Dating is pointless

Unironically what’s the point in trying to get a gf when you know she’s already talking to 10+ other guys and also has many more on standby in her DMs? Like, do you legitimately think you can rise to the test and be the best possible one out of all her options? Even if you do bag her, Chad is just a text away from making her cheat on you. What’s the fricking point? Feels like the winning move is to not play at all.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just avoid the type of girl who juggles 10+ orbiters. And yes, it is possible to figure out who those types of girls are, they are recognisable within 30 minutes of getting to know them.

    While it’s true that women are the selective sex, you need to remember that you are the competitive sex. And just because you are the competitive sex it does not mean that only men are your competition. The girl herself is competition. That means you are going to be competing against her sex appeal, her intelligence, her virtue.

    And if she is a shit tier woman, has no virtue, no dignity, or lacking wisdom and grace, then she isn’t competition. That means as a man, you do not pursue. You say ‘frick it’ and find something better. Someone who isn’t a bawd who juggles 10 men. And you do this without putting yourself down.

    Women are the gatekeepers of sex it’s true. But men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women don’t admit it to men that often, but they obsess over their ‘big day’ and bridal princess moment almost as hard as men obsess over a nice juicy pair of breasts and a fat round ass. And a man should always make the woman work for it. She needs to demonstrate she is worth competing for and fighting for and marrying. If she ain’t, then be a man and walk away with your head up high.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > Just avoid the type of girl who juggles 10+ orbiters

      That is literally every single woman nowadays.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It’s not. I know you do not believe my claim, I know you genuinely have seen nothing but back to back shit woman after shit woman. You’re not crazy for noticing it. I used to think it too.

        Then I realised that I was attracted to the wrong type of women without knowing, I kept going for women who were dogshit. But I didn’t recognise it as such because to me at the time, they seemed sincere were approachable and hell even initiating relationships with me and making the first moves and being very forward. But those types of women were poison. Love bombing hauntingly sweet hello kitty e-girls and quirky girls who ‘werent like the other girls’, all of them are trash.

        As a competitor, a man, a hunter, when your quarry is giving you shit yield, you need to change the quarry. Go for a different type of chick. Watch the difference.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >a different type of chick
          Lmao. Lmao even.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Good god man please tell me you’re able to discern the different types of women out there?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh, yes. Thank you so much rabbi for your words of wisdom. I’ll be sure to believe all women and vote blue no matter who. Shalom and goodnight.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            jesus, no wonder you’re getting wrecked out there in the dating game. You’re a sitting duck if you can’t tell shit from shineola. The frick is happening to this generation of men?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >oy vey!

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Go for a different type of chick
          There are no women without massive caveats (obesity, dumbass wigger tats, a kid) that don't have a lot of attention.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There are. But suffice it to say, even those women who still receive some attention, you need to ask, what KIND of attention is she getting? The kind of attention she gets tells you what kind of girl she is. Look at any twitch streaming prostitute. breasts out, caked up in makeup, ahegao pfp. You know what attention she gets, right? So that tells you what she is, a prostitute, a harpy, a jezebel.

            Go for the woman who gets respect, has self respect, the one who doesn’t parade her breasts around. I’ll even throw you a bone, go look into the girls who are into fantasy novels and books, look into the home decor/cottage living/homestead girls. They have entire communities chock full of women, entire communities online and offline made by women for women. They’re right there ready for harvest. But most men walk right by them because of the chicks who have their breasts out. Or their hair dyed blue, or is in goth clothing, or whatever stupid harpy shit enthralls weak men.

            That’s the attention she gets btw, weak men, the guys who fear competition are the simps. Once you know this and understand this, you realise there is no competition. Go for the jugular.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >go look into the girls who are into fantasy novels and books, look into the home decor/cottage living/homestead girls
            You are out of your fricking mind, or living in a lala land of Twitter memes if you think those women are A) single B) not getting a lot of male attention.

            Honestly, they're hoes in sheep's clothing in my experience. You might actually get a low self-esteem nerdy weirdo with the alt girl.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You might actually get a low self-esteem nerdy weirdo with the alt girl.

