Do men even fricking like tall women?

I’m 6’3. Have been since maybe 9th grade, I’ve never had a guy approach me. My looks are average, but I think I’m rather charming as most people I meet enjoy my company, but nobody actually asks me out. It’s bullshit. I hate men. They don’t even try because they idealize some “goth mommy” fricking thing instead of talking to an actual woman. Do men that like “regular” tall women exist? It seems they all prefer shorter girls out of some perversion.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t like being around taller women no. It makes me feel emasculated. There’s no reason for women to taller than 5’8”

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why?? How is height masculine. It’s not like I’m some arrogant b***h who kicks around men like toys or even looks like I would. I can hardly look someone straight in the face yet somehow they’re intimidated!? I’m literally alone during most of my free time too, not like I’m part of some cabal of mean girls that’ll laugh if you even try.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Op you are in a different context if you go to a social event or actually meet a dude and just talk normally like no dating or other romantic vibe and they see you laugh or smile it's going to dissolve your issue entirely.

        You're implying appearances matter which is a universal fact.

        Nobody wants to deal with morbidly obese people
        Nobody wants to be near a crocodile or a shark in the wild because that's how our brains have evolved we are wired to avoid danger and avoid things like sick people and persue things like deer that we can eat and can't hurt us and attractive people who will spread desirable genetics which is the only reason we fricking exist you're letting social constructs dillude you from the reality of life.

        It's literally as simple as I see a man or even woman larger than me I get a danger response, that's the natural reaction you have to take actions to change that.

        In western society there's no danger response from seeing a bigger dude or woman but there's just a little extra 'oh that person is different from me' and unfortunatly you have to overcome that rather than b***hing and moaning.

        I haven't had a partner in two years because women fricking suck so stop complaining online and do something about it make some platonic male friends laugh smile don't be a b***h and you'll have a boyfriend within a day or two don't fricking complain about difficulty finding a partner to men

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          1. ??? What are you even talking about tying this to evolutionary psychology. Does a woman herself not override that fear?
          2. Platonic male friends are nothing, pretty much. I don’t know why you think women can get partners within a day, unless she’s sexual about it. Women struggle too with finding love, it’s just so much more popular to see the woman as “the catch” and therefore being an easier position. Would you quit it with that? You’re half the damn reason people like me are single is telling me I could find anyone decent inside of a week.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Just get hinge tinder and bumble and enjoy your 999 likes, what are you not getting?

            I'm 28, I have a law and business degree, my tinder will be full of photos of me on a yacht, overseas, snowboarding, with friends or whatever, I lift weights regularly, always had a job, interesting hobbies, got my motorbike and diving gear just to get maybe 20 matches who don't reply or lose interest after a week of texting

            you just come across super entitled dude or you're implying men like me aren't upto your standards women literally have it on a silver platter.

            Go buy some cats, dudes like me are going to passport bros to marry girls with family values and no kids

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Please God let me take you on a date and frick your brains out. Tall chicks are hot as frick.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your height is proof you had more growth hormone and testosterone then the average women. So by being tall you really are a more masculine women especially when compared with some 5"4' chick.
        I'd steer clear if it were me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I think you’re being too literal when I say masculinity. You are correct when you say men are taller on average, but I think trying to justify it with some middle school biology is just rude. I’m more than my height, that’s literally the point of what I’ve been saying.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's emasculating because men are supposed to be bigger than women and a dude that is shorter than you could never make you feel that you are smaller than them. So the whole relationship would feel kind of awkward. Also men are supposed to be leaders in relationships so if the woman is looking down on someone then how could they ever be viewed as a leader. Leaders are people that you look up to.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I want to step beyond a traditional relationship because we’ll obviously both feel like it’s not worth it if we’re not the “standard”. If I genuinely cared about fitting in I’d pretty much be settling for some 6’5 piece of shit. I’d like advice on how to reach the point where a hypothetical bf can understand me beyond my height, yet they reject me before they can even begin to. Also the metaphor for leaders sucks.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, heard of giantess? Some people are into that.

      >It makes me feel emasculated.
      I don't understand why people would rather feel bad about themselves than feeling happy and horny.

    • 3 weeks ago
      MKG

      It's emasculating because men are supposed to be bigger than women and a dude that is shorter than you could never make you feel that you are smaller than them. So the whole relationship would feel kind of awkward. Also men are supposed to be leaders in relationships so if the woman is looking down on someone then how could they ever be viewed as a leader. Leaders are people that you look up to.

      Op you are in a different context if you go to a social event or actually meet a dude and just talk normally like no dating or other romantic vibe and they see you laugh or smile it's going to dissolve your issue entirely.

      You're implying appearances matter which is a universal fact.

      Nobody wants to deal with morbidly obese people
      Nobody wants to be near a crocodile or a shark in the wild because that's how our brains have evolved we are wired to avoid danger and avoid things like sick people and persue things like deer that we can eat and can't hurt us and attractive people who will spread desirable genetics which is the only reason we fricking exist you're letting social constructs dillude you from the reality of life.

      It's literally as simple as I see a man or even woman larger than me I get a danger response, that's the natural reaction you have to take actions to change that.

      In western society there's no danger response from seeing a bigger dude or woman but there's just a little extra 'oh that person is different from me' and unfortunatly you have to overcome that rather than b***hing and moaning.

      I haven't had a partner in two years because women fricking suck so stop complaining online and do something about it make some platonic male friends laugh smile don't be a b***h and you'll have a boyfriend within a day or two don't fricking complain about difficulty finding a partner to men

      Your height is proof you had more growth hormone and testosterone then the average women. So by being tall you really are a more masculine women especially when compared with some 5"4' chick.
      I'd steer clear if it were me.

      Why?? How is height masculine. It’s not like I’m some arrogant b***h who kicks around men like toys or even looks like I would. I can hardly look someone straight in the face yet somehow they’re intimidated!? I’m literally alone during most of my free time too, not like I’m part of some cabal of mean girls that’ll laugh if you even try.

      In other words: Many men are insecure as frick.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    they don't approach you because women always discriminate men for their height. Approach them they will be interested

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You'll have to define "regular", but usually yes. I have a natural aversion to chronic travelers and party-goers of all heights, and that seems to be pretty regular on dating sites.
      Also . A lot of guys assume women want a guy who is taller than them, so you being 6'3 will automatically make them think anyone less than 6'4 is disqualified. You have to pick your poison of being approached by the fetishists or doing the approaching and hoping he isn't

      I don’t like being around taller women no. It makes me feel emasculated. There’s no reason for women to taller than 5’8”

      .

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes but nowadays i'd worry you're a troony so maybe not

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus. You men have such a forced idea of what a woman can be that even if she’s slightly different from something she can’t control she’s pushed out of it and “no longer a woman”

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        no? it's just that there are so many trannies out there and i don't want to approach a troony thinking it's a girl

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You don’t approach anyone with your preconceived notions of masculinity because they’re not a woman automatically in your eyes? That’s pretty disgusting. Maybe you should step up to the plate instead of chasing these ideals and you’ll find someone. A perfect woman is a barbie. Just go for a girl that can survive on her own and she’ll greatly improve your life.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            everything is risk, if i approach a 6'3" girl there's a much higher risk of it being a troony and getting brutally embarassed, that's all i'm saying
            not saying i wouldn't want a tall girl
            i mean i probably wouldn't want a girl above 6' because i'm 5'9" and ideally i'd have less than a 3" gap but i'd be open to it

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd date a taller woman, I've gone on /soc/ and been rated between 8-9 but I'd never approach a girl because of the stigma it's creepy or unwanted.

    I have a lot of female friends in my nursing classes tho I think a few have hit on me but like I don't know I'd rather just sit and wait then say something and ruin the friendship

    I actually really liked a 6ft girl, I'm 5'7 we knew eachother for two years.

    I asked her out once when she was complaining about dating a deadbeat, single dad never had a job, but 4 days before the date she fricked him so I called it off, I hate women too anon

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >never approach a girl because of the stigma it's creepy or unwanted.
      You can do it. You're attractive enough.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t believe men even like being approached. They hang around like hyenas and laugh about stupid shit. Even men who are alone are somehow more occupied by their phone.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Haha that made me laugh would def join a group of lads hangin around laughing like hyenas

      And I would go on my phone to avoid looking at girls, I see dozens of cute women every day I wanna marry but I stay on my phone to not upset anyone by looking or staring

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Men never get approached by women.
      We get approached by female scammers looking for money like 100x more than women who have a romantic interest.
      You are going to have to make smalltalk a few times before they believe you are for real.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I don’t believe men even like being approached
      I'd probably assume I was being pranked unless said girl really came off as genuine

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what does genuine mean? Also, I feel as if it is not that the men feel the situation is improbable or that they’re misunderstanding—the two that I’ve approached have both been very casual, sit near him and try to talk about the book. They seem to just hide away. If you insist it’s a reality vs perception thing, please advise on non corny ways to feel more real.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      As a man I can say that most men like being approached, but I personally do not like being approached by random strangers at all.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I’m rarely a total stranger. I’m positive the two times I tried it that they saw me a few times / exchanged glances, but even in an open space like the college library they seem to avoid starting anything with me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, cause that is how you get kicked out of school for being "sexually harrassing".

