Dating a single mom

Late 30s guy here. I finally downloaded bumble and I got like 23 matches in the first day. 3 women even used their superswipe on me (but they were fat or black).

But like everyone is a single mom. I'm basically autistic myself and I feel like they all want strong father-type figures, which I'm not.

What are the upsides and downsides to dating a single mom?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Upsides? She instinctively knows how to please a man. Downsides? Drama with an ex usually or she is the drama.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't do it.

    She failed at the exact thing that you guys are trying to do, and she was all-in with that guy.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just don't see the appeal to use dating apps when you are 30+ its kinda cringe. 30+ and you do not know anybody? Should be a redflag automatically on why you are single.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >30+ and you do not know anybody? Should be a redflag automatically on why you are single.

      well duh. we all arrived at the same scrap heap ... just from different garbage trucks. the women are here bc of failed marriages and I'm here because I'm poor, uncultured and am socially autistic. let's be honest... i'm not scoring a normie girl in her 20s.

      i'm mostly just intimidated by people who are living lives with actual responsibilities. i'm basically a shut in at this point where my biggest responsibility is keeping my houseplants alive.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      30+ on dating apps know plenty of people. They're just victims of hypergamy. They don't want to "settle" for a guy at their level in their areas, so they go on dating apps in an attempt to land a more desirable partner.

      MAYBE 25% of these people actually end up in a relationship. The overwhelming majority just rinse and repeat every week / every month with a new partner.

      >30+ and you do not know anybody? Should be a redflag automatically on why you are single.

      well duh. we all arrived at the same scrap heap ... just from different garbage trucks. the women are here bc of failed marriages and I'm here because I'm poor, uncultured and am socially autistic. let's be honest... i'm not scoring a normie girl in her 20s.

      i'm mostly just intimidated by people who are living lives with actual responsibilities. i'm basically a shut in at this point where my biggest responsibility is keeping my houseplants alive.

      That last sentence is why you're forever single. You can't be trusted to take care of anything, who in their right mind is going to enter a relationship with an adult child?

      Dating apps are worthless these days. It’s where desperate woman’s and men’s but mainly woman’s and their bastard sons hopes go to die. You find people through work and in real life. Decent woman don’t use dating apps.

      Decent women do indeed use dating apps. But they're not finding their life partner on a place like Tinder. They're on Match or eHarmony.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's what you do when you have no other options and it's not always because you're a psycho killer, sometimes people move around or just have a rough start in life, but I can tell a woman wrote this so whatever.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This anon gets it, not all of us are born in a rich family or have a good mental health or good friends. And suicide is not an option, the simple fact that maybe we will never reproduce is another dorm of suicide by not spreading our seed.
        All being said

        I just don't see the appeal to use dating apps when you are 30+ its kinda cringe. 30+ and you do not know anybody? Should be a redflag automatically on why you are single.

        should build a bridge and jump off it because he/she(I think it's a she) is fricking moronic

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >30+ and you do not know anybody?
      yes dipshit that's what happens after 25 when everyone moves away and has families. we don't all remain aimless townies like you do

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >moving away
        >aimless townies
        you sure I'm the aimless one?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >you sure I'm the aimless one?
          yes

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      guess I'll just fricking die then

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Lol its true though! I believe it more for woman I should rephrase. If you a woman in 30's and nobody wants you, that's a red flag. Men have an excuse.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dating apps are worthless these days. It’s where desperate woman’s and men’s but mainly woman’s and their bastard sons hopes go to die. You find people through work and in real life. Decent woman don’t use dating apps.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      decent women are still with the guy they married when they were 18.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on why she’s a single mom. If she’s a widow, you don’t have to deal with an ex-husband with visitation rights. But even if there’s no ex-husband, you might still deal with her former in-laws that want to visit their grandchildren.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I signed up for tinder/hinge/bumble yesterday and have a bio saying I live with my mom and have no job or car.

    There's just no point in wasting time, I'm doing it on the extremely off chance there's even one single female that matches me knowing this, because she has mental problems or something.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you are good looking it doesn't matter. You could be homeless or a child rapist they will want you and will overlook all flaws and red flags.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Whatever you do make sure daddy is in the picture somehow, or else you could end up being forced to become a stepdad

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But anon, that's what I want.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but no, i really WANT to expend my resources on futhering some stranger's genetic legacy at the expense of my own!

        you are either lying or coping (aka lying to yourself).

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The real issue with dating a single mom is that they don't have any time. They work, or they're looking after their kid.

    Yes, once in a blue moon she has a baby sitter, or maybe the kid will be at their father's place. But most of the time, no time/privacy for sex. Little attention for you.

    I've dated a single mom for 2 months, and this was my issue with it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how can i have a single mom as a frickbuddy? seems like a better idea

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        bump
        Need to know this too because theres one at work that likes me aND I NEED SEX

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lol this. Also I'm actually a great with kids since all of cousins are women and have been using me as baby sitters since I was 20 so yeah I think a single mom fwb would be great.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >We fit in with each others families

    How the frick should I know Sarah?

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