Are women into femdom all mentally ill? What kind of traumatic event leads women to be into it?

Are women into femdom all mentally ill? What kind of traumatic event leads women to be into it? What's the psychology behind them?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They're probably more healthy than women that want to be degraded in sex tbh. The latter is probably caused by daddy issues and other abuse. I have no idea what causes a woman to be into femdom though. They're pretty rare.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I get why you'd say it was more "healthy" but that's something a normal regular woman might like. Like you said femdoms are rare, they're the outlier. So what's different about them why do they go against their genders natural sexual drive

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Normal women like it too, but just not like hardcore femdom. Think like gentler stuff instead of ball busting and whatnot and thats actually a lot more common than wanting to be like mega degraded

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I get that ball busting is hardcore because of the risks associated. But lots of other stuff is relatively safe, like for example spanking, pegging, temperature play...

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Pegging and temperature play are both pretty extreme tbh. The other thing is that those acts are kinda femdom but you are the one being stimulated. In general the type of femdom I have found to be more common revolve around her being pleased or in control of her/your orgasm.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >temperature play is extreme
            Really? A cold and hot shower? Some ice cubes? Lukewarm oil based candles? I thought these are the basics of basics. Every time they talk about the pain and pleasure in mainstream, there are always ice cubes.
            >pegging is extreme?
            Well I don't know. I mean is it extreme when the foid gets analed?
            >BDSM extreme
            It's hard for me to rank because it's about the negotiation form. It's how much someone likes something and different people have different niches.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >temperature play
            True ive never experienced it though so idk

            >pegging
            Since you need to actually buy something (a strap on) its pretty extreme. Also most girls dont do anal thats a porn thing

            >BDSM

            Peoples definition of bdsm is varied, my gf likes it when my hands are tied, but i wouldnt say its bondage tier. Some might say it is.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I must have sex with normal women

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I get why you'd say it was more "healthy" but that's something a normal regular woman might like. Like you said femdoms are rare, they're the outlier. So what's different about them why do they go against their genders natural sexual drive

      As a woman to be the dominant one demands a high level of delusion because every man they meet has the means to beat them and over power them, the act of dominating the man always requires consent because if he doesn't want to do it, he isn't, and that can be a major turn off because the guy is just wanting to be a very weak man than a strong one that she so happens to be able to over power.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what a moronic moid take, it's like saying your boss is not your boss because you can beat him up

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You compared a job position to sex/relationships. Further still you are comparing a position that gives your responsibilities throughout the day/week to a sexual fetish of domination.

          It's not comparable.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you have to see femdom and general bdsm as a roleplay. you give the power away voluntarily. it's not about taking it forcefully away

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >have to see femdom and general bdsm as a roleplay.
          Correct and there's also things like suspension of disbelief, and that is why most of the non-porn girls that are into femdom are either tall, morbidly obese or both. Most 165cm petite girls don't get excited watching a nearly 2 meter man willing compromise himself in that way. They might find it hilarious however but I don't think that's what OP wants.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Correct and there's also things like suspension of disbelief, and that is why most of the non-porn girls that are into femdom are either tall, morbidly obese or both.
            Out of the fembots i've met form here who were into femdom (or a switch) everyone was small and had a healthy weight

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Out of the fembots i've met form here

            I have serious doubts to your claim

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I have serious doubts to your claim
            Granted the sample size of 3 isn't that big lol

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Maledom sex is a willing submission too though. She's choosing to let you use your strength on her because if she didn't choose to do that you would be a rapist

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i wanna know that shi too

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    im curious about this too
    im a submissive male and I know because of my upbringing, I am basicly incompitent in life, never learn life skills and I have terrible self esteem
    I remember in college failing a math assignment and thinking to myself that Im worthless and should kill myself

    So I wonder what the other side is like

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    what do other anons think of this webm?

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 21 year old woman into femdom. Being abused by my family made me view all relationships in terms of power dynamics. I remember I was a masochist by 4th grade because being treated well was confusing for me but I became a sadist a few years ago.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      prepare to have 20 different anons asking you to be their bf
      also what is ur opinion on cbt?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I mean be their gf, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEANT!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Truthfully I find BDSM kind of boring because I prefer inflicting genuine pain. If it's just a kink and pretend and the other person enjoys it, what's the point? I guess it could be fun if I inflict more pain than the other person expected. Like if they say "I want the pain to be a 4 and to last one minute" and then I ignore their request and surprise by making the pain level a 10 and for five minutes.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          what do you want in a partner then, if not bdsm?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No I want BDSM. It's great. I just want it at a level of intensity where my boyfriend is genuinely in pain and doesn't entirely enjoy himself.

