>almost half of young men do not even approach women anymore

>almost half of young men do not even approach women anymore

What is the future of dating gonna look like when more and more men keep dropping out of the game when it's not worth the effort? How do I deal with this?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is feminism in action.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Twice as many women for guys like me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you for your baseless claim anon. Very cool and sure to change much

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah it’s kind of the point, women get harassed less when they don’t want it. I think we approach less because most of us are more aware of boundaries now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >. I think we approach less because most of us are more aware of boundaries now.
        It's the false allegations and losing your job/livelihood, moron.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      More for me.

      cope and seethe, incel

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's also you being a colossal homosexual about feminism in action.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A decrease in sexual harassment and assault for women is good, actually.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You sound like a moron or a woman.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girls never wanted us, won't even notice we're gone. They'll complain louder about the guys they can see behaving worse, but will never once think about us.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      women are npcs, they don't know what they want
      it's your job to make her want you

      This is feminism in action.

      more like videogames in action. men getting used to rewards magically falling into their lap without effort or risk.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >more like videogames in action
        most video games have a simple improvment gameplay loop. Everyone starts at level 0 and you do x you get y. IRL you got dudes that are lucky enough to be 6'3 with rich parents. Alot of things are based on genetics etc. Games are fair life is not. So dudes start coping by playing videogames. Because everyone is at an even playing field.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Good Lord you're a stupid frick. Video Games aren't so much and "even playing field" as a steep slope towards victory that everyone starts at the top of. Video games are designed for you to succeed, they're literally hand tailored experiences that allow you to feel like you're earning the success they're programmed to give you.

          Real life isn't like that, failure is very much a possibility and you're forced to take risks that inherently include the possibility of rejection and failure.

          Vidya tards like you who whine about life not being fair is the perfect example of this, you have next to no real life experience with taking risks because the idea of not having problems fall over for you with the slightest application of effort terrifies you. You tell yourself only 8ft9 chads with 700lbs of pure muscle can get women because it allows you to hide behind the fact that you're paralyzed by fear when it comes to trying your hand at something where success isn't guaranteed.

          The hilarious part is that even with your dog shit attitude about male-female relationships you could still find a woman who would tolerate you long enough to let biology take over and start enjoying your company, but you'll never allow yourself to be in a situation where that could happen.

          People hook up at anime conventions and gaming expos and world of Warcraft guilds. Do you honestly think women are only attracted to Konan the barbarian or are you willing to entertain the fact that maybe you're lying to yourself so you don't have to face your fears and risk failure?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i doubt you could find many women at fricking gaming expos below 100kg?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So you can either do things that do not cause you to fail. Or you can do things that if you fail will lead to social shaming, women laughing at you and telling their friends they rejected you, you being accused to sexual assault and stalking because that's normal to do nowadays. The risks are literally simply no longer worth the rewards and everyone can feel it. Also women's standards have only gone up and a vidya tard doesn't even reach the basic standards of a fatty convention bawd.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No matter where you start you can still build yourself up irl where you can, the changeable factors are far more than the non-changeable ones

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          agreed

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If you dwell on your limitations you'll automatically inhibit yourself from doing the best you can

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >women are npcs, they don't know what they want it's your job to make her want you
        So without regularly approaching women, I'm correct. Your splitting hairs is annoying. There's no need to reply to me if you're just going to clarify things further.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >more like videogames in action. men getting used to rewards magically falling into their lap without effort or risk.
        Videogames take effort to get good.

        The other anon is partially right.
        Pop feminist theory in the 2010s made a big deal of saying that women don't want to be approached in public spaces and shaming men who do that. So now we're seeing the effects that messaging had on the zoomers who grew up hearing that.
        So you're right, women don't know what they want lol.

        But another cause is dating apps and social media trained zoomers to only do these things online. In-person cold approaches are rarer now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No, you just want to ban principally male hobbies out of a sense of revenge for men not approaching you.
        >won’t approach us any ore? Fine, we’ll criminalize everything EXCEPT approaching us!
        That’s it. That’s your strategy. Fortunately, people just wont play along. When the choices are (A) go to jail for approaching a woman and giving her the “ick”, and (B) go to jail for NOT approaching a woman, people will choose the path of least resistance and just not approach you. Plus I’m sure the jailtime will be shorter with option B anyway.

        By that time, with so many normal guys in prison, it won’t even be that bad of an experience anymore and so people won’t be that afraid of it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >men getting used to rewards magically falling into their lap without effort or risk.
        frick off roastie

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Why would a roastie call women NPCs? In any case she is right.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >videogames in action

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No, they will. I’m already getting threatened by old female relatives for not dating. They’re basically extorting me, saying that they’ll call the cops and file false reports on me unless I go out with X or Y old hag that wants my money.

      I’d rather just go to prison to be honest. Been before. It’s not that bad. If you get into a jail that lets you brush your teeth, it’s pretty nice actually.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No one does that, are you a chink or someshit? That doesn't sound like white behavior

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's a shitpost

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      They won't notice and simply be alone and miserable at 45. Probably will blame all men, too

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Who gives a frick about dating. Women look at us like pussies because they have no idea what life is like in our shoes. They have no empathy for us we shouldn't have any for them. Put them in breeding pods like the tleilaxu in Dune. The only way.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ya'll millenials are doomed lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anyone who thinks a woman will stand by you in hard times is doomed. Doomed with ignorance. Maybe you'll never fall low enough that it happens but you'll just die ignorant that your love was never even close to being reciprocated on the same level. I'd rather be doomed than ignorant. It's a blessing to know the true nature of the world even if said truth is difficult to digest at first.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Nta but I agree almost no women will stick with you through hard times. I found that out the hard way, and that was a woman I still consider to be much better and more loving and loyal than the vast majority of women. That said, you're still a whiny homosexual. Just find a good wife and try to never fall on hard times. Of course she will never truly reciprocate the depth of love you have for her, but who cares? Obviously a ride or die woman is ideal, but those are 1 in 10,000,000. You just accept this fact of life and move foeward in life. Still have romantic relarionships. Still start a family

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hard times is a make or break. Its not that they wont stick with you. Its that thats when your character comes out, and theyre looking to you for leadership and strength. If you b***h cry complain and give up, youll change their perspective of you in a very bad way. If youre strong, take charge, and push through and pull her with you, shell never love you more.
        Every time I see this I think "life got hard and I was a weak b***h about it and my woman left me and now Im blaming women for it instead of realizing maybe I showed my true colours and they werent good"

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's women who stay with you in terminal illness. Men are more likely to leave if their wife gets sick.

        https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Anyone who thinks a woman will stand by you in hard times is doomed
        rip

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you stupid? 18-25. You think that's STILL millennial? The YOUNGEST millennials are in their early to mid 30's bro.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      moron

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is only for white men. They are being socially engineered to decrease their population by the ______. Everyone else is thriving.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I see Black folks dating my women but can do nothing about it because the police protect them.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You are an alphabet agent stooge

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >They hated him because he spoke the truth

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Today on "every day advtivity"
    >vague survey from questionable source with extremely ill defined terms and data collection methods is posted.
    >illiterate uneducated stupid (likely incel) people run with it, come to their own conclusions, and relish in a victory they didnt earn.

    Just a regular day here.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      /bread

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is most likely a survey run by datepsych aka the Chadistician. I've been following the guy from a while and at least he's not moronic

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Lol, you believe everything you see, don't you?

    Where was this poll conducted? What are the ages of the men or boys?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How many people responded? 20?

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Perfect example for "how to understand studies"
    45% of men 18-25 never approached a woman IN PERSON
    >what incels assume it means
    Men arent talking to women at all anymore, and this is obviously a result of some mass protest against feminism and women everywhere are getting their come uppance and men are winning some imaginary war.
    >what it actually means
    Young people are likeky engaging initially through social media than they are cold approaching. And depending on what they specifically define as "approached a woman" it could also mean no ones cold approaching at all, and they still could be meeting through mutual friends as they always have and organically becoming acquainted. Which is zero change from ever.

    Why are zoomers so bad at reading comprehension and critical thinking?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I hate to be the one to break it to you, but they way women have been treating boys and men for the past few decades has had noticeable negative consequences, namely in education. It's also spilled affected sex and dating as well.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >according to my own perspective based on what I read on the internet and my own biases and allegorical experiences and my ability to read and interpret information which is demonstratably extremely bad as I am currently defending a wrong interpretation of OPs study which clearly states literally "men arent approaching women IN PERSON" which everyone has assumed means "AT ALL" because no one can read anymore.