            Yeah good luck with those. They’re crammed with SSRIs and have called many men ‘daddy’ and got fricked on their sanrio bed before you even said hello. And if that’s your preference, and you acknowledge you keep seeing shit women, then it tells you that you need to change the menu.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're out of your fricking mind if you think the kind of conventionally attractive woman that's carefully curating a cottagecore lifestyle (and doesn't have a boyfriend/husband/fiance behind the camera) doesn't have a gaggle of orbiters.

            Log off Twitter. It's giving you brain damage.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, because straight horny men are into cottagecore and cute kitchen home making baking and womenly interests. There’s SO many men in their circles forming gaggles around the massive horde of women in the female dominated social circle that you refuse to check out in favour of the alt chick girl with the septum piercing who did something simple like enjoy the same anime you watched once.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >because straight horny men are into cottagecore and cute kitchen home making baking and womenly interests

            There is an entire contingent of """"trad"""" """"vol"""cels simping for these women. If anything, they get more attention than random girls from your town posting "omg margs, omg beaches, omg pumpkin spice".

            Get into the groupchats, and you'll find out that they're A) not single B) have quite the long list of exes.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lol. You’re afraid of volcels? The voluntarily celibate? The men who refuse to take shots?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No. I'm saying that you're absolutely deluded. These women get a lot of male attention, more than the average "not fat" American woman.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’d like to know who is deluded then. Tell me, how do you know? Do you ask these women you already admitted to avoiding out of preference for le quirky alt chick? Do you ask how many men DM them in a given week? Do you make a census and ask every male she’s ever come across if he fricked her?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Its cool that you are trying to be positive but OP is absolutely right about women having crazy dating options.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Tell me, how do you know?
            Because I'm in rw gcs, where cottagecore tradthots and the drama surrounding them are inevitable.

            >Do you ask these women you already admitted to avoiding out
            No, but I know them parasocially from being in some the groupchats with their alts where they express and like spicier opinions.

            First of all, the trad cottagecore aesthetic is usually something they pickup after a normie teens and early-mid 20s social life that they kinda age out of, or just have a different disposition than other girls. Needless to say, by this point, they've racked up a couple exes.

            >Do you ask how many men DM them in a given week?
            It depends; I'd say single digits of unique dms from <1k ig/twitter cottagecore tradthots. And it kinda goes exponential after ~10k.

            > avoiding out of preference for le quirky alt chick?
            Yes, I have a preference. My first choice is Sorority Stacy, largely because I was Greek in a party school and fumbled the ring by spring. Give me "omg margs, omg beaches, etc" any day; those women rock; they're far less likely to embarrass you by bringing them to anything, etc. Second would be alt girls, indeed because of a lot of shared interests and an ability to empathize from that sort of kinda nerdy, kinda awkward, failed normie headspace.

            I don't respect the cottagecore girls. It's an aesthetic that's an elaborate thirst trap for a particular kind of man. In several cases I'm aware of, it's an affectation because they couldn't compete with the normie SEC Stacy, so they court a different audience.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Sorority Stacy
            >Alt girl

            is there a catalog out there that'll explain more about what you guys are talking about with these labels? i think i like emo girls most but they may go by a different label now. aside from these i only know of manic pixie dream girl. what others are there?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > Go for the woman who gets respect, has self respect, the one who doesn’t parade her breasts around

            You’re fricking delusional if you think women like this don’t have an orbit of guys fiending for her. It’s literally fricking impossible to find a woman that dosent have an influx of men trying to get with her unless she has kids or is obese like the other anon said. I went on a date with a girl I met on bumble who has no social media, goes to sleep at 9 pm every night, and is conserve catholic and she fricking ghosted me despite telling me how much fun she had and that she couldn’t wait to see me again. The only explanation is that she found a better guy than me and ghosted me. It’s fricking maddening.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >has no social media
            >used bumble, a social media, to meet you
            First of all, that should’ve told you she was a lying c**t. Second, remember what I said. The type of attention a woman gets tells you the type of woman she is. She gets hers from bumble/dating apps. The place where all of the shit women congregate for easy and fast validation and attention and hookups.

