Did I throw myself at him too hard? I'm pink and blue is my exbf's friend.

Did I throw myself at him too hard? I'm pink and blue is my exbf's friend. Exbf told me his friend thought I was cute so I hit him up. I had a crush on him for YEARS and I lost a ton of weight and am super horny and want to frick him. How to salvage or create?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dumb prostitute.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Literally just tell him you want to frick him. Women seem so preoccupied with this fear of "coming off as desperate" yet I've never met a guy who prefers a woman to act aloof and distant

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What should I say? Just "hey sorry if this too forward but I've been attracted to youfor a long time andI'dlove to meet & catch up"

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's fine. Men are not like women, we don't need this whole elaborate dance of seduction. If a woman says "hey want to hook up" and she's not entirely gross we'll very likely say yes

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          this homie down bad

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Hey, I just take what I can get. I'm like a raccoon

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Unless we just don’t want anything to do with bawds, but that seems to be the minority position compared to guys who are willing to pump and dump.
          Besides, OP obviously is a bawd, so it’s not like she has anything to lose by getting to the point.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I think at this point I'm going to give up on this guy and not message him anymore one week no response is a pretty clear sign of disinterest unless I can pull something out of my ass. He was always a huge fantasy for me and hearing he was attracted to me too just set my hormones into overdrive I probably shouldn't have even messaged him. I am thinner more attractive and healthier than the last time he saw me but I don't think he knows that I wish there was a way to show him but he probably still wouldn't go for me. I have options but he was always my white whale

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Are you moronic? You’re talking about pets. Send him a fricking picture of you with a pet. Don’t show the face or make it about you, but it’ll be obvious that you’ve lost weight.

            Also, I don’t think you should be going into this just for sex. You’re debasing yourself and setting yourself up for failure. But if that’s your idea of ‘success’, to sleep with a guy who thinks you’re got but doesn’t care any more deeply than that, nobody can stop you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Not to sound like a bawd but it really is just about sex for me he wouldn't be a good boyfriend I just want his body. I think you are being weird it's not about success or anything like that I'm just horny and always wanted to frick him but I was a loyal and good girlfriend so I never went further but there was always very clear sexual tension between us I really just wish I could feel his wiener inside me just once. I will send a selfie showing my body with the pet on me great idea thank you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Idk still seems shitty fricking an exes friend but do you. Most degenerates approve degenerate behavior. Hope it’s small and he busts in 4 pumps.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You should grow up or maybe not respond to posts that are out of your emotional depth. I bet you are under 25 years old

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Let’s be real, How emotionally deep could “just wanting to feel his wiener in you” be? Not more than a few inches.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you trying to LARP that he has a small dick it's odd I think you need mental health treatment. Get well soon

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I thought the joke lined up well for the topic but it seems that went over your head. Obviously that is not what would be ideal for your fantasy, right? Badumtsss get it, anyways not that I’m exactly hating on your life choices. You’ve wanted to frick him for years that’s about as emotionally deep as this is. Fricking and relationships are one thing but you can’t seem to pick between its actual significance of just hitting him up for sex and or getting rejected.
            Glad you lost the weight and you’re all confident now hope he fricks your brains out. You deserve it. Cheers.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Wasn't funny and you are mentally oddplease refrain from responding to this thread further you are unwanted and inept.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Apologies. I might be putting myself in your exes shoes. Just my last worthless two cents. Doesn’t matter how good terms your guys left off on, it’s going to look shitty. On you as an ex and him as a friend.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Hm BPD Stacy can you just chill and be more gracious when that fella above was trying to backpedal? You must be used to being called a bawd cuz you responded much more positively to that

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Anons above called her a bawd and prostitute and she responds eloquently. That bastard talks ill about her boy toy and he’s mentally handicapped.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            ok prostitute

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're so drunk/moronic you can't even hate on the right person. Hahahaha. Dimwit

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            No. I am teaching him.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yea you came to a place known for its mentally conventional patrons. I think anon lined that joke up well, poor execution. Tough crowd.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because sex isn't such a divine special thing to most of us. Asking people if they want to have fun with you is perfectly normal

