Been using this girl for sex and she keeps on freaking out that I'm sleeping with "5 girls a week".

Been using this girl for sex and she keeps on freaking out that I'm sleeping with "5 girls a week". I keep telling her no I'm not, I don't have the time and energy but I'm also telling her that I'm not obligated to sleep with her exclusively (which I would think should excuse me from her freaking out on me every other time I see her). She's also mad that I only call her like once a month (I'm genuinely busy with school) and I prefer staying in with beer and pizza to going out.

I feel like a piece of shit but I don't find her company intrinsically rewarding, I just like the sex. I'm trying to tell her to leave me if it's too painful but she keeps apologizing after every time she freaks out
What do?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    expect her to stalk your life, there are risks to these kinds of relationships. GL anon, dont piss her off.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Man the frick up and do what you feel is right for you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      When I'm experiencing the misery of life, nice and simple sex seems to be what is right for me
      When she's having a psychotic episode at me then I'm not so sure

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's almost as if many choices in life are not black and white.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >When I'm enjoying the misery of life
        Corrected it for you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      blessed digits wtf

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds cold but try to find another frickbuddy who is actually cool with that arrangement and as soon as that pussy is secured, cut contact with the current one. Block her on all socials, block her number, change your locks if you need to. She'll get the hint eventually.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She's also mad that I only call her like once a month
    She is mad about this part, but
    >she keeps on freaking out that I'm sleeping with "5 girls a week"
    She's not really mad about this part, it's just the least painful rationalization for why you won't see her more often. I would just not deny it so hard in the future and give her a chance to frick the life out of you a bit more often so you won't have as much energy for the other girls.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you enjoy the sex why are you only fricking her once a month? You should frick her twice a week at least. She wants a relationship with you but you're stringing her along. Congrats on the larp ig

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I jack off and fantasize about younger female acquaintances from my daily life a lot

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Also pussy from a girl who watches anime >

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      OP is a manprostitute, but she's terminally moronic if she's trying to find a relationship by whoring herself out.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >. I'm trying to tell her to leave me if it's too painful
    dont behave this way towards women. you already know the way you're treating her is cruel. Stop

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why is it cruel? Everyone just expects me to understand things without explaining

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Why is it cruel?
        Because you only treat her the way you do because you know she's too emotionally weak and vulnerable to properly protest. You know this arrangement hurts her feelings. You know your lack of communication hurts her feelings. You know that she feels intensely more seriously about you than you do about her. You know that if you told her the truth - that you don't find her company rewarding and only like her for sex she would be crushed. You also know that she feels some sort of connection to you where she endures the pain of the way you treat her just so she can see you again.

        >Everyone just expects me to understand things without explaining
        You sound young. Its pretty apparent this girl is kind of broken and lost and needy and you're taking advantage of that for sex. Anon was right. You have to stop. Its cruel what you're doing.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She is pretty much begging me to spend time with her, I don't even know what I'd say. I only ever feel like I have a fair excuse to leave her when she freaks out but then there's always tears so I get the urge to make ammends

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >She is pretty much begging me to spend time with her, I don't even know what I'd say.
            She's begging to spend time with you because she really likes you and you don't feel the same way about her. You don't tell her the truth because if you did she would stop giving you sex. She sticks around and endures the pain because she thinks she has a chance with you and, from what it sounds like, you maybe let her think she has a chance with you so that she'll keep coming back. This is called using another person, anon, and not in a moral way. You need to break it off with this girl. What you're doing is cruel.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What am I supposed to tell her

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The truth. Tell her that you're only interested in the sex, that you don't spend time with her because you're busy and don't really enjoy her company. Stop taking advantage of her weaknesses to get what you want, OP. You know she's not capable of engaging in this relationship in a healthy way. What she's going through with you is hurting her. You can see that. Its not fair to her. Its cruel. Stop doing

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I keep outright telling her that she doesn't like the stuff that I find fun and relaxing. I keep telling her that I don't pursue relationships. I feel like I'm giving her every chance to stand up for her wants and needs but she only does it with rage followed by tearful apology. She made me cry the other day, I said I don't want to hurt her, she deserves better, I'm a bad man

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >feel like I'm giving her every chance to stand up for her wants
      cmon man dont put her in the position where she has to "stand up" to you. if you know what youre doing is bad then end it. literally any reason you tell her is better than stringing her along like this but best if you dont give a real reason if you cant do that decently. just
      "its not working out im sorry" as politely as you can

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to cave
    I know I will

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm trying to tell her to leave me if it's too painful but she keeps apologizing after every time she freaks out
    Dude you are just causing even more mental trauma this way, please take a clear cut stance and stop fricking with her mind.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >feel like I'm giving her every chance to stand up for her wants
      cmon man dont put her in the position where she has to "stand up" to you. if you know what youre doing is bad then end it. literally any reason you tell her is better than stringing her along like this but best if you dont give a real reason if you cant do that decently. just
      "its not working out im sorry" as politely as you can

      Women aren't expected to do anything holy fricking shit. This shit is the reason I watch hentai

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Dude I don't even expect people to tie their shoelaces right, men or women. I am saying this because I have mentally ill women in my own life who'd get fricked up really badly by this kind of situation. Believe it or not, lots of folks are crazy and have fragile psyches.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The replies in this thread would be quite different if it was OP in her position.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I feel like a piece of shit
    You're Chad, anon. You're merely enjoying your birthright

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women are weird. You frick them a couple of times and they somehow get the idea you like them.

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