Boyfriend JUST dumped me because apparently talk too much about work

My boyfriend of 3 years just fricking dumped me because all I do is “complain” about work.

Every time I ask him how his day was, he just says “meh it’s fine, not bad, how are you”. Then I tell him about my day and he cuts me off because I give him “too many details” and he doesn’t care that my boss is a b***h. I had a big deadline this week and I’m the type of person who needs to talk and vent things out with someone else and he was supposed to support me as my boyfriend but he just doesn’t fricking listen and says “wait what happened again” in the middle of me talking. I had a big report due this morning and I was freaking out so I called him when I woke up and he just said “what the frick you didn’t even say good morning and I’m still in bed, lose my number you crazy b***h” and he hasn’t returned any of my calls or texts. I’ve been freaking out and I’m so stressed with work and I just don’t know what to do is it really over???

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >my boss is a b***h. I had a big deadline this week
    >I had a big report due this morning and I was freaking out
    I'm sick of it already.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      same, also youre venting not having a conversation, dont expect him to rememeber half of what you said

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Agree. The last thing I want to talk about with friends or family is work. The point of other people is relaxation if they start talking about work regularly then I'm out. You're in the wrong OP, humble yourself.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't blame him, you sound like a whiny b***h.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Everyone on NSFFW is male. There are zero women here. Anyone who claims to be female here is larping.

    A spouse is not a therapist. A spouse should listen, but everyone has limits and it's the responsibility of each spouse to know the others limit. If you overstep those limits too regularly, you shouldn't be surprised when your lover shows you the door.

    This advice applies as much to your homosexual relationship as it does to normal relationships

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/srQu6o1.jpg

      My boyfriend of 3 years just fricking dumped me because all I do is “complain” about work.

      Every time I ask him how his day was, he just says “meh it’s fine, not bad, how are you”. Then I tell him about my day and he cuts me off because I give him “too many details” and he doesn’t care that my boss is a b***h. I had a big deadline this week and I’m the type of person who needs to talk and vent things out with someone else and he was supposed to support me as my boyfriend but he just doesn’t fricking listen and says “wait what happened again” in the middle of me talking. I had a big report due this morning and I was freaking out so I called him when I woke up and he just said “what the frick you didn’t even say good morning and I’m still in bed, lose my number you crazy b***h” and he hasn’t returned any of my calls or texts. I’ve been freaking out and I’m so stressed with work and I just don’t know what to do is it really over???

      Yes.
      Frick off, "woman" haha

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like you two just aren’t compatible. He also sounds like a little b***h so maybe just block him and move on. Hope things get better for u OP

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you sound exactly like my mom. find some other stress outlet that isnt ruining people's days with your shit. you can complain but not fricking every day for a million hours. holy shit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry anon hang in there but damnit I Lol'd I just felt that man

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Smile more and be pleasant to be around. Save your best "face" for your boyfriend. Not tryna sound sexist, I'd give the same advice if the genders were reversed. Too many folks these days, they just act nice to be fake and impress acquaintances and people at work, and they don't value showing warmth and pleasantness to their family and loved ones, the people who actually matter.
    It means a lot to a man when they have a woman who fawns on them and serves as a positive muse in their life. Inject light feminine beauty into their life instead of Lois from Malcom in the Middle nagging.
    Instead of calling htem on the phone so you can unload negativity on them, what if you called them to say something nice and raise their spirits instead.
    Get your negative energy out by taking up kickboxing or something.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Damn good post brother

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What have you supported him with that would warrant this "he's supposed to listen to me moaning about everything that happens in my life"?
    I get stressed about work too, I vent sometimes, but what the frick are people gonna do about it? Oh here let me fricking do your job for you. Do you want that? Do you want him to frick your boss? What do you want woman?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like way too much yappin without any of the spicy gossip that should come with it to break your whining into bearable segments.
    I vent to my gf and my gf vents to me about work/friends/people/the world, but we do it in such a way that in the middle of the discussion we begin gossipping and making fun of other people and then we go back to venting. That way everyone is happy.

    If a dude left you because you're yapping too much, you've been up in that guy's ear most likely for most of his time off work AND you didn't suck his dick often enough.
    >b-b-but that objectifying
    Yeah, don't care. If you don't suck a dude's dick often enough, he won't tolerate your yappin.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Probably larp
    If not, then you have no support system and worry too much.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's an American thing. Like 20 years ago, I worked for a guy who told me only two people only actually told him how we felt when he asked how we were - me and my friend; everyone else just said "fine", like they were supposed to.
    I grew up cultured by the internet, a lot of international people who said what they thought, and it shaped me differently.

