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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This was what happened when I tried to date in my 20s. You can be ripped and in shape this is the best you can do still

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >You can be ripped and in shape
      but did you fix you're autism?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Never had it. I even have female friends who routinely tell me I'm such a great guy and should able to find someone, but despite getting along with people pretty well, could never get anyone to want to date me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >listening to women
          yeah if you actually do look decent then you need to work on your game an be more interesting. how old are you
          Verification not required.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 30. I don't think I'm any less interesting than the average person at least. Just a bit a mystery to me how to get further at this point since I can't seem to meet anyone who's single i real life.

            Imma be honest, if you're such a great guy.... why haven't they set you up with a friend

            I know. I don't trust what they say here literally, but point was more so I'm able to actually maintain a relationship with women that they also want to maintain so I'm not so autistic I can't talk to women. Just isn't working out otherwise.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >than the average person at least
            your potential gf has sucked and fricked average, you need to do better then average, also just warm approach women and since you haven confirmed you're decent looking I'll go ahead and assume that they won't be offset by your looks unless you are coping

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm pretty average looking face and above average height if that matters at all and pretty good shape like I said.
            >you need to do better then average,
            idk what it means to be above average in this way and what counts as interesting honestly? Is it work, hobbies, or what? Sort of hard to define interesting since think different people have different understanding of this.
            I'm gonna keep trying either way so I haven't given up.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Here's a good test for interesting: post 2 truths and 1 lie.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I traveled around the world a few years after graduating college while working remote.
            >I like to mix music tracks I made originally and remix tracks by other people.
            >I got into horse riding when I was in high school and have loved horses ever since.

            It's tough to think of lies for me honestly but think I did okay.

            >I'm able to actually maintain a relationship with women that they also want to maintain
            If you aren't fricking, it's not a relationship they want to maintain.
            > so I'm not so autistic
            Autists can trivially maintain what you describe, the problem is they can't go further.
            You sound like you have a touch of the tism.

            idk, maybe I am a little. I hate how overused it is here. I always assume I was just stunted from lack of socialization when I was young, but idk

            >female friends who routinely tell me I'm such a great guy
            >could never get anyone to want to date me.

            >oh you're such a great guy, anon
            >you're bound to find a girl some day!
            >NOT ME THOUGH HAHA SOME GIRL FAR MORE UNLUCKY AND PATHETIC THAN ME MIGHT LIKE YOU
            Every. Time.

            I know it's how it sounds every time

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You are very boring. For comparison here's what a normalgay said at work the other day in an intro session after we got a batch of new recruits:
            >I once lived in a Buddhist monastery
            >I have bungee roped from over 80 meters
            >I went in over 10 cruises over the last year
            The lie was 3, it was actually 9 cruises.

            First, things you listed are things literally everyone else could list (as truths). Second, none of them are something that someone would want to go "huh?" or ask more details about, i.e. they are uninteresting. In the above example, those statements obviously beg the questions: "how did you afford to go on 10 cruises?", "How did you come about living in a Buddhist monastery? What was it like?". I don't think there's much to ask about the bungee but it's meant as a kind of brag about courage or something similar (normalgays aren't perfect either).

            The important part isn't that you don't now how to say 2 truths and 1 lie, it's that you don't understand what is interesting and what isn't at best, or that you have nothing going on and therefore are boring at worst.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >how did you afford to go on 10 cruises
            bruh, Black folk fight on those cruises
            they're not expensive

            The only thing I'd ask about is the Buddisht monastery thing, but it's probably some renovated hotel or some bullshit tourist thing

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If that's the standard for being interesting, I don't think I'm going to make it bro. I'd rather just focus on what I'm doing at this point.

