> be me. >24 yo virgin

> be me
>24 yo virgin
> meet girl who is actually interesting to me and interested, literally for the first time ever
> she doesnt expect me to buy her stuff, or do anything beyond listening to her and cuddle
> we havent had sex yet, but shes tried to get me to frick her
> she says she likes me a lot and wants to keep me around
> the catch is she isnt interested in monogamy at all and is also fricking other men

Should I stay with her? Ive already caught feelings.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Incels always whine about the wiener carousel yet when it comes their way they pussy out. Why is this?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I dont know, Ive always been like this, nearly had sex a couple of times before I met her and never actually went trough with it.

      A poly girl and a lonely virgin is a bad combo. But I think you should take the chance and lose your v card. Just keep you feelings under control

      I think I unironically love her. I have never felt this way. And Ive kissed before so I dont think its just because shes the first person to be interested in me, because she isnt.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Unless you're a massive cuck, no, you really fricking shouldn't. If she can't even commit to you and you alone that's an obvious red flag.
        Also
        >meet girl who is actually interesting to me and interested, literally for the first time ever

        >I dont think its just because shes the first person to be interested in me, because she isnt.
        homie which is it?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          its that shes the first person thats interested in me that Im also interested in myself. e.g. the first person I kissed was probably into me, but I was just desperate to have any experience with anyone and really hated kissing her, even though she was perfectly normal. but no one Ive ever had a crush on or something like that wanted anything to do with me.
          Im honestly sexually moronic.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe because incels genuinely look down on promiscuity and want a monogamous partner you moronic soi drinking leftist frick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      because they need a monogamous partner you moronic Black person.
      Maybe that is why they hate the prostitutedom of the modern woman. Did you think about it?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stay with her to get sex obviously then she will move along

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A poly girl and a lonely virgin is a bad combo. But I think you should take the chance and lose your v card. Just keep you feelings under control

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Frick her and enjoy it while you can. Matter of time before she gets bored of you. Or you could tell her how you feel and maybe she will stay with you. But do that at least after losing virginity

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    goofy ass homie. in time like this you need to look up to future. just frick her a couple of times n dip.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >she doesnt expect me to buy her stuff, or do anything beyond listening to her and cuddle
    You have to be useful to women. Blackpill, reality of the situation, whatever you wanna call it, that's how relationships work: transactional. If you're not giving her anything, then you're not recognizing what she's taking or planning taking from you.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How did she say this monogamy thing?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The gist is:
      She doesnt want kids, ever. She doesnt want marriage, ever.
      She said not wanting to just have one man, but she said shes not polyamorous? She doesnt want to limit who shes allowed to have sex with.

      >she doesnt expect me to buy her stuff, or do anything beyond listening to her and cuddle
      You have to be useful to women. Blackpill, reality of the situation, whatever you wanna call it, that's how relationships work: transactional. If you're not giving her anything, then you're not recognizing what she's taking or planning taking from you.

      Ive really tried to figure out what she gets out of it and the best I could come up with is that she likes being liked?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm scared anon. I became close with a girl and we've just started to cuddle, when I asked her if she's seeing anyone she said "it's complicated". What if she hits me with "i don't want to be limited to whom I have sex with" as well. My heart would go boom

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Dude I dont even know how I feel, dont ask me for advice

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I guess I'll just have to ask next time before I get too emotionally invested. good luck anon.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >she likes being liked?
        That's called attention, anon. It's very valuable. She uses you for that, you get some attention back, then she sleeps around knowing she won't feel lonely afterwards. You gotta make your attention more valuable to her than hers is to you. Until then, she has control of the relationship and she's gonna use you without even recognizing what she's doing.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Hell no, shes going to drag you through the dirt and tell you youre wrong for being upset

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Absolutely not it never ends well like this
    Plus she's already a prostitute so there's no fixing her
    Plus she even said she wants to keep you around as an emotional tampon + dildo

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No, you pump and dump. This is how you stop being a virgin and how you get experience.
    >Ive already caught feelings.
    Yea, because you're a virgin with exactly zero experience, and therefore any woman who gives you a crumb of interest is suddenly "the one".

    Get it over with and get this virginity-fueled oneitis bullshit out of your system. No self-respecting woman will be with a man who can't get any, and if you don't take the available opportunity now, when you'll find your actual significant other, you'll fumble the bag.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I dont want to dump her.