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I was turned down for being too desperate multiple times.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Are you sure? I know many red flags but being desperate isn't usually one of them. Care to greentext an example?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Like a guy
          >Make it obvious I like him
          >Chat with him at every opportunity
          >Okay with everything he does just because I like him so much
          >Perfectly fine with being a doormat for him as long as I can keep him around
          >Ask him out
          >Three times, to be exact
          >I specifically drove to his city (1h drive) with flowers to ask him out
          >Turns me down every time
          >Third time says I am too desperate and that's why he doesn't and won't ever want me
          >Says I'll be fine with anyone as long as i get the tiniest shred of attention (not true)
          >Cuts all contact with me

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            There's a big difference between saying "I like you, let's hang out sometime" and repeatedly asking someone out even after they say no and driving far distances to their house unannounced. That's not desperate, that's crazy. And men are taught from day one to never stick their dicks in crazy. If you want to frick this guy then come out and say it -- if he turns you down, be a fricking adult and accept his decision. Desperation is repeatedly throwing yourself at someone who has made it very clear that they don't like you.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's my point though? Men don't like desperate girls.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >aloof and distant
      The irony of this in a discussion mostly about dogs and cats is hilarious. Is the stereotypical "manly guy's best friend" act like a dog or act like a cat?
      Chicks think "man's best friend" is a cat. It would be hilarious if it were not so sad.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i am a full grown man and my cat is my best friend and i love her

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Are you a "homosexual" by any chance?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            no

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hate women so much it's unreal.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lol this is normal. I've had 2 girlfriends go after my friends after I broke up wIth them, and have had 3 or 4 of my friends exes try this with me. I've never had a friend pursue one of my exes other than just to frick though. This is female behavior, and I dont mind being eskimo brothers with friends, as long as im not the one getting sloppy seconds. Its funny to compare notes.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      same

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You haven't come on too hard, but consider this, Do you just want to get plowed or do you want more?

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I see a partial username so I’m gonna dedicate the next hour to finding you and sending this thread to everyone you have added

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is your username Napnog? Seems like it could be

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I know for certain with those messages your intent would fly way over my head. I'd prefer something way more straightforward

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your ex-bf said he thought you were cute. Ask him if that’s true; if he says yes, tell him you’re into him as well. See where the conversation goes from there; when it seems natural, let him know what you’re looking for.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    > i crushed on my ex's friend when i eas with my ex
    Lmao afraid of throwing herself at him but admitting to your ex that you are a decietful prostitute and semi-cheater is no problem

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Breaking up because you stopped loving your current partner is very valid though

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sure, crushing on his friend while dating him is not.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Isn't that just how thr relationship ends? It'd be way worse if they stayed in the relationship but still kept going after their friend

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not OP but now I'm overthinking things. Is this girl who messaged me out of the blue after 3 months of no contact trying to frick me?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      ya bro. classic Rob

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yes, she wants the dick.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm the worst at reaching out first
      you're in there

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Pugs
    Huge red flag, even more than being a horse girl. Also, find Jesus.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I can give you his POV, having lived it.
    My childhood best friend dated a hot chick; I'm not losing a lifelong best friend by trying to steal his GF while they're dating. If she liked me, she would have set me up with one of her single friends while she was dating my buddy; she definitely did not; that answers if she likes me ("no"). She had single friends and would rather see them alone that with me, I guess.
    Seriously, you're trying to get a guys attention by spending the entire conversation talking about pets? Back and forth convo for two hours and you somehow avoided mentioning him at all the entire time? That would tell me you got ZERO interest in me.
    Do some of that sly girl stuff, you claim to have lost weight, so "hey I've been getting pretty fit doing XYZ at the gym but I've been thinking of trying ABC, you still do that or you doing something else?" (he says any damn thing about exercise here) "Wow that sounds tiring I'd need a massage after that, how about you?" Or something like that.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girls will really say "I have your 360 & your cat is cute" and believe that it constitutes "throwing themselves at men" and count it as a rejection if the man doesn't carry the rest of the interaction
    i hate women so much it's unreal

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fricking prostitute. have a nice day, holy shit. I hate women so much it's unreal. Women just want sex and do nothing in return. You deserve to die alone.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If I ever had a conversation like this outside of obligatory family meetings etc I’d stick a gun in my mouth and pull the trigger on the spot holy shit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Isn’t it obvious she wants him after talking about her pugs? Way too forward in my opinion.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Did I throw myself at him too hard?
    No
    >How to salvage
    You didn't even drop it at all. Looks pretty standard but you need to be a little more flirty so he gets the idea of why you "want him over"

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