            Tf you doing on dating apps?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >tf you doing on dating apps?

            Where else am I supposed to meet women? Especially after school where the only women I see are my coworkers and gym thots? I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but women can’t fricking stand my existence. And it sucks because I get lots of matches and see girls looking at me and smiles at me. I must have a horrible personality or my autism somehow shows itself during dates and gives women the ick. I’m so fricked bro. God cursed me so bad

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I’m legitimately not good enough for a girlfriend at this point. Every single date I’ve had is never followed up on. I must be one ugly mother fricker to repulse women after one date. My life is so fricked. I don’t stand a fricking chance against all these other men who are so much better than me in every single way

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Stop talking shit about yourself, butthole. Leave yourself be. The frick is bullying yourself going to accomplish?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m just being 109% truthful and honest. I KNOW I don’t stand a chance against all the other men out there. I’m shy, timid, and a little emotional. Those are all the personality traits that repulse women. I don’t have that Chad personality. Ever since things fell through with that bumble girl I’ve been so fricking depressed. If I couldn’t even pull a girl who dosent have any social media and goes to sleep at 9, I don’t stand a fricking chance with any other “normal” girl in my generation who uses social media. I’m not even kidding if I had a gun on me right now I would 100% shoot my self. I’m so fricking black pilled and depressed that I don’t even want to be alive anymore.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Chad doesn’t fricking exist. And neither does incel. These archetypes are merely that, archetypes. Fricking social phantoms that you keep haunting yourself with. You do stand a chance, because you ARE that chance. You are the prize, stop treating any woman who has a pair of breasts as the prize, do not put them on a pedestal.

            Shy? timid? emotional? Go watch any chick flick, read any female romance book. Your personality type is getting drowned in pussy in those. What you are supposed to do is not damn yourself for being shy or emotional. You treat them as your strengths, you play your hand to the best of your ability. Never forsake yourself or pretend to be something else.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If I couldn’t even pull a girl who dosent have any social media and goes to sleep at 9, I don’t stand a fricking chance with any other “normal” girl in my generation who uses social media

            The funny thing is this demographic does exist , they're all the grad students and academics - just gotta know where they at

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If you go outside right now and take stock of the women in your area, the only girls you will see are
          Nonwhite
          Morbidly obese/trashy
          35+ years old
          Already in a relationship
          Some combination of the above

          There are NO good women left. None. Nada. Zilch. You go to a library, they're all either fat or middle aged blacks trying to get a "free edumacashun". You go to a coffee shop, they're all 30-something housewives or college girls with abhorrent radical misandrist politics who will shriek rape if you look at them. Go to church, it's all little old ladies and married women. Go to a club/bar, it's trashy single mothers with body counts in the triple digits.

          On the incredibly slim chance a decent girl exists, she's a shutin living with her parents who never goes outside and thus is unavailable because there's no way to socialise with her.

          There are no good women anymore.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It’s not. I know you do not believe my claim, I know you genuinely have seen nothing but back to back shit woman after shit woman. You’re not crazy for noticing it. I used to think it too.

      Then I realised that I was attracted to the wrong type of women without knowing, I kept going for women who were dogshit. But I didn’t recognise it as such because to me at the time, they seemed sincere were approachable and hell even initiating relationships with me and making the first moves and being very forward. But those types of women were poison. Love bombing hauntingly sweet hello kitty e-girls and quirky girls who ‘werent like the other girls’, all of them are trash.

      As a competitor, a man, a hunter, when your quarry is giving you shit yield, you need to change the quarry. Go for a different type of chick. Watch the difference.

      true as frick anon

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    have a nice day demoraliser. I will succeed.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >to not play at all.
    Bingo.

