Do you believe in love?

>be me
>volcel the last two years
>life went so fricked I ended up in rehab
>now feel well and want to be better
>forgave my past and everyone who ever hurt me
>understood nobody is perfect and they don't know how to live either
>"I want to improve myself, I want to do my best and die in peace"
>realize I want a girlfriend to do simple things with
>acepted I am a classic romantic one and don't want to ignore that fact anymore
>actually once had a girl in my life who showed me that love is real
>need that feel again, know it would be a great boost
>feel so calm, life's so good
>smile

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I do. I’m married to someone who I met when I thought I will die alone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why did you think that about yourself?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Bad breakup.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    no. i thought i was in love once but got burned. a girl i had almost everything in common with. similar interests, even similar ethnic background which is rare in america. but nothing came of it, and i lost pretty much any real motivation to talk to women after that

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The similarity between you was one of the reasons why it didn’t work out. People shouldn’t date their clones.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >People shouldn’t date their clones.
        Could you elaborate on this? I'm curious if you refer to physical or psychological clones. I need to go deep in that part of my mind.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It’s very simple. In order to keep ‘the spark’ you need differences, your own world. If you had almost everything in common, it was like dating yourself.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The erotic relies on polarization. It can't occur between the same things, and the more different the two things are, the greater the erotic tension / experience.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >People shouldn’t date their clones.
        Amen and amen. This is especially true when a person lacks love for themself at best, hates themself at worst.

        When someone hates themself and desires to find someone just like they are to love, they will get their wish. They will find someone who hates them too.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe I'm wrong but my understanding of love is that it should be unconditional, which to me seems is unattainable between two strangers. The only example of unconditional love I can think of (outside of animals) is the relationship between parent and child.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What happened to the girl who showed you love is real?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I honestly don't know what I should answer. We were happy for the two years we were together and, as I said, she really loved me in the same way I loved her. We were not live in the same town because of my job so I went to her city on weekends, that made a big part of the deal. But the most simple truth is I used to have a lot of self hate back then and she knew that. She wanted to be better every day and I just wanted to die on an overdose. We both were opioids users but my addiction was the worst one. Last time we saw each other and decided to end it up, I know we thought it was not such a bid deal and we will be hugging and saying how much love we feel, but that was in February 2020, I came back to my town and the lock down started... So ironic now we live in the same city, but I totally lost contact with her. Last time i heard about her, they told me she got very mentally ill, depression and death-flirting issues, but this time without social life...

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You're gonna get back with her if you show her this thread. It's gonna happen this year. I have no stake; it is just The Lord Jesus Christ.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    can somebody explain me why i have such an irresistible urge to plow woman in picrel's ass for hours on end?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    have you tried not being a homosexual?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, she's sleeping on the couch next to me as I type this.

    She met me at my lowest point, stuck by me as I learned to be the kind of man she deserved and supported me as I grew to become a better person than my horrible upbringing had prepared me for. She could have left a million times and I wouldn't have blamed her for any of them, but instead she stuck by me and lit up my world like a candle in a blackout. I never would have become the man I am now if it was only for my sake but she gave me an indomitable hunger for life that's completely altered how I see the world and myself. If she left me tomorrow I'd still be a better person than I was then, I will always love her for the kindness love, abd patience she has and continues to give me.

    Frick I love her so much bros, I can't wait to make her my wife.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      So nice words, this is the kind of comment I was wanting to receive. I do believe in love, but need a reminder time to time. I honestly hope you maintain the happiness as long as possible. Cheers on you, anon.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Love has a way of finding you out of the blue; I wasn't trying to meet the love of my life it just kinda happened. One single tinder date, my only one, was all it took. Both of us successfully failed at hookup culture.

        >I honestly hope you maintain the happiness as long as possible.
        Beleive me, it does take maintenance. Love can be found and stoked, but it NEEDS maintenance to flourish. Concessions, hard conversations, compromise and co-operation, it's a lot of work making something so natural go smoothly. Compatibility with likes and interests is nice and all, but a shared outlook on life and similar morals are what can really make or break a relationship.

        If you find a girl you like but have nothing in common with, take initiative! Let her teach you, let her tell you all about everything she loves and help you love it with her. Share those intimate parts of yourself and encourage her to do the same, you'll find common ground quicker than you'd think.

        good to hear someone is having what I imagined exists.

        [...]
        I dont even see it with friends lol

        I doubt it exists for me. But Id be happy with sex with a woman I like. Love, kinda gave up on that from 2023/24.

        I dont even need it. Nobody needs to love me and pet me and whatever. Solitude is the only one I trust.

        But I still need and want sex. With a cool gal.

        >good to hear someone is having what I imagined exists.
        You'll get there man. Kindness has a way of finding its way back to you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      good to hear someone is having what I imagined exists.

      Yes. I see it all the time with friends.

      Do I believe it's real for me? Not much.

      I dont even see it with friends lol

      I doubt it exists for me. But Id be happy with sex with a woman I like. Love, kinda gave up on that from 2023/24.

      I dont even need it. Nobody needs to love me and pet me and whatever. Solitude is the only one I trust.

      But I still need and want sex. With a cool gal.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >skib, skibbidity bop, doo dang doo... i'm gay!
    i know

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. I see it all the time with friends.

    Do I believe it's real for me? Not much.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If it was real, why is it not rubbing on you so much but other things do so much? The way that other things get you going… How did you expect us to be ready for that?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >why is it not rubbing on you so much but other things do so much?
        Well, because it involves someone else I guess? What do you think when saying "other things that get going"? Like feelings (sadness, rage, apathy)? Those are things you usually handle individually.

        Love as well, but to reach that level people yearn for you need somebody else. And that can't exactly rub on you.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry. I meant "other things that get you going" like the 500 hours you have on Apex that gets you so hyped up, you know?

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you believe in love
    Yeah

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    pussy. Honestly, I know nothing about God. I have never met Jesus Christ. I have never seen him. I just believe in pussy or something like that.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    love is nothing more than an animal instinct to pairbond for the raising of children. there's no deeper meaning.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sure love is real, I just don't think I'll ever experience it

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I thought so but I realized we were both broken and hurt and hurting each other. If that’s love I could do without it

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Non-virgin women are incapable of love and I'm too old to find a virgin

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nope haven't felt it outside of familial love. Had a gf for many years and sure at first felt something.
    >Turned out to just be butterflies from anxiety of being in unfamiliar situation or lust

    But after that it just became another chore on the list. Hang out with gf for x amount of times this week. I would love to feel it and find someone but likelihood is low. Not to mention my expectations now are way out of proportion.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I do, but never found it. I've resigned already, I'm pushing 40 and the only way I'm getting any affection is by utility. I still believe I might find it, I just stopped looking and I'm focusing on getting better at extraordinary things. I wish you good luck and may you find what you need.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I am a classic romantic
    No way. You're more likely to be a pedophile.

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