            To use cheating as an example which is one of my main kinks

            Cucking my boyfriend when he has a cuck fetish is okay so long as there's some pain mixed in, but only okay
            Cheating on a boyfriend who trusts me more than anything in the world and believes I would never cheat on him (and then telling him after it's been going on for a while) is an incredible high

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I see now, personally I kinda like it when people force me to do things I hesitate on, I almost fell for a girl into cbt but then I couldnt go through with it

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You know that the most important thing in bdsm is consent? It's all a roleplay and if you don't think that you are actually mentally ill

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Cheating on a boyfriend who trusts me more than anything in the world and believes I would never cheat on him (and then telling him after it's been going on for a while) is an incredible high
            I feel deep shame over the bones this gave me

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Are women into femdom all mentally ill?
            I think these answer your question OP

            I'm not mentally ill. Abusing moids is self-care.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's just scary tbh

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that's the paradox of sadism and masochism. the masochist actually enjoys some pain and discomfort, so if the sadist just indulges him, the masochist is the one in power. the sadist enjoys pushing boundaries and actually hurting the other, therefore to be in power and to be satisfied, he must push the masochist boundaries and keep doing the things that the masochist despises.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Need a girl who pushes my boundaries and makes me do things I don't want to

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >sadism/masochism
            >top/bottom
            >dominance/submission
            It's all just kinda roleplay about power. Like someone can take care of the other because he "has to"(bottoming) or because he "wants to"(topping). It's all just made up. But pushing boundaries with a coach is a nice bonus(insert training montage, where the trainer keeps repeating the same number after some repeats to push the limits/motivate).

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1706946989156964.jpg

            the internet and my fantasies broke me, i cant imagine dating a boring normie submissive girl

            >tfw no dark triand """exciting""" gf

            [...]
            As a woman to be the dominant one demands a high level of delusion because every man they meet has the means to beat them and over power them, the act of dominating the man always requires consent because if he doesn't want to do it, he isn't, and that can be a major turn off because the guy is just wanting to be a very weak man than a strong one that she so happens to be able to over power.

            >maledom = rape
            kys

            You compared a job position to sex/relationships. Further still you are comparing a position that gives your responsibilities throughout the day/week to a sexual fetish of domination.

            It's not comparable.

            >asooming findom doesn't exist. Voluntary or extorsion.

            >have to see femdom and general bdsm as a roleplay.
            Correct and there's also things like suspension of disbelief, and that is why most of the non-porn girls that are into femdom are either tall, morbidly obese or both. Most 165cm petite girls don't get excited watching a nearly 2 meter man willing compromise himself in that way. They might find it hilarious however but I don't think that's what OP wants.

            >boring normalgay foid can't into imagination (cue in spongebob meme)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1706905989722187.jpg

      Truthfully I find BDSM kind of boring because I prefer inflicting genuine pain. If it's just a kink and pretend and the other person enjoys it, what's the point? I guess it could be fun if I inflict more pain than the other person expected. Like if they say "I want the pain to be a 4 and to last one minute" and then I ignore their request and surprise by making the pain level a 10 and for five minutes.

      How do you feel about strapping down helpless little boys and painfully removing their ability to feel sexual pleasure?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think that counts as femdom

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How is it not femdom?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Kara ~~*Cohen*~~
        Imagine my shock...
        Egalitarianism's master race is at it once again.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      BE MY GF NWO PLEAS

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Does your view of relationships as power imbalanced affect the non sexual aspects of the relationship much. If your partner doesn't enjoy it is it really femdom or is it just abuse? Do you like submissive men or do you find them off-putting like most women do?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        To me relationships are just vehicles used to release some of my pent-up sadism, I've never really cared about anyone I've dated (yet).
        Yeah, I'm an abuser. That's the other person's problem though.
        I find all people equally unappealing.

        You know that the most important thing in bdsm is consent? It's all a roleplay and if you don't think that you are actually mentally ill

        I've been mentally ill since I was a child, this isn't news.

