Bfs family hates me, How can we fill the void?

>Be me 19F moved 1000 miles to be with bf
>We met on a video game & EVERYTHING is perfect except
>His family doesn't like me, Doesn't include me nor invites us to things
>His female cousins won't talk to me, even when i reach out and try being friendly they ignore me, & they ignore my existence when im in the room
>Have a feeling his mom is behind it because she always has some sort of emergency on my bdays and special occasions like valentines & always demands my bf to ditch me , Oh & this happens every year. Like clockwork if my boyfriend doesn't ditch me she finds a way to argue with him & ruins his mood for that day. ://

i guess the advice i'm looking for is how can i fill this void, My family is so far away & it's clear his will never be mine.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're 19 but you've spent multiple years living with your boyfriend? That doesn't add up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>Be me 19F moved 1000 miles to be with bf
      This was meant to be taken as past tense, As in i was 19 when i moved here.

      You will never be a woman. Also weak larp, you need to work on your continuity.

      Not a larp, looking for genuine advice.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >doesn't deny being a troony
        thanks for confirming why his family doesn't like you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know what's up with NSFFWs obsession with troonys. It's clear you got cat fished to many times by a trans. Stop projecting.

          Gender doesn't even have anything to do here with this post. I'll be sure to post from a guys perspective next time so i can get REAL advice.

          Nor did i confirm , you're just ignorant.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Gender doesn't even have anything to do here with this post.
            >continues to avoid a *straight* answer
            Oh geez golly, it could really be anything.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i know you're brain dead but rub your last 2 braincells together to try to read "female" in my post.

            We all know you got catfish by a troony now go cope with it somewhere else & stop projecting.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            "female"
            Most of the world hates trannies, despite what social media propaganda would lead you to believe simple as that

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >This was meant to be taken as past tense, As in i was 19 when i moved here.
        In that case I would recommend trying to stabilise your financial situation so you two can start an independent life together in a way that extended family will not bother you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's not a financial problem, I just have no friends or family here & it sucks. I want to have a meaningful life with family and friends. The first few years i didn't really care, but now I'm starting to.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then I would say, try to make some friends there.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i simply do not believe you

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You will never be a woman. Also weak larp, you need to work on your continuity.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me 19F moved 1000 miles to be with bf
    >We met on a video game & EVERYTHING is perfect except
    >His family doesn't like me, Doesn't include me nor invites us to things
    >His female cousins won't talk to me, even when i reach out and try being friendly they ignore me, & they ignore my existence when im in the room
    >Have a feeling his mom is behind it because she always has some sort of emergency on my bdays and special occasions like valentines & always demands my bf to ditch me , Oh & this happens every year. Like clockwork if my boyfriend doesn't ditch me she finds a way to argue with him & ruins his mood for that day. ://

    i guess the advice i'm looking for is how can i fill this void, My family is so far away & it's clear his will never be mine.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't see it as a void. You are in a relationship with him, not his family. Making some friends of your own in the area isn't a bad idea if you're a social person (and it seems that way, otherwise you wouldn't be bothered).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I always gotten along so well with guys but now that i'm in a relationship i cant , I'm just realizing how stuck up girls really are, especially when they already have their friends they aren't even open to the idea of making new ones.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Does your boyfriend have a friends circle? Maybe you could ask him to let you tag along when he's hanging out with them.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          He did have a friend group that we would hangout with until they started going down a bad path.. Drugs etc.. We just grew apart from them & others moved away.

          "female"
          Most of the world hates trannies, despite what social media propaganda would lead you to believe simple as that

          >Most of the world hates trannies, despite what social media propaganda would lead you to believe simple as that
          Didn't ask bro, I just don't understand what the obsession is with them? you take it to a new level. Every time i post here for advice, i get some guy on my post obsessing over troonys.. When it has literally nothing to do with the topic at hand. I am a biological woman so it's obvious its a YOU problem. I simply don't think of transgenders at all, In fact It doesn't cross my mind even ONCE a month. I wish i had that much time on my hands.

          I will say it again though, Even if i was Trans / female / male it really has little to do with my questions I'm asking here. You're entitled to your own opinions & i can respect it but focus on the issue at hand if your peanut brain can even handle that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            For friends, look for local interest groups in your area. Do a search for <thing I want to do>, <place I live> or go to related locations that might have a bulletboard for groups to advertise.
            As for his family, you're kinda fricked unless they come around.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It´s because ywnbaw

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    probably because they know he can do better

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Both of you should cut them out of your lives. They need him more than he needs them, and they will come around.

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