At what age do you think being a virgin guy means that you will most likely never have a fulfilling sex life?

At what age do you think being a virgin guy means that you will most likely never have a fulfilling sex life?

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  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    32 years old virgin here almost 33 thanks autismo.
    The real suffering is not the lack of sex, it's the lack of romantic experience.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I empathize with you, and you're probably right, but I am still curious about the answer to my question.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      31 here, yes romance annoy me the most

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Same age & situation as I think I realized I wouldn't be having sex by the time I was 18 or thereabouts.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Probably 25, at that point people in your life start to worry for you and wonder why you havent had a girlfriend yet.

        I realized at 20 when I downloaded Tinder how bad the situation is for below average men. Tried dating apps on and off after that, im 26 now and no luck, its gotten even worse actually, idk if its my age and my looks declining even more, or just that the dating market is just that bad now

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      31 here, yes romance annoy me the most

      Same age & situation as I think I realized I wouldn't be having sex by the time I was 18 or thereabouts.

      Fellow 31 year old (almost 32) loser NEET virgin here. Not having companionship really is the worst.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      This is true. I'm 33 and didn't lose my virginity until 27. It just felt super awkward, like this is something that happens in movies and to other people. Just being kissed/cuddled as foreplay felt so good that I didn't even desire sex anymore.

      Lack of affection/romance really fricks with your head. I don't know if I can ever have a normal relationship at this point.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Same age as you and yeah, it's not really about sex. You can either just settle for some ugly woman who will frick anyone or a prostitute at any point, but honestly, once you get into your 30s it feels like there isn't any hope for actual romance anymore.

      I only find a small handful of women around my age or older attractive and by now they've already become jaded and are just settling with you so they can have a child or someone to help pay bills. You'll never have her heart like one of her previous bfs did.

      Then you have the younger women. Society has conditioned them to think anyone over 30 is gross and creepy for even wanting to date them. Because of that, the younger women who find themselves in relationships with older men simply do it for money or for a fetish. Neither of which is romantic whatsoever.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I hope things turn out well for you. I feel for you.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know guys, i really just want to have sex...

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I lost mine at your age actually. I am currently 36. Just letting you know right now it was a mind frick how I lost mine and I'm still not even sure how I pulled that off. You have no choice but to go with women that are showing interest in you. So don't get hung up on you having a certain look that you want from a woman is my advice. As long as she looks good enough and gets your dick to stand up that should be good enough for you in regards to looks and sex. Now romance and marriage is a whole other issue. I'm just as lost on that as you still for the most part.

      Women have always confused me anon. I was always told all my life that to get with women you got to be all cool and alpha and chad like. You got to approach them, and make sure she is within the same number range of attractiveness as you. Just all sorts of bullshit. I will tell you right now none of this stuff truly applies in the most absolute sense. I think a lot of guys having sexual success simply don't want to admit they got lucky and it was because the woman felt emotions towards him for whatever reason. I feel like every interaction I ever had with women or girls back then was entirely because of this. For whatever reason my personality and interactions with them gave them positive emotions. So they react in a more friendly or even loving way back towards me.

      So yeah anon. Don't have a "type" because your type should be whatever gets you horny. That is all. And don't be racist.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >go with women that are showing interest in you.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Because cold approach works right PUA homosexual? Maybe for a Chad it works. It will likely not work for some incel robot that has never even had any sexual success at all.

          >go with women that are showing interest in you.
          Bro, did you go to the wrong board or something? This is NSFFW, if you didn't know.

          A lot of guys on here are failed normies though such as myself.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >It will likely not work for some incel robot that has never even had any sexual success at all.
            thats what Im saying

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >A lot of guys on here are failed normies though such as myself.
            Then could you please leave this thread? You're making us feel bad. Go to a normie thread or something, idk.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >go with women that are showing interest in you.
        Bro, did you go to the wrong board or something? This is NSFFW, if you didn't know.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >I think a lot of guys having sexual success simply don't want to admit they got lucky and it was because the woman felt emotions towards him for whatever reason. I feel like every interaction I ever had with women or girls back then was entirely because of this. For whatever reason my personality and interactions with them gave them positive emotions. So they react in a more friendly or even loving way back towards me.
        You can use game to manipulate emotions. Sales is a trillion dollar industry that does this exact manipulation except for money instead of sex

