do asexual men exist???

everoyne my age is having sex and getting bfs and im too scared to get into a relationship because i really dont wanna have sex lol

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm scared of sex

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i'm scared of sex too although i'm not asexual
      actually part of why i don't even try dating is because i assume any girl is going to want to have sex way before i'm comfortable with the idea

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How big is your penis? I bet you have a micro dick

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but femanons tell it to me straight is 6 inches good enough

          • 2 weeks ago
            sm0l gurl :3

            i wanna have a bf hold hands with until his balls turn blue and ill tell him not to he lewd cuz im a good girl :3

            n0t sm0l 3nuff

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          My dick is 7 inches but I'm still scared of sex. Size has nothing to do with it.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I know I was just fricking with your bro lol. The biggest things that makes sex scary is women and autism

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i would like to have sex eventually (for the purpose of reproduction)

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      thats my only interest in it too, i feel like im fricking sheldon cooper reborn, i only care about sex because i really want children

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i'm not saying just for reproduction but as a bonding experience with the woman i want to be married to i would definitely want to bang her a lot

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ive thought about this a lot, but sex as a bonding experience seems so... meh to me... like, i think other intimate acts are much more special, sex is animalistic and theres a lot of gross aspects.. i really worry that i'll love someone a lot, yet not be able to please him sexually enough, and then itll mess everything up

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well i don't know if you'd feel the same if you were with someone you were attracted to. our human instincts just make us want to do it. and if you were with someone and didn't have those urges it would make him feel bad and undesired and it would be a painful relationship.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            its not really a case of not having the urges, ive experienced attraction before and wanted to act on it.... i think i could genuinely go my entire life without having sex though. basically, if i didnt want to bond & have children with someone, i just wouldnt care about it

            Nature designed your vag for penis, whats so scary about it

            it weirds me out, it seems like a very awkward process

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            if you were attracted to someone you were close to and you were alone it would probably just come naturally. you think you are unemotional but your mind will go blank when you feel the urge

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            u right, im not completely unemotional. but that doesnt adress all the other sex stuff which is scary as hell, i dont know how ill ever do it

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1707448393992202.png

            >i really dont wanna have sex lol
            liar
            dont ever believe a girl when she tells you she's a virgin
            she lies, pretends, sneaks around with men in secret, gets molested by her uncle (that didnt count), etc etc

            honestly, they are ALL prostitutes, and op is a liar. this is the truth

            she wants a aseuxal bf so she can have a emotional tampon betabux cuckold

            i want an asexual bf because the obligation of sex is overwhelming and makes me want to be literally celibate forever. i want a nice kind bf who likes going on cute dates and holding hands, who doesnt have coomerbrain

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i think you're overthinking it and when the time comes to frick it will be completely natural
            >i want a nice kind bf who likes going on cute dates and holding hands, who doesnt have coomerbrain
            that's nice and cute but he's going to want to frick sooner or later. it can't be helped

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i knooow it cant be helped and thats ok but like, ideally id want a bf who doesnt mind having sex maybe 1-3 times a week. most men seem to want it daily, or even multiple times a day

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i think 3 times a week should be plenty

            I sometimes feel way more attracted to a girl's personality than her looks, like just having someone that's pleasant to be around is so much better for me than a really hot girl.

            even if you're attracted to her personality mostly you should still want to stick it in her

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I sometimes feel way more attracted to a girl's personality than her looks, like just having someone that's pleasant to be around is so much better for me than a really hot girl.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's everybody though, no? A 3/10 that I click with becomes 8/10 easy, not even exaggerating.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >i want an asexual bf because the obligation of sex is overwhelming and makes me want to be literally celibate forever. i want a nice kind bf who likes going on cute dates and holding hands, who doesnt have coomerbrain

            nah u will cheat on him and frick guys on the side. i dont trust prostitutes

            sex is a vital part of relationships, and to deny a man of this from the start, while pretending its not a big deal, is bad faith. its perfectly reasonable not to trust prostitutes like you because its in a females blood to lie from cradlel to grave

            just imagine how much women would get away with paternity fraud if they knew dna testing wasnt a thing. and its still just so common

            i dont trust a word you say, and neither should any discerning man

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            obviously its a big deal, hence why i made this thread, i dont exaclty know what to do about my aversion to sex. i wish i could find a man who isnt a sex pest, thats all

            it's called guys who wait until marriage

            im a cradle catholic (though just coming back to my faith), so that is the ideal for me.
            its just, there isnt really many men my age who are interested in waiting though

