dating apps and casual sex

is living in a big city a requirement for using dating apps? during the pandemic I had been trying for a while but the dating pool in my shitty touristic city is really low... but after that a LOT of people moved here. there are no universities or anything like that though, so not a lot of young people.
also, any strategies to try? I live like 1 hour away from major cities. do you think would simply visiting the city and talking to random people to meet the same day work? I WFH but I guess I could pretend being a tourist or some shit...
I have no experience with casual sex. how do the logistics even work? you just rent an apartment or some shit and take her there?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    daring assumption that you will get any matches

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kek
      well, I did get matches the time I tried. in fact met my ex there. she was not from this or other small cities nearby though jej I don't get too many matches though

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Casual sex is honestly some of the most soulless shit ever, it leaves you feeling hollow afterward but usually you can just reenforce your mind by saying “aw yeah I had sex I’m cool as frick” that’s what I did for a while on top of lifting and it was fun, but I just felt a huge void.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      ok, but I want to try it, to experience it. I also want to get my dick wet because I dumped my gf some weeks ago and she nevre really gave me much sex anyway.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Well good on you, you know what you want. send it man, it’s worth a shot. It’s fun don’t get me wrong but just keep in mind lots of girls like to get wined and dined, so it can be a little pricey. Be nice to them and be conversive, get them dinner, if you know your area pretty well, take them somewhere pretty, and no promises you’ll bang on the first date. Another piece of advice I got from a long time friend before whoring around is that “sometimes you gotta start with a shitbox before your get a Ferrari” don’t be afraid to hook up with a mid girl. It gives you experience and you’ll be able to practice do’s and donts. Also for some reason mid girls usually have the best sex lol. good luck friend.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          thanks for the advice.

          >keep in mind lots of girls like to get wined and dined, so it can be a little pricey
          I know. I have enough money for that though.

          >don’t be afraid to hook up with a mid girl.
          I'm >30 (so, old) and most women are mid in my area so no point in filtering much. I'll just discard the worst ones...

          question was if I should move from this area to a big city only for the purpose of dating though.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah but you have to do it anyway because every girl has at least a 20+ bodycount by the age of 20
      unless you just enjoy being a cuck

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >> being a cuck

        A cuck is a man who knowingly allows his spouse to cheat on him. It is no other thing. You sound like a moron when you misuse it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >> Casual sex is honestly some of the most soulless shit ever, it leaves you feeling hollow afterward

      Then you're doing it wrong. Casual sex with different women is the natural way of things. There is opportunity there to understand women and to feel fulfilled. There is no more hollowness than in drinking a glass of water. Stop acting like a woman you dumb b***h.

      t. Have a "body count" in the mid triple digits.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        OP here. teach me your secrets, master.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          he's a gay. But yes, you do get to understand women on a fundamental level when you see them set fire to relationships they say they cherish so they can ride your dick. And they will do the same to you - it never ends.

          If you want to understand how to get pussy, interact with the women who thinks you're hot and then act like every women is treating you that same exact way. There.

          They're wonderful and deadly. A woman can ruin you much easier than a man.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't think I need casual sex for that... I've seen it happen. guys ruined because they thought with their dicks, women using men as resource providets and emptying their wallets and so on...
            though I have no idea about cheating. the closest I've been has been guys wanting to cheat on their women but never got to see the women do it to men, cuz there aren't many women in my life, and the ones I know are all single and failed to build relationships.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >interact with the women who thinks you're hot

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can still develop a connection with your casual friend without it becoming serious.
      t. - Guy who did just that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You just didn’t bang chicks that were hot enough. Ive felt what uve felt, that was because those chicks were 6/10 at best, but when i banged 8/10, 9/10s i felt like i was the frickin boss and gave me new motivation for life. But ideally if u manage to hook up with 8/10+ u should try to gf her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I agree and I've fricked a fair share of beautiful women ( some uggos too tbf). I mean it's still a validation boost and some top tier hedonism but it doesn't go much deeper than that

      seggs when there's actual mutual infatuation is the best thing in the world. better than any drug

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Who dat girl in pic OP

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://x.com/FlareBahr/status/1583267737043759105

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OP here... one last bump.
    my question was to know whether I should move for the sole purpose of dating or not.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No it can be taken into account when moving, but should not be the main purpose.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        assume I have the money and work remote, why shouldn't I just do it? it would be fun. maybe I will be able to frick a different girl each day.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Fair then I see not reason not to considering your career/money is in a good situation. Just pick a place you'd enjoy.

          Casual sex is quite simple but it can have hurdles. It usually entails going out for a drink and then inviting her back to your place (to have sex). However, there are things that can cause issues.

          >drink location is far from either of your places
          >you live with roommates
          >you live with your parents

          If you live an hour from a major city and the town you live in is very small, it will probably be difficult finding casual sex. I don't think many women are going to want to sit in a car for an hour to your place. You could try to go to their place but it may be harder since women typically have female roommates and don't like looking like hoes.

          If you can afford to move and it not be too much of an issue, do it. If you feel unsatisfied in your dating life where you are currently living, just move. However, don't expect to just be flooded by women just because you moved to a bigger city unless you are genuinely attractive.