        >Cheating on a boyfriend who trusts me more than anything in the world and believes I would never cheat on him (and then telling him after it's been going on for a while) is an incredible high
        I feel deep shame over the bones this gave me

        :3

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I've been mentally ill since I was a child, this isn't news
          Please visit a psychotherapist and never call anything you do bdsm. Thanks to people like you kink is put into a bad light. If one party doesn't like it, it's called rape. You can just tell that you have an actual rape kink and that's it

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >To me relationships are just vehicles used to release some of my pent-up sadism, I've never really cared about anyone I've dated (yet).
          >Yeah, I'm an abuser. That's the other person's problem though.
          >I find all people equally unappealing
          That's a shame, I would like a femdom gf who would appreciate my hopeless romanticism. I do think you're hot though and your posts made my pp hard

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          is it a bad thing that i want an abusive gf, I dont have any irl friends and dont really connect with a family so i feel like if someone tried they could easily manipulate me and trap me into a relationship i cant leave

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Seems toxic to me anon. Only one support pillar seems kinda weak and for it to be abusive... You seem like that kind of person to get into a cult.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            im kinda surprised I was never groomed tbh
            but thats probably because I was homeschooled and didnt have social media
            I hate religeon so I dont fear cults lol
            but yes god im so lonely and I want someone to love me for who I am and help me to get out of my shell ;-;

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          that's sick, you should find a stable loving relationship where you can release your pent-up sadism without breaking your bf's heart
          one thing you should certainly do is pretend you're a downtrodden sick girl who needs to get fixed by his love

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >most BDSMers are switches to some degree.
      >psychology
      Probably having an impact on another and the feeling of trust. Some tops might feel bad that they like hurting others. It's kinda complicated like the whole keeping homeostasis in all these different situations. Also BDSM is like a horror movie, it's scary, but safe(low risk), so the right wienertail of hormones brings out the fun.

      Be my domy momy.
      Sex sleeve applications also open.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Being abused by my family
      >Daddy wouldn't let me frick a 35 yo Black person when I was 16! That's abuse!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I dunno, anon, she seems very mentally ill I'm sure it was pretty bad whatever happened

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're just a cuck that give women the benefit of the doubt in everything, get your balls crushed homosexual

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not mentally ill. Abusing moids is self-care.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Please explain how and why you like to abuse moids

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What's the psychology behind them?
    Penis envy. That is it. Usually comes with an underlying dadcest fetish, but they are too scared to let that out so they overcompensate and need total control. Like a revenge thing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How does wanting to have sex with your dad equate to liking to dominate in sex

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Daddy was too harsh, associate his penis with strength, want to be powerful yourself, express it during sex. Not rocket science.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Interesting. I always thought most daddy issues would lead to masochist tendencies

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It can go both ways. Freud made a point that too much or too little of something during psychosexual development can become wanting too much or too little of something and there is no consistent direction based on that factor alone. Dad is harsh/uncaring so you probably become a masochist or sadist either way. Mom is neglectful/abusive so you probably develop intense resentment or want to frick her. Depends on other contributing factors. The one thing that is certain is that you wont be well adjusted once you grow up.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Where can I get a normal healthy gf who likes to be in charge sometimes? Why can't I attain this?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Normal healthy women dont like taking charge.

      Good news for you is that they are becoming so rare that you are more likely to find what you want

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is literally your average woman bro even if she herself feels neutral about domming you she will do it because she knows you love it

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No I want a woman who enjoys it, its nicer that way?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Making you happy will make her happy, dont worry

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Are women into femdom all mentally ill? What kind of traumatic event leads women to be into it? What's the psychology behind them?

    literally every woman ive ever been with asked me to choke them during sex.

    One wanted to be strangulated until she passed out, and then I was supposed to bang her lifeless body.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >born in easy mode where you can be coddled taken care off
    >can just lay there and have the guy pleasure you
    >all this after extensive courting and monetary gifts of course
    >decide to actually do something to a guy
    Yeah you have to be mentally ill to switch from easy mode.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    all women are mentally ill

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If they're all mentally ill then none of them are

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >then none of them are
        Compared to each other. Compared to the group with somewhat functioning brains however

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the internet and my fantasies broke me, i cant imagine dating a boring normie submissive girl

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