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            ok. what do you think about getting pregnant?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i like children a lot so i have no issue with being pregnant, its caused me a lot of stress actually bc im worried ill die alone and never have babies

            Religiousgays are the horniest people that exist because of how sexually repressed they are, what you want is some guy that does nothing but look at the sky all day.

            there is some religious men who are disciplined and not coomers, but yeah, youre right

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1707449865643873.jpg

            I think I would like sex as a bonding experience but I don't get into a relationship because i'm scared of sex or anything sexual really and it doesn't seem nice it seems really really scary and i think if i got a boyfriend he would just keep pressuring me to do sexual things when i would just want to take it really slow and i kind of just want to be friends first before dating and meet someone without the pressure of dating and slowly falling in love. i want to make a friend then slowly fall in love with eachother but every guy that's happened to me with this gets a gf then stops talking to me. is it because im ugly and annoying???

            they most likely assumed that you werent interested. i had this once before and it was very nice, but you kinda have to make it clear you have a crush lol

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >im worried ill die alone and never have babies
            same. marry me

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Religiousgays are the horniest people that exist because of how sexually repressed they are, what you want is some guy that does nothing but look at the sky all day.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i fricking hate interacting with fembots but heres what i think
            a lot of guys want sex but dont really worry about being "fulfilled", sex for guys isnt really about the action its all about the nut
            so most guys in serious relationships probably wont mind mid sex if there is other intimacy/bonding (cuddling etc.)

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    going 25 years without sex has to be some form of asexuality....r-right guys?

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, they exist, although I believe they're rarer than women are.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ermmm idk but if u find out pls let me know... it sucks being 22 and a virgin ,,when i tell men they get so eerie about it??? ugh whatever

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sexualities are a fabrication, period. i also hate sex because of how vapid and transactional it is, it's only for making kids. there's nothing wrong with that, i respect it

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just want to make out and cuddle with somebody, to be completely honest I don't really care about sex. I can achieve the same effect by jerking off, sex without emotion is just jerking off using someone's body.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nature designed your vag for penis, whats so scary about it

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >i really dont wanna have sex lol
    liar
    dont ever believe a girl when she tells you she's a virgin
    she lies, pretends, sneaks around with men in secret, gets molested by her uncle (that didnt count), etc etc

    honestly, they are ALL prostitutes, and op is a liar. this is the truth

    she wants a aseuxal bf so she can have a emotional tampon betabux cuckold

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Theres no genetic advantage for a man to be asexual.
    There's no evoltionary advantage of women to consent to giving birth that's why asexual gene is so common in women

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >There's no evoltionary advantage of women to consent to giving birth
      KEK where do you Black folk come up with this shit. genes aren't real btw

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's called guys who wait until marriage

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How the frick am I supposed to find a girl that isn't a prostitute as an atheist volcel? I feel like waiting until marriage is usually a religious thing but I'm just waiting because I only want to have sex with my wife and no one else. Should I just convert?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Should I just convert
        No.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          why not? I thought most christians were secretly atheists anyway, and that they just went to church for the community

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            From the anecdotal experience I have in my church, people there genuinely do believe in God. I've had very in depth conversations in my youth group about things like the nature of the Trinity, differences between eastern Orthodox and the Catholics, the history of the church (with specific focus on the ecumenical councils), past heresies, etc. The kind of stuff people wouldn't know if they weren't genuinely passionate about their faith. Don't convert just because muh virgin tradwife. You should convert out of genuine interest and desire for the faith. Check out some of St. Thomas Aquinas's works.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Forgot to mention:
            t. Cradle Catholic

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I wasn't being serious anon, I have respect for Christianity despite not having faith myself and I wouldn't involve myself in it without being a believer. My situation still is pretty funny to me though I feel like an anomaly, I have no idea where to find someone like me

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah you have to legit be interested in converting to go through catechesis and baptism etc
            i wouldnt recommend aquinas for someine new to christianity though, anyone interested in christianity should just start by reading the new testament imo

            What about an agnostic guy that is respectful of your beliefs?

            yeah thats fine, ive almost given up on finding a christian man because theyre a serious minority now

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think you mean someone that actually respects their religion, because the are still plenty of "christian" guys but most of them are cringe larpers. This applies to a lot of things nowadays, not just religion but I think you get the point.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            most of the larpers seem to be american and online thankfully, but yeah youre right

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think I would like sex as a bonding experience but I don't get into a relationship because i'm scared of sex or anything sexual really and it doesn't seem nice it seems really really scary and i think if i got a boyfriend he would just keep pressuring me to do sexual things when i would just want to take it really slow and i kind of just want to be friends first before dating and meet someone without the pressure of dating and slowly falling in love. i want to make a friend then slowly fall in love with eachother but every guy that's happened to me with this gets a gf then stops talking to me. is it because im ugly and annoying???