          Yeah that's true, OP just make sure you are a like 7/10 and you should be chilling.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Casual sex is quite simple but it can have hurdles. It usually entails going out for a drink and then inviting her back to your place (to have sex). However, there are things that can cause issues.

        >drink location is far from either of your places
        >you live with roommates
        >you live with your parents

        If you live an hour from a major city and the town you live in is very small, it will probably be difficult finding casual sex. I don't think many women are going to want to sit in a car for an hour to your place. You could try to go to their place but it may be harder since women typically have female roommates and don't like looking like hoes.

        If you can afford to move and it not be too much of an issue, do it. If you feel unsatisfied in your dating life where you are currently living, just move. However, don't expect to just be flooded by women just because you moved to a bigger city unless you are genuinely attractive.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I don't think many women are going to want to sit in a car for an hour to your place
          I live in a touristic place. what if I invite them to visit the city for the day and pay for an hotel room if they want to stay? do you think that would work? in my limited experience (n=2), women don't stay, we frick and live, so I guess this is a dumb idea... but, who knows

          >don't expect to just be flooded by women just because you moved to a bigger city unless you are genuinely attractive
          I know. I am tall and attractive. only problem is my age... i'm 35.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well, if you live in a touristic location, you really shouldn't have much problem finding girls trying to have some "fun". Invite them to a bar / restaurant near your place so the transition is easy. No one wants to have to sit in a long uber / car ride back to someone's place.

            The problem isn't your age. Women love older men, especially if they are attractive. Don't let people sway you on who you should or should not be attracted to. I have my age range from 18-45.

            I live in a tourist area and my routine is quite simple.

            >match
            >send a few messages
            >get their number
            >invite them out for a drink to a place near mine
            >usually I pick them up but sometimes they uber
            >chat over a drink or two for an hourish
            >tell them that we should head out and my place is near
            >8/10 times they agree
            >go back to my place and chill w/ some music
            >after maybe 10 minutes go for a kiss which leads to sex

            >what if I invite them to visit the city for the day and pay for an hotel room if they want to stay?

            That is desperate and a waste of money for casual sex. Your money would be better spent flying to SEA or East Asia for 2 weeks and just having sex with a new girl ever night.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            tourism is temporary (usually happens during summer, which just passed). also people usually don't come here to see if they matched someone on tinder, that's why I'm asking if I should move.

            >SEA
            >East Asia
            nah, I don't like asians

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You live in Australia or something?

            Anyways, if you are unhappy with your dating life in your small town, the simple but not so simple play is to make the move the bigger city. If you work remotely and make enough to where moving isn't a big issue, then I think it is a perfectly fine idea. Plenty of people do this with various results.

            I would still highly recommend against paying for hotels and ubers to have mediocre sex with a woman you don't really know. It's one thing to travel to a new place and hook up with random women but ubering them an hour to your place / hotel is a lot of hassle and you will probably get a lot of flakes unless you met them in person already.

            The idea of casual dating is to make things easy, not complicated. I always try to get the woman to come to my area. Some get upset because they live 15+ miles away and I won't compromise unless they are my ideal girl. And by compromise, I'll usually meet them maybe 10 minutes from my place instead.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I live in south america. and yeah, guess renting in a big city would be a lot cheaper than paying for hotels... unless I get my own kek

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i asked one of my closest friends on a date she said "okay!" i feel good bros

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    PSA: The OP picrel is fat and disgusting. Look at all that grotesque lard weighing her down. Look at those saddle bags. Fricking sick. Let's hope she gets her shit together and lays off the bread and cheesecake.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      T. Homosexual

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's a weird thing to reply with. Being rightfully grossed out by fat chicks isn't a homosexual thing. Fat chicks just don't deserve love. You have to love yourself to receive love from others and if she's fat she doesn't love herself.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >not loving girls with things to grab
          Okay schlomo

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's sick. Your brain is fried fren. I hope you get the help you need to fix you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >your brain le fried
            Sorry schekelstein. You are not convincing me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >That's sick. Your brain is fried fren
            OP here. I don't like girls that fat

            >not loving girls with things to grab
            Okay schlomo

            but I do like women who have big butts... and I agree with the other anon, you might be a homosexual

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have a lot of anxiety around dating, not on account of myself but on account of not wanting to hurt the other person. That and I believe I suck at escalating the conversation, or flirting or whatever, I actually believe I'm great at talking to anyone about anything really, except when expressing desire, which is obviously a problem.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't even understand the concept of dating in terms of a serious one or legit just a couple going out casually to even a fricking fast food place, is it always supposed to be a fancy restaurant that's 3 digits just to eat or just hanging out

    might go on my first handful of dates 2 weekends from now but it's basically gonna be an amusement park and at most eating somewhere cheap like an ice cream place. Do those count

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Unless you are 9/10 you are not getting laid in the apps.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what is a good template to use for my bio? i hate b***hes that don't put anything but at the same time I do understand minimal and quick the point seems to be what people are looking for instead of a paragraph droning on about yourself?

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i think its true to say that dating apps imply sex / meeting up same day a lot of the time

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