    Anyway, it sounds like he's frustrated with a lot of things and feels like he doesn't have the bandwidth to be your therapist, too. You probably didn't see it coming because he doesn't tell you how he actually feels, which is pretty normal. Give him space. It may take a month or three, but he'll let you know when he's out of it.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop complaining

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    His mistake is asking how your day went in the first place. I hope you make it worth his while to hear your complaining.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >millions of lonely betabux who would listen for days
    >nah I'll have Chad, he doesn't listen and dumps me over nothing but he's Chad

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you sure he's your boyfriend? "what the frick you didn’t even say good morning and I’m still in bed, lose my number you crazy b***h” doesn't sound like something a boyfriend would say. If he is, you should confront him on his disrespect

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Boyfriend JUST dumped me

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I literally feel tired just reading your post. I can't imagine having to listen to you talk about "some big report" for 3 years straight. I'd have dumped your ass after about 3 days unless you were smoking hot. In which case I'd dump you after about 3 weeks of pumping you.

    It was a mistake to structure first world Western economies over the idea of a two person income household. It should have remained in an economic state such that a man working a single job could earn enough money to buy a house, and fully support his wife and children. Women in first world countries have never been unhappier, and it's literally just because they have to work. Men literally get fired up to get up and go earn some fricking money, men are willing to put in long hours and work extra days just because the prospect of more money is highly motivating, so motivating that the stress and hardships of the workplace feel asinine and inconsequential compared to the enormous payoff of financial reward. Women simply are not, never have been, and never will be wired to think like this.

    Women are only happy when they're at home doing things like tending to the children and cleaning the house. You have some incredibly boring sounding job and you're "stressed out and need to vent" about it constantly. You shouldn't be working. You should be with a strong, intelligent high earning man who will take care of all your financial needs in exchange for you caring for his sexual needs and tending to your children and household together. This is the only scenario in which you will ever feel happy as a woman. You can deny it all you want, this is exactly what you want. I know women who have studied for years to become medical surgeons, and they will confess that all they really want is a man to take care of them and that they hate their job. Even when it's a relatively stress free job that pays very high salaries, women are still unhappy.

    tl;dr women shouldn't work.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also to add to this, I love this trend of women flagrantly posting their L's online, expecting to be comforted and inundated with reassurance that everything's ok. Not realizing on the internet, no one can see your breasts and will just make fun of you for being a stupid b***h.

      I remember my dad sat me down one time, when I was like 13 years old, and just calmly explained to me that no one would ever give a shit about my hardships. And that if I tried to garner sympathy from people, they'd just laugh at me.

      He clearly explained to me the enormous difference between a woman discussing their hardships in life vs a man's. He explained how if a woman talked about a man cheating on her, other women would comfort him and offer her reassurances. They would tell her how the guy was a loser, if there was a man around he might offer to take her out on a date. A woman complaining about her losses in real life is offered comfort and support.

      In comparison, if some guy walked into a bar all depressed and explained how his woman was cheating on him, everybody would point at him and laugh and tell him what a fricking loser he was. There would be no women offering to date him, women would probably be laughing at him too and thinking he was a loser for being cheated on in the first place. There would simply be a room of men and women, both mocking the man's failures, encouraging him to go kill himself or something, and women asking if he has a small dick or something. There would be no comfort. Only more pain.

      I'm incredibly grateful to my father for teaching me this lesson. It made me realize how fundamentally different men and women are treated in life. So OP, my advice to you is to remember that, on the internet, since no one has a chance to frick you, you may as well just be a man. And thus you will be treated like a man.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Damn daddy hurt you bad

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The thing was as a child, I thought my father's perspective was too harsh. Like he was just some jaded old man. As an adult I realized he was completely right about everything. There might be some cases where people will think a woman was in the wrong or a man was in the right, but in general men are mocked for being cheated on and women are offered comfort and support.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Like, quick question... why don't we change that?
        What is the reason?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      NTA/Not OP
      >I'd have dumped your ass after about 3 days
      bold claim from an incel
      >It was a mistake to structure first world Western economies over the idea of a two person income household.
      way to reveal you're single and underemployed, champ.
      >It should have remained in an economic state such that a man working a single job could earn enough money to buy a house, and fully support his wife and children
      As of 2023 in the USA 35% of all married women with children 18 years old or younger still at home are stay at home mothers, meaning that RIGHT NOW more than 1:3 families with kids is doing what you described, as percentage as high as 1972 in the thirds season of the Brady Bunch

      Also to add to this, I love this trend of women flagrantly posting their L's online, expecting to be comforted and inundated with reassurance that everything's ok. Not realizing on the internet, no one can see your breasts and will just make fun of you for being a stupid b***h.

