do m en stop loving their gfs/ wives after a while?

do m en stop loving their gfs/ wives after a while? they're always passionate for a month or two and then suddenly the love goes away...

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Silly infatuation doesn't make a relationship. It's fun for a while but a long term partnership is about more than that. But you can always just ask your bf to give you flowers more often or some shit.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      thats true i guess but men always whine and moan when their girl leaves them for someone who loves them more. passion shouldnt dissipate....

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >passion shouldnt dissipate
        Stop being 14 and having a romanticized view of things. Relationships take effort to work, you have to talk through these things, try to make passionate experiences happen etc.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          how do i express my feelings without sounding rude or not pleased

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            try being my gf and practicing it on me

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            CAN U PLS START LOVING ME AGAIN PLEASE OR ELSE ILL CHOP UR FLACCID PENIS OFF ILL THROW ACID ON UR UNSWASHED ASS CRACK

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hmm
            not quite the right approach, try again, this time a little lighter before escalating

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            can u luv me again~ i need love.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            OK, how about we have a movie night and I pamper you with massages and kisses while you're on my lap?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            thats cool i like that but youre not my boyfriend and you will never be! find a woman that will love you right. dont go for a prostitute or a gold digger.You will find love dont give up!!!!

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >youre not my boyfriend and you will never be
            Wrong, you're my gf now and you'll never not be, deal with it my love is as inescapable as the shackles of hell.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ill throw acid on your asscrack. also im a fat balding black woman with a pussy as dark as coal

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          absolutely do not listen to this homosexual. if you have to "make passionate experiences happen" its already over

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i see that happen with women too, the classic pumps and dumps, the cheating once a relationship "stabilizes", so on
        it's not just guys, lol

        as anon said, relationships take effort to work, it's more about building a connection with the other person rather than "love at first sight + happily ever after", that doesn't work outside fiction
        the passion will eventually die down, ideally it shouldn't fade entirely but it will die down, yes
        that's when love kicks in, it's that everlasting bit of passion that burns slowly through things, steady but always there, the trust, the companionship, the little things you do to make the other just a bit happier everyday

        don't mistake the two, one is quick and instant, the other takes a lot of time and effort, but never fades

        homie i bet u got no gf... love ya girl lots and shell never leave u

        and you sound like you pretend to know what you're talking about, lol
        if it was that simple, there wouldn't be as many failed relationships as there are out there

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          yeah i guess thats true.. but i feel like women try harder in relationships. they are the ones that have to ask and change and mold into what the man wants

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i wouldn't bet on that, i can say the exact opposite judging from my experience but we're limited to our observations
            i do see a lot of both happen, both the guys who harrass and threaten girls into doing what they want and the girls who lie, cheat and manipulate a guy into being her prince charming

            still, this isn't about who tries the hardest, fact is that love and passion are two different things and both people need the maturity and effort to make it work
            both men and women are responsible and both should improve

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            thats very true, i think in relationships either can happen. maybe they were never meant to be

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            maybe, or maybe they were but not at that time
            few cases where people meet again a few years later in better conditions and it works a lot better by then, but that's rare

            one thing i think would work is trying to make friends with the other person before, if you click platonically then you most likely will also click romantically
            takes a lot of time though, time that people may not have, but it does prevent heartbreaks and even tragedies

            anyway, it's been nice talking to you, anon
            i'll go make some fusilli with tomato sauce and meatballs now, hopefully my basil is still good...

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            enjoy your meal anon, and hopefully you find love!

