Bro, I don't want to make it to 23 as a virgin. It's fucking weird.

Bro, I don't want to make it to 23 as a virgin. It's fricking weird. Even though I understand it's not that rare in here, I'M IN MY FRICKING 20s!! I am adult, I should be living and experiencing stuff.
The longer I go without it happening, the weirder it gets.

Frick, I really don't want this to be all there is. But the worst part is that I see no prospects of it changing in the near future. Fricking 23 and a loser virgin. What the frick.
I don't want it to be with just anyone or to lose it just for the sake of it. In that sense, I'm not desperate or in a rush, but I am very frustrated.
Something has to change. There has to be something. Even an ldr would be enough. But just... something.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It wont be special anyway so just pay a prostitute already. It worked for me

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nah, I don't want to do that. I am not desperate for sex itself, just frustrated and looking back on my current situation.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    23 is the tail-end where you're still obsessed with losing your v-card or wanting to get in a relationship. by 25 you'll come to accept it and start finding peace. you need to die on the inside more.
    >t. soon to be 27 year old virgin

    I don't want anything to do with people now, it's helped me focus on other things. Though my empathy is out the window. You need to embrace the negativity and let it guide you. Or you can keep crying about it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >23 is the tail-end where you're still obsessed with losing your v-card or wanting to get in a relationship. by 25 you'll come to accept it and start finding peace
      Robots under 23 won't believe it, but this is 100% true. You literally just stop caring. maybe it's cause you get set in your ways at a certain age, but you really just don't care anymore. The only time you even feel awkward about it is if you're somehow brought into a conversation about sex experiences.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 26 and killing myself within the month, I literally can't think about anything else but how jealous and hateful I am towards women and men attractive enough for relationships

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Then you're moronic and a drama queen.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's not that weird to be 23 and a virgin. you are actually in the majority for zoomers.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Gaslighting piece of shit. Frick off.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it's true. i am a virgin as well though i am 2 years younger than you. it is not an issue in my opinion. focus on finding friends before finding a girlfriend. that is because the only way to find a girlfriend is through a friend group. like in scott pilgrim. i don't have any friends by the way i am just guessing that it is the best way to go about curing depression

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Having friends is great and way better than having a gf who could break up with you in a moment and be completely out of your life the next day.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Also a 23yo virgin man

    Honestly never cared or obsessed about losing it. Never had a gf either despite really good income and looksmaxxing. Being a functioning man made me realize Im happier alone unironically

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't want to make it to 23 as a virgin. It's fricking weird.
    Just stop thinking about it. You quit worrying about it after a while.
    t. level-37 wizard

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I remember setting 22 years old as the age that it's kinda just pathetic to be a virgin. At that age you've had an entire year of being able to legally drink and hit up bars/clubs and perhaps even just buy alcohol for 18-20 year old girls, and if you can't get laid within that year then you're just not even trying.
    Now I'm almost 24.
    It's really not that bad, mostly cause I legitimately stopped giving a single frick about 1.5 years ago. I won't lie, it could just be some elaborate cope, but I feel perfectly ok with it. Basically I don't care if it happens or not now, maybe cause I'm already several years past the age where it would have actually been awesome to have sex (in my teens). Now if I had sex it'd just be very awkward and weird.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >23yo virgin foid
    i never understood why people (men in particular) obsess over sex like this. find things that you enjoy and focus on that
    albeit if it's any consolation, i'd prefer losing it to somebody with no/little experience also

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A woman who is a virgin is a virgin by choice. A man who is a virgin is because he is rejected and considered disgustingly ugly by women

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i didn't make a statement about either of those things but alright

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I hope a million anons don't reply to this, so I'll just sum it up by saying that men feel the constant need to get their rocks off until they get older (late 20s at the earliest). So for men sex is a constant thought in their mind. Not sure how it works for women, but many men get extremely horny after a mere 2-3 days of not fapping.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        good god my condolences
        it's vaguely the same but more like a scratch to itch and then i move on

        I am frustrated.
        I wouldn't say I'm obsessed. I do other things, I have a life.
        But I do need companionship, it's how I am. I don't want to just go jumping from girl to girl because that's gross.
        I want someone who I actually like.
        Yes, I am a bit of a pervert and horny, I can't help it. But I don't even watch porn anymore so I'm not that bad.