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you didn't act fast enough. man has shit to do and no time to waste. you shouldn't expect him to wait a year to see if he falls in love with you and if that doesn't work he just wasted a whole year

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        but why can't love just be slow? why can't we just take it slow? why do things have to be rushed? i dont want someone to wait a year first to see if they fall in love with me, but to meet someone and genuinely be friends first without the expectations of dating or even knowing eachother yet. Slowly getting to know eachother and hanging out more and more. Playing games together and sharing things. talking to eachother all day. thinking about the other person when we're not talking. I dont want to meet someone with the context of dating it's so fricking weird and I don't know how to cope with it. I can't like or want to be with someone im not friends with.

        i like children a lot so i have no issue with being pregnant, its caused me a lot of stress actually bc im worried ill die alone and never have babies

        [...]
        there is some religious men who are disciplined and not coomers, but yeah, youre right

        [...]
        they most likely assumed that you werent interested. i had this once before and it was very nice, but you kinda have to make it clear you have a crush lol

        but why they would stop talking to me if im not interested? wouldn't we be friends first? these people suddenly drop me like im trash. like im not even worth speaking to beyond having sex with or something. i did have crushes on them but i cared about them as friends too and i wouldn't have dropped them.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          if i loved someone, i wouldn't be able to stop talking to them suddenly and just drop them "because they weren't interested". it feels psychopathic. i genuinely care about these people.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i just want to be someone's first choice not in everything but i want someone to choose to be around me i guess. i want someone to reach out to me as well because im reaching out too . im there too? im bad at recognizing flirting because of autism so i dont know if any of these guys liked me. but i tried my best to show that i did. i talked to them everyday. we would vc for 5+ hours a day.

            why do people only care about me if they get to date me? were they never actually my friends? did they only care about dating me? i cared about these people so much more than romantically.

            if you want to treat a man as friends then obviously he's going to look elsewhere for romance because men hate this shit.

            why do men not want to be friends ? i can't romantically like someone without being friends first. i genuinely cant. i can't imagine being in a relationship with a stranger. is it over for me?

            most men you are going to meet just want to plap you and aren't taking the relationship serious
            the men you want, you are either not interested in or they have trouble approaching, don't want to ruin a friendship, or worse is that they have been blackpilled into thinking women who don't want to sex right away would put out right away for the right guy.

            the woman's job is not to wait for any guy to approach her and open her legs, it's to sort through all the trash because a lot of men will approach you, some will become your friend just to play the long game.

            inb4thisthreadisfembotbait

            >sort through all the trash because a lot of men will approach you, some will become your friend just to play the long game.

            men don't approach me in real life or online. every person i've made friends with, every man i've met i have reached out to first. i just want genuine connection with someone. i want to slowly get to know someone and love them and understand them and for them to genuinely care about me. will no man ever genuinely care about me? do they really just care about relationships and sex only?

            i learned men are rarely close friends with women they arent interested in... sure you can be acquaintances with them, but most men wont get close to you if they dont havw the intent to date you

            [...]
            sorry anon 🙁 i really wish i could meet someone similar to me

            how do you want to date someone without being close friends first?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you dont need to be close friends with someone to know theyre right for you, basically. im not a relationship expert or anything, but i had one and it started with us being friends. we just played vidya and then it went from 0 to 100, only AFTER we confessed we had feelings for eachother. feelings start budding literally right after you meet someone (if theyre right for you at least), if it takes you months to like someone, its probably not worth your/their time

            as relationship progresses, u develop feelings

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >why do men not want to be friends ? i can't romantically like someone without being friends first. i genuinely cant. i can't imagine being in a relationship with a stranger. is it over for me?
            you can be friends just don't take months to start being romantic or he will feel undesired and stop wasting his time and start exploring other options

