Dating is miserable.

Dating is miserable.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >opt into 20
    >opt out of bars

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What's 20?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >dating is miserable FOR ME
    fify

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Only if your relationship is bad. Bet you took the "bpd gf" meme

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've been swindled by a BPDemon and I can't leave because being abused is better than spending my life alone

      I will probably die by my own hand soon its prolly the only way out of this nightmare relationship

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        what's it like? curious as someone who had to deal with one

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well lets put it this way my home isn't my home anymore ever since she decided to stay as long as she felt like it (2 1/2 years now)

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yeah I'm

            "handle her well" there's only so much bullshit you can take. at some point you want to sit down and talk and they just don't want to, especially when you point out the shitty things they do in the relationship

            . it gets ridiculous after a while and they're the only ones allowed to have rules and boundaries

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Never had a suicidal thought in my life until this BPDemon came into it now I think about killin myself on the daily

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what did she do that makes you want to have a nice day and can't be solved by simply stopping to be with her?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Squatting in my house, causing rent to be jacked up (she currently owes me thousands of dollars back rent for this because she isn't paying), thinks this is her home now and any attempt to get rid of her will result in a big frickin episode with yelling, screaming, cutting and a very real chance she'll frickin destroy my life by feeding everyone in town bullshit about me

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            how do you even get to the living together phase with someone like that? are they actually lucid enough to act normal till they get you there or are (You) just moronic? not wanting to sound mean, serious question

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Its my first relationship, I met her in some out of state meetups and it got to the point where I flew out to see her then she flew out to visit me once, then flew out to "visit" me again and still hasn't left I gave her no permission to live here at all I'm trying to hang in there until her next visit home then I'm hightailing it sucks that I have to be driven out of my own home but frick I'd rather be homeless and free than deal with this shit another fricking day

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How tf everyone end up in these long distance relationships

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She told me she was only going to be here two months but its been 2 1/2 years now

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Agreed. Even though most people (here and irl) would try to blame it on your lack of ability to enjoy relationships, I think that the real reason we feel sad is because of the realization that there is little to go from here once you got what you wanted for so long
      Sure, we can still get enjoyment from doing things we like and moderately indulging in hedonist pleasures like eating and lazing, but life does not provide enough compensation unless you cope really hard with abstractions such as working your ass off or surrounding yourself with materialism

      I don't even get to the relationship point majority of the time. Either one of us just doesn't like the other that much or they're complete garbage humans. Sometimes both.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I never had a relationship before either, but I imagine it's not much different from the "getting to know each other" part. It's not like there will be sparkles around you as if you were characters from the sims
        But now that you feel that way about dating, are you still gonna keep trying? Personally I gave up at 25 and have been suppressing those thoughts ever since. The urges will probably never go away completely, but at least I try not to think about it too much and it's been working well enough so far

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I didn't even start till 25.

          Tell me, what events led to the care of this thread, OP?

          In general, repeated failures and meeting horrible people at bars and dating apps. I haven't had luck meeting people elsewhere but I've been trying to expand.

          More specifically last night I got stood up by a girl who i met a few months ago, and was also dropped by another I went on a few dates with who said she wanted to frick. Last night she posted some stories with another dude.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I cant even get to the dates part
            Had Hinge for a few days, got a grand total of 1 match (who didnt even reply)
            Im 26 for reference, it probably doesnt help that I have a babyface and am a framelet so I look 20 or something. Women my age have better options, women younger than me have way more men to choose from, older women would never date me, its so fricking over. The sad part is I could actually get dates when I was in my early 20s on these apps.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I only ever met up with 1 girl from any app, had 2 dates and then she ghosted n picked some other dude

            I'm also 26 with a babyface and only women in their 30s notice me. I get complimented on my muscles and fashion somewhat regularly

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I get complimented on my muscles and fashion somewhat regularly
            Working out is probably the answer for me, im just lazy and unmotivated, but at the same time im at a point where I wouldnt mind an older gf

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's the answer to the confidence problem, but it's not going to get you a gf. I'm still floundering out here despite getting attention semi regularly and having some dates. The few girls I've met who were actually good people aren't attracted to me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A BPD GF isn't so bad if you're a narcissist who can handle her well. All things are possible through God as well, so write that down.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        "handle her well" there's only so much bullshit you can take. at some point you want to sit down and talk and they just don't want to, especially when you point out the shitty things they do in the relationship

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          yeah I'm [...]. it gets ridiculous after a while and they're the only ones allowed to have rules and boundaries

          I know what you guys are talking about, but I'm not just reactive in my relationship. I set rules and boundaries for her, maybe more so than she does for me. I listen to her problems and support but I tell her the truth if she needs to hear it.

          Relationships are transactional, so that means you gotta take and give. Barter and haggle. Be fair, but not always equal because demand meets supply.

          Not saying you guys aren't trying or anything, but I'm damn good at this relationship and so is she. I wouldn't accept anything less.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Agreed. Even though most people (here and irl) would try to blame it on your lack of ability to enjoy relationships, I think that the real reason we feel sad is because of the realization that there is little to go from here once you got what you wanted for so long
    Sure, we can still get enjoyment from doing things we like and moderately indulging in hedonist pleasures like eating and lazing, but life does not provide enough compensation unless you cope really hard with abstractions such as working your ass off or surrounding yourself with materialism

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >because of the realization that there is little to go from here once you got what you wanted for so long
      Skill issue. Have you tried not being a boring fricking person with no aspirations?

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tell me, what events led to the care of this thread, OP?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    finally some solved that wears a helmet

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw "my" gf is meeting up with a new "guy friend" later today
    >tfw when i told her im uncomfortable with it
    >tfw she wont let me meet him "because it'll be awkward"
    >tfw she still kissed me and told me she loved me this morning

    We have a trip booked for the summer, I'd have already broken up if not, we're too old for childish fricking games. I've been feeling extremely disrespected so i might just do it anyways. I was genuinely happy too..

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry brother. I've been nothing but disrespected by them from the beginning too

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon
        It is what it is in the end of the day, part of me wants to trust her (she did need freinds) but i just don't feel good about the way it's happening. I guess I'll just be in limbo for a bit until the trip, im pushed to far or she regains my trust

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Drop her ass and go on the summer thing yourself if its a thing with tickets or reservations, or give it to 2 people you know. Aint worth such flagrant disrespect from someone who claims to love you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The plane tickets are in our name, she got the hotels. I can last a couple of months i think but if not they're going to waste.

        It's pathetic but i do still hope my gut is wrong, she's the first girl I actually loved. A bit of extra pain just builds character kek

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Who cares if your gut is wrong, b***h is playing games and disregarded how you feel while chugging along like everything is fine

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I know you're right... hopefully i can talk to her tonight

            >A bit of extra pain just builds character kek
            Yeah it sure does anon

            Let me cope

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >A bit of extra pain just builds character kek
          Yeah it sure does anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Never trust women, rule number 1

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yeah that's 1 and 2 physical, they are both hard to get

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