            >how did you afford to go on 10 cruises
            bruh, Black folk fight on those cruises
            they're not expensive

            The only thing I'd ask about is the Buddisht monastery thing, but it's probably some renovated hotel or some bullshit tourist thing

            I'd be interested for same reason. I've seen many of these in my time overseas, but they seemed like it would be very hard to get into and genuinely question how someone ends up living at one.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The mere fact you are here means you have some autism whether you want to accept it or not.
            >what counts as interesting honestly
            >people have different understanding of this
            sounds like something a sperg would say tbh

            Your best bet as a closeted sperg is learning some game, and lying about being an interesting person as you seem to make it best the female looks filter. Also stop coming here

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't feel strongly about denying. Whether I have autism or just a broken man, it's functionally the same and I'm fine with whatever if I can move on and figure out.
            Trying to be interesting as well and am always doing things and trying things out, just not sure what makes a difference, but still trying.

            >I'm such a great guy and should able to find someone
            This is such a b***hy thing for women to do, especially if they're single.

            in their defense, the ones I've heard this from aren't single, but it still sucks and feels shitty

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >just not sure what makes a difference
            As I and now this anon have said

            You are very boring. For comparison here's what a normalgay said at work the other day in an intro session after we got a batch of new recruits:
            >I once lived in a Buddhist monastery
            >I have bungee roped from over 80 meters
            >I went in over 10 cruises over the last year
            The lie was 3, it was actually 9 cruises.

            First, things you listed are things literally everyone else could list (as truths). Second, none of them are something that someone would want to go "huh?" or ask more details about, i.e. they are uninteresting. In the above example, those statements obviously beg the questions: "how did you afford to go on 10 cruises?", "How did you come about living in a Buddhist monastery? What was it like?". I don't think there's much to ask about the bungee but it's meant as a kind of brag about courage or something similar (normalgays aren't perfect either).

            The important part isn't that you don't now how to say 2 truths and 1 lie, it's that you don't understand what is interesting and what isn't at best, or that you have nothing going on and therefore are boring at worst.

            you need to be better than average. If at his point you get it try again next week. If you won't try learn game or be more interesting then you're an unsalvifble sperg.
            One thing I've learned is that you can tell a sperg to do something that will benefit them and they simplify won't do it because of mental gymnastics, they would rather complain. Had a friend like that who would do that for 5 years then I dropped his ass. Picrel is an actual message he sent me

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not that bad and appreciate what both you and

            You are very boring. For comparison here's what a normalgay said at work the other day in an intro session after we got a batch of new recruits:
            >I once lived in a Buddhist monastery
            >I have bungee roped from over 80 meters
            >I went in over 10 cruises over the last year
            The lie was 3, it was actually 9 cruises.

            First, things you listed are things literally everyone else could list (as truths). Second, none of them are something that someone would want to go "huh?" or ask more details about, i.e. they are uninteresting. In the above example, those statements obviously beg the questions: "how did you afford to go on 10 cruises?", "How did you come about living in a Buddhist monastery? What was it like?". I don't think there's much to ask about the bungee but it's meant as a kind of brag about courage or something similar (normalgays aren't perfect either).

            The important part isn't that you don't now how to say 2 truths and 1 lie, it's that you don't understand what is interesting and what isn't at best, or that you have nothing going on and therefore are boring at worst.

            this anon say. Just question the amount of effort it takes to get that point. I wonder if it's more so phrasing than actually what you've done now that I think about it though.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm able to actually maintain a relationship with women that they also want to maintain
            If you aren't fricking, it's not a relationship they want to maintain.
            > so I'm not so autistic
            Autists can trivially maintain what you describe, the problem is they can't go further.
            You sound like you have a touch of the tism.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >such a great guy
          >what date me, no way

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Literally my life the last 7 or so years

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >female friends who routinely tell me I'm such a great guy
          >could never get anyone to want to date me.