      I remember my dad sat me down one time, when I was like 13 years old, and just calmly explained to me that no one would ever give a shit about my hardships. And that if I tried to garner sympathy from people, they'd just laugh at me.

      He clearly explained to me the enormous difference between a woman discussing their hardships in life vs a man's. He explained how if a woman talked about a man cheating on her, other women would comfort him and offer her reassurances. They would tell her how the guy was a loser, if there was a man around he might offer to take her out on a date. A woman complaining about her losses in real life is offered comfort and support.

      In comparison, if some guy walked into a bar all depressed and explained how his woman was cheating on him, everybody would point at him and laugh and tell him what a fricking loser he was. There would be no women offering to date him, women would probably be laughing at him too and thinking he was a loser for being cheated on in the first place. There would simply be a room of men and women, both mocking the man's failures, encouraging him to go kill himself or something, and women asking if he has a small dick or something. There would be no comfort. Only more pain.

      I'm incredibly grateful to my father for teaching me this lesson. It made me realize how fundamentally different men and women are treated in life. So OP, my advice to you is to remember that, on the internet, since no one has a chance to frick you, you may as well just be a man. And thus you will be treated like a man.

      >I remember my dad sat me down one time, when I was like 13 years old, and just calmly explained to me that no one would ever give a shit about my hardships. And that if I tried to garner sympathy from people, they'd just laugh at me.
      You dad was a frickin' loser and raised you to be one one like him
      > if some guy walked into a bar all depressed and explained how his woman was cheating on him, everybody would point at him and laugh and tell him what a fricking loser he was.
      Your dad was a bullied, friendless loser

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I have a wife and probably make more money than you. Also I'm not sure where you got that statistic but from what I can tell the amount of stay at home parents has increased in the US, but it's not as high as it used to be. Something like 25% of women and 20% of men. Suffice to say, the majority of households involve working women. And most women aren't that happy working.

        I don't know man, my dad did very well for himself and lives a pretty happy peaceful life in retirement. He had 5 children who all love him. If he had one flaw in life it's that he philandered too much, I think I had about 15 different stepmoms growing up and the main reason my mom left him is because he was fricking too many women on the side. Dude just had a lethal case of realness. Though he has admitted he wishes he didn't frick around so much when he was younger.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like he was a total butthole.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    breasts or gtfo
    ywnbaw
    tldr
    fpbp
    op btfo
    based
    cringe
    /thread

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >My now ex was exhausted because I use him as an emotional crutch for work.
    FTFY
    3 years, eh?

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do women have to nag so much? It's usually the same damn thing repeated 500 times.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't believe you're a woman, but I'll still respond as if you were one.

    My ex was like that. She couldn't remember 2 fricking things I said, and I remembered everything. Mainly because she kept talking about the same shit. She was inconsiderate like it sounds like you are. I did a lot of pretending to care, because that is true caring; when it doesn't come easy. It's easy to give a shit about what someone has to say when you are actually interested. But asking follow up questions, and being consoling when you wish you could play some video games is irritating beyond belief.

    Anyway, the only advice I have is reevaluate how much you are actually a considerate person and a listener in a relationship. A man can put up with your stuff if he feels you truly cares about his. Understand when it's a good time to vent. It's generally best to let someone pull your troubles out of you instead of just dropping it on them. If he cares, he'll want you to vent. Maybe he was a piece of shit, I don't know. But we can always be better listeners.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm exhausted just from reading this, imagine 3 years of it

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Good riddance. Your bf is an butthole, but you are also insufferable. You’re a woman so it won’t be hard for you to find a simp who’ll be happy to be your emotional tampon.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Did you do that female thing where you wanted to talk about your problems but aren't interested in any of his solutions? Because guys fricking hate that shit. If you're bringing up a problem with no intent to find a solution, then you are just b***hing. Men are problem solvers, so if you give us a problem but then actively prevent us from fixing it, it's almost like a form of emasculation. It's OK to vent every now and then, because we like to vent as well, but just make it clear next time. Literally just say "Look I'm gonns vent for a bit is that ok?". Men like precise info and requests. Wr can't read your mind.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It does not sound like it is you complaining about work. My ex complained about work all the time. Perfectly fine with me. I think he is just using that as an excuse. But I think you are pointing out some behavior you can change as well. Don't only complain and keep a stressful mood in the conversation. Try to learn how to recover and make the conversation light again. Couples who can talk about things that make them upset and then are able to recover and feel happy emotions do a lot better. It would b a really great idea if you said, "good morning babe, how are you? That's good, I hope that works out for you. Oh ya work is still stressing me out. Do you mind if I talk about it? It is really on my mind and I need to process." Something like that. And when you are done venting, (keep venting as short as possible) do something you know the both of you will enjoy.

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