    Acquire currency. Move off grid. Grow your own food and watch as the world slowly burns. WIN.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i dont know why i ever got back into it. i should just jerk off and forget about all that bullshit. i wasnt meant for it

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Unironically what’s the point in trying to get a gf when you know she’s already talking to 10+ other guys and also has many more on standby in her DMs?
    I don't know man I can't deal with that shit. Its literally every single one of them. Even if they aren't actively taking advantage of it, its always there, like money in the bank they an access at anytime.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What do we do bro?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I gave up years ago, now I'm happily a 31 yo KV. I just observe this fricked up game from the sidelines.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Uhhh just don't date then

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wanna know something else, OP? Even Chad isn't safe. He'll swoop in and get some tail. Maybe she'll even leave her boyfriend for him. But sooner or later (and it's usually sooner), he gets exactly the same. Nobody is safe.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not even joking when I ask this, what’s the point in living? I’m not saying life is all about sex, but us humans have that biological urge/drive for companionship hard programmed into our brains. If I can never fulfill that desire and will constantly be plagued by the depression, then what’s the point in living? Why subject myself to a life of sadness and loneliness?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Fricked if I know. The only reason I'm alive is out of survival instinct. I have no other reason.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >what’s the point in living? I’m not saying life is all about sex, but us humans have that biological urge/drive for companionship hard programmed into our brains. If I can never fulfill that desire and will constantly be plagued by the depression, then what’s the point in living? Why subject myself to a life of sadness and loneliness?

        What no god and community does to a mf

        1000 years ago there were kids ready to die for their tribe without a lick of tail in their life - their whole existence was training and god. Stop overemphasizing women. This is a grand planet with lots to do if you have a higher spiritual purpose.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Actually, 90% of what parishes did in ye olde days (pre-1940s) was arranging marriages, and tard wrangling existing ones.

          If churches aren't getting young people together, they're failing at what was historically one of their main jobs. No wonder people don't go to church - it's not really a viable path to a decent fiancee.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    chad isnt a real person anon
    its fun because i like socializing and sex is just socializing once you’ve banged enough. get a solid ego boost too
    trick is to not gaf what happens. easier said than done

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe I'm just the most deranged anon on NSFFW. But if I ever were on dating apps, I would just not give a shit about the stupid b***h and would use her for sex only, knowing damn well there can not be commitment of any sort with this unloyal c**t. Essentially treating her like a "free use" living sex toy.
    >inb4 femcel screeching about onjectification
    c**ts say they want to be treated as people, but their actions and lack of loyalty and self-respect say otherwise.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Agree to an extent but you have to actually vet her and find out if the girl is actually a pos first. Most girls on dating apps fricking suck and aren't worth your commitment, but make sure you aren't screwing over a decent girl. Do whatever to low value hoes cause you know they'd do the same to you in an instant.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >make sure you aren't screwing over a decent girl
        True. I wouldn't want to harm the good women. They should be redirected with good men.

        But honestly don't even play the game. At that point you're contributing to it too. It's better to just check out of the system I feel like. At least as far as hypergamy and all this antisocial shit between hoes of both genders goes.

        Morality is void in dating apps anyway, so being a libertine who just has sex with libertine women should be relatively okay.
        I'm out of the game for the moment, but if I ever go to dating apps, I'm keeping this mentality. Romance is dead and women killed it.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But honestly don't even play the game. At that point you're contributing to it too. It's better to just check out of the system I feel like. At least as far as hypergamy and all this antisocial shit between hoes of both genders goes.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How do I cope with the biological urge for companionship? I wish I could just turn it off and stop being attracted to women but I near

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous
    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The truth is, that is what they want lmao.
      They just use dating as a pretext, which is why they ghost so often.
      They're looking for the guy who is just going to frick them and disappear so they can frick a new guy without you texting them.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >girl who juggles 10+ orbiters
    Why do they do this? Do some men do this as well?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally every single woman has orbiters constantly and is always trying to take the girl you like. We stand absolutely no chance.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Do some men do this as well?
      The top 20%, yeah. They have at the bare minimum 1 LTR and 1-2 STR. Why do you think the single mommy rate is getting higher each year?

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    have any of you tried matirmony apps or services?

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