          >oh you're such a great guy, anon
          >you're bound to find a girl some day!
          >NOT ME THOUGH HAHA SOME GIRL FAR MORE UNLUCKY AND PATHETIC THAN ME MIGHT LIKE YOU
          Every. Time.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm such a great guy and should able to find someone
          This is such a b***hy thing for women to do, especially if they're single.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Youd have no female friends if you were good looking lol
          t. every single female friend was in love with me

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm average looking sadly. I used to hope height mattered more than it does, but I think it doesn't boost you unless you're on the higher end facially.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Imma be honest, if you're such a great guy.... why haven't they set you up with a friend

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >maybe later
    >way later
    >maybe delete the app

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    At least they don't blur the picture too much, so if she's morbidly obese it still shows through the blur filter.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Oh no I'll have to date in my th-
    Kek, no I don't, I don't give a shit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you were sent your own way Black person, sit down

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cope and rope wannabe-breeder homosexual.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm quite close to this. But I'm just going to move to SEA and retire early. Maybe date a nice rural girl who's never heard of instagram.

      • 1 month ago
        inventor of SEAmonkey

        >never heard of instagram.
        heh, good one anon. I do love me a SEAmonkey though, I will breed one someday

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well at the very least doesn't have one. They are out there.

          • 1 month ago
            inventor of SEAmonkey

            yeah that's true, my worry is if I seek out a SEAmonkey that they'll want me to pay their family and shit but I've not travelling to my desired countries yet. How old are you now, anon?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 37
            I was looking to retire and frick off at about 45, but I just got promoted so I'll be throwing extra cash toward my investments.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 37
            I was looking to retire and frick off at about 45, but I just got promoted so I'll be throwing extra cash toward my investments.

            What sea countries do you guys like? I went there and didn't frick any girls, but there are some nice places there and people are pretty cool.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Thailand
            The Philippines
            Indonesia (Bali, mainly)
            Vietnam

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Been to Vietnam and Thailand. Vietnam as a whole is very amazing. Thailand was nice too, but I really love was Chiang Mai. Very cool to explore, surrounding region is amazing, and have certain foods you don't find as much around Bangkok and the beach areas.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What I said to the other anon, most of Thailand and Vietnam. I like Vietnam most of all, but it's a lot different from the rest of sea and I heard from people who are going just for women that it's a bit trickier to pull things off than say Thailand and Philippines.

            I will probably be touring (not sex touring) around those countries, just enjoying early retirement. That's my main motivating factor, not being a fricking wagecuck anymore.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I understand anon. I'm probably one of the few men who went to this region a virgin and left one as well. I like traveling, but don't want to be like that since I'd hate to think that's how I need to attract a woman.
            It's very nice there either way and hope you enjoy. I don't about other countries, but Vietnam and Thailand are both very different, and know other countries like Cambodia have things that are unique and interesting about them as well.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Cambodia have things that are unique and interesting about them as well
            Well I might check it out too, not like I'll have anywhere to be

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            On one hand, I want to make it there because of Angkor Wat, but I always get disappointed by these very tourist prone spots in these countries. Palace in Bangkok and Ha Long Bay in Vietnam were two things that kind underwhelmed because it was just overwhelming how many people were around me.
            Definitely interesting things if you go off beaten path even a little and can find lesser known things that are also impressive and easier to enjoy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Definitely interesting things if you go off beaten path
            I typically do not venture places like a tourist. Mostly because it opens you up to getting scammed/pickpocketed or whatever. I try not to look/seem like a mark wherever I travel.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's hard to completely remove that when in sea since you obviously will stand out a lot if you're a westerner, people will still see and may try no matter what.
            It's fairly easy to spot when someone is trying to run a scam and being mindful in crowded places is easiest way to avoid pickpockets. Just look up common things of concern ahead of time. I'd actually say relax a little though. Most people you meet aren't scammers and especially out of the way might be genuinely interested in talking to a foreigner and I had far more pleasant experiences than negative.

          • 1 month ago
            inventor of SEAmonkey

            Where did you go? I only want Thai / Philippine SEAmonkeys

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What I said to the other anon, most of Thailand and Vietnam. I like Vietnam most of all, but it's a lot different from the rest of sea and I heard from people who are going just for women that it's a bit trickier to pull things off than say Thailand and Philippines.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >sets age range to 18-26
    not my problem

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    That's why I gave up and embraced AI

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    there's a line for pretty much every kind of woman

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