        It's a piece I'm missing inmy life, and one that is very important to me. I just want to bein the same room as her and enjoy her company. And also breed.

        i'll admit i don't really understand because xyz reasons but it sounds like a lot of this could be resolved by having some good friends (either being companionship itself or having a network to find a potential gf through) but idk your life

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I do have friends, though I do pull away from them because I'm moronic.

          It's fine though. I'm just venting.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I do have friends, though I do pull away from them because I'm moronic.
            i do the same. shit's rough but it's nice to know i got fellow morons out there struggling like me
            but seriously do not underestimate the power of social groups in regards to finding a gf. basically every friend i have met their bf through a friend

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, ik.
            I even went on a double date a few weeks ago.

            But eh, I'm weird and they're not. So it's rare to find someone I will have stuff in common with.
            I wouldn't say I'm desperate, I don't want anyone l, but I want someone.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            being an unwanted weirdo is a humbling experience, truly
            but it just means when you find the right person it'll be all the more special

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >but it just means when you find the right person it'll be all the more special
            I did. She ghosted me.
            Now I'm like this.
            Should I kms?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            if she ghosted you she's not the right person, simple as

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Tbh, I think she forgot. I have good reasons to do so.
            But it's so frustrating, because I legit can't stop thinking about her. I don't want anyone else. I can't help it.

            Anyway, you're right. I should kms.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            anon i did not say for you to kys do not do that
            why are you thinking about her so much? it sucks that it happened and you got your feelings involved but it clearly wouldn't have worked out so it's best that it ended before it got anymore intense

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Aksbakdbskdbska
            I'm just kidding, anon.

            Idk, just never met someone like her, before or since. She was all I imagined since I was a kid. I thought people like that didn't exist.

            Yesyes, I should move on.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it goes without saying to just "move on" but it's not that simple. allow yourself to grieve and moving on will come naturally
            there will be more people like her, perhaps even better

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >there will be more people like her
            Frick.
            I needed to hear that one.
            Promise?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            not enough people realize this before they realize they've wasted years yearning for the past
            >Promise?
            promise. cross my heart

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >promise. cross my heart
            Okay, I'll hold you to it.

            You know the WORST part?
            she ghosted me 3 different times

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I am frustrated.
      I wouldn't say I'm obsessed. I do other things, I have a life.
      But I do need companionship, it's how I am. I don't want to just go jumping from girl to girl because that's gross.
      I want someone who I actually like.
      Yes, I am a bit of a pervert and horny, I can't help it. But I don't even watch porn anymore so I'm not that bad.

      It's a piece I'm missing inmy life, and one that is very important to me. I just want to bein the same room as her and enjoy her company. And also breed.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get over it, virgin.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Get over it, virgin.
      No.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dude, I'm in the same exact boat as you, same age. I've never been in a relationship or had sex, but, honestly, it hasn't been affecting me much recently, I've just been focusing on exercise and grades. It's much better now, I've made a couple of friends and sex/relationships are just not something I'm focused on right now. If a woman asked me out, I'd say yes but we both know the chances of that are almost none, so for now, I'm going to keep my grind on

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not OP, but it's weird for me cause I actually had 2 relationships, both when I was 16. Almost had sex but just didn't and now I haven't even touched a girl since then and I'm 24. It's completely my fault as I make zero attempt to even talk to women.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Man, the last woman I asked out said "I have a boyfriend" I said "oh, oops, sorry" then she said to my face "Oh it's fine! You didn't know" but she told my friend that I was creepy when I asked her out. That still looms over me when I think about asking another woman out, so for right now I'm leaving it up the woman to ask me. Kinda like a "frick that noise" type of looming feeling

