Anyone ever send a letter to an ex? I might wait a couple months and send one to mine.

Anyone ever send a letter to an ex? I might wait a couple months and send one to mine. I have a trinket I want to give back to them so I have a reason to contact them.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I have a trinket I want to give back to them so I have a reason to contact them.
    Why do you want to contact them? They're your ex. It's over. Done. Move on.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Some closure, an offer to reconnect if they changed, etc.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Some closure
        >an offer to reconnect if they changed
        So do you want them back or not?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe. She split up with me, I liked who she was - who she turned into wasn't good. I think some mistakes were made in our relationship but nothing was fundamentally wrong.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Maybe.
            Well if you don't know, we don't know.
            You're welcome to write more than 1-2 sentences to help explain things, by the way.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t do it! For the love of God don’t. I’m serious. I know it’s hard but you have to move on.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What are the downsides?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That her and her new boyfriend laugh at you

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wish my ex bf would do this. Go for it OP. Wish you the best of luck.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think you should do it too. I miss my ex.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have written a letter about a week ago, it didn't deliver yet. I am blocked by him, so this is the last chance, but I think it also helps to get some closure even if they don't respond.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hey anon. I've felt the same way about writing a letter. Here's my advice.

    You will never the find the same person you knew, even in the same person because time changes everything. Write yourself the letter and leave it in an envelope. keep it in a drawer or burn it.

    You will fall in love again, and it will be just as special as it was this first time. Learn to cherish the time you spent with them and take it as a learning experience.

    You can do it, gl anon

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think that the change was for the best, and they are still the same person. I disagree with you. It's worth trying, but if you don't succeed, then it means it's a good thing it happened, that's how it should stay. I don't think anything worse can happen.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your immaturity is showing. People evolve and change over time, you will not be the same version of yourself in 5, 10, 20 years. Part of committing to someone for a lifetime to signing up to love every version of the person they become.

        If OP wrote this letter, he would be writing it to a version of someone that doesn't exist anymore. Life is messy, closure usually doesn't happen, and if anything, her response could live him with more questions.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I get what you say, but you didn't change my opinion.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > You will fall in love again, and it will be just as special as it was this first time.

      This is such bullshit. It is not true. You might not ever meet anyone again. Or, who you meet and get along with just doesn’t feel the same. As I get older every love feels less and less special.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I agree, that's why I think that writing a letter it's not a bad idea. People deserve second chances, relationships too if there was no betrayal or huge issues

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Write her a letter explaining that you are from the future and that she has to kill herself or some bald cancer patient will die of AIDS.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't, OP. Best to keep shit about your exes to yourself rather than finding awkward ways to approach them. If you have something to give back to them then yes sending that is fine. I wouldn't try to get back in touch though. Just move on.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go for it.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have done it, to the ex I was with for 14 years. I left out of depression in the hope to change things and still loved her very much. We tried being friends but she found it too hard. I wrote her an 8 page letter after she broke contact with me. She never responded. The pain of being ignored was immense and spiraled my depression into a suicical one. To me, it wasn't worth it.

    Also wrote one and send a necklace to the ex I dated after the first one. She also never replied.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Her family probably kept the letters from her frfr.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      sad, but exactly the result i would expect. hope you are better now.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was going to send someone something but it'll probably be thrown in the trash. Sigh o well

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