      >she likes being liked?
      That's called attention, anon. It's very valuable. She uses you for that, you get some attention back, then she sleeps around knowing she won't feel lonely afterwards. You gotta make your attention more valuable to her than hers is to you. Until then, she has control of the relationship and she's gonna use you without even recognizing what she's doing.

      How would i do that?
      This is going to sound stupid but I feel kind of okay with this? Like, I was scared at one point that she was just using me, or that maybe she had a weird cuckoldry fetish and wouldnt actually have sex with me, but it doesnt seem like it?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I dont want to dump her.
        She said she doesn't want to be monogamous. It's not your choice to make.
        So either you hit it and quit it, or you just quit it. Those are your only two options.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >24
    >Virgin

    Sorry anon but it's too late find real love at that age, the train left at 20 and it was already running kind of late. By your age pretty much all women have fricked multiple men already. Once you experience the real 'puppy love' you are aware how the love hormones are affecting you and it doesn't phase you as much anymore, in your case this bad because the women knows what she's feeling and you don't and can you easily manipulate you emotionaly.

    I suggest you keep her as fwb as a practice gf whilst looking for a real one.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What do you mean I dont know what im feeling

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        As a example when you first started drinking a shot or two got you buzzed, over time you gained a tolerance and now it takes 10 and you barely feel 2 shots.

        She has a tolerance to love and you don't, be careful, just like how it's easy to manipulate a drunk the same thing applies to a fool In love.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Is that analogy really accurate?

          > the catch is she isnt interested in monogamy at all and is also fricking other men
          Hot. I would go for it.

          I dont think its hot at all, I just kind of ended up being fine with it for now. She was very open about seeing other people from the start, which I thought was gross, and I assumed we would become exclusive or split.
          Now its kind of. I dont know. I thought shed leave me or choose me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yeah that analogy is kinda accurate because women lose the ability to pair bond the more partners they have. So your puppy love doesn't exist with her. Just frick and dump her, or better yet leave her entirely because she is using you for attention. She gave up her body to others to use as they see fit but only limits you to cuddles, it should tell you something. Sorry to sound rude but at least grow a pair of balls.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She doesnt limit me, she wants sex Im being a pussy. Honestly because I feel like. This is going to sound moronic but I feel like if she took my virginity shed totally own me and Im not sure I want that either.
            It seems like i want contradictory things?

            >oneitis
            its over for you dude. The faster you get over it the better. Just dont frick at all then and cut off contact.

            Okay. Then what? Like I said, this is the first time someone I want has wanted me. Im 24. I dont think it will happen again.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Dude just go for it. You can always break up after the honeymoon period is over and you've cleared your head by having sex.
            Or you can just see this is a practice gf situation.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >the catch is she isnt interested in monogamy at all and is also fricking other men

    It's over moron.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > the catch is she isnt interested in monogamy at all and is also fricking other men
    Hot. I would go for it.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    mess around for a little bit and move on to somebody else or just do the latter without doing the former. Those are your only real options.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I cant imagine wanting anyone else after her.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >oneitis
        its over for you dude. The faster you get over it the better. Just dont frick at all then and cut off contact.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know what to say because I usually get blocked by the opposite sex

    just let her take your virginity, man, she tolerates you and that's all you need.

    with love, from chickn

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    don't do it lil bro

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Coming from someone who was just in more or less this exact situation over the past year (and only just recently got out of it), she will never want to settle down OP. If she's made it clear that she's only down to have an open, casual relationship with you right from the get-go, then that's the type of relationship you're going to get, and if you're not okay with that you'll only end up heartbroken after spending months deluding yourself that she'll ultimately pick you above all her other toys and finally commit to an exclusive relationship. It doesn't matter how much you kiss and cuddle, it doesn't matter how much you have sex, and it doesn't matter how many little romantic couple-type things you do together and get her to reciprocate. She's not yours, it's only your turn. And if you try and force the issue and get her to commit or leave, you'll be in for a rude awakening when she inevitably opts to leave and remain with the other people she's spent the duration of your relationship fricking around with on the side. I'm not saying don't go for it, but if/when you get attached (and it sounds like you already are), it will be absolutely heart-wrenching when you realize it's never going to go the way you fantasized it would in your head.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yes, go ahead and become emotionally dependant on the woman that has other twelve guys between her legs

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like absolute shit
    Im just too much of a pussy

  20. 1 month ago
    S. Nirriti

    OP, its about self respect. Dont do it. Move on. 🙂 Its no big deal being a virgin.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel completely sick

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