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don’t think you should be even associating what I’m doing as SA. Idk, you’re pushing something on me that I’d very obviously never do because you have some worldview of how colleges are. The library here is 100% a relaxed place.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, I mean staring at girls theses days as a man is considered sexual harassment, I've seen people get kicked out of university or the gym just because their eyes lingered a bit too long and the girls didn't like it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Title IX is a crazy thing

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’ve seen this idea that women are super sensitive to any interaction with an “ugly dude” and they care about everything the “cool dude” does, negative or positive. Firstly I’ll acknowledge there is an overlap where something, say fashion, could be perceived as girly for one and a cute interest for another. But really it’s more about how passionate he is. I’m sure you’ve seen the guys that pretend to read feminist literature outside cafes. They’re good-looking, but their interest is very superficial and no girl wants a guy that lies over that sort of stuff (Or I wouldn’t). Traits are not redeeming however, an “ugly” guy could be doing something interesting like reading an author I enjoy, but if he’s super aggressive / talks over me about it then it’s not worth anything. For me it’s the quality of the bond / shared interest that can determine if he’s interesting to me or not. Also, staring IS a negative social interaction. Staring at a girls face is a little uncomfortable if I don’t try to look back, but staring at my ass is just weird. Never had an experience at the gym but it’s literally a place dedicated to work out, not to flirt/find a partner, so I feel just rationally you shouldn’t be staring at people constantly.

            to clarify: staring MUTUALLY is cute
            one-way is a little weird, and that’s exacerbated if you don’t have a reason to. So please stop demonizing women like we’re trying to get people kicked out of public spaces, now that I’ve clarified it for you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >o please stop demonizing women like we’re trying to get people kicked out of public spaces, now that I’ve clarified it for you.
            I thank God every day that I gave up on talking to women. They will beat you to death with a lead pipe and then declare themselves the victim.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, western women are trash, they are incredibly narcassistic and then wonder why the men in their country flee into the countryside or move to asia.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There is a reason why Asian women overtook white women for most attractive race to men in a recent poll.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >So please stop demonizing women like we’re trying to get people kicked out of public spaces, now that I’ve clarified it for you.
            This kind of "I know better than you, women can do no wrong" talk down shit is exactly why no one will date you and you will die alone. This is why there is a "dating crisis" in America. This is why 50% of women will die alone by 2030 and guess what? Men don't care, we're done with it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Something tells me it isn't her height thats the reason why she can't find anyone to date.

          • 3 weeks ago
            MKG

            >please stop demonizing women
            You asked politely but I don't think they're going to.

            >o please stop demonizing women like we’re trying to get people kicked out of public spaces, now that I’ve clarified it for you.
            I thank God every day that I gave up on talking to women. They will beat you to death with a lead pipe and then declare themselves the victim.

            >So please stop demonizing women like we’re trying to get people kicked out of public spaces, now that I’ve clarified it for you.
            This kind of "I know better than you, women can do no wrong" talk down shit is exactly why no one will date you and you will die alone. This is why there is a "dating crisis" in America. This is why 50% of women will die alone by 2030 and guess what? Men don't care, we're done with it.

            >This kind of "I know better than you, women can do no wrong" talk down shit
            Women generally understand Women as a group better than men who cannot successfully talk to them.
            Just because you don't ask fish for advice on how to catch one, that doesn't mean they don't understand fish better than a man who's never been to the water's edge.

            >I thank God every day that I gave up on talking to women.
            >Men don't care, we're done with it.
            Uh-huh. Why are you in this thread again? To strongly express how little you care? Hmmm?
            You're deeply stupid and it amuses me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Uh-huh. Why are you in this thread again? To strongly express how little you care? Hmmm?
            I was in here to help, but it seems like my assumptions are right. She isn't single because she is tall, she is single because she has toxic femininity and they guys she engages with smell it from a mile away.

          • 3 weeks ago
            MKG

            >I was in here to help
            Yet you don't care? Hmmm....

            >Women generally understand Women as a group better than men who cannot successfully talk to them.
            Science actually disproves this, a group of single women are statistically more likely to keep women single than a group of single men.

            >Science actually disproves this, a group of single women are statistically more likely to keep women single than a group of single men.
            That doesn't have anything to do with what you quoted. Your stupidity is still amusing.

            Talking down to people is a great way to remain single, keep on doing it! The irony is that incels for men 18+ is the norm now and they are now creating femcel women and there really isn't anything women can do to stop it now.

            >Talking down to people
            I also enjoy talking down to idiots online. It's fun!

            Equal rights, equal fights. If you come for advice and don't ask humble don't be surprized when you get what you deserve and the people attempting to help walk away or turn on you. Guys are just sitting back and letting reality happen to women now, its time to grow up.

            >Equal rights, equal fights.
            Fair. This is NSFFW. I'm just pointing out stupidity.

            >You asked politely but I don't think they're going to.
            In what world is that politely asking? Touch grass.

            >In what world is that politely asking?
            The part where she said "please stop".
            The fact that you were offended doesn't mean that it was offensive.

            >Touch grass.
            Deeply ironic.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Women generally understand Women as a group better than men who cannot successfully talk to them.
            Science actually disproves this, a group of single women are statistically more likely to keep women single than a group of single men.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Talking down to people is a great way to remain single, keep on doing it! The irony is that incels for men 18+ is the norm now and they are now creating femcel women and there really isn't anything women can do to stop it now.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Equal rights, equal fights. If you come for advice and don't ask humble don't be surprized when you get what you deserve and the people attempting to help walk away or turn on you. Guys are just sitting back and letting reality happen to women now, its time to grow up.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't think women understand how much they have underminded thier position to negotiate relationships now. They aren't the ones that can make demands any more, men are, but they will still act delusional, entitled, and demeaning to the people around them. Only to end up alone and crying at the end of the day. Jobs went global, now so has dating. Why would I date someone who acts this way when I can date someone who is not only willing to be submissive to me, but eagarly wants to be and will take care of me? They are tarnishing their own brand while other women are offering better "deals" else where.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I've never understood how women can understand that their reputation and how they are precieved socially is something to maintain, but then can't take the next logical step where they realize they are being out-competed against by foreign women.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lack of thought in how they interact with the world and their assumptions of it, if I had to guess, their beliefs and assumptions are highly informed by their reaction to them, regardless of the logic outside of: "If it makes me feel bad, it is bad.".

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You asked politely but I don't think they're going to.
            In what world is that politely asking? Touch grass.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There's a reason why American men can date almost anyone in the world, but American women have a hard time dating outside of South America. There is a semi-true stereotype that American men are way more respectful than their female counterparts.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If What I've seen on social media, American women are incredibly racist, they just hide it better. I don't know how many interracial couples online I've seen where there are legions of angry white women screaming demeaning things to the woman because she isn't white or speaks english as her first language.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This, I'm dating a Thai girl that is an 8/10. Beautiful, speaks 3 languages, has 2 degrees, but because of how Thailand is behind other developed nations economically, she never had the chance to actually shine. She scores higher than me on IQ tests, and helps me out with financial calculations, while still insisting to cook and clean for me during the week. Go where you are wanted guys, not where you are needed.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I go to a grocery store near my house quite often, a bunch of girls work there and I can say that no matter how many times I've seen them and no matter how many times they have tried to say hello to me or start a conversation while I'm checking out, it makes me uncomfortable and just favor self-check out or go to one of the men. I don't want to fricking have small talk with my cashier commenting about the two beers and rotisserie chicken on a friday night.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes.

    (Not in sexual way but rather, as new viewpoint in life, like it would be interesting to hear about tall girl's dating struggles due to their height. Which I find interesting, b/c it's a specialized struggle, that comes with pros & cons, and such I would like to befriend one, to understand them)

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Provide more value to a man and stop b***hing. Be fit. Look good. Approach guys and stop being a homosexual pussy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Value of what?? I read some classics / philosophy and men still stay away because I’m autonomous. A man won’t go after a woman who doesn’t have the body of a goddamn child it seems.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why?? How is height masculine. It’s not like I’m some arrogant b***h who kicks around men like toys or even looks like I would. I can hardly look someone straight in the face yet somehow they’re intimidated!? I’m literally alone during most of my free time too, not like I’m part of some cabal of mean girls that’ll laugh if you even try.

        You seem really aggressive and not fun to be around

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Only online. I’m civil IRL. Men tho, they run away / hide on their phone when I try to talk to them. How am I expected to bridge the entire gap?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm civil IRL
            doubt it, I have a feeling that energy carries over
            >Men tho, they run away / hide on their phone when I try to talk to them.
            that energy definitely carries over
            you're just unlikeable probably, don't be so combative

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She seems like a lot of fun if this is just bantz. In person, whether or not she's fun or unfun would depend on the tone of her voice and how well she reads the room.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I read some classics
        Based, you can be my Book Buddy any day. But like, that's just an easy shortcut for starting a friendship. Having a compatible hobby isn't an automatic "in" for romance. NTA, I don't know what that Anon personally means by value, I'm just weighing in on this issue.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >because I’m autonomous.
        What do you mean ?
        I would like a tall, even a taller gf, I don't like short women in fact.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          When men talk about trying to reduce me to a value it usually can’t work because I’m not dependent on anything by default, so in a relationship (even though this isn’t how actual ones work), I’m not obligated to fulfill anything out of a social norm just b/c i need money or whatever

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are right to stay away from a relationship where you are set as an objective value by anyone since it's not a business transaction.
            Honestly not having to buy all your stuff seems like a plus.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Honestly not having to buy all your stuff seems like a plus.
            to men, it means that you're independent and that by itself is a repellent for any relationship. at least a few percent of your dedication should goes to give the spotlight to the man so he can be the protector.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why is independence a negative trait? A frugal, financially literate woman saves the house money. A woman who can handle herself will have the capability to handle others. I feel you’re just tying a relationship to material needs, which is kinda toxic.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I feel you’re just tying a relationship to material needs, which is kinda toxic.
            it's not "toxic", it's realistic, proven and very traditional way to get a spouse. The man and woman are meant to COMPLEMENT each other from their good and bad attributes. If I were to be a matchmaking auntie, I'd suggest those who has difficulties to find a match to use adapt their needs and requirements as you can earn and have many dreams but you can't never rewind time and age as it'll flows steadily. Just readjust the ego accordingly. It's a sacrifice that's required to achieve prosperity in life.
            Yes, I'm Chinese, how can you tell? :DD

