Dating a girl you don't find attractive

I'm in my early 30s and after being single for a while, I started using dating apps and matched quickly with a girl. Been on 3 dates and it's going well, she's into me, and tells me she's not using dating apps anymore as of now and kinda inquiring if I'm gonna delete my tinder.

I'm about ~6-7/10 but have a good career and charisma and feel like I could be with prettier girls. She's very average looking (pic unrelated but gives and idea lol). Unlike some girls I've dated before, she's not fat, actually quite fit. Communication and sex is good. But, should I try to date around and find out if I can get a better girl or should I settle for her instead of losing her, then face the risk of not finding someone else who would date me and become lonely again?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >> I'm about ~6-7/10

    No you aren't. A 6/10 is a very good looking above average person. A 7/10 is model level attractive. You're neither of those and we know that because this post exists and you're dating an ugly b***h.

    People date inside their leagues. You're dating an ugly girl because you're ugly too

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know how you think numbers work, but no model is 7/10. Models are 9-10/10 and 6/10 is average. Either way, it's all semantics so pls, no autism.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No champ that isn't how leagues work.At all. 9/10 are literally the most perfect genetic specimens on the planet.

        5/10 is an average looking person. Leagues are exponential. You are a 4/10 or below. A 7/10 is a model. Leagues can be calculated mathematically and are objective measures of beauty

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Kek, I don't think OP is going to get it. He's clearly too low IQ.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Kek, I don't think OP is going to get it. He's clearly too low IQ.

          pls, no underageb& in my thread

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kek, you're clueless. No one is underage

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            you're samegayging, pls stop shitting up my thread, go be angry elsewhere

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No one is shutting up your larp thread where you show you don't understand leagues. Kya you dumb ugly frick

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Who died and made you a Miss America pageant judge?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >A 7/10 is model level attractive.
      you're just obviously wrong. the top 30% of women don't look like models

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women aren't men. Do try to keep up.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Leagues apply equally to both genders. Do try to keep up

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >both
            There are an infinity of genders. Do try to keep up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes they do. I didn't say supermodel, I said model.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You sir, are the reason they put fat trans women on the cover of sports illustrated. Frick you and the horse you rode in on.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No.

            First you don't seem to understand exponentials. It isn't the top 30%. Secondly, fat people don't deserve love.

            What you need to understand is that leagues are genetic. Ugly is ugly for life.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        are you saying 10% of women are a 10/10 moron?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Textbook case of a Practice GF.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If it's going well then what's the problem? Are you that shallow and superficial? You might have a partner for life and you'd rather try your luck for someone that looks a little bit better?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe it's a bit shallow, but also would be different if I was attracted to her more in other ways. I think I might also want someone smarter or with a better social standing (job, etc.). Maybe I'll feel more attraction with time, but as of now she's more into me than the opposite.

      Textbook case of a Practice GF.

      Might be the case. I don't like to hurt girls by being with them even tho I don't love them but I know that dating someone boosts my confidence and make me more attractive for other girls lol. Should I maybe keep my options open while dating her semi-seriously?

      I'd say look for someone you are truly attracted to. Though I'm shallow as frick and a virgin so yeah don't listen to much to my advice

      Might keep my options open, but I'm still afraid of missing the boat at my age and find myself thinking I should settle with whatever decent thing I can get.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Should I maybe keep my options open while dating her semi-seriously?
        Yeah, definitely.
        The only people who'll say you're a bad person for this are women who would have no problem with a women doing the same thing.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Literally not true. Touch grass doomer

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He doesn't owe her a relationship sweaty.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Everyone on NSFFW is male.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but I'm a girl :3

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Troons aren't women.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'd say look for someone you are truly attracted to. Though I'm shallow as frick and a virgin so yeah don't listen to much to my advice

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why did you go on a second date with someone you weren't attracted to? That's the definition of leading someone on. You clearly don't understand what you're talking about, no way this is real

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Why did you go on a second date with someone you weren't attracted to?
      There are levels of being attracted, it's (obviously?) not a binary thing.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, that's not how that works

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      We still shared a connection and I enjoyed her sensuality and openness. I still feel attraction to some parts of her, but not as much as I think I could have with other girls, or actually had with previous dates/gfs.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Physical attraction is not the same thing as emotional connection. You know what you call a person of the opposite sex you aren't attracted to but have an emotional connection with? A friend.

        Comparing people to others from your past is moronic and will leave you alone forever

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >she's into me
    >tells me she's not using dating apps anymore
    >actually quite fit. Communication and sex is good

    So, your dick works. Seems like a good deal.
    Take care of this female anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He won't, he'll frick it up and break her.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm about ~6-7/10
    No you aren't. Ryan Gosling is about a 6/7. You are nowhere near that.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a genuinely hard time understanding why people date as, like a hobby, i guess? Same as OP who is seeing a girl he isn't really into. Why bother? Wouldn't it make more sense to go "dang not feeling it" and move on? Is there something I'm not seeing here?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      We both said beforehand we're looking for something serious. But idk, maybe I am leading her on. I feel a little something but not that much. I guess I'm just making the most of it because it's fun and I've been single and lonely for a while.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It is the fear of failing to find another person who will be as good as your current gf who you may find unattractive but she is very nice to you still. What if you cant catch a lighting in the bottle again?

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, you should settle and eventually become resentful instead of having to face the prospect of loneliness.
    Or even better she finds out you aren't attracted to her and becomes wildly insecure and ruins your life.

    No frickface, go find someone else before she gets really attached to someone who doesn't give a shit about her

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tough decision mate.
    I once dated a girl I knew who was such a cool person, but was similarly plain/unattractive. It was really fun doing fun shit with her, but the eye eventually begins to wander...

    If she was truly a top tier match for you as a person, you wouldn't be asking this.

    You're definitely going back out into the wild though, which can be scary. I realize it sounds ghey, but follow your heart.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You should find a nice mid not someone that's actually unattractive to you.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dating an woman that you are not attracted to is no different than dating a man. You may as well just go gay at that point since "attraction" is not the source or reason for wanting to date them.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Been on 3 dates

    You're not exclusive yet and she's probly dating other guys too, in fact youre lucky if she's not fricking other guys currently no matter how ugly you think she is that's what hoeflation does.

    The only correct posture is too keep her as an option and also go on dates with and frick other women until she catches you, then you say you didn't know you were exclusive yet. Then keep dating other girls anyway and that way if she upsets you you can just go hang out with and frick a different girl. If she finds out and accused you of cheating just own it and act like you don't see the problem. This is how you gaslight her into your sex slave which is what every woman wants.

    If you treat her well and stay loyal and committed she will get bored and cheat on you and start shit testing you into oblivion. The correct response to a shit test is to go frick a different girl. This is the world women wanted...

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