Do you have the confidence to touch women?

Do you have the confidence to touch women?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's a learned experience thing. If all your non physical attempts to connect with women fail your never going to think of trying a physical one

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    don't know I remember seeing this happen before my eyes when i was wagecuking at a restaurant.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I come to /NSFFW/ very rarely but am always intrigued.
    Why would you fear touching someone as long as it isn't a punch or grope? It usually *relaxes* the other person.
    For example, when my GF introduced me to her friends one of them (jokingly) said I probably wasn't good enough for her so I picked her up, spun her upside down and held her there until she said I was a good guy. All of the girls were laughing and since then they'll say something outrageous so I will "flip them over".
    It was a bonding experience

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This glimpse into the non-Robot world tells you everything you need to know.
      Reminds me of when I realized the true difference between robots and others.
      >was 19 back then, got an unpaid internship with a tech company. I was nervous, scared, and the other usual emotions for me every day.
      >The building was laid out oddly and people were constantly walking up behind me and talking to me without me knowing they were there and I would jump every time.
      >New salesman gets hired, he comes in all smiles, talks to us interns (he was hired, not interned)
      >He had just turned 20, already successful in sales.
      >Next say see him standing alone, looking at his phone, when a manager comes up behind him. New sales guy obviously has zero clue someone is behind him.
      >Manager clasps him on the back and says loudly "welcome!"
      >New sales guy's reaction was to get a big smile and turn around for a handshake
      >Realize he isn't nervous and scared all the time
      >Realize physical touch doesn't intimidate him
      >Realize loud voices don't make him go quiet.
      >Realize how huge those differences are
      Some men have no fear.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because I'm ugly and socially awkward women will label any kind of contact I make with them as inherently predatory.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thats all nice and dandy anon. However, you fail to realize both those girls probably already liked you and you already knew that. You never had a chance of them getting grossed out or being plastered over social media for being as a rapist.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I am pointing out that your fears are overblown

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          They definitely are not. Good for you that things have worked out so easily and naturally for you anon, but most of us here have experiences that go against your own. We have learned the hard way that touching women is very likely to result in a negative reaction. We have been socialized to believe that touching women is a bad thing that makes you creepy/aggressive and women have made that clear in pretty much ever form of media or public space.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Normalgay alert!!!! CODE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I look like a dark triad chad except scarred and ugly. When I walk behind women they speed up, they pull out their phones, they cross the road.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        the dark triad is a series of personality traits
        >"I look like a dark triad chad"

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >he thinks you can't see personality
          lole

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      if i were ever strong enough to try that i'd probably drop her by accident and break her neck and go to prison for life and everyone would think i was a psycho or more likely i'd grab her by the waist to pick her up and she'd scream and everyone would be like what the frick dude and i'd be completely ostracized from the group

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >paranoid ramblings of a madman

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >sadistic gaslighting of a normalgay

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sane human being
            >Relax, dude, if you pick up a girl you won't drop her and kill her, calm down
            Incels

            >stop gaslighting? He'd TOTALLY murder her by accident

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            not the guy arguing back with you just the one you replied to originally, it's just not a good idea for me i know it won't go well so i would never dare try it every time i've thrown caution to the wind because i was in a good mood or something it's gone wrong or my words and actions are completely misinterpreted, i'm not denying it works for most guys because i've seen the type of shit you describe when i was in school, just definitely would not work for me

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            He would definitely face some kind of legal punishment because lepers are not allowed to physically touch a woman.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Idk about her breaking her neck but I would definitely drop her by accident or step on her hair or most likely I would go in for the grab and she would back up quickly "wtf are you doing!?"

        This glimpse into the non-Robot world tells you everything you need to know.
        Reminds me of when I realized the true difference between robots and others.
        >was 19 back then, got an unpaid internship with a tech company. I was nervous, scared, and the other usual emotions for me every day.
        >The building was laid out oddly and people were constantly walking up behind me and talking to me without me knowing they were there and I would jump every time.
        >New salesman gets hired, he comes in all smiles, talks to us interns (he was hired, not interned)
        >He had just turned 20, already successful in sales.
        >Next say see him standing alone, looking at his phone, when a manager comes up behind him. New sales guy obviously has zero clue someone is behind him.
        >Manager clasps him on the back and says loudly "welcome!"
        >New sales guy's reaction was to get a big smile and turn around for a handshake
        >Realize he isn't nervous and scared all the time
        >Realize physical touch doesn't intimidate him
        >Realize loud voices don't make him go quiet.
        >Realize how huge those differences are
        Some men have no fear.