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      for me the real suffering isn't the lack of sex or romances, it's that I'm fricking 33 lmao

      aging sucks, I wanna be youthful forever

    • 1 week ago
      Desolation

      As a 33y old virgin... I don't give a frick. The real issue everyone suffer from is lack of purpose or directions. So they try to seek something that would validate their way. Sex and women giving you attention is a form of validation men seek. As long as you're aware of that, women, sex, money, cars etc. you understand it's just means of validating your choices and what you did with your life. It's sad and pathetic but literally 99% of humans suffer from it. I'm not saying I found a way to escape it or I'm enlightened, I'm just stating what's eating us all alive. Stop giving a frick about sex or "romantic experience". It's just a woman finding you attractive because you're tall or you lied to her and she thinks you're confident and exciting and just two people jerking off using their bodies only to find themselves disgusting after - after they realized they don't really like each other and they lied about each other just to get what they want.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I dont find myself or my partner disgusting after sex anon

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    When you can't get it up anymore. Anything before that is pretty much alright, despite popular belief. Being a virgin means nothing when you have godly charisma, good looks etc. The charisma is the most important thing, you can bag anything if you know how to act

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >When you can't get it up anymore. Anything before that is pretty much alright, despite popular belief.
      I'm not convinced that's the case. To use a rather extreme comparison to illustrate my point, when speeding, I believe you don't have to have hit a tree to reach a point at which you're certain and justified in believing you're going to hit a tree.
      >Being a virgin means nothing when you have godly charisma, good looks etc. The charisma is the most important thing, you can bag anything if you know how to act
      Yes, but let's be realistic here. A virgin guy would need a metal disorder to act like this, despite having no experience at an abnormally old age.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >virgin guy would need a metal disorder to act like this, despite having no experience at an abnormally old age
        The OP doesn't say anything about not being charismatic. A virgin is just a person who hasn't had sex. I agree experience gives you an insane edge but it's not everything, as you imply. If you're that desperate, do some stimulants and you won't believe what you're capable of. This can probably only work for pump and dump scenarios, but it's better than nothing.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I don't think it's everything, but I don't think "charisma" is a common trait among men who made it past 25 without any woman who slept with them. I don't think I'm desperate, but I don't know how I will feel in the future. And I'm not doing stimulants. I take psychiatric drugs and I don't know if the combination would not frick my brain up..

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          And just to add, the level of charisma you need is lower the younger the girl is. I don't condone this, but some naive girls just get pussy tingles simply from getting attention from an older guy (you have to be physically attractive to her though) and they can be ridiculously easy to get. I'm speaking from experience, I had chances with young girls despite not even talking to them (they came at me, and my face doesn't even look good)

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I've never had even any interest from any woman. Whenever I would talk to them I could see that they were not having it and wanted me to leave them alone.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah that's because you have to NOT want to talk to them. Just mind your own business, prostitutes are not worth shit anyway and are a waste of time, braincells and emotional resources. Are you ugly? If yes then you'll never be able to pull a woman with an approach. At least thats my experience

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            There were many times where I minded my own business, but the outcome was the same. I guess my feelings were hurt less.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >Just mind your own business
            That is what I have been doing forever and I'm knocking at the age of 35. I did somewhat try in my early 20s, but had no luck so I just stopped caring and living my life however I want without giving a frick. It has started to eat at me again lately how truly alone I am and for a long time. Never felt wanted or anything just been chugging along wherever the wind takes me.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      people with actual charisma aren't late virgins

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    sex is for NPCs

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I've recently turned 24 and realized, that I must simply be pretty worthless, and that almost every man in the world is better than me. Whenever I would achieve anything, or be proud of something, women must have seen through me and instantly knew that I was worthless, and had no potential despite that. I'm simply disposable and I've always been. I just didn't realize it sooner.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      l've been trying to take better care of myself lately, how good I look and how clean I am
      but sometime ago i remember watching a tiktok of a girl that broke with his bf saying something like"i no longer have to beg an adult man to brush his teeth"
      and because he had a gf and I didn't I constantly have the feeling that no matter how hard I try, how clean I am and how nice I look I'll always be more disgusting than that guy

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I know that feeling. When I find out about horrible people, like murderers, rapists, domestic abusers, etc., being recipients of women's love and affection, it makes me feel like I must be worse than them. Or when I hear about teenage guys having girlfriends or flings. All of it makes me feel so awful.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          seen teenage couples on the streets remind me that there are people that will never understand loneliness like I do and that makes me feel even more lonely, as if I was from a different species as them

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I started to feel pain in my chest around 20yo whenever I would think about being undesirable. There were times when the pain, both the physical and the mental, made me hurt myself, because I got relief from the ensuing catharsis.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            i like to bite my arm when l'm feeling frustrated, but l'm always worried about people finding the bite marks