        Yes sir, you sure know what youre talking about alright. A "how to get women" thread every single day on an anonymous board that heavily heavily skews incel, but, youre right. Men arent interested in women anymore due to imaginary poor treatment.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          That's nice. Please look at statistics demonstrating decades of declining performance and participation in education from males and ask yourself if this could have wider consequences or be indicative of wider trends.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Can you show these statistics, and bonus, prove that they mean EXACTLY what you think it means.
            As in, a study that says "men are dating less" means "men are dating less". It does not mean "women are mean to men and overtime yhe council men hath come together and voted unanimously they will now stop dating women as formal punishment for their transgressuons against male kind". Thats the point here. Thats where reading comprehension and critical thinking comes in abd is lacking.
            First you must show us the data. Then prove it means one certain thing.
            So start there. Citation. Then we intepret using "reason".

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Youre actually doing exactly what he said youre doing, but unimaginably worse. You just said "men arent participating in education" which has nothing to do with anything being said here and, its unclear, because youre stupid, but, it feels like youre trying to link men not going to school to women and mean and deserve no sex.. like wut?
            I know your little reality makes perfect sense in your head, but part 1 of critical thinking is understanding reality is what your brain says it is. An interpretation. And your brain isnt working, so how can you even rely on your own perception?

            Go and approach someone then. If no one is approaching women, then you have no competition.

            For anyone with social anxiety, approaching women is the bravest and most rewarding thing you can do. I know my advice falls to deaf ears, though.

            These posts were undoubtedly written by women

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Youre actually doing exactly what he said youre doing, but unimaginably worse. You just said "men arent participating in education" which has nothing to do with anything being said here and, its unclear, because youre stupid, but, it feels like youre trying to link men not going to school to women and mean and deserve no sex.. like wut?
            I know your little reality makes perfect sense in your head, but part 1 of critical thinking is understanding reality is what your brain says it is. An interpretation. And your brain isnt working, so how can you even rely on your own perception?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Haha true.

          That's nice. Please look at statistics demonstrating decades of declining performance and participation in education from males and ask yourself if this could have wider consequences or be indicative of wider trends.

          let's see your study that links it to women not giving you sex because you're ugly

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Can you show these statistics, and bonus, prove that they mean EXACTLY what you think it means.
            As in, a study that says "men are dating less" means "men are dating less". It does not mean "women are mean to men and overtime yhe council men hath come together and voted unanimously they will now stop dating women as formal punishment for their transgressuons against male kind". Thats the point here. Thats where reading comprehension and critical thinking comes in abd is lacking.
            First you must show us the data. Then prove it means one certain thing.
            So start there. Citation. Then we intepret using "reason".

            Youre actually doing exactly what he said youre doing, but unimaginably worse. You just said "men arent participating in education" which has nothing to do with anything being said here and, its unclear, because youre stupid, but, it feels like youre trying to link men not going to school to women and mean and deserve no sex.. like wut?
            I know your little reality makes perfect sense in your head, but part 1 of critical thinking is understanding reality is what your brain says it is. An interpretation. And your brain isnt working, so how can you even rely on your own perception?

            https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2021/11/08/whats-behind-the-growing-gap-between-men-and-women-in-college-completion/
            https://www.brookings.edu/articles/the-unreported-gender-gap-in-high-school-graduation-rates/

            Young men will have spent the majorities of their lives in a compulsory institution with authority over them which is statistically biased against them and female dominated. Their underperformance will affect their income and other metrics of success. What I'm saying is it also affects how they interact with women when they're done; just earning less money will on average do this. And the fact this is as severe and has been going on as long as it has may be indicative of wider problems.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >no responses to this guy
            where did their bravado go? did they have an allergic reaction to hard data?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >hard data followed by an unrelated wall of opinions

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >your perspective is wrong
          >my perspective is right
          >refuse to elaborate
          Based moron

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Perfect example for "how to understand studies"
      >45% of men 18-25 never approached a woman IN PERSON
      What? are you moronic, thats not usually how people misinterpret studies, there is absolutely no way people miss that it says in person

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Uh, you realize men also have horrible luck with online dating as well, right?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >horrible luck
        it's not scratch tickets or slots at the casino my guy

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yes it is. You have to hope a women takes in interest in you on those apps. Women swipe like crazy on tinder, bumble, etc. until they find the closest person they can to their dream boy. A guy can make a lot of compromises and still end up with nothing.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You have to hope a women takes in interest in you on those apps
            So be interesting, that's not luck.
            Don't be a "hello I am my job, my money, and my career" NPC on dating sites or IRL either.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            A lot of guys just aren't capable of that it seems. Besides, assuming you aren't tall and rich or whatever in what way can a guy really stand out when it comes to dating?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            *in his dating profile

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >assuming you aren't tall and rich or whatever
            incel memes

            >in what way can a guy really stand out when it comes to dating?

            *in his dating profile


            >in his dating profile
            same as IRL.

            have social skills and charisma, don't do the stupid incel meme of trying to date the hottest blondest most unfrickable girls (for you) and forcing yourself to pretend to be you're some sort of normie.

            Find some female nerd who's at least into some of the same shit as you instead of being all "uhhh how about the sports team" on dates.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            honestly, and this is just my experience, female nerd types are usually huge c**ts because they're surrounded by orbiting nerd simps constantly who just balloon their ego with "WHOOAA a GIRL in my *chosen nerd thing* SUGOI"
            the best bet is mid normie girls, but warning, theyll fall in love really easy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you do realize it is literally, statistically, impossible, for most men to pass the top 10% threshold, which is what is required to get matches on dating apps, right?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but you definitely don't need top 10%. Unfortunately, you might have to go full normie though, which is even worse news lol

          Really though, I had a friend who wasn't even attractive, but he had this super normie "vibe" and he'd get matches all the time. Granted I don't know how much fricking time he spent on Tinder, maybe all day every day, but still

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            maybe not but i think women have an extremely skewed view on the dating app situation because any moderately attractive women is literally drowning in matches while most guys struggle to get even a couple

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well, that's pretty much how it is in person too lol

            I'm not sure I'd say it's a struggle for guys, but compared to how it is for women, yeah, I guess then it's a struggle

            the issue with people (psychos) that think like this is it gameifys something that is inherently personal. this 'exposure' theory doesn't take into account human psychology. it's like saying you can desensitize yourself to gore - yeah sure, just keep watching horrific gore videos until you no longer feel anything watching it because you've fried your brain and now you lack empathy. expecting men to 'roll with the punches' of rejection is fricking stupid for the same reason. yeah just keep getting rejected and turn into an indian that has zero self awareness but is actually a Chad because they don't let the pain of rejection stopping them from blabla shut the frick up. cold approaches in western society is only acceptable in very particular situations and even then after a couple of rejections someone would (correctly) interpret that cold approaches nowadays are just not appreciated. 'just be confident bro' is a pathetic lie considering women under 30 don't even know how to fricking communicate irl, getting intimidated when an average guy approaches them or spilling their spaghetti when a good looking guy does.

            >expecting men to 'roll with the punches' of rejection is fricking stupid for the same reason. yeah just keep getting rejected and turn into an indian that has zero self awareness but is actually a Chad because they don't let the pain of rejection stopping them
            Man, rejection doesn't make me feel a god damn thing lol. I mean, I'd like to know WHY I'm being rejected, but I think the only thing that would make me feel anything is if they just had the wrong idea about me or something. Not really fair getting fricked over by a misunderstanding, y'know

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'd rather kill myself than become a normie

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >people misinterpret the data
      >let me misinterpret the data in another way
      You cannot make the conclusion you made out of this study, don't be pretentious. We can safely assume most men have cold approached a woman before, but not by much. We cannot say if this a tendency since we don't have data from previous years. We cannot say that if they aren't meeting in person using cold approach that means they meet through friends or online based on this data. You are a brainlet just as the incels who jump to conclusions that you criticize

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >We can safely assume most men have cold approached a woman before
        The study OP posted never specifies cold approach though. In all likelihood, the majority of that 55% of in-person approaches were warm approaches.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You are right, anon, I assumed that and I cannot be bothered to go check the study so you might as well be right. I hereby give you the right to call me a brainlet and keep on with your life

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my cousin, who looks like a model, was approached by his gf. His friend, who is a small step below, was also approached. Theres your future

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >dropping out of the game when it's not worth the effort?
    It is worth the effort though, these "men" are all just scared b***hes who are afraid of women and/or lazy.
    Despite all your copes on some level you guys all know it's worth the effort too, otherwise you wouldn't constantly be b***hing about being sexless and alone.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Go and approach someone then. If no one is approaching women, then you have no competition.

