Can a relationship work without much facial attraction?

I think my gf might be kind of a butterface. I don't often think she's the cutest girl in the room. But we get along really well, she's really kind and I can't imagine finding someone more emotionally / intelligently compatible with me than her. I want things to work out with her because she makes life easy.

My question is, can things work out in spite of less physical attraction? Again, I want it to, but I'm surprised attraction hasn't grown in the time we've been together. If it's something that rarely works out or is a non-starter than I don't want to waste her time. I feel like a piece of shit for even asking.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's all just make-up anon.
    Women without it are just not very attractive.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And she doesn't really wear makeup so that tracks.

      Thank you anon. Gave me some clarity that I really needed.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If you wanna check her out, you can buy her a "relaxing spa-day" and "professional glow up" weekend.
        See how she polishes up when she comes back. To avoid this seeming weird you can suggest it as a girls treat with a female relative, sister, mother, friend etc.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is the answer. If you like her and you really get along and she's fun with the lights out then go for it. And remember, if you are ever tempted, that no matter how hot that other girl look like, she still wakes up in the morning without makeup and pushup bra.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Different... people...
      really it's deception.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, one looks human, the other one plastic

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is definitely not true. There are plenty of women that look great without makeup. However, there are even more women who are unconventionally unattractive but mask all their facial flaws with makeup.

      https://i.imgur.com/nvierNH.jpeg

      I think my gf might be kind of a butterface. I don't often think she's the cutest girl in the room. But we get along really well, she's really kind and I can't imagine finding someone more emotionally / intelligently compatible with me than her. I want things to work out with her because she makes life easy.

      My question is, can things work out in spite of less physical attraction? Again, I want it to, but I'm surprised attraction hasn't grown in the time we've been together. If it's something that rarely works out or is a non-starter than I don't want to waste her time. I feel like a piece of shit for even asking.

      If your girlfriend is a butterface, unfortunately you will always think that. She isn't going to get more attractive with age. Every girl that I've dated for an extended amount of time who I wasn't 100% attracted to, whenever I would see an actual cute / pretty Asian girl, I would immediately think to myself, "Wow, I'd rather be with her instead."

      Eventually you are going to slowly stop wanting to have sex with her as much and would rather jerk off. She will start to notice but probably not bring anything up. Eventually every time you have sex you'll be trying to cover up her face some way or another. Could be tossing a shirt over her head or just fricking her doggy. Ultimately you'll be unsatisfied.

      The good thing about butterfaces as they usually know they are less attractive and are more willing to please.

      I've heard the same thing from women too. Where they got together because he had a great personality but she wasn't 100% attracted to him. Over time she couldn't even have sex with him because she was so uninterested in him physically. Eventually she broke up.

      I would recommend just breaking up and find someone who you are 100% attracted to and proud stand next to.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >There are plenty of women that look great without makeup.
        definitely untrue.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Eventually you are going to slowly stop wanting to have sex with her as much
        This happens regardless of how physically attractive she is.
        It's a physiological process in all mammal males. Known as the Coolidge effect.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          True but it happens faster if you're hooking up with or in a relationship with someone you are not 100% attracted to.

          >There are plenty of women that look great without makeup.
          definitely untrue.

          Sure, bud.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah but if guys take care of themselves they always look good without makeup, why can't women just take care of themselves too?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i don't know a single dude who has a skincare routine

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          because it's both gay and stupid.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's called "shaving". Shaving cream is a moisturizer, and shaving exfoliates. It's definitely a skincare regime - an accidental one, but one nonetheless.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Things will work if you make them work. It sounds like she makes your life peaceful, something worth fighting for.

      I might ask though, how are things in the bedroom? I'm pretty sure 99% of physical attraction comes down your ability to bond in different ways, sex/intimacy is really important. Would you prefer a 10/10 but share little to no intimacy, I dont think that'd last long. What about a 5/10 whose pussy grips, and intimacy comes easy with her?

      this is unironically just hiding the issue

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Women without it are just not very attractive.
      In a startling amount of cases, this is true.

      Different... people...
      really it's deception.

      >really it's deception
      It is absolutely that.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if she gives you bj then stay with her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this, was gonna say this too.
      if she does the work to make up for it then it's all good.
      nothing worse than an ugly girl that thinks she's too good.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Doesn't attraction go down over time in a relationship? You're starting to get used to your gf's looks and that's ok but i wouldn't take her for granted. I busted my chances with my intellectual/personality double and i still regret it so take this with a grain of salt because i kinda envy you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Doesn't attraction go down over time
      Yes, but it has nothing to do with the relationship. It's because men's testosterone levels gradually drop as they get older.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I read it's because you get used to your partner's pheromones or whatever it's called and it's mutual i.e. happens to both men and women, it also takes as little as several months to develop. Men testosterone levels drop more slowly over a longer period of time

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I guess I'm just wierd then. I never stopped getting horny af for my wife and vice versa. It's just that as she passed menopause and I got into my 60's our ability to do anything about it without viagra and KY has decreased.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Thank you. All of you. This gives me a lot of clarity and confidence. This girl really is one of a kind so I'm going to stick with it.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think so. If you get along well and the sex is good I see no reason to stop seeing her because her face is less than ideal. I had a boyfriend who I would honestly describe as a 4 in the face department but I liked a lot of other things about him and we were really sexually compatible.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      problem is, when a woman say this all hell breaks loose (on NSFFW.)

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Attraction matters less and less the longer you are in a relationship with someone. No matter how hot they are, it will all fade away. When you meet someone you truly get along with, that you can trust, that is truly a good person that fits with you and is in your corner, you hang onto them.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging really bothers you, there can't be enough attraction to the person.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    oldgay meme

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