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >l'm always worried about people finding the bite marks
            That ship has sailed for me. I have one very visible scar from a cut with prematurely taken out sutures. Once somebody sees it, they will also notice the lass-visible thin white ones going in all directions. I'm still embarrassed to walk outside with them uncovered. And I think I can safely forget about any woman being into me once she sees them. Not that any would be anyway, but it's like a huge redundant nail in an already-locked-shut coffin.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I'm actually autistic but the emotionally detached one, plus I have adhd so I go through life chasing high risk adventures and my brain never stops. I'm 29 and rarely feel that craving for connection. Sometimes I wish I had a girlfriend and start thinking about how it would play out but then I realize that other than sex I don't think I would really enjoy being close to anyone, I just want a girl to have sex with and then ignore until I want sex again.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    have you guys ever felt like sex isn't even real and that porn is probably just a bunch AI drawn fiction

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      No. I'm very aware about other people having sex lives, because it's pushed in face constantly. I had one very egregious experience, where I worked a summer job in a mostly female-dominated environment, and they would make inappropriate jokes to one another constantly. One even was telling me how happy she was, because her boyfriend "did such a good job" the previous day. None of them were fond of me. I fricking hated being there.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        virgins can make sexual jokes and lie

        i don't even have hard proof that veganas exist

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Absolutely none were virgins lol. I'm sure I was the only virgin working there. They would even make fun of me, when they would make sex jokes to one another and noticed I was uncomfortable. One even worked with her boyfriend and I would have to stomach them being cuddly with each other, when we had shifts together. This was during the summer, so I would also have to listen to stories about the trips they went on (with their boyfriends). Lastly, we were all in our 20s, and it's just too statistically unlikely for this to be the case.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Anything past 35, and it's over. If by then you have not done anything with a girl or guy, it's hopeless. At that point, you should be asking why you hate yourself so much that you sabotaged your life.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      That's a generous estimate. I think the potential for the quality of your sex life would be significantly impeded, simply by the fact that women would find your inexperienced behavior to be off-putting, and that would happen way before 35.

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Probably 18 or 19. It starts to get way too late and your hormones start coming down

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I realised it by 24 and that is why I just went and saw a prostitute.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Well, shit. I'm 24 for now. And I don't think I'm going to have any semblance of a satisfying sex life at this point. I'm just too inexperienced and women absolutely fricking hate it. If someone reading this is still like 18 or 19, it might honestly be a good idea to see a prostitute or few, just to get your emotions under control, so that you don't stick out that much in terms of behavior from your peers. You might have better chances then.

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    as a sperg i dislike being held or giving kisses on the cheeks to family members, yet i still care about having no knowledge about romance or having sex or anything like that

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Reading this thread confuses me, I'm 33 and have not fricked anyone or even got close but I suspect the difference is I don't care about that, or having any romance, and never have. Everyone sounds very sad about their situation whereas I have just stopped caring and it's not something I have ever thought about.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      You might have a schizoid personality disorder (not to be confused with schizophrenic). Have you ever talked to a psychologist about this?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        No, but would you believe I actually worked as a psychiatry doctor for 4 months during my junior rotations, so I am almost certain I don't have Schizoid Personality Disorder because I saw a few patients with that and can see the differences. I can make relationship (friends specifically) but just do not desire anything romantic.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          You might be asexual, aromantic, low libido, or one of those other buzzwords that kids like to use. I don't think this is normal. At the same time I'm happy for you, that you're not suffering. Happy and a tiny bit jealous I wish you all the best.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I suspect physiologically I am alright but in all honesty I can't really be arsed to get it checked out or do anything about it because it isn't stopping me from living my life and doing what I want. I will say that being an old man and being here for getting onto about 17 years (what a giant waste of time) has made me realise that there has been a shift from
            >I am a virgin but frick it I don't care
            to
            >I am a virgin and therefore I am pathetic and worth less than everybody else
            Which I swear was never the case before.