    For anyone with social anxiety, approaching women is the bravest and most rewarding thing you can do. I know my advice falls to deaf ears, though.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Go and approach someone then. If no one is approaching women, then you have no competition
      this. the most effective way to get with the girl of your dreams is to be the guy who isn’t a pussy and asks her out instead of orbiting for 2 years waiting for her to hop on your dick

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bullshit.
      I have approached in plenty of places and the success from cold approaching is way lower and hits your self-esteem when you get rejected. The men who approach already know that they're desired by females from girls hitting on them since middle school. Most men know they won't have a chance and won't approach. Not that difficult to understand.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >The men who approach already know that they're desired by females from girls hitting on them since middle school.
        I never even so much as held a girl's hand until my mid 20s, after graduating from college, and i was able to learn to approach and deal with rejection. Did I have a harder time dealing with that than guys who were dealing with girls in school? Sure, but I had to learn it anyway

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, it's a numbers game if you're average or below. I'm explaining that a lot of men don't see the point in wasting their energy like that and facing humiliation.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >want pussy
            >it takes effort and emotional maturity to get pussy
            >don’t even try
            >doesn’t get pussy
            >complains about not getting pussy
            This sounds exhausting

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Bullshit yourself.
          I’m average looking and approaching works more times than it doesn’t. Not even just approaching to hit on women but only like 2% of times I approach someone do I ever get a negative response whether it be small talk or otherwise.
          Like most users here, you’re:
          >Lying;
          >Extremely awkward, mutter shit that people can’t even hear, or otherwise pestering people who are obviously busy; or
          >Are super creepy and chase women in the night

          Take your blackpill shit elsewhere. Like OP said, most people don’t even approach women. Women prefer being approached. Approaching women generally works.

          Bullshit.
          I have approached in plenty of places and the success from cold approaching is way lower and hits your self-esteem when you get rejected. The men who approach already know that they're desired by females from girls hitting on them since middle school. Most men know they won't have a chance and won't approach. Not that difficult to understand.

          Go and approach someone then. If no one is approaching women, then you have no competition.

          For anyone with social anxiety, approaching women is the bravest and most rewarding thing you can do. I know my advice falls to deaf ears, though.

          Can any of you bros expand on what you said? Any advice for a 23 year old who went to college after a couple years of working, no gf. Pretty normie-passing these days to a good extent but never had luck in this department and I've never seriously approached anyone in person

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I basically just shotgun spammed approaches in bars and somewhat in clubs too

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Bullshit yourself.
        I’m average looking and approaching works more times than it doesn’t. Not even just approaching to hit on women but only like 2% of times I approach someone do I ever get a negative response whether it be small talk or otherwise.
        Like most users here, you’re:
        >Lying;
        >Extremely awkward, mutter shit that people can’t even hear, or otherwise pestering people who are obviously busy; or
        >Are super creepy and chase women in the night

        Take your blackpill shit elsewhere. Like OP said, most people don’t even approach women. Women prefer being approached. Approaching women generally works.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          100 percent agree.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >the success from cold approaching is way lower and hits your self-esteem when you get rejected
        speak for yourself little bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It can work but so many b***hes look at you like you are raping them if you so much as try to strike up a convo. A lot of it has to do with setting. Coworker? All cool. Random cashier? Rapist.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >cashier
        You can flirt with cashiers, but it's usually creepy unless they are being overly friendly.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    when you first approach a woman it's scary because you've probably been admiring her from afar for a while. You start fantasizing about her and experiencing emotions related to her even though you haven't spoken to her yet. The stakes build up in your mind as your admiration for her increases. Some men are absolutely crushed by the immense pressure and never make it past being a distant admirer.

    Most men will experience the pain of rejection once and then spend the rest of their lives afraid to approach a woman unless she shows interest first, which rarely ever happens. Most men get caught in this loop.

    Men who are successful at approaching women often have been rejected more times than you have even tried. But they understand something that other men do not. If you can competently approach a woman, even if she isn't interested in you, it will leave an impression on her and create more opportunities for you in the future to meet other women in her social group. Moreover, the more women you approach, the less the pressure will be over time to do it again. A skilled charmer feels absolutely nothing when he's talking to a 10/10 woman. meanwhile a coward will experience so many feelings without ever even actually speaking to the woman he's crushing on.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Men who are successful at approaching women often have been rejected more times than you have even tried.
      Yup, I can't even count the number of times I've been rejected. It's crazy. Even the most skilled charmer, as you put it, will face innumerable rejections, it just how it goes.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Because there's nowhere to play the "game"

      after school you're just forced to be locked in the cage until you can afford to come back to school again.

      young people are lied to that life exsists outside of school so they dont bother socializing there and then they're locked in hell

      they don't drop out of anything because there's just NOTHING outside of schools/friends.

      100% of all young men want to approach women and have 0 option whatsoever to ever get to speak to one until they can afford to quit their jobs and go to university again.

      this is something only moronic indian morons say to one another
      not 1 single human being ever charmed anyone by harassing random stranger.

      That's why you didn't write the perfect 10 minute long conversation. You've never spoken to anyon ethis way and you never will, it cannot happen. Strangers do not ever speak to one another. It doesn't matter you don't feel anything, conversation is 50/50 the other person has to be able to respond and agree to form relationship which cannot be done with a stranger as there's nothing you can say to make them charmed in this setting you moronic monkey. Not a single man is ever afraid whatsoever, YOU ARE because it would shatter your moronation so you have to cling on to this fantasy that your fear has ever been felt by anyone else. Everyone else just has basic, miniminal social skills and knows basic etiquette.

      It's like saying that you by not slicing your wrists are not making billion dollars. You want to pretend that doing something that cannot result in the result you want is somehow reason why it cannot result in it. Harassing a stranger without saying anything (CHARMING in your words) is the same as wanting to make a billion by slicing your wrists. If you dont' slice your wrists now, it means you are a coward just like you not writing 10 minute long ideal, charming conversation with complete stranger that's scared and uncomfortabel about being accosed by random man.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >“School is the only wayyyyy zomg!!11!!one1”
        >has never actually pulled a woman at school but would drown in student debt until he does

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        how do i approach girls in school they either ignore me, walk away, or tell me to go away

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's over for you bud.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      interesting

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >But they understand something that other men do not
      No they don't. Men who are actually successful with women don't "approach" anyone. They naturally acquired active social lives that lead to them meetings tons of women their age in comfortable settings. They do NOT approach random women on street corners contrary to what moronic PUA incels would have you believe. They risk nothing because they only make their "move" when it's painfully obvious the girl will reciprocate.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the issue with people (psychos) that think like this is it gameifys something that is inherently personal. this 'exposure' theory doesn't take into account human psychology. it's like saying you can desensitize yourself to gore - yeah sure, just keep watching horrific gore videos until you no longer feel anything watching it because you've fried your brain and now you lack empathy. expecting men to 'roll with the punches' of rejection is fricking stupid for the same reason. yeah just keep getting rejected and turn into an indian that has zero self awareness but is actually a Chad because they don't let the pain of rejection stopping them from blabla shut the frick up. cold approaches in western society is only acceptable in very particular situations and even then after a couple of rejections someone would (correctly) interpret that cold approaches nowadays are just not appreciated. 'just be confident bro' is a pathetic lie considering women under 30 don't even know how to fricking communicate irl, getting intimidated when an average guy approaches them or spilling their spaghetti when a good looking guy does.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        the way you phrased it makes it sound like you would be talking to the same girl and not taking hints. if girl isn't into you, you just move onto another. you pick up hints that girl likes you or not. get her social media, ask her out. if she says no then just accept it. you can still be friendly, but stop flirting with girls who reject you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >get her social media
          Lel number one way of knowing you're getting moronic normie advice and can just stop reading there

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >after a couple of rejections someone would (correctly) interpret that cold approaches nowadays are just not appreciated.
        Or just that you aren't socially calibrated enough yet. Two rejections is nothing. I've been rejected more than I can count, but I've pulled