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Codependence is a pretty unhealthy pattern for a relationship though, especially as the basis for one. Also the back half of your comment is a large jumble. I don’t look for men who compliment me, that’s not really how actual relationships are formed.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            See, you're doing it again. I wouldn't be surprise you're single.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually marriages formed based on pragmatic needs last longer than marriages formed on love. The idea that you have to love your spouse is a new invention.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's not really news that a partnership based on business needs and dependent survival outlast sometime volatile like love, it's just not what OP is looking for and that is completely okay.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because for most of recorded history women were seen as a good to also be traded, or burdened with the full weight of extending their family’s influence. No wonder love was very rare, Maslow’s hierarchy dictated most could barely survive, and those who could were greedy and kept going. Besides, you’re telling me to cripple myself by financially tying myself to somebody? Or to push my femininity and try to become some barbie? All I’m asking is the foundation for love should be on mutual respect / (immaterial) interest in one another, and that love can derive from that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I sort of get the want to be "needed" but that just turns it into a hostage situation/guilt trip if you need to break up.

            Why is independence a negative trait? A frugal, financially literate woman saves the house money. A woman who can handle herself will have the capability to handle others. I feel you’re just tying a relationship to material needs, which is kinda toxic.

            Right? Two independently sufficient parties sounds great. Imagine all the disposable income.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I like you but I automatically assume that you don't like me, therefore I don't ask you out. But if it makes you feel better, I don't ask anyone out, so it's not just you.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to assume that you're very young, maybe even still in high school. Your experiences will change as you get older. Many men will approach you. The problem is that many of these many men will be low quality men, and you will feel that many of them are treating you like a fetish. I said that this will be a change, not an improvement.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not even sure how to interpret this. Yes, I’m still in college. But “low quality men”? I just want someone to talk to and love. Why does everyone need to have some value extracted out of someone? It’s such a vicious cycle, men hide because they think they’re not masculine enough, so neither side breaks the silence, and then the next generation of men sees that many “average men” never start dating so they feel insecure, but it’s literally just because they’re too tied to their damn traditional masculinity

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >But “low quality men”?
        Men who immediately start pushing for sex. Many men find you attractive, but you may become annoyed by how few of those men want to take things slow and establish a solid romantic relationship first.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why is that even on the table? You know women find the average guy attractive more so on what he does than how he looks. I still don’t get how men extend the idea of a sexualized partner as being better than a stable one just because they fit the “ideal [sex]” stereotype

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're asking the wrong person. The thought process of wanting sex without romance and love is alien to me.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    WOULD

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What is your body type? Are you thin? Chubby? Built like a fridge? Are you feminine?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m maybe 150lbs of lightly toned muscle. I play volleyball often so I have some leg + core but weight is so relative to height. If I dropped 60lbs to be the “ideal weight” I’d be dead, no question about it. I take care of myself anyway, if that’s what you mean. I don’t have any diseases or anything elephant-man.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >tall volleyball b***h
        >complaining about not being attractive
        Hmm, on the one hand I still want to have frick with you but on the other I cannot help but feel like you should eat shit.

        This is quite the conundrum.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks, you made me laugh. Now go frick off

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        A lanklet.
        You sound like that pearly things bint.
        Another thing is there is a body shape issue as well, curves trigger attraction, straight lines not so much.
        So tall skinny coat hanger like a catwalk model just won't hit the "hot" button for as many men. You are kinda niche.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >If I dropped 60lbs to be the “ideal weight” I’d be dead
        You have a strong build, fridge-like that is somewhat intimidating to average males.
        I'm very big and jacked and enjoy women like you.
        So, just go for bigger dudes and be direct, easy as.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Cannot understand this comment. How is your perception of women so skewed that 150 193cm is a strong fridge build? My legs and core are the only thick muscles, and I’ve said that already, so quit with this business about categorizing how I look

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    anonette just stop
    calm down
    be a normal person

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    here ill say it since everyone else is desperately trying to get your attention: yes, being a tall woman is a turn off. you will have to look harder for a mate than a perfect 5'5 10/10 woman. woopty fricking doo, you still have a million options. im autistic, i will never find a partner.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Million options? really? I’m starting to dislike how biased you guys are. Maybe very shallow girls can skip by and date a million men a minute, and that skews perception, but many women have very similar life experiences to what you (isolated) men seem to think is tragic and unique, and struggle with actually finding genuine partners. If you’d recognize that half the battle would be over.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        So what the frick do you want advice on? Evidently you seem to understand the fundamental fact that dating and romance are hard work for both genders.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I want advice on what goddamn direction to go in. Half the battle is you guys even accepting I have a problem it seems. Please, don’t say the regular stuff. I just need help fixing the ideal of what a man needs to bridge stranger to romance.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            literally just smile at guys and make eye contact for frick sake it's not that difficult, are you autistic?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If all else fails, take initiative yourself. Everyone would rather be approached first, and it ends up causing people to pass like ships in the night. Some of the best men might be the ones that aren't making the first step.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            To get from stranger to romance what they need is to get to know you, which means engaging in activities with one another that allow you to determine whether or not you have enough chemistry to be compatible i.e. DATING. Do you really need this spelled out for you? The *most* effective way to keep someone around is to spend a lot of time with them. The more time you two spend together, the more likely it is that you'll trust and depend on one another, which is the foundation for love and intimacy.

            Now please post pictures of your ass. My first GF was taller than me and I fricked it up because I had no idea what I was doing and I regret it terribly and would like to have a wank to your ass as a painful reminder of what could have been.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, I was exaggerating but its just hard to be sympathetic when from my perspective, socializing and connecting with people seems actually possible and natural for a person like you.

        And there are a lot of guys out there that are attracted to you, whcih isnt the case with women for guys like me. Even your thread has a bunch of guys asking to date you.

        I do realize that its hard for you to find a "genuine partner" but it feels like the level of difficulty is less, relative to someone whos not neurotypical. I hope you find someone who you do like and who likes you.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do men like tall women
    Many do not, and I think that is very sad. They want to be larger than their partner. It's very deeply ingrained in the animal part of their brain. It's not limited to men; Some women also want to be larger than their partners. But, it is more prominent in men. Likely comes down to hormones & social psychology. Taller people are generally more threatening, to the animal part of the brain.

    If it's any comfort, I like tall women, and more generally- Women with a spine, and a mind.

    The world is a complicated place. I hope that you find happiness in this life 🙂

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do men even fricking like tall women?
    I do, a lot. But then again, I have a crippling giantess fetish so I don't represent the majority of guys.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    they do not
    also trannies made you look even less appealing because guys assume you are one automatically now
    i bet there are people in this thread that were trying to clock you the entire time

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In your romantic fantasies about men, do you like to imagine a man who can walk up to you and kiss you at any point in time? He's probably your height or taller.

    Imagine him slightly shorter. He can still walk up to you and kiss you, but he has to stand on his tiptoes. Are you okay with that? Now imagine him even shorter. He can't just grab you and kiss you now. He has to ask your permission for every kiss. He has to ask you to lean down for him. Would you be okay with that too?

    You are probably an open-minded person who does her best to not care about a man's height, but I'm sure that even you have limits about how far you can go. And unfortunately for you, the majority of men might fall beneath that limit.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I guess I see your point about the literal effects of a taller person… But that’s the same for the Tall Dude x Short Girl, and there’s a billion ways to make the shorter person the “dominating” one if you’re so adamant about masculinity.. It seems any slight shift in the barbie mold means I’m a “masculine” girl, when all I want is someone who loves me for me instead of trying to play some weird role.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not asking you to consider how the man feels about asking you to bend down. I'm not asking you to preserve the man's feelings of masculinity. I'm asking how YOU would feel about your role in that relationship. This is about YOUR happiness. Do you think you would be happy in a relationship where even something as simple as initiating a kiss requires him to get your attention and ask you to bend down to his level?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Do you think you would be happy in a relationship where even something as simple as initiating a kiss requires him to get your attention and ask you to bend down to his level?
          Not OP but that's hot.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Something as intimate as kisses pretty much have the prerequisites of attention anyway. If you’re trying to infer some dominance thing, there’s a lot plainer ways to get a partner’s attention. I would date a man who was 4’11 if he paid for my back injuries and loved me for who I am.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There's no way of knowing if you're telling the truth, but Godspeed if you are. Even if you're willing to date these men, it's only natural for the men to assume that you're unwilling to date them. If you want to get results, then instead of waiting for men to ask you out on dates, you might just have to start asking men out on dates yourself.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Would you still be flattered if an unattractive guy approached you? I really really like tall women but I'm 5'10 mid looks muscle-fat, every tall woman I see i think is so gorgeous they're just out of my league and don't try. Should I just start approaching every tall girl I see without a ring?

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would date you in a heartbeat wtf. Tall girls are just so elegant, it's intimidating.

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is this you, OP?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So low quality I can’t tell if it’s a scene from star wars or shrek.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        dark souls you moron

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Calm down, not everyone plays videogames after their childhood.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Oh, sorry, I thought it was some weird jab at a giantess fetish, or a jabba the hut joke. Thanks, she’s pretty.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >she knows about the giantess fetish
            Uh oh lads...