  12. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    26+ is generally considered the point of no return. You are past college age. Everyone in your peer group is generally paired up. You should in theory be working a job which means even less chances for socializing. The pool of available women is going to be single moms, mentally ill women, and women going through divorce or a breakup. And if you haven't gotten any prior relationship experience you aren't going to know how to handle them without getting your shot rocked. So yeah 26+ is usually it. There are those who can be exceptions to the rule and those who frick literal prostitutes. But after that point it just gets harder every year.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      It's interesting that you picked 26. A lot of people pick 25, because I guess it's a nice round number. I know this is an estimate, so I'm not expecting you to give me a specific reason for this, but I'm just curious: is there any reason why 26 specifically?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        At 25 you are on the razors edge of late bloomer territory. Possible excuses could be that you wanted to get an advanced degree or you entered the workforce early and wanted to focus on your career or some shit. You are still young enough that you aren't a whole lot of years apart from younger women. If you get your shot together and try you could more likely than not have sex. But after that the chances drop off. You age into the range where people expect you to have your shot together and figured out. You are now getting both too old to fix the gap and it's become apparent that this setback is more than a quirk or random aspect of you and not a reflection of some deeper underlying problem. It is in the end just a number. But look at the statistics and you see the last year before it flat lines.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >90% of responders had sex by 22 years old
          W-when is it 95%? I need to schedule my suicide date.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >tfw 31 is literally empty
          hello pump shotgun my old friend

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Just go fix it anon we believe in you

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I can't fix 5'6 unfortunately and 15 years of inexperience
            I only held a girl's hand back in 2011 IIRC

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >cant fix 5 6
            Yes you can actually
            Wear boots or basketball sneakers for a 1 to 2in lift
            Wear heel inserts for another 1 to 2in
            Wear a hat or beanie for another 1in
            Wear vertical stripes and improve posture which wont increase height but will give the illusion of height
            Now you present as 5 10 to 5 11

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            what a stupid idea, women aren't stupid once you wear off those stupid shoes you'll be dragged down in all of her socials

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            You do you anon but ive never encountered that issue

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Could you try booking an escort or something? You could try just cuddling with her, if sex would be a bit too much.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >>I am a virgin and therefore I am pathetic and worth less than everybody else
      He's literally me, frfr

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Wrong reply [...] Meant for this anon [...]

        But why do you care about what anyone thinks, especially about something so unimportant.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I care about what women as a group think, because it directly impacts my life in a very negative way. Relationships are one of the most important components of attaining emotional fulfillment, and romantic relationships are perhaps the most potent expression of them. A straight man who lacks some specific personality disorders, has emotional needs that cannot be satisfied by other men or friends. If I could throw a switch in my brain and not care, I would. But all I can really do is either to repress my feelings, which is very unhealthy and will come out in other ways, or try my best to live my life with them, however difficult it might be.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not sure what I can tell you other than I suspect we were brought up in different ways and different times. I was going to say now that I have my life in order maybe I don't care because whatever anyone has to say it doesn't actually matter since I'm making money and doing what I want, but even when I wasn't any of those things I still didn't a shit about getting with anyone. So I don't know but I hope you can sort it out one way or the other.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Wrong reply

      >>I am a virgin and therefore I am pathetic and worth less than everybody else
      He's literally me, frfr

      Meant for this anon

      I suspect physiologically I am alright but in all honesty I can't really be arsed to get it checked out or do anything about it because it isn't stopping me from living my life and doing what I want. I will say that being an old man and being here for getting onto about 17 years (what a giant waste of time) has made me realise that there has been a shift from
      >I am a virgin but frick it I don't care
      to
      >I am a virgin and therefore I am pathetic and worth less than everybody else
      Which I swear was never the case before.

  13. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Seems like once you hit your mid 30s, love and romance become secondary priorities. Unless you are totally neet, work, hobbies, education, etc are more interesting than investing time in the dating game.
    Obviously, there is a lot of mental illness at this age too, but generally the average 30-something is set in their ways.

  14. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    whatever age im at the time

  15. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    What is it like for virgins past 25having sex? Is there sexual problems?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >virgins past 25having sex?
      doesnt happen

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I mean youre gonna be bad at it so thats rough, especially considering most women in the same age bracket will have more sexual experience
      Probably just frick a young inexperienced girl and learn naturally the same way everyone else does when theyre 18

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >Probably just frick a young inexperienced girl and learn naturally the same way everyone else does when theyre 18
        The problem is that 18-19 yr old women are literally the most sought after demographic, and at a certain age people will call you a weirdo for dating them.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Alot of dudes arent willing to frick with them because they are scared of social shame
          I say frick it go for it lmao people are gonna talk shit about you regardless for being a virgin