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > when you first approach a woman it's scary because you've probably been admiring her from afar for a while.
      That's why you should approach woman as soon as possible and not waste your time on fantasizing bullshit.
      > Men who are successful at approaching women often have been rejected more times than you have even tried.
      That's true.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >twitter screencap

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This shit right here why is everone even humoring OP a homosexual over a twitter screencap

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if a girl likes you, she'll approach you. Cope.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      “If he doesn’t have the balls to approach me, I won’t initiate”

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not how it works. An attractive guy has options. If he doesn't approach, a girl will before some other girl does.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Not how it works. No one is thinking "oh look how pretty he is, I bet he has a ton of girls after him.. I better 'approach' him now before one of them beats me to it!"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Depends on the setting. Women approach all the time in social settings. I'm not even great looking, but it happens almost each time I go to a bar or club or party.
            You're just somewhere between ugly and average.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Women approach all the time in social settings
            That's not what I said though, I just said that's not the reason they approach

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I just said that's not the reason they approach
            A girl walks up to a guy at a bar and tells him he's hot.
            What other reason was there for her approaching him other than because she likes him?
            What are you even talking about?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >because she likes him?
            Again, that's not what I said or you said. What you said was

            Not how it works. An attractive guy has options. If he doesn't approach, a girl will before some other girl does.

            >An attractive guy has options. If he doesn't approach, a girl will before some other girl does.
            And I said

            Not how it works. No one is thinking "oh look how pretty he is, I bet he has a ton of girls after him.. I better 'approach' him now before one of them beats me to it!"

            >No one is thinking "oh look how pretty he is, I bet he has a ton of girls after him.. I better 'approach' him now before one of them beats me to it!"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >>No one is thinking "oh look how pretty he is, I bet he has a ton of girls after him.. I better 'approach' him now before one of them beats me to it!"
            Even a semi-attractive guy is going to get approached by women.
            I don't know what else to tell you lmao.

            No one thinks this way. You have an anxiety disorder and you’re overthinking shit that cavemen have already figured out: approach Grugette = snu snu for many moons

            Approaching women is for low-value men who don't have women approaching them.
            Nothing to do with anxiety. I'd rather have a 6/10 come and simp for me than simp for a 9/10 out of my league.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Even a semi-attractive guy is going to get approached by women.
            You are completely missing the point, and I'm pretty sure there was nothing confusing about what I said so I suspect you're either fricking with me or you're moronic..

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You are completely missing the point, and I'm pretty sure there was nothing confusing about what I said so I suspect you're either fricking with me or you're moronic..
            No, please do explain what you're saying. A good looking guy is going to get approached by girls, whatever autistic reason you're coming up with in your head is.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Approaching women is for low-value men who don't have women approaching them
            But you’re a sigma male and women approach you, right?
            The tragedy of this is you’re a complete social moron and you’re not even going to realize how neurotic and distorted your views are until you’re older and are with a “6/10 qt” who is actually abusive and targeted you because you lack any self confidence.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >But you’re a sigma male and women approach you, right?
            often enough that I never even had to think about doing it, yeah.

            >The tragedy of this is you’re a complete social moron and you’re not even going to realize how neurotic and distorted your views are until you’re older and are with a “6/10 qt” who is actually abusive and targeted you because you lack any self confidence.

            Imagine getting abused by a girl lol.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No one thinks this way. You have an anxiety disorder and you’re overthinking shit that cavemen have already figured out: approach Grugette = snu snu for many moons

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            reddit is that way

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not how it works. An attractive guy has options. If he doesn't approach, a girl will before some other girl does.

      That's only the case if the girl is mid and the guy is way above her league, so she understands there is no chance he will approach her. An actual hot girl will not go around approaching guys because she has a lot of available options to pick from.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, you'll usually get approached by a girl below your looksmatch, no shit. 8/10 guys will get approached by girls anywhere from 4-7/10.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Why would an 8-9 guy want to settle for a 4 just because she approached him when he can approach a 8-9 girl and live happily with a beautiful wife and children?
          Is the ego bruise from possible rejection really that much of a deterrent for you that you will settle below your looksmatch? Guys like you are the reason fat 4s feel like they're entitled to 8s.

          Listen, I get it that rejection is painful and sucks but this is why nature has given you a set of balls and testosterone. So you can have to courage to approach for hot girls and handle rejection.
          Women don't have testosterone so it's reasonable they will never approach men, but what is your excuse?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Why would an 8-9 guy want to settle for a 4 just because she approached him when he can approach a 8-9 girl and live happily with a beautiful wife and children?
            An 8/10 guy (Chad) is going to have better women than 4s simping for him.

            Also, settling below your looksmatch is ideal. All good looking guys do it. It's better to have a decent Becky that will worship the ground you walk on than a Stacy that will be looking to monkey branch to a guy that is taller/ better looking/ wealthier etc.

            >So you can have to courage to approach for hot girls and handle rejection.

            That's called being a low-value simp. I don't go around dancing like a monkey for a whiff of pussy.

            > it's reasonable they will never approach men
            Cope lol.

            > but what is your excuse?

            Being a cuck begging for women's attention doesn't make you a le alpha male or high T or whatever. It just makes you a visibly low value cuck.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >he immediately assumes that approaching women means being a simp cuck begging for their attention
            Are you aware that you can just talk to a woman like a normal person and if she isn't interested then just walk away?
            Keep your female worship fantasies to yourself and get your T levels checked asap, brother.
            I'm not here to humiliate my fellow men, I want you to believe in yourself.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She knows why you approached lmao. You probably think you're being as cool as a cucumber, but the reality is that whatever you say will sound like "spare some pucci, ma'am?" because at the end of the day that is why you approached.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >She knows why you approached lmao
            Yeah, so? Is that supposed to be a secret?
            Men want to be with women. Do you think this is something that should be hidden? Do you think women aren't aware that men want to have sex with them?
            You'd be surprised to know that women also like to have sex with men.
            Again, you can just talk to them like a normal person and express romantic desire. This is as natural as it gets.
            Only someone with low T will think that approaching or wanting to have sex is someone that he needs to be coy about

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >You'd be surprised to know that women also like to have sex with men.
            Yes, and they approach those men. Then they laugh at the simps that approach them and occasionally they might even spare some cooch if there's nothing better around.
            Still, actual attractive men don't approach because they don't have to. There's a reason why you do and it's nothing to do with your super high simpcuck testosterone levels.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >hahah Becky you wouldn't believe this guy came up to me and tried to get to know me and when I said no he moved on with his life and forgot about me. Anyway, let's go hit on Chads because that's what us women do since none of us have any anxieties or fears of rejection
            Yeah, that's exactly how women think lmao.
            All this paranoia and excuses inside your head just because you're too much of a coward to acknowledge your sexual needs and act on them. Being afraid of women, lol.
            Nice Guy logic still always brings the most ridiculous copes out.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >what us women do since none of us have any anxieties or fears of rejection
            Here you are projecting. Yes, women unironically don't have those fears that men do because they go through their entire lives being simped for. Imagine if you, as an average joe approachercel daily had women begging for your dick. Would you be anxious? Think for a second before you type.

            All these mental gymnastics to avoid having to ever approach a woman?
            >”I’ve already failed because she didn’t approach me, so I’m not going to even talk to her!”
            It’s not that bad talking to women. Give it a try sometime

            >All these mental gymnastics to avoid having to ever approach a woman?
            Like I said, I don't need to since 4-7/10 girls approach me regularly.

            >It’s not that bad talking to women. Give it a try sometime

            if I ever get my face ripped off in a car accident and I have to simp for women like all the other plebeians then maybe i'll give it a go.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The fact that you automatically assume talking to a woman first means you're simping is enough to make it clear to everyone that you get 0 pussy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >the fact that you do something I don't like means this thing that I think
            ok.
            That's what you're doing. However way you want to put it, at the end of the day you're there to ask for pussy and feed her ego.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Like I said, I don't need to since 4-7/10 girls approach me regularly
            You’re so delusional, terminally online, and/or autistic that you don’t even realize how unbelievable this sounds based on all your posts and the way you said it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >4-7/10 girls approach me regularly.
            >girls approach me regularly.
            Well I'll believe that when me shit turns purple and smells like rainbow Sherbet

            Dude, playing cool, tough, and mysterious guy is a common autistic plunder. We’re not stupid, we know you do not get pussy

            >You’re so delusional, terminally online, and/or autistic that you don’t even realize how unbelievable this sounds based on all your posts and the way you said it

            >random subhumans on an anonymous anime forum doesn't believe that random girls at parties approach me
            damn, what will I ever do.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            subhumans on an anonymous anime forum doesn't believe that random girls at parties approach me
            >damn, what will I ever do.
            You type like Elliot Roger. You don’t think we can see right through your fibbing?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >random subhuman STILL doesn't believe that girls approach semi-decent looking guys in a social setting.