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because people hurl it in my face all the time. Socio-psychologically, fetishes cannot and should not be removed. But it’s not like loving a girl JUST because she’s tall makes me feel good about myself when a hundred men are behind you calling me a troony. Not to delve into relationship dynamics, but I ought to say that a fetish “on top of” a love for someone doesn’t make it more intimate / cute / attractive, it’s just a sexual thing that should be kept as that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No one is going to love you just for being tall. At least not for very long anyway. All relationships that have depth and meaning boil down to how much time you spend with the other person. Simple as, you giant stupid b***h.

            If you want someone to like you, then you spend a lot of time with them. If the guy you are interested in is intimidated, then help him out a bit. Good lord.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bricks build a house when you stack them together, not when you keep them apart.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry, I generally like reading and light games more than soulslikes, my laptop can’t run them… Thanks anyways, she’s pretty.

            Goddamn right she's pretty, she's the pinnacle of matronly love and compassion. That soft expression on her face is even more divine than those sculpted breasts of hers.

            She's a giant and she's the fricking best. Of course, she's also an illusion, but that's not really the point.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's the goddess gwynevere from dark souls.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Unbelievably disappointing response.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry, I generally like reading and light games more than soulslikes, my laptop can’t run them… Thanks anyways, she’s pretty.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's always fun to watch these larp threads unfurl, some people are pretty good at playing a part.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It gives us something to do

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I just wonder what the OP's motive is every time I see one of these threads. This one's is still nebulous.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Novel angle of inciting upset? Or genuine post? You decide! It's all on the internet!

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          stated about 15 minutes ago. I’m trying to understand the connection between stranger to romantic partner for someone who isn’t “conventionally feminine”, it just seems I have to fight through people arguing that I don’t even have a problem in the first place before any real discussion is had. Sorry for getting combative, it’s just repetitive.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What a pivot, from "I hate men" to "erm I'm just trying to le understand!" Take some writing classes, dude, your persona is inconsistent.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m sorry for being so direct, I was frustrated and “working it out” (90% arguing). I’m only explicitly saying “I want to understand…” because people seem to get stuck on if a problem exists because I can just frick anyone I see somehow and solve every romance issue I have unless I make my perspective fairly precise. It’s also just a default for me since I am pretty socially inept and it’s an easy way to avoid head on conflict.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >words words words
            >no refutation of being a larper
            I accept your concession, bro.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve literally said it so fricking much you’re the last one addressing this that I’m replying to. Don’t you understand that pushing women out of their own identity just because they have your (self defined) “masculine” traits is hurting you guys too? What happens when a man has a “feminine” trait? or neither? This weird gender discourse makes me so goddamn sick and I cannot believe you try to push it from all angles to justify your own insecurity.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Black person, I'm into giant women so shut the frick up. Is your intention to just virtue signal to Anons all night?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >What happens when a man has a “feminine” trait?
        He gets TOPPED

        [...]
        Goddamn right she's pretty, she's the pinnacle of matronly love and compassion. That soft expression on her face is even more divine than those sculpted breasts of hers.

        She's a giant and she's the fricking best. Of course, she's also an illusion, but that's not really the point.

        >she's the pinnacle of matronly love and compassion.
        She's also an illusion created by a femboy to deceive people into worship.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Right, but goddamn-- what a perfect illusion, right? Gotta admire the craftsmanship here.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what a perfect illusion, right?
            I will not worship the moth
            I will not get in the swamp
            I will not acknowledge the moon
            And I will not link the fricking fire

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your loss, Black person. I'll suck on my pretend mommy's giant breasts and kill everyone who enters her chambers without kneeling.

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >hit on tall girl
    >she isn't interested
    >repeat

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if 5'3 ft girls only want 6 ft and above guys then actually tall girls will only want NBA players, it only makes sense

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Please stop pushing me out of the ideal of an ordinary woman. I want to be recognized and loved as a girl and a person, not as some outlier because I happen to be tall.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yeah, but you aren't normal.
        You think you deserve to be the exception to the concept of normality?
        frick off.
        Yeah, you got shitty hand being snu-snu tall. deal with it.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    anyone else just think half of these larp threads are by howie?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They might be. Actually, considering the way "she" is deflecting everything, you may be 100% right.

      Are you howie, OP?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        In my mind, I always assume its him, because he has a certain skill for replying to people with the motive of inciting more replies and discussion, even if he changes his writing style.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This post right here

          Please stop pushing me out of the ideal of an ordinary woman. I want to be recognized and loved as a girl and a person, not as some outlier because I happen to be tall.

          definitely reminds me of him. Holy shit, what an butthole that guy was in those threads about wanting to learn how to draw kek. Fricking nightmarish conversation, if you can even call it that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The conversation has clearly turned to proving me to be some ragebait dude. I only came here for an understanding of the type of men who would run away, so I can at least understand what part about me is wrong. I don’t think I can prove my identity, because I assume ignoring the comments makes it fester and rejecting them directly makes you guys double down.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well, there is one way. breasts or GTFO.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Right, so the post about a woman struggling to find love, and she says that sexualization of her isn’t love. How about we introduce her mammaries into this conversation as a way to arbitrarily prove it! You’re a genius beavis! If you could at least try to help that’d be nice. I know you have some experience to help me understand how to overcome social repression, or you wouldn’t be here.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            breasts OR GTFO, HOWIE

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Alright, now I'm starting to think this is someone running replies though Chat-GPT or something. Do you have a script set up for that or is it just good old copy paste?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How does this work with trannies around?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If the troony can pull off breasts the way Jazz Jennings can, then there is no way to tell. But as far as I'm concerned, they qualify as women on the internet. I'd rather accept the delusion that they're female than have them show their gaping wound as proof.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hey, that's great. A quick way for you to fix that would be to post a timestamped photo of yourself proving that you're a female and not in fact the guy who is so starved for attention that he acts moronic for weeks on end. These posts of yours are pretty reminiscent of him, so I'd say this thread is pretty much over.

            THIS IS NOW A DARK SOULS THREAD

            My life for Quelaag.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5'2 so naturally a lot of women are going to be taller than me. I do feel bad when I show interest in taller women (5'10+) because I know how people have mocked previous people I've shown romantic interest in for fricking a gnome or how it's a good thing I have a beard or they'd think she was a pedo, so I'm a bit slower to commit to taking a shot with a taller woman and having her potentially deal with that sort of shit. It's one thing if it's only directed at me, it's another if my presence causes another person, let alone someone I'm romantically interested in, to get harassed.

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Irrelevant question but if you could choose your height what would you be? Would you wish on a monkey's paw to be shorter if it came with the curse of being shit at volleyball?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was way too frustrated at the start. I think I’d still rather be me, after all of this. Suddenly changing into something that fits society better would mean I’d hate myself. Too much metacognition for me to seem cohesive, but who is this late. Also, no. Volleyball’s where I get my few friends and I probably would be dead or something if I didn’t have it.

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take your misandry somewhere else, like /cgl/

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As someone who isn't chronically on the internet, I don't get what anons are saying, I've never thought of a person in terms of their height, if I met you IRL I would probably think something like "tall woman" for a second and never consider it again, worrying about height is something I've only seen in tenageers and online, I wouldn't have any problem dating someone of your height nor would anyone I know, also don't think that all men are like the degenerates you see here

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    tall women give me the ick, I stay away from them

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    (OP)
    thread not worth continuing it’s just drivel. Thank you everyone who actually helped, I don’t think there’s anything explicitly new but my own thinking also helped shift my perspective on who I am. It’s not overnight, but I’ll try to be better about shutting out romance.
    To everyone else: You’re just reaffirming your own beliefs, it’s a catch-22 when you ask me if I’m some mystical twit who’s ruined this site (and ostensibly you guys have too) for people that want opinions anonymously. Idk. I recognize nothing I say would convince you otherwise, blah blah blah psychosis idk. And no, I’m not posting my breasts. I hope you don’t treat your mother this way.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      better luck next time, howie

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i knew u were a man homie

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      sry howie, personally im a fan of your writing

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      rule 30
      if you want serious replies you'll need to claim you're a homosexual or post some breasts

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love tall women in 6.0

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes if you arent a "UuUH im a TALL WOMEN im DIFFERENT Men DOnt LIKE me OR wANt ME to BEcomE a MOMMY" personality 24/7.

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would make you a mommy just to see how tall the baby would grow
    t. 193cm

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >6'3
    Holy shit would you please marry me?

    >H0NEY

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's just experience. Women are always looking for taller men. Much taller.
    We assume you are looking for 6 foot plus, at a minimum.
    It also looks a bit weird.

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes I would.
    However it's also more common for tall girls to only want taller guys.

    So the probability of you being interested in me is very low, where I'm likely wasting my time.

    Maybe you should approach a guy you like. Because most guys are not going to approach you for the reason above.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hello, I left this thread due to pretty extreme misogyny. I wanted to at least address the many requests for sex / romance I received in response seems to be more of a whiplash than a genuine attempt. I appreciate your interests, but it’s much more of an irl thing for me. I think you might also have an issue with processing relationships,
      but more importantly I think you should recognize women have the same struggles too. On average a man is taller and will have a shorter girl, but that doesn’t mean women who are taller need to follow the man > woman mold. Anyway thank you for your kind response, I’m going to try to reopen myself to romance soon. I hope you can too as a kindred spirit.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        please show me your bobs, howie

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        NSFFW is not the right place to ask this question.
        I would say that as a taller girl give off the right signals to guys you're interested in talking to.
        Or simply find an excuse to talk to them.

