Can anybody give me any other things to add to my list of stuff I need to do before I try to get a girlfriend. Thanks

Can anybody give me any other things to add to my list of stuff I need to do before I try to get a girlfriend. Thanks

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, you need to grow the frick up.
    Motherfricker try being interesting and meeting girls in the flesh. You don't need 10k and a car to buy her flowers.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >grow the frick up
      That’s what I’m trying to do. I might not need those things to buy her flowers but where I live you need a car and it’s also a sign of maturity I’m 22. The 10k is more-so so we can do things together I’m not just going to walk around holding it in the hopes girls approach me lol I think you got the wrong end of the stick

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >sign of maturity
        Here is part of your problem. You should really just work towards what you need to do to be self-sufficient and the rest will fall in place. Don't just try to look like an adult.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your'e looking for a b***h, not a girlfriend. I promise you when you find a girl that likes you should would not give a shit about any of this.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >would not give a shit about any of this.
          Really? I find that hard to believe but I’m the one with no experience here so I’ll take your word for it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nta, but he's not COMPLETELY right. A lot of girls that want to actually be romantically involved aren't going to be looking for this stuff immediately, but they'll be worried for sure if you are not at least trying to get out on your own.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So they are looking for it just not immediately? I may aswell just get it all sorted before I try then no?

            Black person why the hell do you think you need 10K in savings just to have a gf? Are you expecting to be audited?

            I already said why above

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I already said why above
            I read it, but it's nonsensical. Why do you think you need 10K just to do things with someone?
            Equally disturbing is the idea that if you did have 10K in savings, you'd be apparently willing to blow through it for her. What kind of gold diggers are you hoping to date here?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not looking for a gold digger not looking to blow it all on her. She wouldn’t even know about the savings. I went to Greece last year and it was like 4k. I don’t think saying I want to save 10k so I can afford to do things with my future gf is that outlandish

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Anon, even when you get a new gf, you don't go on an expensive vacation with her right away. That's something you do in a serious long term relationship. You're not even talking to anyone yet.
            Take her out for fricking ice cream or something.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you don't go on an expensive vacation with her right away
            Literally never said I would. Just used Greece as an example that things cost money, don’t know what you want me to say the point of this post was to see if there’s anything else I should add to the list

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not exactly. A woman worth a relationship is not going to bring this stuff up, but will be looking out in case you're just a lazy bum. You don't have to have a checklist done before you start going on dates, just b urself.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I may as well have it sorted
            No.
            Look, a girlfriend is like a best friend that you can kiss frick and cuddle. You already waited until your 20s, you need practice, because there is a high chance you will frick up. Women want security in their 30s. You don't need shit to date in your early 20s. Go out and find women you actually like hanging out with.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have a career style job not a wagie shitter. Exercise regularly and lift weights.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >have a career style job not a wager shitter
      I’m self employed
      >exercise regularly and lift weights
      Done

      >sign of maturity
      Here is part of your problem. You should really just work towards what you need to do to be self-sufficient and the rest will fall in place. Don't just try to look like an adult.

      I’m trying to do that but I do actually need a car lol as I’m sharing my mothers car with her

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Black person why the hell do you think you need 10K in savings just to have a gf? Are you expecting to be audited?

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Rule of thumb, ALWAYS be working towards outcomes you want out of life that you consider important. NEVER just postpone them to an unspecified future date where "you have your shit together".

    Life is the shit that happens when you're waiting for moments that never come. Even if you finish your
    >I want to do these first, then I'll get to the important thing
    task checklist, there's no moment when you're finally free, you'll just wake up and realize a new checklist somehow magically entered your life - you'll always have new problems slowing you down, you'll always have things you could do first. If you continue like this, months and years will slip through your fingertips without a shred of progress. The truth is, you want to start dating? The point where you finally try to start dating is just the point where YOU, YES YOU, finally decide to start dating. Put it on your calendar, and in the meantime, figure out specifically what you're going to start doing when that calendar day hits. Before that date, you need to figure out how you're going to, in concrete terms, create a process that's going to repeatedly put you in front of new women who you're gonna talk to and ask out.

    Treat that little calendar listing like it's holy text, then when that day hits, take it seriously and start. Once you do, just don't stop doing things that move you in the direction of whatever it is you're looking for. One day you'll wake up, and you'll be where you wanted to go. But you waiting till the moment comes, means the moment will never come. Start.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That first paragraph is top tier advice.
      >once I do this I will finally do that
      Famous last word

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mate did no one teach yoi about SMART goals. Wtf is "dress better"
    You need this shit to be measurable, actionable etc

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Where's the personality, I see no hobbies or interests

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Most people who have a girlfriend didn't have to think about this shit. You are probably ugly and an empty husk of a person.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    uh you don't need 10k saved bro most people making 100k still have zero

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