            I love how to you dysgenic morons I might as well have cycled to the moon lmao.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            subhuman STILL doesn't believe that girls approach semi-decent looking guys in a social setting
            I’m sure they do, but there’s not a chance you talk to women who aren’t related to you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >4-7/10 girls approach me regularly.
            >girls approach me regularly.
            Well I'll believe that when me shit turns purple and smells like rainbow Sherbet

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Dude, playing cool, tough, and mysterious guy is a common autistic plunder. We’re not stupid, we know you do not get pussy

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >if I ever get my face ripped off in a car accident and I have to simp for women like all the other plebeians then maybe i'll give it a go

            Why do these threads always have to devolve into some autistic troll who hasn’t been outside since the Obama administration ranting about some dumbass theory he has about women?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Why do these threads always have to devolve into some autistic troll who hasn’t been outside since the Obama administration ranting about some dumbass theory he has about women?

            Not even American. Why the frick are you bringing up politics lmao. Meds. Now.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Did you just learn how to read today? Because if you did, you’re doing pretty well. If you’ve been reading and writing your whole life, though, this is embarrassing for you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >um no sweaty I just brought up Obama to emphasise how long it is that I think you've been in your basement, not because i'm a weirdo that has to shoehorn politics into conversations that have nothing to do with them.

            Ok, bubby.

            subhuman STILL doesn't believe that girls approach semi-decent looking guys in a social setting
            I’m sure they do, but there’s not a chance you talk to women who aren’t related to you

            >I’m sure they do, but there’s not a chance you talk to women who aren’t related to you
            Whatever helps you sleep, IG. You could tell me that you're Obama and I wouldn't care because I don't give a shit about you. Clearly my experiences hurt you on a personal level.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Many young men suffer from Nice Guy syndrome which makes them worship women and view sex with them as some divine forbidden experience so the only way they believe they would get it is by "simping" and a ritual where he has to debase himself in front of her.
            They can't grasp that normal men and women consider sex as a mutual activity of bonding.
            Look at how he projects his own worship of women onto everybody else:
            >Yes, women unironically don't have those fears that men do because they go through their entire lives being simped for.

            It's really sad how weak fathers and b***h mothers created this mess out of many boys that could've otherwise been perfectly capable and happy men

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >It's really sad how weak fathers and b***h mothers created this mess out of many boys that could've otherwise been perfectly capable and happy men
            how do I fix myself anon please send help

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            All these mental gymnastics to avoid having to ever approach a woman?
            >”I’ve already failed because she didn’t approach me, so I’m not going to even talk to her!”
            It’s not that bad talking to women. Give it a try sometime

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >She knows why you approached lmao
            She's supposed to know. How else are you gonna get anywhere beyond the friendzone?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            wait until a girl is interested enough to approach you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Why would an 8-9 guy want to settle for a 4
            Because looks don't fricking matter, or at least don't matter nearly as much as personality. An 8+/10 personality will make up for anything above burnvictim/10 in looks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I mean even Strauss (PBUH) would argue that women approach in more subtle ways, like standing with their back to you. And i'm sure youre gigchad3000 but youre not Strauss.

      cope?

      anyway, always be approaching

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I mean even Strauss (PBUH) would argue that women approach in more subtle ways, like standing with their back to you. And i'm sure youre gigchad3000 but youre not Strauss.

        Who the frick is Strauss? One of your redpill PUA grifters?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe in some cases. Majority of women never approach unfortunately.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        they do if they're attracted to you.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >WW3 waiting upon the horizon
    >depending on the actions of our world leaders
    >young men dont have a gf or fiance
    >compared to young men in ww2
    Going to be sitting comfy while I watch the full female combat units get drone striked.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >young men dont have a gf or fiance
      And the ones who do won't want to leave

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Incel doompost thread
    No different than absolute prostitutes b***hing about men on Twitter
    Wonder why these people are all in the same boat.. hmmmmmmmm.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >itt
    >simps, roasties, and incels
    honestly gather all you up and put you into the gas chamber

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >le enlightened anon
      eat a dick, Black person

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In a very, very selfish way I am very sad about this. When a man comes up to me and tries to introduce himself and compliments me, I feel so flattered. I'm taken and monogamous, but I'm flattered that someone would get over their nerves to talk to me with hopes of starting something with me even if I already know from the first moment that I'm going to turn them down. Like literally a stranger doing that is so sweet. I always tell them after I turn them down; "I'm really happy you took interest in me though, it made my day." because it really does. Having a guy tell me that he is sexually or romantically interested in me (in so many words) is the ultimate compliment to me. The darkest secret of being a woman is that you truly do care what men think about you- all men. every man. that's why we have so many beauty "secrets" and spend hours figuring out our hair and spend so much on manicures. We do care. So I don't know why anyone on the planet would feel disgusted by a guy trying to approach you. ahhg the wine is talking again

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    We need an evolutionary contraction (and evolutionary contraction denial) containment thread (and no how to get girls is not a substitute)

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I notice this in the sense that a stranger guy has never come up to me on the street and asked for something like my number. but men still "approach" me in places like work/university. usually it happens that we end up interacting enough that we become acquaintances and only then do they ask me for my socials or number and start to show interest.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >usually it happens that we end up interacting enough that we become acquaintances and only then do they ask me for my socials or number and start to show interest.
      Maybe that's because they don't want your fricking number because.. they don't fricking know you yet! Who the frick want's a stranger's number?! WHY?!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Well that's what comes to most people's minds when they think of the phrase "asking out a woman", getting her number to be exact.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Well that's what comes to most people's minds when they think of the phrase "asking out a woman"
          To me "asking someone out" means you're asking them to be your girlfriend/boyfriend

          >getting her number to be exact.
          Like maybe after you spend all night talking to each other and drinking and shit, sure, but who the hell wants a total stranger's number?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I notice this in the sense that a stranger guy has never come up to me on the street and asked for something like my number. but men still "approach" me in places like work/university. usually it happens that we end up interacting enough that we become acquaintances and only then do they ask me for my socials or number and start to show interest.

        Do you two have autism? When I was younger we constantly approached girls to get their numbers.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          In my entire 30 years of life I have never seen someone go up to a total stranger and ask for their number

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Diagnosis: aspergers

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This.

            [...]
            Do you two have autism? When I was younger we constantly approached girls to get their numbers.

            There are types who do that, and birds of a feather flcok together. You and your friends were like that. Youre a huge minority. Most people dont cold approach. They find women through mutual friends/online dating etc.

            I in my lifetime (more than 30 years) have known a few people who do that. They are not common. Glad it worked for you if it did. Its not somethkng to call others autistic about.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This.

            [...]
            There are types who do that, and birds of a feather flcok together. You and your friends were like that. Youre a huge minority. Most people dont cold approach. They find women through mutual friends/online dating etc.

            I in my lifetime (more than 30 years) have known a few people who do that. They are not common. Glad it worked for you if it did. Its not somethkng to call others autistic about.

            +1, also 30+ and never saw that shit happening. Though I'm not from Burgerland, so maybe it's more socially acceptable there.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm

          I notice this in the sense that a stranger guy has never come up to me on the street and asked for something like my number. but men still "approach" me in places like work/university. usually it happens that we end up interacting enough that we become acquaintances and only then do they ask me for my socials or number and start to show interest.

          and I probably have autism since I don't have a lot of experience with guys + no friends lol

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        because she's cute and you want to frick her face?
        what is so hard to understand about this?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I am a manprostitute
          okay

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            anon, this may come as a shock to you, but men enjoy having sex with pretty women
            and women enjoy having sex with hot men
            if you see someone on the street, all you know about them in that moment "damn, they have a pretty face, i want to frick it"
            you get their # and then you go out with them and find out whether the woman brain attached to the face is tolerable enough to stick your dick in it
            its not that complicated

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I stopped with that mentality when I was about 14? 15? I've seen pretty women or hot chicks or sexy babes a million times before, I'm not gonna trip over my own dick trying to run down a complete stranger on the sidewalk because she's above 5/10.