        All I meant is that most guys are not going to approach you simply because they don't think you're going to be interested in them due to them being the same height or shorter.

        Dating this decade is worse than it's ever been and it's going to take a while to find the right person. The experience imo, is easier for girls, but as a taller girl I have no doubt you're having a similar experience to what most guys do.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >On average a man is taller and will have a shorter girl, but that doesn’t mean women who are taller need to follow the man > woman mold.
        Yet they do. On average men want shorter girlfriends and women want shorter boyfriends. I met some 180+ cm tall girls who wouldn't give a chance to any guy shorter than them. I hearf one of them say that she wanted a very tall boyfriend so that she could still be shorter than him even when wearing heels. You don't know this fact about the preferences of the average person and you are also an outlier with being fine with a shorter man.
        Anyway I think that this has nothing to do with the fact that you can't find love. It's probably because of your arrogant and b***hy personality, you haven't listened to anyone but yourself and surely you do the same in real life.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          *women want taller boyfriends

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Not true. Most tall girls don't care if their bf is shorter.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            "Don't care" isn't the same as "settled for"

            It's absurd to think they wouldn't prefer a taller man.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's absurd you think that being tall is relevant.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It’s absurd you push these things on me. At least I can understand a partner is more than some weird physical dominance thing. I’m 95% men reject me because they feel emasculated, as they literally barely know me, not for something like they’ve never had a tall girl ask them out before. Stop saying men need to be big enough to push around their girlfriend. It doesn’t work for either party.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw no seething femcel titan freak gf
    MY GOD, WHY DO YOU HATE ME!?

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think about height at all when I think about whether a girl is attractive to me. What makes someone attractive to me is how she might carry herself, how she treats other people, and how she makes me feel about myself around her. When I feel genuinely valued and desirable by a woman, that makes me feel good not only as a man, but as a person.

    I'm 5'9". Not tall, not short. I have found girls both shorter and taller than me to be attractive. Never because of their stature alone, but because we shared mutual attraction due to our respective character traits and behavior. Maybe some people are shallow and only consider physical ideals above all else, but if you want a boyfriend that treats you like you deserve to be treated, then those aren't the people you should worry about attracting in the first place.

    There is nothing wrong about being your height. Some insecure men may shy away from it, but even someone like me who wants to be a "big spoon" and take care of someone would not shy away from a taller girl. Even taller girls would surely like to be validated as women, and treated with the appropriate care they yearn for to thrive and be happy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you. Please advise how to actually push past the boundary though, that’s the part I’m struggling with. I seem to be able to invest a romantic partner for a first date on my school’s discord (pfp is face) a couple times, but they always seem extremely uncomfortable in any physical dynamic. I’ll admit it is an unfair assumption to say it is my physique that throws them off, but what else could it be? I’ve said already I’m conventionally attractive and my portrait doesn’t seem to stir up anything.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but they always seem extremely uncomfortable in any physical dynamic. I’ll admit it is an unfair assumption to say it is my physique that throws them off, but what else could it be?
        Could be your personality/physical demeanor. Maybe in person you come off as more cold or standoffish or something, compared to text.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If it was that wouldn’t their reaction be during the online messaging instead?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe it's less about what you say and more about how you come across while saying it. Body language/tone of voice, that sort of thing.
            There's quite a lot of difference between text-based communication and in-person communication.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wow I wish I were 6'3. I'm 6'0 but yeah I'd frick you even if you were short or taller than 6'3
    I dont care about height, thats not my think bird. What I do care about however is if you're a c**t or not. Yeah?

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5'7 and I couldn't give less of a shit even if I wanted to whether or not the girl's taller than me. Tall girls have their charms just the same as short ones, hell, my ex was taller than me and neither of us cared about that one bit.

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do men even fricking like tall women?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve said it multiple times stop with this giantess fetish in this thread. I’ve heard it a thousand times online, it’s only used to invalidate my experiences. I’m not looking for someone to frick. Nobody has a “romantic” fetish. I want someone who moves beyond my height, not some dude who’s dating me for it. You’re not funny or helpful.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Men tend to date women who they find physically attractive. It’s counterproductive to look for someone who will settle for you rather than be attracted to you.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That’s very clearly not what I mean. I addressed the issue of fetishes in and out of relationships near the top of the thread. Please actually read the thread before shitposting.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I already read it. You want to be loved for who you are alone, I'm sorry, that's fricking stupid. No one is loved for who they are alone, they are loved for a combination of physical and emotional factors.
            Love between men and women is a genetic selection process. It is about ensuring the best possible survival for offspring. Otherwise, supermodels would be falling in love with homeless men, since money doesn't matter bro!!!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >not some dude who’s dating me for it
        But why not? It's not like you're at risk of ever losing it, and being attracted to a specific physical characteristic of one's partner isn't mutually exclusive with loving them as a person.
        If you started dating a guy, would you dump him if you found out he had a preference for women with your natural hair color or eye color? Because then he'd be dating you "for" that?
        People have tastes, and people want to date people they find attractive. You don't have to go for someone who is only interested in sex, but plenty of guys would love a relationship with a tall women because they genuinely find tall women more beautiful. Just just from the perspective of sex, but even simply being around them.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Just just from the perspective of sex
          Not just*, I mean.

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll date you, tall femanon.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but will she date you? I have never seen anyone say something like that and get a positive response.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        (OP) I’ve set up a lump answer to the “date me mommy” request a couple dozen comments back because the thread kept derailing. TLDR, no, you’re doing this out of a whiplash than a genuine desire, and you should look to women irl because women online don’t by default seek men online. I just wanted a discussion (topic thread slightly changed, I am still looking for advice on how to push past a dude being scared off by my height), not a love letter.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Guys all have different preferences. I like tall girls. It's really not that hard

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're ugly. Men love tall women. I'm 6'5 and would kill for a lady over 6'. Don't know a man who would reject a tall lady. If you can't get a man you're ugly. Lower standards.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not a stacy, but I’m not uglier than the average girl. I have clear skin and well set features. I’ve been told I’m intimidating by the men I get close to, and my close friends usually say to try to lower myself somehow (humble myself or physically stoop a little) to get men to talk to me. I’ve got some strong passions, and the people I connect to seem to look beyond any physical features, it’s just the men that can’t process the stranger -> light romance thing. I just want to understand what the perspective of a guy who is socially inept so I can cater to his perspective to push him beyond his shallow assumptions.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No picture, assuming ugly and mean. I'm an OK looking guy, 6'5", electrical engineer. Above average singer, pianist and guitarist. If a female who wasn't fat, over 6' and wanted to one day have kids approached me I'd do anything. There's a problem here besides your height.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe because you’re a much older man (at least 23+ for electrician) and I’m a young college girl? Social dynamics are way different at a bar vs when I’m trying to flirt with a guy who sits next to me in calc 1.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            maybe its because youre taller than most men lol

            men understand height = important. anybody even an inch above you would think they have zero chance

            go on a dating app to test the waters.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This inability to understand a mans point of view is very telling of your lack of empathy, though, being a woman, it isn't very surprising. Surely you know that society hates short guys and almost all women want a man who is taller than them, be it due to a biological need or some superficial desire. Likely your issue runs deeper than height but I know entertaining the thought is pointless, people with your attitude rarely self introspect, it's much easier to blame the rest of the world. There's a man out there for every woman, but not a woman out there for every man.

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    op let me spill my lanky cum in your womb

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are the same height as me! I would like it!

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    op lets make a baby from this semen boiling inside my balls

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5'9 and my last gf was 5'9. In college I drunkenly took a 6'1 girls virginity. But today there's too much anti-short male propaganda, it makes the idea of approaching a tall girl seem so likely to end badly that it's not even worth the attempt.

    Are you telling me I should try with 6' and taller girls?

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a short guy. In my mind, girls like you wouldn’t want to be with me if I approached. Wouldn’t have any fears being friends though. This exact same statement could be used for models too, not just tall girls.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tall women are intimidating. I’m 6’1 so you’re taller than me but even girls who are 5’11 are still a bit scary. They can be very pretty, though. More aesthetic than womanlets.

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Men pretty much like any type of women. The reason people don't approach you is because women like taller men, so nearly all men are shorter than you.

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The first time I dated a woman taller than me, I married her, so I'm off the market. Sorry.

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    YWNBAW

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 6'5 guy
    wanna get married and bring back the Nephilim?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >most of my discussion is about how height shouldn’t be a factor in dating.
      >half of the replies are “i only love tall women”, “get a taller bf”, or “frick me! Lets see how tall our kids get!
      :c

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just find a giant bf, to him you'll look small

  56. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love tall women but you saying men’s preference for women is a perversion is moronic cope

  57. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Men like any kind of woman you fricking moron, men don't approach you because they know manlets never have a chance

  58. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw no tall insecure gf to read deleuze and reflect on the virtual with

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw completely ignored by OP who doesn't actually want intellectual guys and probably just fricks chads
      they're all the same

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        1. It’s actually this attitude I dislike, not the “intellectual guy” thing. If you actually read my thread, I’ve stated a clear dislike for men on team sports, and mentioned that my previous two attempts were at the college library talking to guys reading because I’m interested in that stuff.

        Stop pushing some weird stereotype on me when you’ve literally not even tried to understand my perspective.

  59. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >6’3
    That would be interesting, but I don't know how to talk to people in real life.