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you seem like a normal, sweet girl interested in an old-school romance. unfortunately, old-school romance is dead. And your kind killed it.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            what the hell is old school about keeping men in the friend zone for extended periods of time? frickin nothing plus people used to get married at 18 back in the old school days

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like a great person, but you also sound too innocent. Please be careful.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            and by first choice i mean not necessarily romantically, but i just want someone to choose me. for example, i want someone who chooses to talk to me first, who chooses to share things with me first, who chooses to do things with me first, who wants that as well. i understand that it can also be romantic but why don't people do this? is this too much to ask? to be someone's first choice? so many friends i've tried to make have been my first choice.

            you dont need to be close friends with someone to know theyre right for you, basically. im not a relationship expert or anything, but i had one and it started with us being friends. we just played vidya and then it went from 0 to 100, only AFTER we confessed we had feelings for eachother. feelings start budding literally right after you meet someone (if theyre right for you at least), if it takes you months to like someone, its probably not worth your/their time

            as relationship progresses, u develop feelings

            i've never had romantic feelings or even found someone attractive without them being my friend before.

            >why do men not want to be friends ? i can't romantically like someone without being friends first. i genuinely cant. i can't imagine being in a relationship with a stranger. is it over for me?
            you can be friends just don't take months to start being romantic or he will feel undesired and stop wasting his time and start exploring other options

            how am i a waste of time? am i just not enjoyable to be around? i try not to be a waste of time but i just want someone who does genuinely want to be friend and there for me. i don't want to be a waste of time. i've never seen someone as a waste of time before. how can you want to be with someone but then consider them a waste of time and want "other options"? i've never once felt that way in my life about my friends, whether i had a crush on them. how is it only worth it to talk to someone if you're going to be in a romantic relationship? i want someone to care about me beyond that. if they didn't then i wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them. is that insane? i care about other people too, is it wrong to ask them to care back?

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1707451157712681.jpg

            you seem like a normal, sweet girl interested in an old-school romance. unfortunately, old-school romance is dead. And your kind killed it.

            what does this mean?

            You sound like a great person, but you also sound too innocent. Please be careful.

            what should i be careful of?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Of people exploiting your kindness and naivety to take advantage of you.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >how is it only worth it to talk to someone if you're going to be in a romantic relationship? i want someone to care about me beyond that
            i don't know what you mean because a romantic relationship is like the highest level of caring about someone.
            >is it wrong to ask them to care back?
            no but you must realize it's hard to make good long lasting friends in general. especially when you're trying to make friends with men who will be disappointed when you never want to be romantic

            dear everyone ITT: sex is way better than you can conceptualize if it's with someone you love, and there's no need to be scared because your brain turns off and your heart takes over

            so true

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah people usually are at least acquainted before being attracted to someone, but you cant just string a guy along for months until you "think" you have feelings for them. thats just mindgames, whether intentional or not. they cant wait around for you to decide on them lol

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hey if you aren't just putting up an innocent facade get off this website. It'll really rot your brain, it's not healthy for you. You seem too sweet to be here.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            does being loved and cared for only exist in romantic fiction? i want someone to care about me, i want to be someone's first choice. i do that too. i care about others. they're my first choice. is it too much to ask that back? i wouldn't stop talking to someone or consider them a waste of time if they were my friend and i liked them romantically but they didn't want to be in a relationship with me. because i would care about them, i would want the best for them. that's how i've always felt. is Himmel from frieren real? is ryuji real? is takeo real? i know they're not real people but are they just completely fake? do they not exist at all in real life? like the essence of them. of guys who are nice and care about people? is everyone mean and only self interested?

            Of people exploiting your kindness and naivety to take advantage of you.

            how do i avoid this?

            yeah people usually are at least acquainted before being attracted to someone, but you cant just string a guy along for months until you "think" you have feelings for them. thats just mindgames, whether intentional or not. they cant wait around for you to decide on them lol

            how is it stringing him along? i am just a slow person in general and feeling romantic feelings is scary. is it too much to ask someone to wait? it's not like i wouldn't be with them ever.