            Also I'm gonna get bored with them within 45 seconds if we have absolutely nothing in common, as is the case with stereotypical "hot" chicks.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            okay? im not seeing your point. unless you think you should never cold approach and should only go after girls you already have a prior connection with. but thats a shit option as well because for most guys, the # of women who are in that category is tiny to nonexistent. but theres literally an endless # of random women out there you could talk to. some are hot, some are not crazy and not stupid. you'd never know if you have this weird mindset of "eww meeting new people i dont know??!! FRICKING GROSS"
            and you are autistically hyperfocusing on my one theoretical example. she could strike you fancy in any way imaginable. instead of wanting her to perform oral sex on you, maybe you really appreciate the way her hair flows in the wind, or any other of a billion things. thats on you to figure out.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not the original guy who first expressed his disbelief in asking girls for their number, but I get where he's getting from because like I said I'm past the whole "oh boy a pretty girl!" thing.

            > instead of wanting her to perform oral sex on you, maybe you really appreciate the way her hair flows in the wind
            lol lmao even
            I mean I'll tell you what my thing is: sexy nerds and alternative freaks. Girls with tattoos and piercings and black makeup who wear anime t-shirts and have visible self-harm scars. That's what really catches my eye mostly because exactly it gives me a preview of who they are as people and what they're into and how it matches up with my own world.

            Just a hot blonde in normie clothes? That's the last girl I'd try to talk to.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i think we're in a violent agreement here tbh senpai
            my point is, whatever catches your fancy, you do you
            dont let any limiting beliefs about the "proper" way to meet people hold you back

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            nta but i used to let so many opportunities by because i was embracing those cringe limiting beliefs

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Like I said it's less about catching my fancy and more about knowing that there's already this much I have in common with a girl. I'd rather have sex with a 3/10 who has that rather than some objective 10/10 who I have absolutely nothing in common with.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            that's fair but that's also gonna limit you
            people can surprise you, and you'd never know until you take the chance to get to know them

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I hate surprises, especially bad ones.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >that's fair but that's also gonna limit you
            >people can surprise you, and you'd never know until you take the chance to get to know them
            By this logic you should just ask the phone number of literally everyone you see lol

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            uh, yeah? is that supposed to be an own? because that's exactly what i'm saying
            you see someone you wanna frick > approach
            how is this so confusing?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not him, but how do you keep your contacts tidy lmao. I don't even have my extended family saved on my phone.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >telling mentally ill incel creeps to just approach every girl they see
            >literally trying to destroy their social reputation
            kys

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I'd rather have sex with a 3/10 who has that rather than some objective 10/10
            Then she's your 8-10 but I'm splitting hairs at this point

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just go gay

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Could it be all the propaganda aimed at promoting mutual hate / fear between men and women at least sexually represents the mechanics of a very sly eugenics program?

    As in: men typically being the pursuers are convinced en masse not to pursue, but the men who disregard this have essentially passed the psychic "barrier" that's been erected - perhaps in response to a growing population so as to (in the "best" view) eliminate some perceived weakness, or - alternatively, given people on the spectrum are disproportionately affected - a "politically correct" way of enabling a problematic demographic to slowly remove itself from the species, passively and voluntarily.

    Incels choose to blame women, I see it coming from a much higher (and predominantly, but by no means entirely, male) level.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >choose to blame women
      They are the ones freaking out if men approach then you dumb schizo

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >schizo
        Wow you're textbook. Notice how incel propaganda always attacks safe targets, never the Elite.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i dont think there's anything that intentional about it because the people in charge are all drooling senile morons, but it is a serious byproduct of the toxic gender relations environment that has been created by feminism and pushed as the mass media concensus by every government, corporation, and ngo in the world

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >pushed as the mass media concensus by every government, corporation, and ngo in the world
        >unintentional

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You are cynically naive. Look at politics, the two party system is the most sophisticated form of group mind control to date in that it's successfully indoctrinated the people to believe the tyranny to which they are subject is collective self-determination. And to the extent that people still turn out to vote for the "Left" hand or "Right" hand of fascism, [s]election after [s]election, essentially means they are - even if the results are rigged, as has been routine since electronic voting was brought in.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if only I could take a pill to hone this skill. ofcourse women I would like to have probably sit at home just like me anyway

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    idk I just got rejected all the time so I stopped trying
    I think your dating life really depends on your first 2-3 romantic situations. if they work out you'll have a 'i can get women because I've done it before' mentality, but if you fail these few times you'll have a lot harder time believing that you are capable of attracting women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >i can't squat 300lbs my first try, better stop working out

      This is what boomers mean when they call zoomers lazy.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think you understood
        the mentality you develop after multiple failures and no success leads to you being less confident with a low self esteem, and you approach women with this mentality and obviously you get rejected again, so this becomes a painful loop until you stop trying to date

        the analogy you gave is really bad because at least in the gym you see progress (successes).

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Except it wasn't the first try you illiterate smeg.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dude I've asked out over 20 girls in my life and I've been rejected each time. Just got friendzoned speaking of.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why dont they just settle for their practice gfs

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What is the future of dating gonna look like when more and more men keep dropping out of the game

    The odds of scoring for those who continue to approach will go up.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You shouldn't have to approach women to meet women. You should just meet women naturally going about your day. If you don't then you have no social life which is a bigger problem.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How much of this study is

    >People talking over social media rather then IRL approaching.
    >Absolutely ruthlessly mean/rude women.
    >Absolutely unattractive women/disney romantics without out of whack expectations.
    >Scared/high anxiety/paranoid men not wanting to approach out of fear (perceived danger or real danger.)
    >Porn addicted men who don't find average women/any women attractive (porn use since pre-puberty).
    >Mental illness in the man/women that makes them cold/not good to be in a relationship with.
    >Either party having absolutely no idea how to interact with one another so it's awkward, but now having no goal to strive to since they have cheap alternatives (porn, romcom, social media etc.)

    "Men are dropping out cuz women are mean."
    "Men are just all weak b***hes who won't do shit."
    Sometimes, sure. But something this large will always have more then one cause. So, take your pick.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I find threads like this funny. A lot of you stats doomers will spend more time calculating the quantum equations behind why you’re single instead of just going out and talking to a girl lmao.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    from my experience girls don't seem interested in talking to me so i just stopped trying whenever i go to the bars with my friends. I thought college would make it easier but outside of class projects i don't really talk to girls much

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The only friends I could go to a bar with are these 2 women. One has a boyfriend and the other is a lesbian. But I’d just be tagging along really if I went with them. I also don’t understand how bars would make any difference.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i thought it would be a good place to talk to girls in a relaxed setting but people generally come in groups and aren't really looking to branch outside of that. Most of my hobbies/interests are male dominated or i don't participate in clubs for them

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 27 and have never approached a woman. I have such a litany of insecurities and problems I don't think I'll ever be in a relationship
    >ugly
    >awkward around women, constantly think they're fricking with me if they act nice
    >make peanuts
    >small dick
    >horrible with my hands, can barely handle anything more complicated than laundry and jumping a car battery
    >massive anxiety problem, been in therapy and on pills for over a decade, panic at the drop at hat
    >live with my mom
    >still a virgin
    >scared of sex after years of abuse at the hands of my father
    My brother is getting married next year and it's hard not to seethe at him.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve done it some but need I’d find the right location. Uni dinning hall just isn’t good. Bars seem too intimidating.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      so how come your brother is normie and you're not?
      can't put it all on genetics can you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      of sex after years of abuse at the hands of my father
      Your parents destroyed you before you had a chance to grow and develop agency. Seek professional help, hit the gym, eat clean and eat good meat, practice soliloquy and joke telling. Self improve for your own benefit.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i've been friendzoned and rejected a few times but i talk to women. glad to be part of the percentage that're still trying to not be a waste on society

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      seriously, i understand being rejected every time because you're ugly, but if you don't approach at all there's something actually wrong with you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >i understand being rejected because you're ugly

        wait a fricking second anon don't make assumptions

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honest to god - im an older guy (25) whose back in uni to finish his degree. Redpill was JUUUST popping off when I graduated high school.