  60. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My female cousins are in the 5'10 - 6'0 range and had trouble finding guys who they were attracted to and who were also tall enough for them. It's definitely harder dating as a tall woman, but definitely not as hard as a short guy since you still have selectivity on your side

  61. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're probably unattractive because you have a shit attitude about things. Stop generalizing all men as gooner incels who won't give you the time of day. To be honest I find tall women kinda hot, I used to 'date' this girl for a few weeks in high school and she was probably 6'1" while I was like 5'10", and I loved looking up to kiss her. There are tons of guys who would love to have a tall girlfriend, but you'll never find them or have them if you're acting like a frickin twat about it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Please read the discussion. It went much further beyond the original topic, which was a criticism of how men internalize height as masculine etc etc. Of course I’m more strict and “bitchy”. It’s a criticism. It’s NSFFW. Just because you’re the same person IRL doesn’t mean I am when it’s late at night in a criticism thread…

  62. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6'1"
    The tallest woman I've fricked was like 5'9"
    Her height made sex awkward and uncomfortable

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Her… height? As in she was too short? How could two similarly proportioned people be awkward? Please elaborate (not with sexual imagery)

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She was too tall
        It just felt weird
        I prefer short girls 5'-5'5"

  63. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would have 6-8 children with you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >genuine post about a girl struggling to find genuine love and acceptance for who she is, not just for her height as a fetish or inversely a masculine trait
      “I’ll frick you so hard OP”
      genius. Thank you anon, you cured everything. frick off.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >do men even fricking like tall women
        There you go, I like them, sure. I’d love one and marry one and have kids with one. It’s not like I exclusively date tall women or jerk off to them or something. My last girlfriend was 5’2 and I told her I wanted 6-8 kids too. You’re the one saying whatever the frick about fetishes or masculine traits or something.

  64. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's probably that no man is confident enough to approach a woman taller than them. Their automatic assumption is most likely that they'd be shot down anyways. As for the taller dudes, well, I dunno. Maybe they just like shorter women.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Throughout the thread I also mentioned how the same men, when I work up the courage to approach them, hide on their phones because they’ve been beaten into submission. If you’d like to help, please advise on the perspective (without pandering) of a man with masculinity insecurities.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You need the warm approach (asking a friend if they want to become romantic) rather than the cold approach (asking a stranger if they want to become romantic). You should be focusing your attention on building up your skills of just talking to people, and then afterwards you can take the man who you most enjoy spending time with and ask him out on a date.

  65. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You scare the shit out of us, you've got to initiate.

  66. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Op's literally pic related lol
    Girls are scary btw

  67. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Manlet here, lost my virginity to a tall girl I dated for a couple years who was also into bdsm. Best sex of my life.

  68. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    what race are you? It’s hard to imagine a tall white woman has trouble dating. If you’re black then the problem is, speaking frankly, that you’re black, not that you’re tall.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      FWIW I’m pretty much 95% scottish, and the rest is norwegian. I’m not sure why you think I’m somehow immune to the ravages of masculinity, just look around the rest of the thread and it’s fairly obvious (besides fetishizers) how some women are thought of (tall = masculine = intimidating) I have a few other physical descriptors around the thread if you care that much.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        whats your take here

        maybe its because youre taller than most men lol

        men understand height = important. anybody even an inch above you would think they have zero chance

        go on a dating app to test the waters.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I pretty much push damn hard to make the move. In the past, I’ve actively walked up to a guy I knew and asked him for homework help and then asked for his number and he said he didn’t use his phone for stuff like that… he used that phone like crack… I don’t really do social media so it’s tough to try to get the quicker ones, too.
          I dunno anyways. I can’t approach them because I’m shy already and they underestimate themselves, so what am I meant to do? I’m trying to set up proxy dates now with a guy I’m interested in, that seems to be the only way to tangentially connect with him. Idk sorry for rambling

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bruh, 6'3" is like 1 in 10,000 women.
      She's taller than probably all but 2 men out of 100.

  69. 3 weeks ago
    Vossy

    Maybe your standards are too high. Maybe you aren't pretty enough and need to either be a bawd or improve yourself. #sig Black person

  70. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I tried dating a woman who was 1 inch taller than me and she turned me down. Months later she casually mentioned that she wasn’t into guys who aren’t talker than her.
    For us, trying to date taller women is just a way to get hurt.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Some people hyperfixate on height, so I can understand the common perception that the man must be taller than the woman. However, it’s really ridiculous how reaffirming it is no matter how hard I try to show them I’m open, I’m not covert or secretive, just shy.

  71. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Men are very indifferent to height

  72. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    With only a few notable exceptions I ONLY date very tall women. My first crush was Xena so idk it's just what I like.
    >5"10
    >current gf is 6"2

  73. 3 weeks ago
    Zach

    Yes they do. There are lots of men out there who would value you. Just that a good amount of them are just slightly a little afraid of you. Though the dominant short man with submissive tall woman definitely exists.

  74. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >my looks are average
    >boo-hoo nobody approaches me
    The real question is, are you pretty? Cute? Beautiful? Hot? Feminine?
    Yes, men do care about women's height but it is never a blocker if the woman is attractive, we're simply guided by our dicks
    You can be 4' or 7', doesn't fricking matter if you're ugly
    My advice is to take care of yourself. Hit the gym and build a hot body, take care of your skin and hair, be mindful of your clothes, wear the lightest makeup you possibly can
    Basically work on being more attractive and feminine, height won't matter then

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I state average because I’m very exact with rating stuff. “Ugly” would definitely fall on the lower end. I’m a volleyball player with a decent rather vascular lower physique. Also, I don’t wear a lot of makeup but I find it a little weird how I have to become even more feminine to attract someone. Can’t I just attract someone due to a shared interest? Why is it always sex appeal as the only method for 4ch?

  75. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love tall women, they can give me tall sons.
    They just don't like me.

  76. 3 weeks ago
    Zach

    Thing that irritates me though is that I'm 6'4" and come off as an immature girly femboy when I've been trying to be the man I wanted to be. Fricking people not letting me do sports and exercise and the military.

  77. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 6’6 and have been rejected by a 6’4 and 6’3 woman. They both chose men under 6 feet tall. I’m so black pilled I think white men my height will never get a white female gf.

  78. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6'2" and I'd like a gf who was similar in height to me. It feels very weird when a woman is a lot shorter than me tbh. There are definitely a lot of men out there who would be perfectly happy dating a tall girl.

  79. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're trans "woman". Just be honest.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She might not be but even so tall Amazonian trans women are hot

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        umm that's gay

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I have addressed multiple times in this thread I am not transgender. It’s like some of you didn’t even read the first couple messages. I don’t like how height is automatically masculine. Maybe I’m not the average woman, but that doesn’t mean you can push me out of womanhood and call me some transsexual just because I was born this way.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why not address the comments saying bad things instead of me. Trans women are women imo and your height is fine, tall women are hot in general including trans ones.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I use lump sum comments when the thread starts spiraling, so sorry i guess, you were just the most recent one. I have mtf friends, but they don’t have to deal with height as a source of masculinity.

  80. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6'2 and I've never acquired the feeling that it's emasculating to be with a tall woman. I understand how it would be for some dudes
    Personally, I think giving up on a girl because she emasculates you physically is itself hugely emasculating. The manlier option is to suck it up

    For me personally, I don't think this would cross my mind.

    Also you complain about the "goth mommy" fetish some dudes have... Have you heard what men women want?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      1. That perspective means I can’t even approach guys I’m interested in, regardless if the onus is on them or not.
      2. fetishes are not love. They ought to be kept in the bedroom for intercourse, but they are 100% not the foundation for love, I even stated this in the original post!!
      3. I hope you can understand that you have the perspective that a woman your height wouldn’t be an issue, but that’s much more socially acceptable to the patriarchy than a shorter man. I’m more looking for assistance on how to handle the interim stages to push past my height than whining.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >that perspective means I can't even approach guys I'm interested in
        I don't think that's what I said. Approach all you like. I'll tell you as a guy, I'd date a woman taller than me, and all my male friends actually specifically love tall girls
        It's honestly pretty rare from my point view, that any man will allow himself to be so BTFOd by a woman being unusually tall that he'd actually just pass her up completely

        What I DO believe is the anons in here talking about how a 6'3 woman will probably only go for an equal or greater height man. So a lot of men likely won't shoot their shot
        It's the same with income. If a woman makes 80k, most men know they're not gonna register as sentient beings to her unless they make more than that

        If you convince a guy you like him, even if he's specifically said he doesn't like tall girls, you'll probably have a good shot

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have my interests that I want to pursue, and my complaint is that they seem to be mostly on men who hyperfixate on my height in some way or another, instead of allowing a genuine connection. Also, persistence rarely seems to matter with convincing someone you’re interested. The guys I talk to seem to have “woman like taller man” so hardwired they can’t even see me in front of them. How am I meant to push past that and “convince” them?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >The guys I talk to seem to have “woman like taller man” so hardwired they can’t even see me in front of them.
            What type of guys are you talking to?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            In general I don’t think types actually exist. I guess I generally connect over literature, though. I’ve tried to sit down with someone I recognize at the college library, and he’ll literally take out a phone to check something and just mumble when I talk even though he was just reading.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That sounds pretty difficult OP. Sadly, the idea that a relationship has to have "value" cuts both ways and many men have it ingrained in their psyche that they need to be "better" than the woman they are after in one or more ways. I am not saying you are in the wrong - but since you are tall and make money, you could be been as "better" than them in two ways, hence you would be out of their league. Gonna have to find someone that does not think like this, which as you can see from this thread, is pretty widespread.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe spend a little more time so the height thing becomes normal for them. A 6'3 woman is pretty uncommon
            Also have you considered that the problem is YOUR insecurity? Why is it suddenly an ingenuine connection if they like your height? What things do they have permission to fixate on? There's nothing inauthentic or put-on about someone who visually observes who they're with. Visual observation is the center of male attraction

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I feel it has to be my height because I’ve connected through friends or connected on the college discord (face is pfp), yet they’re only freaked out when I meet them in person. I don’t particularly mention my height until then, but it’s happened twice after a genuine connection through a shared interest.
            Also, if they put my height in terms of attraction above other traits, then it feels as if they’re not actually interested in me, but rather just see me as a collection of ideal shallow characteristics.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            "Freaked out" "genuine connection" "not actually interested" "shallow characteristics"
            Idk anon. Date a blind man. Like I said, a 6'3 woman is exceptional. Don't worry, if a guy hates you, you'll find his interest in tall women are nonexistent
            The "shallow" stuff acts as both the vehicle for other kinds of connection, and vice versa. Men appreciate the appearance of women. You'll never get away from that

  81. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hope things work out for you, OP

  82. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I like tall women a lot and find them very attractive usually, however I am 5'10 on a good day and often find that tall women don't like me. I normally just keep to myself. The girl I am dating at the moment is 5'5 though. I hope you find your soulmate.

