>be me. >fat fetishist. >be into feederism as well. >find fat women incredibly attractive

>be me
>fat fetishist
>be into feederism as well
>find fat women incredibly attractive
>be completely aware of how unhealthy and disgusting my fetish is
>hate the fat acceptance movement despite being a fetishist
>feel like shit because of this
>want fat girlfriend
>never find her
>incredibly embarrassed and disgusted
>tell my friend about this shit
>he tells me to quit porn
>try that
>fail
>still a fat fetishist
>still find fat women attractive

Is it over? I’m a fat fetishist and I find fat women attractive. I’ve been like this for as long as I can remember. I’ve always been attracted to fat girls. Yeah I know it’s unhealthy disgusting and I shouldn’t find obesity sexy. However I just find fat women attractive for some reason. I don’t know, I find a big belly really fricking hot for some reason. My ideal is woman is probably around like, 230 lbs. which I know sounds gross, and that’s because it is. I’m also into feederism as well, which is even worse. I know that not only is obesity bad, but luring someone into obesity is probably even worse. Nonetheless I still find it hot.

I’m fully aware of how disgusting my fetish is. I hate the fact that I’m like this. I hate the fact that my brain is hardwired on this Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World fat big belly bullshit. I fricking hate the fat acceptance movement and I’m fully aware of how unhealthy it is to be fat. I still find thin women somewhat attractive but they don’t turn me on nearly as much as fat women do. I tried asking my friend for help, he was very supportive but he did tell me my fetish was gross, which I agree with. I’ve tried quitting BBW porn but I couldn’t. I guess my brain is just hard wired this way.

I’ve tried looking for a fat girlfriend, I’ve never found her. Ironic since the issue most dudes have is trying to find a girl who ISN’T fat.

What do I do? Is it over?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    id recommend pretending to be depressed to a psychiatrist and getting on some sorta SSRI thatd make quiting porn way easier

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You hit the jackpot of fetishes and yet you still find a way to be a crying homosexual. Shut the frick up and enjoy life b***h

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bro how is this the jackpot of fetishes? I get a boner for obesity and clogged arteries.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hot

        • 3 weeks ago
          OP

          Mfw a bbw sits on me puts her fat jiggly belly on my face while I grab her gigantic fat ass (This shit is disgusting).

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it over? I’m a fat fetishist and I find fat women attractive.
    I don't share your fetish but I don't see a problem. Whatever floats your boat.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    unironically find a mommy gf that homecooks a lot

    DO NOT find a bbw gf that bed rots all day and spends all day on instagram(impossible btw)

    >t. a fat fetishoid who did date the bed rotting bbw

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also if you actually want to drop it as a fetish, stop being curious about feederism. You can jerk off to it, you just gotta stop fantasizing about what isn’t real or in your life

      • 3 weeks ago
        OP

        Is that still bad? I mean, I’ve tried to suppress this shit in my head but honestly it stays persistent. Ether way I’m still jerking off to obesity.

    • 3 weeks ago
      OP

      I know. That’s why I’m afraid of my own fetish. This shit is obviously unhealthy. However I still get a boner for fat women. I hate the fat acceptance movement because they deny the obvious fact that obesity is bad. However I still jerk off to jiggling bellies or whatever the frick. The reason I’m stressed and sperging out about this is because my gf being a blob who lays in bed all day is obviously unhealthy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      OP

      Honestly I get the appeal on the typical tradwife, but honestly what you’re describing isn’t really what I’m into. In all honesty I want to feed her, so I can make her fatter. That the feederism fetish. Obviously I would only do this consentingly. But nonetheless I still want to make her unhealthy so she can get bigger. Obviously there in lies the problem, my fetish is actively unhealthy.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    fetch me my genetics honey

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Being a fat gay is a pretty tame fetish compared to something like...furry scat porn or wiener vore or something kek. Chill out man. I'm into fat girls too, I've been into fat girls ever since I was 9 (21 currently). Just don't make it your entire personality. You know the risks of having an overweight partner so you should understand that at some point the girl will exercise and lose weight (because it is uncomfortable being fat) so you should support her decision.

