Are relationships and sex worth it? I'm 23, a virgin and I've never been in a relationship.

Are relationships and sex worth it? I'm 23, a virgin and I've never been in a relationship. I don't have a super strong urge to pursue these things but I don't know if I'm missing out on something worth having. Also I'm gay.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Relationships
    No, unless you want children.
    >Sex
    Define "worth it". It's worth maybe $20 or so. It's a decent drug, not worth any thing more than that though.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Our monkey brains want companionship but people do without it. If you are happy with your friends and family and don't see a relationship as necessary then don't pursue one. I would try it out though just so you can see. Use grinder or whatever else homosexuals use to meet each other. Don't get aids tho.
    Also people who are like you eventually do get hooked on relationships and love, they just needed their first hit.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Don't get aids tho.
      Yeah that's the issue.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        not really

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's not really.

    how sex will help you?
    it will/might give you some kind of confidence boost in talking to girls. just that.

    other than that, irl it doesn't help, in jobs, companies, it doesn't really matter

    but if people find out you are virgin and never had relationship, a small amount of questionable thought will appear in their head. but good people don't care about it.
    they "might" think you are weirdo.

    what you need is confidence

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Threads full of incels that have accepted their fate

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Cope

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        With what? I like a normal life. You guys don't have sex or relationships. You guys are the ones coping with your situation

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm very sure I could get sex if I wanted to.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not so sure about relationships, depends on how social and tolerable you are around other people

    But sex is always great, get your nut game on before your dick stops working

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Are relationships and sex worth it?
    >Also I'm gay.
    Doesnt eeally seem like there is any point then does there.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't understand, elaborate.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You cant start a family by rubbing 2 sticks together. And since you are a homosexual, sex is basically just masturbation with extra steps and an STD risk, so why bother?
        Also if you can do without you may even be able to pretend to be normal.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Hi, reddit

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ok moron.

        • 4 weeks ago
          MKG

          >And since you are a homosexual, sex is basically just masturbation
          You realize that this just broadcasts that you've never had enjoyable sex, right?

          But you did remind me of this captcha

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yeah, they're really great
    small chance it turns into something that makes your entire life something you think is worth living
    that's enough to risk all the pain if it doesn't work out, in my opinion
    anything else is a cope

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Also I'm gay

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They’re only worth it if you want it and get it. Since you don’t desire relationships or sex it’s fine just keep doing your own thing. Can’t miss what you don’t know

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nope. Even worse when you are gay since they don't have a concept of shame

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes anon, the most intimate and essential form of human connection is indeed worth it if you are a human.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, especially not as a gay since your chance of getting STDs are significantly higher.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Intimacy with another person is wonderful and you should pursue it in a natural way. Fricking 100 dudes on Grindr is not natural. Dating and exploring at your age absolutely is natural and healthy. As a bi-ish guy who was around a lot of gay men but never went after it, I kind of regret not doing so. I would avoid dating men who are too much older than you. They know what they want and it's your bussy.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    MKG

    >Are relationships and sex worth it?
    They can be.
    Human beings are social creatures and that is a psychological need that demands to be fulfilled for positive mental health.
    But sex and relationships aren't strictly necessary. Bad sex and bad relationships are worse than none. I definitely advise slow and careful advancement.

    >I'm 23, a virgin and I've never been in a relationship.
    Not uncommon. I was the same.

    >I don't have a super strong urge to pursue these things
    Do you have any "super strong urges"? My point is to determine if you are unmotivated to seek relationships or just unmotivated in general.

    >I don't know if I'm missing out on something worth having.
    You are. But life is filled with countless things worth having. Do you have many such things in your life?

    >Also I'm gay.
    Irrelevant aside from affecting your potential partner pool

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