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      wow then what's the point I don't want to do anything that doesn't make me feel absolutely great all the time

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    happens with everyone, first few months your brain's flooded with chemicals that make you blindly "love" the other person, it eventually dies down
    but that's just passion though, love is another can of worms

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      homie i bet u got no gf... love ya girl lots and shell never leave u

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah with stability comes down boredom as well
    This doesn't only apply to men though

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Do they just want a younger and tighter girl.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No, things will get boring regardless
        its just the fact that the relationship stabilizes and there won't be any high/low in the short term

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          so if the gf/wife argues every once in a while, will the man feel "alive" -thats pretty thrilling

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Some do but most of the time it's because their wife doesn't want to have sex anymore or gets fat.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      she gets fat because she probably gave birth and now has a shattered self image. she hates sex because no matter how many times she explains where the clit is he somehow always ends up flicking her left pussy lip

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >do m en stop loving their gfs/ wives after a while?
    Only after they stop putting effort

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. Men are biologically wired to look for new pussy and spread their seed. They call it sowing your wild oats.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      most mens "seed" is gone off and funky and produces moronic ugly kids. and regardless women are all on birth control or too fat to conceive

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i hope not or im going volcel forever

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, in a healthy relationship love grows stronger with time
    I think I felt the strongest love for her when she started cheating and disappearing and finally left after 5 years together
    But women don't give a shit about your feelings

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      youre just a gay lol. dont love a thot that dont love you back

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She was the one for me, I don't care that she left. I don't think I'm capable of loving anyone else and I'm fine spending the rest of my life alone. Not like I can trust women anyway after that

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          dont give up man.... you think youre not capable of loving but soon youll find a girl that will love you right. remember, dont go for the drop dead gorgeous girls, go for the kinda pretty okay looking girl with a golden heart. open up your heart LOVE WILL COME SOON

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thank anon...
            This is the 9th year since I met her I think. Still haven't felt the same way about any other girl.
            I wish my feelings went away 'after a month or two' as OP says, but this hasn't been the case

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            did she ever love you as much as you love her? if no, give up. if yes, accept that she doesnt love you anymore. if you keep on loving a woman that has left you, youll never find a new girl. just imagine a girl that loves you knowing that you still love another woman... she wouldnt appreciate that

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, we were teenage sweethearts, it was very nice for the few years that it lasted. I guess I moved on with my life mostly, just lost any interest in pursuing relationships. Just work, hobbies and drinking.
            Anyway, I don't talk about it much anymore, it just came up, so I thought I'd share

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hope you find someone better anon, you seem passionate. find a woman just as passionate as you

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Flaming homosexual

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >do m en stop loving their gfs/ wives after a while?

    yeah, i get bored of women easily

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i hope you never find love anon

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Once she starts going out of her way to be as unpleasant as possible and stops putting out, I'm gone real fast.
    Sorry, I enjoy my own company too much to attempt to salvage a relationship once it regresses into being all drawbacks and no benefits versus just being single.
    Also why I'm never getting married no matter what, I need to be able to simply up and leave without lifelong financial repercussions if she decides to make staying miserable.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you should try listening to her. maybe thats why you have never had a long lasting relationship

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nah, I've proven beyond any resonable doubt that I'm perfectly capable of upholding my end of the bargain when it comes to committed relationships. I am NOT carrying the whole thing once she stops putting in any effort, whatever the reason might be.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          what kind of women have you been with. sounds like you get with bratty women

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hmm, the only thing the two most recent ones really had in common was
            a) being Tauruses
            and
            b) complete inability to communicate their wants and needs without sounding like whiny, nagging b***hes

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            so you get with brats

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If there's any other kind, please let me know where to find them. Age range 18-26.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            go to a cafe

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have an internet girlfriend and I am making her a blanket for Valentine's day right now. We have been e-dating for a month now.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thats so cute anon. what is she like? did you ever see her face?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes, Ive seen her face, shes beautiful. Shes very pure, kind and loving person. Her heart is full of goodness.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ahhh thats wonderful, i hope she stays with you forever

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            thank you!
            I fully plan on marrying her!

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's supposed to be about really being with someone. Not just in their vicinity cause you're fricking. I'm not sure if people know that anymore.
    There are lots of great things beyond the chemical high people chase after. Other than taxes and getting lonely and old.
    You know how you always have to wear a mask for everyone? Try so hard to make people like you? Well what if there was one person that actually knew you and cared about you on the planet? It's not exciting, it takes time. But the world can't hurt you as easily if you get past the fun part and the subsequent boring part.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Sex-fatigued brains can't associate enough to form long-term relationships.
    Water is wetting.

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