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >"Oh it's fine! You didn't know" but she told my friend that I was creepy
          Woman moment. They either don't understand the power that branding a man as "creepy" has, or they do and are just sociopaths and enjoy ruining innocent men's lives. Since she labelled you as creepy, any woman who is even remotely connected to her will now also view you as creepy unfortunately.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Luckily for the both of us I haven't seen her in months and don't ever have to again. Both me and my friend agreed that she's a b***h and that it's not a loss for me. Again, I'm not focused on finding a relationship for a while so it's not that bad but getting called "creepy" hurts a lot

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Man, you know men are pussy-whipped as a collective when every inconvenience for women is a big fricking deal.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It makes me hate everything about myself and want to give up on life. If I can't have sex or love I don't see a point in living

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I should be...
    You will live better and have more sex when you let go of such notions

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I made a pact when I was 21 that if I made it to 30 and was stilma virgin I'd blow my brains out with a shotgun
    That's 6 months away and man time goes fast when women hate you and want you to never talk to them. It's a pain. I don't wan to do it but a promise is a promise.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I promised myself that if I was still as stuck as I am now by the time I'm 40. I would kms.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Idk about you but I already bought the gun so in 6 months who knows

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I wish I had half the strength as you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm a pussy but women are cruel and uncaring and as a 25+ year old virgin holy frick do they really start to get nasty
        I don't think I have a choice, being like this past 30 isn't much of a life

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how does one make it to 23 without getting laid. I don't think person could be more unattractive and burger than me and still function and even I got a girlfriend when I was 17.

    I get that its near impossible to have relationship as an adult but you were surrounded by horny teenagers when you were teen, did you guys get home schooled or what the hell?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      not him but I'm near 23 and a virgin
      dropped out of school + barely had jobs + still can't drive, not a good combo for getting laid
      >inb4 why didn't you do that
      because i'm an anxious manchild and i hate myself

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The ones I went to high school with weren't horny at all if you could believe that. Felt like an extension of middle school but nerdier.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        anon, teens can't think anything but sex. you were a teen once. everybody was. you know from the moment you woke up untill the time you closed your eyes you were thinking about girls. same applies for the girls but they are just thinking about boys.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Most of my class wanted to be a doctor. Why have sex as a teen when you are going to be a MD?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was addicted to benzos when in highschool and my parents were abusive, ended up dropping out because my parents kicked me out on my last year of highschool.
      I know for a fact I could have had a normal happy life if my parents weren't so deranged.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I get that its near impossible to have relationship as an adult but you were surrounded by horny teenagers when you were teen, did you guys get home schooled or what the hell?
      Do you not understand some girls just aren't interested in some guys even though they are horny? Horny girls will flat out reject boys that they think are ugly or don't like or think are weird. Not that hard to understand.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      had 4 girls show interest in me when i was 15-17, and 3 when i was 1-2 year college before dropping out
      all of them except 1 cute stalker from school were used goods so i didn't make any moves
      now 24 yo fit looksmaxx neet virgin
      see stalker girl in my dreams when i'm lonely, but aside from "secretly" taking camera shots of me we didn't interact unfortunately

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was a fat piece of shit so no girls liked me. They were in fact very brutal if I tried to approach them. One girl got rejected by every guy for prom, and she didn't want to go with me. That's how undesirable I was. Years following I lost the weight but also dropped out of uni and went in and out of the psychward. Couple car crashes screwed up my head with concussions and I almost died from dehydration walking on a freeway for a few days in the sun. I had a very bad schizo meltdown. Then I was homeless. No time to frick when it's disaster after disaster.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    24 yo virgin, I'm so fricking scared of women, I've had some women show interest with me but my self esteem is so low that I just get stressed out and don't know what to do.
    Every time I'm talking to someone, even close friends that I've known for years, I'll say something weird or stupid, feel embarassed, then leave.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This, I basically have the same problem where we're at an age where its not only bad to be a virgin but its not an option to experiment and risk fricking up (let alone the feeling of rejection or saying something stupid) lest we be labelled as creeps or simply dumb.

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