        It's incredible isn't it? I remember in highschool when we would be put into groups the normie group was always so loud with their never-ending conversations with interesting topics and well placed jokes and the teacher would get in on the fun making the whole class laugh and I was in a group with some guy who hated me and a emo boy with horrible smelling breath, awkward nervous energy. We barely say anything to each other. I go to the bathroom for 20 minutes just to get the hell out of there. It must be nice being normal and never feeling nervous or anxious about anything.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They're autistic, they don't understand.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There is a looks threshold which determines whether it is allowed and accepted or not, no surprise here.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your fanfic doesn't happen IRL either, a woman is going to make it very clear she's into you before you try anything like that or you're risking the ick or creep even if you're GL
      Then again I could be talking to a third worlder, for context I'm a northern Euro millennial who's married
      I accidentally clicked NSFFW when i meant to click /misc/ instead

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This sounds like something straight from the medieval times. Not even my most normie friends would do this, i suspect you were in your teens?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Its called a larp
        I know this is shocking, that people would lie on the internet, but it does happen

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    when you're a star they let you do it

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not sure if it's a confidence thing or what but I feel it affects me more than them lol. Touching a woman feels so different it makes me freak out. Plus I don't quite know where to touch a woman.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Last Summer my mom dragged me to a church picnic. There were a lot of late teen-early 20's girls there (I think that is why mom made me go). There is one who is truly stunning. curly brunette hair, deep brown eyes, pale skin, very slim with a tiny waist but big breasts, always smiling and laughing. She was helping set up and mom had volunteered me to help.
      We were putting up a big pavilion and she was standing on a folding chair hanging bug nets, I was hammering in a stake she she slipped. I instinctively grabbed her as she fell and she landed 'sitting' on my left arm, facing to my left, cradled in my right arm. My right hand had gone under her shirt and was pressed against her skin over her ribs.
      Her skin was so soft! She was so tiny and light!
      I put her down and she thanked me for 'saving her'. Later she brought me a piece of a pie she had made.
      It really drove home that women are really, really different

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Her skin was so soft! She was so tiny and light!
        I have never held a woman like you did but yeah that's my impression. They just feel alien to my brain.
        >Later she brought me a piece of a pie she had made.
        You should have made her a pie too, one made with cream. Are you gonna meet her this summer?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Since then I go to that church every Sunday.
          Mom is very, very happy and I talk to that girl every week.
          Her family went on a 2 month vacation so I missed her for a while but for the last 3 Sundays she has been bringing me a cappuccino to share with her and (my mom's idea) I bring these nice biscotti so tomorrow she and I will be having our 3rd "date" in the social hall after church.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >but for the last 3 Sundays she has been bringing me a cappuccino to share with her and (my mom's idea) I bring these nice biscotti so tomorrow she and I will be having our 3rd "date" in the social hall after church.
            REEEEEEEE CHAD GTFO
            Hope you did have a nice time with her though and it's not just because she's pretty.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She is very, very sweet and kind

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Awww that's awesome. Wish you all the best with her.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you give me hope anon, good luck.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            wtf???? good luck dude

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My sister is religious and her friends sometimes come over and they compliment me be shaking hands and holy shit, women's hands are fragile as frick. I can't imagine how the rest of their body are

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I am

        I come to /NSFFW/ very rarely but am always intrigued.
        Why would you fear touching someone as long as it isn't a punch or grope? It usually *relaxes* the other person.
        For example, when my GF introduced me to her friends one of them (jokingly) said I probably wasn't good enough for her so I picked her up, spun her upside down and held her there until she said I was a good guy. All of the girls were laughing and since then they'll say something outrageous so I will "flip them over".
        It was a bonding experience

        M
        en, even short, non-athletic men, are MUCH stronger and MUCH tougher than women. Its almost impossible to stress just how vast the difference between a strong man and a *strong* woman is, let alone an average woman.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get your grip strength up. Wrap your hand around her upper arm and she'll soak her panties and be cool with it.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My experience touching women has been hugging my mom whom I hate, my aunt whom I hate and my sisters whom I hate.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No. When growing up it was pounded into my head that women don't want me to touch them, be flirty with them, ask them out, etc. And I had shameful and embarrassing experiences to reinforce that.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yea same here literally a woman has to tell me to get undressed for sex and even then I am unsure.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why would i touch a woman other than a handshake? i never had close female friends sooo