    • 3 weeks ago
      OP

      I know, perhaps I’m overreacting. I know it’s a relatively tame fetish compared to other nastier shit. However I still find obesity sexy, which I think is an issue. The thing about feederism is that it’s unhealthy. I think there’s a point where fatness stops being sexy, around 360 lbs usually but there are exceptions. The issue with feederism is that if I find a fat girl I’m gonna be getting sexual gratification from her arteries clogging up. I’m still coping and seething over my love of fat b***hes with big jiggly bellies.

      I know i shouldn’t make it my personality, and i don’t. I don’t really talk about it with anyone. I came to NSFFW anonymously so that I could say this shit without it getting traced back to me. Honestly anyone who makes sexual fetishes into a personality is a loser lmao.

      However I guess it’s nice to come across another dude who shares my taste for fat women. Even if I think my own fetish is gross (the fat acceptance movement is still cringe).

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My wife is def bigger. She’s lost 30 lbs so far and it makes me sad 🙁

        Anyway, I hate fat people who don’t own up to their fatness or try to say it’s healthy and she knows this. She knows I love bigger women but knows I hate fat people idk it’s weird. She was on the “nobody can help it” side until I forced her to see the TRUTH.

        • 3 weeks ago
          OP

          I agree with you man. I’d want to have a fat girlfriend but there in lies the problem. Being fat is obviously unhealthy. Fat women are hot to me, and I’d like to participate in feederism with some girl but I don’t want to partake in a fetish that is actively bad for you. That’s why I hate the fat acceptance movement despite being a fetishist. They deny that being fat is bad for you despite the fact that it obviously is.

          Overall, I don’t know if there’s a way to purify my mind. I guess I just like this.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel the exact same way but i’m a cis woman and underweight myself. It’s ridiculous cause I don’t even consider myself to be ghey

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So would you like it if your boyfriend purposely made you gain weight? Do you want to be fat?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I’d hate it and would rather die than get fat or attract fat fetishists cause I know how gross it is. I’ve never been with a guy but I really want to cause I hope that’d help me get over this shit lol I’ve been stuck with this fetish since I was like 14

        • 3 weeks ago
          OP

          So you kind of get what I’m saying? Fat women are hot but they’re still unhealthy.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah but that’s not the main issue for me— I think it’s very embarrassing to be into fat women in general but even moreso cause i’m a woman myself. And like op said I feel like my brain is hard wired to be into fat women. If even just see one at the gym or stand near one on the bus i’ll start getting horny like crazy. I wish I could have normal heterosexual sex maybe that’d cure me

          • 3 weeks ago
            OP

            Yeah bro, I think you’re a lesbian fat fetishist. I get what you mean. I’ve tried to suppress my fetish, however it doesn’t work. I think both of us are just gonna get horny for fat women ether way. I get what you mean, it feels embarrassing to be into the body type most people consider gross or cringe. I get how you feel about this shit.

            (Btw I am the OP, that’s why I changed my username)

          • 3 weeks ago
            OP

            Honestly bro, I think we might just be hardwired this way. Ether way, you’re gay and you’re a fat fetishist. Heterosexual sex with a thin dude probably won’t change the fact that you find obese women sexy.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m not much into thin guys. I was thinking if I had normal sex with a burly-ish man I could maybe move the fat fetishism onto him which would at least be more socially acceptable

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m not much into thin guys. I was thinking if I had normal sex with a burly-ish man I could maybe move the fat fetishism onto him which would at least be more socially acceptable

            Hate to break it to you but you’re definitely a lesbian. Maybe bi but from what you’re saying I honestly doubt it. Straight people just don’t think this way. There’s genuinely nothing wrong with it. The sooner you learn to accept it the happier you’ll be. Do you live in a western country? Or somewhere that it’s really looked down on?