            Hey if you aren't just putting up an innocent facade get off this website. It'll really rot your brain, it's not healthy for you. You seem too sweet to be here.

            i'm not necessarily a sweet person i would say. i mainly come here to try to talk to people. i try to talk to people in online games but they mostly ignore me, and i dont know how to interact in group settings so i avoid servers.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i cant tell if youre just clueless about how dating works, or how feelings work, or even how people work genereally honestly lol

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >does being loved and cared for only exist in romantic fiction?
            You won't find it here.
            >How do I avoid people taking advantage of my kindness
            Sick people here are looking at your posts now like a lion looks at a juicy steak. You've been warned.
            >i'm not necessarily a sweet person i would say. i mainly come here to try to talk to people. i try to talk to people in online games but they mostly ignore me, and i dont know how to interact in group settings so i avoid servers.
            Please god be careful honey

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            also, when i try to talk in servers people call me stupid and make fun of me or they also ignore me. i only really know how to communicate on NSFFW or one on one. i go on NSFFW because i feel lonely and disconnected from society, like the people on here do too.

            i cant tell if youre just clueless about how dating works, or how feelings work, or even how people work genereally honestly lol

            i'm clueless about most human interaction, thoughts, and opinions. i feel remarkably unhuman most of the time. am i really asking for too much? am i just unlikeable?

            >does being loved and cared for only exist in romantic fiction?
            You won't find it here.
            >How do I avoid people taking advantage of my kindness
            Sick people here are looking at your posts now like a lion looks at a juicy steak. You've been warned.
            >i'm not necessarily a sweet person i would say. i mainly come here to try to talk to people. i try to talk to people in online games but they mostly ignore me, and i dont know how to interact in group settings so i avoid servers.
            Please god be careful honey

            i'm not necessarily looking for it here im just looking for opinions of others and if others do genuinely feel that way too.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >i'm clueless about most human interaction, thoughts, and opinions. i feel remarkably unhuman most of the time. am i really asking for too much? am i just unlikeable?
            NO YOU ARE NOT
            You sound perfect to be honest, you just need to meet and be around the right people. Someone will like you, enjoy your company and eventually love you. That being said you will be disliked and maybe even hated by some but those people don't fricking matter at all.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm okay with being disliked and hated by people. I think that's a normal part of living life (probably).

            the way you made my thread about your moronism kinda gives me an understandig as to why men arent waiting around for you. i say this with love as a fellow moronic autistic girl, but you cant be so unaware of peoples feelings and the fact that people cant just wait around months for you to decide on your feelings. ive been there and done that too, people will leave if you decide you wanna forever be in the talking stage.

            I wasn't trying to make your thread about me specifically. Sorry, I didn't think threads were specifically supposed to be about one topic but more so a place of generalized discussion. I don't mean deciding on feelings, I mean genuinely caring about someone and wanting to be with them. I don't want to be in the talking stage forever, I just don't want to rush things. I think people are misunderstanding in that I don't want someone to wait around for me, but I want to find someone who is willing to be a genuine friend and lover,,, not just a lover. Someone who sees me beyond being a lover.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            be my friend
            >Someone who sees me beyond being a lover.
            there is nothing beyond that except being a parent.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I mean someone who is my lover and my best friend. Someone who doesn't just care about just me being their girlfriend, but someone who cares about me as a person.

            you are literally just describing a normal, long term relationship. find a guy away from the hellhole site and youll be fine

            All the men I've liked (which is two) I knew in real life and met them in real life. We were friends, but then they randomly stopped talking to me, and I would only find out through someone else that they got a girlfriend. Is it because I'm young? I am 19. My therapist said, "I'm too mature for my age, so it can cause issues in trying to get along with others who are my age.". (she is NOT trying to groom me)

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i'm sorry people just move apart or they talked to you hoping for romance and didn't get it. do you want to be friends?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you are literally just describing a normal, long term relationship. find a guy away from the hellhole site and youll be fine

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            the way you made my thread about your moronism kinda gives me an understandig as to why men arent waiting around for you. i say this with love as a fellow moronic autistic girl, but you cant be so unaware of peoples feelings and the fact that people cant just wait around months for you to decide on your feelings. ive been there and done that too, people will leave if you decide you wanna forever be in the talking stage.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            ok listen. i will be your friend and not expect anything romantic and i won't ghost you or block you or whatever. let me know if you wanna talk

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm sorry to say but you won't be able to avoid that unless you suffer because of it, that or you meet the right people that will protect you from said scum.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1707451536606514.jpg

            and by first choice i mean not necessarily romantically, but i just want someone to choose me. for example, i want someone who chooses to talk to me first, who chooses to share things with me first, who chooses to do things with me first, who wants that as well. i understand that it can also be romantic but why don't people do this? is this too much to ask? to be someone's first choice? so many friends i've tried to make have been my first choice.