    So I've been in these trenches a long time and I'll tell you something - I think dating among normies is still happening , it's just not as pronounced or announced as it once was. It's way more stratified.

    Like its not really a general student pop - its find your niche and make new friends and you'll find your stride in your specific space. I don't think I've ever seen anything generalized remotely in years tbh.

    When Gen Z thinks about approaching women - they are likely viewing it from the Gen Pop lens and just like "seeing a girl in the cafeteria and saying hi"
    Like student pop is not narrow enough for these kids , it's "approaching the girl in the after class club I go too"

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I should specify ugly / plain jane normies

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What is the future of dating gonna look like when more and more men keep dropping out of the game when it's not worth the effort?
    Hilarious.
    >How do I deal with this?
    Grab the popcorn

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I approached a femoid IRL, just to get ghosted by the narcissistic prostitute after I built an emotional connection with her, for God knows what reason. What makes you think men want to deal with this anymore?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Meanwhile Mr. Chad Thunderwiener on Tinder doesn't bother with any connections, he gets free lays and gets to pick who gets to be his gf after he's had his fun from one his fav wiener obsessed prostitutes.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fisherian runaway.

    Humans should be widely distributed enough to not go extinct, but we're in for a very boring very poor very black next century.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Approach a woman
    >get accused of being an incel creep
    >the police shoot you because being incel is now considered a terrorist org
    >get recorded by mutt with an iphone and end up on tiktok getting roasted by zoomers for being a creep
    >life ruined
    Gee I wonder why guys don't approach anymore

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I stopped approaching not because of the reactions of women I was talking to, but because of the reactions of OTHER women around us.

      I was talking to a group of chicks in greece last year and an old lady came running over shrieking at us and trying to break us up. She followed us around and harassed the girls mostly. The lady was calling me a pedo, a rapist, saying she was gonna have all of us arrested for criminal activity. Kek. It was a 60 year old childless roastie, BTW.

      Next, I got into a lot of trouble because I spoke to a woman at a christmas party this year. I was talking to a 23 year old. several roasties came back days later and called me up, threatening to call the cops on me and saying talking to her was “creeping”, “rape”, and “pedophilia”.

      For my new years resolution, I swore off gayciety and swore off approaching women. Clearly society needs to have roasties locked up before I can return to dating. I’m done. The law needs to stop taking women seriously and needs to go back to needing a proven witness for every claim they try to pass to police.

      Imagine. Not even the girls you’re hitting it off with reporting you- but a jaded old roastie from afar.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Oh, I forgot to mention the time I was on a plane and hit it off with the girl next to me, before the roastie flight attendant came by and started asking the girl if she felt creeped out by me, to whcih the girl answered no. Of course the roastie kept coming back and back and back, asking the question louder and more angrily each time, until the chick requested that she leave us alone. Then the floght attendant came by with red wine and “accidentally” spilled it all over my nice shirt, before smirking and walking away without cleaning it or giving me napkins. The funny thing was that the chick gave me her insta and we got together while I was there, lol.

        I hate roasties so much it’s unreal.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Oh, I forgot to mention the time I was on a plane and hit it off with the girl next to me, before the roastie flight attendant came by and started asking the girl if she felt creeped out by me, to whcih the girl answered no. Of course the roastie kept coming back and back and back, asking the question louder and more angrily each time, until the chick requested that she leave us alone. Then the floght attendant came by with red wine and “accidentally” spilled it all over my nice shirt, before smirking and walking away without cleaning it or giving me napkins. The funny thing was that the chick gave me her insta and we got together while I was there, lol.

        I hate roasties so much it’s unreal.

        You must be one ugly motherfricker but high rizz or terrible at reading signs OR talk way too loud for OTHER women to be that overt about it that incessantly.

        You think you actually hit it off or rose colored glasses? I've seen girls polite but lowkey uncomfortable body language or use the customer service tone.

        If two mildly attractive people are talking - people would think "oh they are probably a couple or just conducting good business"

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I've seen girls polite but lowkey uncomfortable body language or use the customer service tone.
          I hate that shit so fricking much, especially the "customer service tone." I swear to god that's the kind of shit that gets b***hes raped/killed. Do b***hes not realize that? If you don't want to talk to a guy, just tell him to frick off, don't be "polite" with your condescending fricking tone and shit

          Anyway..

          >You must be one ugly motherfricker but high rizz or terrible at reading signs OR talk way too loud for OTHER women to be that overt about it that incessantly.
          He said he hooked up with the girl in the airplane story lol. Course that shit never fricking happened and he's just larping, but still

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            U want women to say frick off? Actually?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >You must be one ugly motherfricker but high rizz
          It’s gotta be this, right? The girls defend me which they wouldn’t if they were lowkey trying to get away. Plus im really chill with men, I always get invoted to things and mever have proboems with dudes. I feel like if I was attractive, then the older roasties would approve instead of getting raging like you said.

          >I've seen girls polite but lowkey uncomfortable body language or use the customer service tone.
          I hate that shit so fricking much, especially the "customer service tone." I swear to god that's the kind of shit that gets b***hes raped/killed. Do b***hes not realize that? If you don't want to talk to a guy, just tell him to frick off, don't be "polite" with your condescending fricking tone and shit

          Anyway..

          >You must be one ugly motherfricker but high rizz or terrible at reading signs OR talk way too loud for OTHER women to be that overt about it that incessantly.
          He said he hooked up with the girl in the airplane story lol. Course that shit never fricking happened and he's just larping, but still

          I swear to god it really happened. But that was years ago before my chins era, while I was lifting constantly and had buldging muscles

          I seriously have no idea why older roasties wanted to crucify me so badly

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I feel like if I was attractive, then the older roasties would approve instead of getting raging like you said.
            >I seriously have no idea why older roasties wanted to crucify me so badly
            Probably some combination of "women hate other women," jealousy, and missing their youth

            Does this only happen when they see you talking to younger girls? Or do old b***hes just hate you no matter what?

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i sneed

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can read body language and tell a woman doesn't want to be approached by me.
    Thus far, none would appreciate it. I'm a friend.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bump

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      bump

      This a israelite who really wishes to demoralize you.
      He bumps this thread constantly even though it's destined to die.
      When it does, he'll find some more statistics to post.
      Shalom!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        actually I've been lurking. I'm not a israelite. I like these threads though but as a catharsis. Any of my negative thoughts on women I can express or read back here and I can be mad for a little while I converse with myself about why I feel angry. If others used these threads like this you'd see a lot less incel posts as all my sort of incel posts are shitposts.
        These threads are theatre and the experience of them releases you from your emotions.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's more likely that they intuitively realise that they don't stand a chance. Female choosiness being on the rise is well substantiated by data.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why the frick is the onus always put on us?
    When the girls at my job talk about dating they all diss me. Then they have the gall to call me a coward for not asking them out when I already know the answer.girl
    Not matter how hard girls reject us and put us down. I have never heard or read anyone putting the onus on them. Girls even reatc better to socialization from other girls more, I have seen girls reject time after time the same plan and move from a lot of guys and accept when is girls.
    At this point I think that this is just a troll. Go to any forum and dating advice for woman is just making clear that you are interested while not doing shit like even opening your motuh, for men is adsurde amount of demans that could even yield no result and more excuses are put front

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Women like to b***h anon, it's in their nature. Even if you manage to date a woman, if you do something odd she'll go and tell all her friends about it to see how they would handle the situation, rather than just walk up to you and say "babe you're doing something weird and I want to know why."

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      because she is the soft little monkey woman who's job it is to pick berries and make babies, and you are the big strong scary monkey man who's job it is to hunt tigers and bash other monkey men's brains in and take the initiative to find a mate that you want to carry your genes
      at least, that's how our brains work
      unfortunately, our current society has stripped away all of the traditional privileges of masculinity, while still retaining all of the traditional privileges of femininity
      so what that means is that, while you will find that you don't benefit in any way from your status as a male, you are also still expected to shoulder the traditional burden of being a man and all the responsibilities (such as being the one who is brave enough to risk rejection in finding a mate)
      clear things up?