  83. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It feels like the bar is higher i.e. taller or more muscular women might expect the man to be ultra-masculine to even out the couple dynamic. Success rate of having a positive interaction with a regular woman is like 1% so why torture myself by increasing the difficulty?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why does such a generic dynamic have to be preserved?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I wasn't arguing that it should. It is however already prevalent enough that it isn't worth a guy trying to stubbornly self-sacrifice his own future even if he disagrees with it.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Definitely some cognitive dissonance you need to resolve, dude. I guarantee it’s the small steps that’ll help you, not someone reaching out of the heavens to date you. That’s what everyone has been saying the whole time. Small steps.

  84. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had this tall girl at work that always tried to talk to me and gave me compliments. I think she was in the spectrum because of the way she talked. I'm the janitor and none of the other employees talked to me so it was very unusual. She would always say things like, "I appreciate you" and "Good Job." I think maybe she was trying to hit on me but I couldn't be sure because of the tism. I have no idea what happened to her, lots of students come and leave. I miss her.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also on time in highschool I kissed this tall Asian girl. She was really shy and had a skin condition (or maybe it was because she was in the swimming team) so her face was really dry and flaky. It was kiss a senior day and she was a senior, I was a sophomore. She said that she had never had a first kiss so I just kissed her on the cheek and she said she liked it. I think she probably had never gotten attention like that from a guy before.

  85. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a transman, 4'9", fast food manager. Would you consider dating me?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Post pic

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hello. I know nothing about you besides your height. Most men that I share an interest with IRL are appealing, but you’ve told me only your height… most of this thread was about trying to let go of height… do you see what I mean?

  86. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    LOL you are asking NSFFW.... Losers that would frick anything with at least one hole will respond and again men frick and date anything so yeah you will found someone maybe not the hottest one or the richer one buuut if you looking for any guy you will find someone

    Also seriously if I was tall enough I would try modeling. I wish I was 6 feet because I could be a runaway model instead of doing commercial and beauty shit. Like are you dumb? Go try your luck in the modeling industry. Take advantage of your height

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t think modelling is an option. My facial features are pretty, I’ve been told, but my physique isn’t stick thin. I’ve also heard the modelling industry is very toxic and filled with power dynamics, and that sounds like hell. Also, I’m not looking for “any guy”, I’m trying to find someone I at minimum share interests with and have good chemistry with. My height doesn’t help because most of the guys I’m into perceive me as some sort of challenge to their masculinity. Before I can even talk to them. It’s annoying.

  87. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Who is your favorite Miku OP? My favorite Miku is Senbonzakura Miku.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry, I don’t listen to vocaloids. The music is a bit too much when I’m trying to focus, I prefer pink/green background noise. Why senbonzakura?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your image misled me. I could say because I enjoy the call to attention towards the hypocrisy of a defeated country trying to front a strong image while bowing to fear and enjoying the economical benefits provided by their occupiers, but it's mostly because I like the hat and furisode sleeves.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I would think it’s traditional chinese wear..?

  88. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tbh i assume by tall women they just like girls who are 1-3 ft taller than them ig.

    Because for me there are 2 girls in my life i've liked that are taller than me but one of them had a mewtwo build and one of them a normal 8/10 build

  89. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > Do men even fricking like tall women?:
    Not really. It's inconvenient.
    Just the logistics of everything is harder, it's too much work that I just don't need.

    • 3 weeks ago
      MKG

      >Just the logistics of everything is harder, it's too much work that I just don't need.
      This however is a legitimate complaint my short father in law voiced before.

  90. 3 weeks ago
    MKG

    It seems like the majority of women prefer men who are taller than them. So many men feel assume approaching a taller woman will just be rejection.

    >they idealize some “goth mommy” fricking thing
    Can confirm you're normal. Heh
    It's Domme or Mommy Domme. Goth is just an aesthetic with some overlap.
    But you are not wrong.

    >Do men that like “regular” tall women exist?
    Yes. Two subsets of them.
    I'm not counting the ones that fetishize the height irrespective of domination. Being fetishized doesn't feel great.

    There are guys that simply find the aesthetic of tall women to be beautiful. They don't particularly prefer or fetishize it. They simply see the beauty in that form of woman, in addition to others they also find attractive.

    The other subset of guys don't see a woman being tall or a deterrent to approaching her. This isn't necessarily the group of men that are happy with any woman at all either. Some guys just don't consider her height as a factor.

    >It seems they all prefer shorter girls out of some perversion.
    It's not necessarily perversion. I prefer *smaller* girls. To me, this includes talk thin beanpole girls. It brings out a subconscious desire to protect her. Whereas I once met a 6'5" swedish model who was drop dead gorgeous and had ample proportions. And she didn't arouse me at all. She was like a living sunset. It was fascinating. My subconscious was essentially telling me "This woman doesn't need you."

    But I've met tiny women who could kick my ass that I felt protective of.
    It's a mammal thing, I think.

    tl;dr: There's hope.

  91. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    find a short guy. as long as he isn't insecure he'll probably have no problems with your height. have a 6,0 friend who has a 5,5 bf and they are totally happy with eachother.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah obviously, manlets are happy to get even the cheapest scrap of pussy

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I have literally stated my goals in a partner aren’t sex in the slightest. Why do you still demean me?? It doesn’t matter if someone will frick me, I want someone to love

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Find an elf (manlet)
          >Put on high shelf
          >Now he is stuck
          >Relentlessly talk to him for house on end
          >Now you have a pocket prince to put in your purse as you do your daily chores.

  92. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't like women in general, so I don't talk to any of them.

  93. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I like tall women and I'm a short guy, very short 5'3".
    I think the problem is that no one is asking out women, I ask out women I really like and often they tell me someone hasn't asked them out in 2-3 years.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I like tall women, and would prefer a taller wife. But I simply don't ask anybody out, and I especially would never ask anybody in public, like notices. "Nobody asks me out" part of your post is because of how disastrous it can go. The very low chance it might turn into some kind of freak show where I need to run away because a girl starts screaming at me or filming me is enough to deter me for good. Even if it doesn't go wrong, a mean rejection would set my mental state back years and I literally can't afford to go back on antidepressants and need to be in top shape to continue waging. I see it as an action with such a small chance of a good outcome I'm better off buying a lottery ticket.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This seems like you really need to step outside your bubble with third places, dude. A girl won’t come to you like an angel from heaven. Start with playing pickleball with old people, gain enough social skills, join a casual club on something you like and learn how to not monologue or break social norms. From there a girlfriend / partner is just bonding with someone over interests.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >The very low chance it might turn into some kind of freak show where I need to run away because a girl starts screaming at me or filming me is enough to deter me for good.
        The last girl I asked out, I met her at a bar, I sat her with my friends while I went piss, apparently she asked my friend's wife if I was going to rape her.
        I didn't know about this until after our first date, which went SIX HOURS and she refused to end it multiple times "no I'm having fun with you", she couldn't find my social media (I have none) and asked for it directly right at the start of the date, then after the 6 hour date kept "I'm busy"ing for a second date, I dumped her after no-date for three weeks and she suddenly revealed she had a horrible time on the first date. ??? She wasn't a gold digger, date 1 cost me $30 and she makes six figures and has a very rich family with a mansion in Costa Rica. Once I heard about the rape comment (months later) I realized I dodged a bullet. I only asked her out as a joke and I don't think I'm going to ask anyone out anytime soon based on what I'm seeing.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Dude, you’re insecure about if women genuinely love you. It’s so obvious. Listen:
          >met a girl
          >asked her friends wife some strange thing (I cannot imagine this being serious)
          >she probably enjoyed the rest of the date a little, you’re saying she was pretending but no woman goes on a 6 hour date with a guy that they’re bored with. It’s clear you pushed the joke she made a little too hard.
          >she tried to contact you after, unless you engaged first I would never do that with a guy I had a boring date with.
          >you flipped out, couldn’t coordinate with her again.
          Maybe she didn’t enjoy everything, but IMO her saying she had a horrible time was an exaggeration. I don’t think you’re particularly nice to text, so she might’ve been trying to scare you off at this point. Try to be more casual and less assertive / assuming, it helps a lot when she’s literally trying to show interest.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You have a great imagination! A lot of what you say happened, did not happen. But I'll entertain your post anyway as a hypothetical.