            [...]
            i've never had romantic feelings or even found someone attractive without them being my friend before.

            [...]
            how am i a waste of time? am i just not enjoyable to be around? i try not to be a waste of time but i just want someone who does genuinely want to be friend and there for me. i don't want to be a waste of time. i've never seen someone as a waste of time before. how can you want to be with someone but then consider them a waste of time and want "other options"? i've never once felt that way in my life about my friends, whether i had a crush on them. how is it only worth it to talk to someone if you're going to be in a romantic relationship? i want someone to care about me beyond that. if they didn't then i wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them. is that insane? i care about other people too, is it wrong to ask them to care back?

            [...]
            what does this mean?

            [...]
            what should i be careful of?

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1707450899646484.jpg

            i just want to be someone's first choice not in everything but i want someone to choose to be around me i guess. i want someone to reach out to me as well because im reaching out too . im there too? im bad at recognizing flirting because of autism so i dont know if any of these guys liked me. but i tried my best to show that i did. i talked to them everyday. we would vc for 5+ hours a day.

            why do people only care about me if they get to date me? were they never actually my friends? did they only care about dating me? i cared about these people so much more than romantically.

            [...]
            why do men not want to be friends ? i can't romantically like someone without being friends first. i genuinely cant. i can't imagine being in a relationship with a stranger. is it over for me?

            [...]
            >sort through all the trash because a lot of men will approach you, some will become your friend just to play the long game.

            men don't approach me in real life or online. every person i've made friends with, every man i've met i have reached out to first. i just want genuine connection with someone. i want to slowly get to know someone and love them and understand them and for them to genuinely care about me. will no man ever genuinely care about me? do they really just care about relationships and sex only?

            [...]
            how do you want to date someone without being close friends first?

            >i want friends so bad hurr durr!!!!
            >do you wanna be friends?
            >radio silence
            kek every time

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          if you want to treat a man as friends then obviously he's going to look elsewhere for romance because men hate this shit.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          i learned men are rarely close friends with women they arent interested in... sure you can be acquaintances with them, but most men wont get close to you if they dont havw the intent to date you

          Holy shit this thread is fricking killing me, I'm probably that guy but we'll probably never meet.

          sorry anon 🙁 i really wish i could meet someone similar to me

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      most men you are going to meet just want to plap you and aren't taking the relationship serious
      the men you want, you are either not interested in or they have trouble approaching, don't want to ruin a friendship, or worse is that they have been blackpilled into thinking women who don't want to sex right away would put out right away for the right guy.

      the woman's job is not to wait for any guy to approach her and open her legs, it's to sort through all the trash because a lot of men will approach you, some will become your friend just to play the long game.

      inb4thisthreadisfembotbait

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    same i dont know if its because im sexually repressed, i still have sexual thoughts from time to time but i know if i actually engaged in sexual acts id just feel guilty and disgusting

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit this thread is fricking killing me, I'm probably that guy but we'll probably never meet.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you love your man you'll spread your legs for him.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Low gaba in your brain making you anxious.

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dear everyone ITT: sex is way better than you can conceptualize if it's with someone you love, and there's no need to be scared because your brain turns off and your heart takes over

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If a moid says he is asexual, he is lying. It is what they literally think about all the time unless they recently came.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm scared too. If I wanted to do a sex with you could I just frick your thighs to cum? I don't want a girl to get pregnant and I don't want her to take any pills or wear condoms so sex without penetration would be alright even if I want to frick pussy

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    have a nice day prostitute youre not asexual you just havent found the right bbc yet
    Verification not required.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do asexual men exist? yes
    do they want to date YOU? no probably not

    the problem with the benefit provided by being an attractive woman is that you only get treated better by men who want to frick attractive women. asexuals do not care too terribly much about dating attractive women.. you are suddenly competing for attention in a world you're not used to if you usually get your attention from allistic sexual men

    its not over for you yet, but you need to offer a lot more value if you're going to be asexual.
    if you don't want to have sex you could always just use that really nice girl friendship which seems to generally be romantic without sex

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not really asexual but I could easily go my entire life without sex or masturbation. I don't want a relationship either. Frienship and cuddles are superior.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      all i want, sounds so peaceful and enjoyable

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i am and i will never get near you as i hate social connections with absolutely everyone yep thats the way it is sorry

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Best I can do is taking things slow and waiting for it, ma'am

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