies and getting friends involved in those hobbies, but I had to explain that I have no hobbies or interests at all. He had no answer to that and told me he couldn't help me.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I wasn't in a permanent state of exhaustion and stress. Its overwhelming. I feel helpless. I just can't believe in myself no matter how hard I try. And I just can't see a future worth building to. Because I don't like living here. And I am too invalid to live on my own let alone immigrate.
    Being alive is so painful to me

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >can't even get vaguely sexually aroused
    That's the opposite of a problem when you don't have a girl to do something about that arousal.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You'd be surprised

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    please dont cut yourself i will pray for you tonight

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel so tortured and I keep sighing.
    I have this strong feeling that I just want to go home
    But I don't know what that means
    My house growing up never felt like home
    The place I am now doesn't feel like home

    I don't know what to do.
    I day dream about holding hands with a nice girl. Being hugged for the first time. Playing games. But I don't know if I can even do that. Can I ever let anyone touch me?would I even be happy? Maybe I'm just born wrong. I want to go home

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    same because i was homeschooled and sheltered i've never experienced anything in life. i'm used to the pain. i know the burning feeling you're trying to describe and how indescribable it really is, to be so deprived of affection that it feels you're going to die. i also know the more-or-less universal rejection by others since i've made posts like yours before talking about it and got the same insipid replies. so i feel for you

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why is stuff thats so basic to everyone else so hard for me
      How am I supposed to survive when I'm worse off than a 9 year old
      I just wish someone had helped me. Taken me under their wing. Taught me how to live and do stuff

      Literally every single aspect of life is a total mystery too me. It's paralyzing.
      Its agonizing. Its like being stuck in jail but the door is unlocked now but I know I can't survive outside.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you have to brave the storm

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know what that means

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It’s oblivious privileged advice. If you’re super fricked up you don’t have coping mechanisms. You haven’t had that kind of pressure applied. Easy things for anyone else to do just seem ridiculously hard. Yes of course you could just power thru and do it but if you don’t know how to it takes a bit longer to get there.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          sorry i've been playing reverse: 1999

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's over. Many anons here will think you can get out of a situation like yours with
    >muh motivation and hard work
    But as someone who's been in this situation, i can say they have no fricking idea what they're talking about.
    Your only hope is trying antidepressants, and if that doesn't work, then shrooms and eventually harder drugs. Something to turn your brain back on.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get wrecked friday night and go for a 5+ hour walk ending around 1-2 around bars. Keep a knife in your pocket and see where the night goes. If alive, not in jail, use the morning high from no sleep to look for a job at a restaurant. Cant go wrong. Go drink alone. Join the marine corps or army infantry. Why fricking not buddy? You either die or are forced by something else to provide feelings and beliefs. You need to seek that out. It starts with a goal, a plan, and a step to the first thing

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What do you do all day?

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Me too. I have never had a single hobby or interest in my life and I don't engage with any media or sport so I have nothing to talk about even with the dumbest of normies. I am a complete human dreg.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how does one become a 28 y/o virgin with no hobbies, especially video games
    vidya and dry desert dick go together like peanut butter and jelly

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dont give up sora

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you be lonely and also not act in a way that resolves the loneliness?
    Either stop being lonely or get friends. Not being lonely is the lazy option, having friends takes more effort but has more opportunities

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Like, fricking
    >virgin
    Hire a prostitute or don't care about sex
    >have never worked a job
    Get a job. Easier said than done but it's possible.
    >no friends
    They're more a liability than anything else honestly, I prefer to mostly get along with those around me but not get too involved.
    >no hobbies
    Bullshit. You experience 24 hours in a day same as anyone and during those hours you experience things, those are your hobbies.
    >don't know anything about movies or games or any media
    Based
    >can't talk to anyone about anything
    Try your plans, your hobbies, or your goals.
    >can't stand being around people at all
    Then stop desiring human interaction, dumbass.
    >can't even get vaguely sexually aroused
    Nice, prevents those problems
    >have never been in love
    Yeah that's for the best too.
    >all the people who ever supposed to guide me just abused me
    What about Yourself, you lazy frick? Just guide yourself.

    Your problems have solutions, enact them.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >So its over? I'll just never be happy huh?
    Stop having imaginary problems and fix real problems.
    >I'm never going to hold hands with a girl.
    Prostitutes or don't care.
    >I'm never going to go out with friends.
    Honestly that's more of a burden than anything else.
    >I just don't understand why this happened to me
    Inaction and delusion. Fix your problems and don't imagine more.
    >It hurts guys.
    Then act to resolve it.
    > I think about suicide every day.
    Then act to resolve it, if you prefer the lazy option.
    >When I go to bad I have and insomnia.
    Yeah that one's actually hard to solve, sorry. But having less stress should help, and you have less stress by fixing issues.
    >I'm in so much pain
    Then act to resolve it.
    >I just want to feel like someone cares.
    What about yourself, dumbass? Just care and appreciate your care.
    >I want a hug so bad. I want to eat across the table from a girl.
    Prostitutes.

    Your problems have solutions.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also wait
      If you don't have love or a desire for human interaction, why do you want to eat near the girl?
      homie you told at least one lie, check yourself.

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you around OP?

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sorry
    but
    job(money) is all your need

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