  16. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I go to a psych because I'm unironic bipolar and she's told me that as a 27 (almost 28) year old virgin that my sexual and intimate development is so far behind that it would take decades to reach a "normal" state. I'm unironically so fricking terrified of intimacy, sex, romance, etc. I start shaking any time there's a chance that a girl might want me in any kind of way. She's also aware of my homosexual tendencies and fears that I would likely end up hurt emotionally and physically if I dove into the gay scene. She has heavily encouraged me to stay a virgin and avoid relationships. She also pushes more masturbation, more "self-love", solo sexual exploration, etc. It's a lonely life but I get it. Any time I have even a shot at a relationship I become extremely obsessive and have severe emotional swings.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      how are things with your mom?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        She was always too firm with me. Lots of yelling, very little patience, very little concern for how I felt. It was stockholm-syndrome-esque after I experienced a bounce back when trying to make amends with her. I did everything I thought I was supposed to do and she still just gave me the emotional response equivalent of kicking a can to the curb. That made me realize how little she was interested in treating me like her child, she just wanted me to shut up and sit there. We're fine now, but there's absolutely a distance that I've established.

        >she's told me that as a 27 (almost 28) year old virgin that my sexual and intimate development is so far behind that it would take decades to reach a "normal" state
        Was it only because of being a 27yo virgin, or was it in conjunction with your other issues?

        Maybe both, I don't know. We don't talk about sex much anymore, I've kinda gotten over it. As far as I'm aware, my personal development is so poor that I'm like a child in terms of intimacy and relationships. It's probably not the same situation for all virgins my age or older.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >my personal development is so poor that I'm like a child in terms of intimacy and relationships. It's probably not the same situation for all virgins my age or older.
          I feel for you. I'm also a bit ashamed to admit that I felt a bit relieved, that it might have not been just because of the late-virginity thing. I wish you to overcome those hurdles and to achieve a happy and fulfilling romantic life.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks, I appreciate your time and concern. Unfortunately I now believe that the chances of me hurting someone else, myself, or being hurt by someone else are too great. I can't imagine the harm that could be done if I were dropping in a room alone with someone bigger and stronger than me, or the emotional brain scrambling an experienced manipulative woman could pull off on me. I just have to keep convincing myself that some people are meant to be alone.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >I just have to keep convincing myself that some people are meant to be alone.
            That's very sad 🙁 I hope you're wrong, and that you will make it somehow.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >she's told me that as a 27 (almost 28) year old virgin that my sexual and intimate development is so far behind that it would take decades to reach a "normal" state
      Was it only because of being a 27yo virgin, or was it in conjunction with your other issues?

  17. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I just turned 34 today (could I get a happy birthday?). It's over and I've accepted it.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Happy Birthday! I wish you all the happiness in the world!

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks buddy you too. We're all gonna make it, even if we're alone.

  18. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Has to be after 24, I lost my virginity at 24 to a 17 year old who I'm still banging 3 years later.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Well shit. I'm 24. How did she react to your inexperience?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Hmm, didn't really matter. If you're creative and kinky from a porn addiction, a quick learner, and very motivated, you'll be fine eventually. I'm barely above average in dick size too, but that was enough to stretch her out.

        There was real panic and anxiety the first time we had sex because I was too nervous, but that quickly faded and wasn't an issue after a few times together. It's okay to have a porn addiction but try not to death grip your shit. And if you do, use your lower sensitivity to your advantage. Ultimately though, it's about compatibility, if you're having sex with someone you care about, then it's gonna be fun and intimate regardless.

  19. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 30 khv. Should I just go full send on my tinder bio and say so?

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I would say no but who knows man

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah honestly, I have the self awareness to know it's a bad call. But at the same time I always wonder if I could at least get a pity frick. Whatever, dating apps are garbage and irl options don't exist for me. Maybe one day I'll get the courage to talk to the cute blonde Asian girl who's a regular at my gym.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Pity frick is no good and unlikely anyway
          If youre going to the gym youre on the right track anon

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I started going to the gym last year because I didn't want to turn into a fat frick in my 30s like most guys. Seeing attractive women there just makes me sad though. I try my best not to look. That girl I mentioned before was lifting near me today and it was painfully obvious that I was trying not to look at her.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            If it makes you feel better all those attractive girls are actually somewhere between ugly and mid
            Theyre just wearing makeup

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Honestly it doesn't help me feel better. I'm well adjusted enough and go outside enough that I know what women look like without makeup. It's the lack of companionship and seeing other far less attractive guys get it so much easier.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Whats holding you back then?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            No socially acceptable opportunities to meet them other than dating apps which don't work for me. I don't go to bars and shit, they're not good environments for me.
            >inb4 join hobby groups
            Those don't exist in my area
            >inb4 daygame
            Not chad enough for this. Honestly I've kind of accepted that meeting women isn't really in the cards for me.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

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