            If I knew about the rape "joke" before our first date, I would have declined the first date outright. She had never met my friends before, and she opens up with that? Are you serious?? I would never feel comfortable taking a woman like that anywhere, let alone introduce her to my family. What if my friend's wife was raped in the past? Even if the joke is fine in your opinion, I am incredibly turned off by women who are crude, it is not attractive behavior and I think most men would agree with me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This isn’t really the place to discuss rejections anyway. If you have a genuine reaction to that joke, you should’ve confronted her with why it was so awkward to get it out of the way because it very obviously shut her down. Very hard to connect the dots when I only hear about her flaws btw.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I would directly confront her with "woah woah woah, what the frick" and find some way to get her to leave. I would've never jockeyed for her phone number or a first date, it would have ended there and I would've plainly explained what I'm explaining to you.

            Remember this is the hypothetical scenario because I didn't learn about the rape comment until months after I dumped her. You misread and misinterpreted my story.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hold on it’s not even lining up. You pretty explicitly said you didn’t know until after the first date. After first date = months later? You suck at fiction anon. Don’t chase women who don’t enjoy your company, if it’s so black and white to you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What is not adding up... are you trolling...
            >Meet girl at bar and she makes rape "joke" to friend's wife
            >week passes
            >go on date with her and blah blah blah
            >texting / sexting for three weeks, asking her for date two, "i'm busy" "i'm busy"
            >tell her i'm moving on, she reveals the six hour first date was bad blah blah, it's over
            >several months go by
            >hang out with friend and his wife, she asks about the woman, i tell her all the details, she reveals the rape the comment
            Look if you're just upset that I stopped dating some random woman, say so, stop wasting my time!

  94. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5'9 and even as a kid early on, something awoke in my and I've always had a fetish for women who were taller or bigger than me but I've never really been able to live out that fantasy. It'd be interesting, but I would have insecurities about how you might not give a shit about me and cheat on me because I'm not taller than you.

  95. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >It seems they all prefer shorter girls out of some perversion.
    Most, if not all girls, want the "standard" or better than standard. For both sexes the standard is "girl is short, man is tall".

  96. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You kidding?
    I love a tall lady. As long as you're decent looking and well proportioned, I'd frickin rope you down like the giant you are and scale Mt. Dat ass and rail you like a mine.

  97. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yea, tall girls are cute and I'm a sucker for nice legs.
    I met my girl on tinder, didn't search by height and she just happened to be short as frick; wouldn't care if she was 5'2 or 6'5 though.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks for your words. But what does it mean to start a relationship outside of a dating app? I prefer to talk with people, and usually my physicality offsets men enough to avoid me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly it just means that if men are intimidated by it, they're not going to be what you're looking for anyway.

        You're going to drive someone crazy for you one day I have no doubts, a tall extroverted woman ticks major boxes for friends of mine; just shoot your shot if you want to or let them if that's your preference.

        What's your type anyway? I might have better advice if I know your target demographic.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I prefer men with a strong nose, tight features, and a very sweet smile. As for like personality, I hate guys who play up shyness, but it’s nice to sit next to someone and try to do something with him. If he’s socially awkward and not shy that’s better, guys like that let me just ignite it by sitting near them and then we can connect. Extroverted guys aren’t really it, I generally find they’re shallow until they hit something that piques my interest, then it’s a total coinflip if he cares enough to pursue it. I wouldn’t say I’m extroverted tho, it takes a ton of effort to demask / or to fully initiate with a guy I’m crushing on. Luckily no major fails though.

  98. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus christ, cope and seethe you fricking b***h.

  99. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd date a taller woman no problem, though I acknowledge it is extremely unlikely in my position (I'm 6'4"). Tall people definitely have their own charm.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I imagine normal-height women flock to you. I'm 5'9, and it's mostly the tall women that flock to me (my height or taller), the really short ones (around 5'0) make moves too sometimes but it's dead quiet between 5'3 and 5'7 unless I'm doing my "rounds" at the bar.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I imagine normal-height women flock to you.
        If only. Even when I was single, I have never been approached by anyone with romantic interests in mind. Even my now-wife initially wanted to befriend me, but we wound up together later anyway.
        The closest is t my wife catching someone ogling at me a few times.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          My secret is a nice wool sweater in a casual bar. Something about it makes women go crazy for me

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can understand it, yeah. It is cozy and casual, and not something someone too full of themselves would wear usually.
            But as for me, never really was a bar goer, since I don't drink anyway - low finances, frugal, and I've disliked most alcoholic beverages I've ever tasted. Besides, the music is usually too loud and not to my liking lol. The couple times I've been to a bar have all been gigs.
            Appreciated nonetheless.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My closest friends are a married couple and we go to karaoke bars, they don't drink (the man has gout, the woman is polite) and the music is fun because the bargoers are singing. The couple are actually both in a few different rock bands and can sing really well, I can't sing well but I do anyway, it's fun to let loose. You don't have to drink. We prefer a 90's themed bar, we usually submit songs for each other and we don't know the song we're about to sing until it's time to sing.

  100. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Shut up and stop lumping all men into the narrow category of the losers you’re chasing after. Tall girls are hot, even hotter if their proportions grow with them. Just do what every man does and TALK to people and risk rejection. Anyone that isn’t interested based on your height isn’t worth your time anyway, no sane man would deny themselves more woman (excluding fat chicks obvs)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I do talk to guys. I initiate a lot of conversations, and a couple direct ones like asking-out/asking for number. I just don’t like sex as soon as possible, so a lot of men seem to go “she’s not worth waiting” and find someone who lunges after them.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Do you like sex at all? What if a guy also wants to wait for sex, but he wants to wait longer than you do?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I suppose at some point it has to happen. It requires an immense amount of intimacy, so if the guy’s lagging behind with his libido = not enough intimacy for sex, so I wouldn’t force him. If it’s for some sort of creed, that’s a little different. I generally don’t like men who use religion as a social calendar just for a rule of thumb, no offense.

  101. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why has nobody suggested to OP that she date a manlet? You're both outcasts because of your height, and opposites attract.
    And you can give him children that aren't accursed with the manlet.

  102. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Smoking is fricking disgusting

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t smoke. She’s just cute and I wear the same glasses.

  103. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd love an amazon giraffe gf

    Sorry if that language comes off as dehumanizing or anything, I'm very lonely and tall girls are often very pretty

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It’s a common trend for men online to say a taller woman is pretty, but actual IRL experience seems to say either there is zero overlap or it’s 100% different being look-down-on-him taller because it emasculates him or something.

  104. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >OP inundated with interest
    >masterfully deflects absolutely all of it
    >has used the only vehicle she knows - her words - to elicit attention in a twisted way
    >in the meanwhile, will continue convincing herself she is a freak of nature due to her height
    >will never notice the men who actually like her

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You mean online? It frankly doesn’t matter how many men say tall women are attractive here. In practice / IRL it’s men hiding from me when I approach them. Purpley prose aside, what exactly do you think “men who actually like me” are doing that I’m missing? I’m hanging out alone in 3rd spaces semi-often to read literature, nobody new comes to talk to me outside of class.. I feel like you’re projecting a little, a guy who would be interested me should actually make some kind of move towards me that I could perceive.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I’m hanging out alone in 3rd spaces semi-often to read literature,
        Why would I bother you while you're reading a book? You're presumably enjoying the book, and you'll be annoyed with me if I interrupt you and distract you from it. You've got it all wrong.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I think you’re underestimating the purpose of a library. I go there to read, but I could technically read in my dorm, the library just has quieter / comfier areas and I get to also hang near some people if I needed to talk. It’s not as serious to interrupt someone from reading as it is for someone cramming.. If someone asked me about my book / wanted to talk about it I’d be interested as long as they weren’t an arse / shallow about it. I hate however when a guy comes up to me to try to seduce me or flirt with me when I don’t even know him. But any conscious effort is worth my time.

      • 3 weeks ago
        MKG

        Reading a book can be seen as someone who doesn't want to be bothered. And it leaves very little variation for icebreakers. Icebreakers are basically either talking about the book, manufacturing an obvious excuse to talk like asking for directions from you instead of from someone who isn't busy reading, or just being boldly direct and saying they find you interesting and would like to talk.
        So on that scenario, the pool of men you are working with is men who:
        Are attracted to tall girls
        Can chat about books
        Don't mind bothering someone who is reading
        Is in geographic proximity to you at that moment
        Is willing to risk rejection
        Isn't intimidated by cold approaching a woman in a public setting where he can be overheard

        (To me, the last two seem in short supply among zoomers but that could easily be bias)

        To put it bluntly, you being tall is a restriction of the pool of men interested in you that isn't insurmountable but they add up.
        You can maximize your approachability.

        For example, I don't know if you've said already, but the environment makes a girl reading in a cafe more approachable than a girl reading in a library.
        Certain clothing and body language is more approachable than others.
        And while you don't*need* to change to be approached, every element adds up.

  105. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    (OP) Officially closing thread. Amt of help has been dwindling, and although I greatly appreciate those who left positive comments, many men here seem to be misunderstanding what I was trying to do by giving perspective, and talk down to me instead of asking for help / civilly debating. It’s turned into an incel pool which can only be expected from an initial rant post. Keep your fetishes and dominance culture away from a woman who was asking for help + trying to help you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >femcel calling men incels
      Good luck with the cats!

    • 3 weeks ago
      MKG

      Welp, good luck and good travels!

      Final piece of advice: Invite men to approach:
      Eye contact
      Warm smile extending to your eyes
      Look back at whatever you were doing.

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