            As far as the fat fetish, yeah that shit is hardwired. This part goes for OP too. I’m the same way. I think ultimately you just have to compromise, it really isn’t THAT bad, in the scheme of things. If you want to go for one night stands then just go for the fattest girls you can find and have a great time. But for a relationship it’s going to be all about compromise, instead of finding a thin girl and feeding her into obesity, find a nice chubby girl and just feed her into regular fatness. Obviously the “healthy at any size” people are moronic but you don’t need to actually be skinny to be healthy. She doesn’t need to be an athlete or a fashion model or some shit, just not so fat and so sedentary that it actually becomes a problem. If you’re eating a reasonable diet and exercising (very important) you can be fairly overweight, more than you’d probably guess, and not have any health consequences. A girl could be nearly 200 pounds but if she’s actually got muscle under the fat and keeps up with some basic cardio she’ll be perfectly healthy until well into old age.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I know i’m bi (although I don’t really like labels) but fat women and the whole shebang gets me off like nothing else that I barely ever think of men when i’m jerking off. I’m afraid of actually seeking out a fat girl for sex cause I know the post nut clarity would be brutal. It’s all very frustrating cause what I want when i’m not thinking with my clit is to get in a relationship that’s not based on some degen fetish and most preferably with a man. I do live in a western country but my family is pretty conservative so there’s that

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Are you sure you’re actually attracted to men? Or do you just feel bad for not being attracted to them? It’s true, though, that I don’t know you and this is just the vibe I’m getting from your posts. I’m just saying be open to the possibility.

            Anyway, I’d suggest you don’t entirely let it go unexplored. Not that you should be going out looking for grotesque 400 lb landwhales but part of why the fetish is so compelling, imo, is the lack of reality to connect it to. If you know what it feels like to be with just a chubby girl, or a regular fat girl, maybe you can scale back the desire a little. Idk if this really makes sense but it (sort of) works for me, the fetish is never going to go away but you can at least keep yourself grounded, if that makes sense.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            *It’s about compromising between the unrealistic desires and the elements of them that can and do exist in reality.

            Lost my last sentence.

          • 3 weeks ago
            OP

            That seems reasonable, I get that. Ideally I’d want a big girl with a big belly, but there are definitely some land whales out there who aren’t hot. Most fat women past 450 lbs aren’t hot (with some exceptions). I’ve had fantasies about gigantically fat women, like as in 600 lbs or 700 lbs fantasies, but it never goes further than porn or my own imagination. I have no intention of finding a woman who literally can’t get out of bed (as hot as that sounds). Not only is that obviously not sustainable, but most women irl at that weight aren’t that hot. But yeah I’d probably want to find a girl with a big gut rather than someone who has trouble fitting through doors (although ngl a girl who can’t fit their gigantic fat ass through a door sounds really hot). But yeah realistically I should probably focus on just a moderately big belly. What would you say is the ideal weight? I said that it was 230 lbs, but I’d like to hear your opinion.

          • 3 weeks ago
            OP

            Of course I don’t know if you’re also a fat fetishist of course, but for the case of the bi fat fetishist woman and myself.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Have you tried schlicking it to fat men?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah, I like the idea of feeding a fit guy until he’s fat and I think big guts look sexy on men. My mind gets side tracked and goes back to fat b##### more often than not though 🙁

          • 3 weeks ago
            OP

            Honestly I think I have similar fantasies to you. Ideally I’d want to find a thin girl who’s into feederism, then feed her until she gets fat. Only consensually of course, I wouldn’t feed her without her knowledge. 230 lbs is probably the most attractive weight to me. Like what you said, there’s something inherently more attractive about a big gut on a woman to me. (Also fat women have bigger breasts and bigger ass).

            Also yeah, I think you’re probably just bi. You don’t have to repress that shit. If you wanna frick fat b***hes or fat dudes go ahead.

            Personally my whole issue with fat fetishism and all that shit is because it’s unhealthy. The core of the problem is shit like clogged arteries and diabetes.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My gf got fat during the lockdown and never changed.

    Its hard because despite being repulsed at times, I cannot under any circumstance abandon her over conditionals. That would make me a monster and very alone.

    • 3 weeks ago
      OP

      You’re living the dream bud, fat women are hot.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Probably not fat enough if its a fetish thing. I'm talking more than 1 chin but could still ride the chuckee cheese clock. Among other things.

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