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women dating women

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 26 and I don't have a girlfriend. Last year my dad was pestering me for ages to get one. There's 0% reason for men to be in relationships these days.Women will just leave your wallet empty and will divorce rape and take half your shit and the kids away when she gets bored

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why the frick is the onus always put on us?
      When the girls at my job talk about dating they all diss me. Then they have the gall to call me a coward for not asking them out when I already know the answer.girl
      Not matter how hard girls reject us and put us down. I have never heard or read anyone putting the onus on them. Girls even reatc better to socialization from other girls more, I have seen girls reject time after time the same plan and move from a lot of guys and accept when is girls.
      At this point I think that this is just a troll. Go to any forum and dating advice for woman is just making clear that you are interested while not doing shit like even opening your motuh, for men is adsurde amount of demans that could even yield no result and more excuses are put front

      I think that they want women to falsely report you for stuff, but in order to have ammunition they need you to “do” something. Like, it’s much harder for them to win a case against you if they just know you, vs if you actually asked them out.

      In my case people badgered me on and on about dating, but when I finally approached a girl, they ran to the police and reported me for “stalking”.

      Now, what was funny about my case was that the “victim” was never a part of it until my lawyer subpoenaed her to my trial. I got a mistrial thankfully because the “victim” literally testified that I never stalked her.

      But yeah. IMO thats what people are doing. They want to push a court case on you but lack the ammo, so they need ytou do fall into a trap.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I just think is women trying to avoid accountability, if you hit on someone your actions will be judged I just think that all that verbose of "man up" is people realizing that is easier to shit on men than on women, those guys that try to be blind to the current dating scene where everything is in the women's favor don't want to lose their favor or their raport even on internet by judging in any way and reallyyyyyyyyyyy don't want to be tought as incels.
        If you go to women's forums they heavily repeat that is better wait until someone is hitting on you because at least you know that they are into you if not that is a lot of legwork that they don't want to do just to get rejected.
        The only thing that I would like is to know that less people tied your worth as a man with your ability to pool girls, many say that that is not the case but then spew a lot of things like is matter of social skills, personality and decency, meaning that if you fail you have none of those things it pains me because a lot of my friends are nice, have good personalities and do cool things, they are pretty decent, they are really human and care a lot for others with good careers and great acomplisments BUT NO because they are not pulling b***hes they are none of that and the first reaction that the world has is be skeptic as if those things are false or twisted all depending on some validation of a random girl that might not even be attracted to men.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And this is why you need a funny bio.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        They won't even read it unless they already find you hot so it doesn't really matter. The only words that can actually change a girl's mind are some variation of "6 foot"

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And this is why you need a funny bio.

      They won't even read it unless they already find you hot so it doesn't really matter. The only words that can actually change a girl's mind are some variation of "6 foot"

      it's fake.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Source: I want it to be

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          one guy who posts that pic said he had thousands of other examples of le chadddfishing

          strangely enough, it's only ever that one jpeg floating around.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            [...]
            it's fake.

            Are you illiterate? There are loads of those chadfish compilations posted here all the time. Holy gaslighting

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous
        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >rather save and post photo mashups of shirtless dudes
          >than try to frick women
          gay

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >playing rigged games
            ngmi

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >more excuses to not try to frick women
            gay

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This mainly proves that shallow, entitled women (almost all tinder hoes) want a shallow, entitled dick. buttholes live forever, as they say.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I guarantee you that even chubby, slightly uggo guys with outward shit personalities would match with a hot (probably bod or trauma induced) hoe on tinder. This mainly proves that women on these apps want someone mean (unlike the hundreds of "nice" men who conceal their true emotions/darkest thoughts)

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not about mean/nice but interesting/boring. People want to be excited. Besides, most homosexuals misinterpret nice as being a doormat or conflict shy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They don't want someone mean, they want someone hot. They'll put up with someone mean if he is hot enough.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            the most delusional post ive seen in a long time lmao

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >funny bio gets the job done again
          Shocker.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous
          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This would work better if the guys line wasn't funnier than all of the clown shit. Though "want good sex? No? Then you came to the right place!" has some potential, just needs to be shorter.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bump

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A good chunk of men just know women are far too picky and they have no chance

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because young men have been quick to figure out women don't want friends, or dates. They want simps. It's why so many of them have moved to dating apps, so they can bolster their own ego by witnessing literally hundreds of lonely losers thrown themselves at their feet and shower them with compliments, maybe even get some money out of those desperate horny virgins.

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bump. big reason they’re not is because of Hoeflation.

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >in person
    lmao, we chat online, we shop online, we work online, we vote online, why the frick wouldnt we date online?

    imagine risking your reputation, job and crime records by trying to seduce a woman on street or bar when on badoo you just browse and pick whatever thot you feel like doing tonight.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >bar/restaurant
      >over 25%
      Oh hey, it's not so bad.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Enjoy the bar-hoes, brother. I have some interest in not being immediately cheated on by an alcoholic b***h

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          And you think Tinder is any better?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not really, no. They're both awful

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Welp.
            My looks are maybe above mid and my text game is probably awful, so I think I will go off-line.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >morons don't even have to leave their neet nests to try to get laid
    >still find reasons to stay virgins
    lol
    I thought Myspace was going to be the pinnacle of easymode sex, but now there are MULTIPLE popular apps out there that women use with the express purpose of getting laid.
    If you can't figure out how to use a monkey-tier computer program to meet somebody that's using the same program then there's no fricking way you're going to make something work in person.
    You might be legitimately too stupid to even approach procreation.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    frick you all I found a girlfriend
    I'm out of this shitty cycle

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice! Now you can make the "gf didn't respond to my message after 5 minute, is she sucking off Tyrone?" threads next!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        she's too autistic to find another man

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >approach woman while ugly
    >get posted on TikTok, cops called, canceled
    >don't approach women and use dating apps
    >get 0 matches
    Okay then.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      NOOOOO IT'S YOUR FAULT! INCEL! INCEL! INCEL!

      Soon they will cry about the damage they did to themselves. I
      'm not saying men are not suffering, but I am DEAD SURE that women will literally DIE without the attention

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >pathetic men and women dying out
        Stop threatening such a good time.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >. I think we approach less because most of us are more aware of boundaries now.
      It's the false allegations and losing your job/livelihood, moron.

      >my cousin was arrested for Aggravated Ick on the third degree

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s not a problem. I am not interested in anybody nearby

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Can't believe no one posted this video yet. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSq54f2JT_U

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > How do I deal with this?
    Enjoy it of course. It will be much better for everybody.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If this is cold approach being evaluated then we'd need to compare from previous generations. Most likely most relationships origin from warm approaches partially in older generations. This is not where the issue lies

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This, most relationships are born from previous friends/acquaintances, coworkers, people in the same class, whatever. It's not that strange a lot of guys aren't approaching random women to ask them out

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        then the problem isn't really not approaching, it's people not having the same social groups. Which makes a lot of sense. Just boomermaxx and you should be good
        >got my golf group
        >got my church group
        >got my car group
        >got my woodworking group

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What is it gonna look like
    It'll be fricking easy mode for guys if you have the slightest amount of self discipline and attractiveness

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      lie more

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >never
    >rare
    Why are you like this?
    Also what makes you think waiting to be approached constitutes some dangerous sea change? Maybe we like to wait for an introduction or an organic encounter?

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i'm gonna approoOOOOAACH

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Beta shit. Approach them at their place, ideally at night when they are more horny.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >muh online dating
    Does it even work?

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    not a zoomer. do people still do mixed gender groups?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've heard of normies with mixed-gender groups, but every group I've ever been even tangentially involved in was exclusively male
      t. 2000 zoomer

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 19 and I've approached probably like 20 in my life and the reaction has usually been "ew no" or laughter. I usually have much better luck focusing on making money and getting in shape. It seems like once you fit their criteria they just start coming to you. I'm not on social media or dating apps though and I live in a rural area so I'm def not an average zoomer.

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was a foreveralone incel and I finally worked up the balls to sign up for dating apps. I got a gf through this. Who preceded to lie and cheat (emotionally) and force me to tolerate a deadbedroom for a very long time. I can honestly say porn is better than some women. Because some women don't offer much more than sex, and some women won't even offer that.

    I believe that porn is evil. But so is feminism. Porn is just a coping mechanism that men need to survive feminism.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is my worst nightmare in getting back out there - how are you feeling now?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm excited to find another gf. Having a gf is much better than not having one because you have a reason to go out and do things. You also need money though. If I wasn't jaded from a decade of loneliness I might have been crushed by her actions but as it is it barely bothers me. I'm excited to find a girl I can take on fun dates AND have sex with.

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't worry, I will personally make up for their slack.

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