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i for sure dont. i had one girl ever being massively interested in me to the point she initiated my first kiss and guided my hand under her bra. yet i couldnt advance more. she quickly ghosted me after that. i tried to talk to a therapist about that but they are so fricking insensitive about such topics like they dont even care (tried 2 before i gave up on the therapy meme)

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >have one female friend of almost 10 years
    >she has a friend she introduced me to about a year ago
    >they became roommates eventually
    >at their place
    >we always hug each other in greeting
    >with the friend I knew longer these usually last almost 10 seconds
    >proceed to hang out for the day
    >time to go home and I'm suddenly overwhelmed by feelings of "they find me creepy and don't actually want to hug me"
    >make a conscious effort to hop on my bike and leave asap without hugging them
    >they go out of their way and put in extra effort to hug me
    Why did they do this?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nice humblebrag normalhomosexual have a nice day

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nah man I'm genuinely confused on why I feel so self-conscious about being physically affectionate with them even though they've shown me they don't mind.
        They were cool with me squeezing into a 2-person tent with them for Pete's sake!? (our other guy friend was there, but whatevs)

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          get cancer and AIDS

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because most of women's shit tests are designed to weed out boring nice guys and reward bad boys.

    They complain about being uncomfortable around men and unwanted attention and touching.

    Good men take them at their word and leave them alone.

    Bad men ignore them and keep doing those things anyway.

    Then the prostitutes reward the bad men and get beaten, raped, cheated on, etc

    Then the prostitutes complain more about the bad mens behavior to the good men.

    I'm this way women create a selection pressure that rewards uncaring psychopaths and punishes empathetic men.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >"Not all men, but always a man"
      Women after getting manipulated and dumped by a psycho for the 27th time. They chose bad men and complain afterwards kek

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >shit tests
      Fake shit invented by PUAs to demoralize losers
      >
      Because most of women's shit tests are designed to weed out boring nice guys and
      More humiliation cuck fetish fantasies from incels
      Its like shut in losers teaching other shut in losers about women means they get it all wrong.
      Weird

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nah homie

      (for the robot: nah homie nah homie nah homie)

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >shit tests
        Fake shit invented by PUAs to demoralize losers
        >
        Because most of women's shit tests are designed to weed out boring nice guys and
        More humiliation cuck fetish fantasies from incels
        Its like shut in losers teaching other shut in losers about women means they get it all wrong.
        Weird

        >Claim other person is wrong
        >Don't elaborate further
        Big woman moment up in here

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You are correct. You saw through the mountains of BS our society uses to hide the truth. Well done.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally pseudo bullshit, when will you homosexuals get it through your head that women only care about height, if you are at least 6'3" women don't care if you're the nicest guy or an absolute psycho piece of shit and do whatever you want, they won't give a shit because you're tall. It's all there is to it.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Looks > height.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My mother had me at eighteen, still busy with her trauma. That anger and grief was directed at me.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This reminds me of a time when me and a friend were taking turns laying out heads on our female friend's lap and she would massage our scalps. The things that girls would just do back in school were crazy, looking back it is really obvious just how horny girls get at that age, it's not just the boys.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >thread filled with normalc**ts congratulating each other on their social prowess
    i want to fricking vomit

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Make a new board then b***h.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You guys would invade it again anyway

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Once I opened my arm to give my female friend a side hug while sitting on a couch so she crawled under it and rested her head on my shoulder for a while. Was nice.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    WingsofPepsi

    liek jannies you can go ahead and just nuke dis thread liek hawnestly

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I barely have the confidence to look at one

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I try to treat people as I would like to be treated. That means no touching. Its not a confidence thing, its just common sense.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Chad can touch. Chud can only watch.

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it probably goes a long way not being uncomfortable with others touching you.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Foid detected.
      >you need to be confident when grabbing me by the pussy otherwise I'll report you for sexual assault okay? 🙂 XOXO

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I love it when women touch me. I crave more of it. But women don't want me to touch them.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Notice how she is trying to justify her double standard by projecting the blame. It's YOUR discomfort incel not mine

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      To a point, I like physical affection and love receiving it. Scared shitless at the thought of making people uncomfortable if I was to give it though.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You'll have the confidence to touch women if you're hot because women will touch you first. If women don't touch you, they certainly do not want you touching them.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this basically.
      if she stands closer to you than necessary, maybe leans into you, she bumps into you pretending to laugh at something, that means you have green light. but people who have that happen to them regularly seem to take for granted that it's like that for all of us.
      one of my flatmates had women pulling moves on him pretty much all the time - sometimes bordering on sexual harassment.

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is how I'd touch a woman if I wasn't so shy

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The way it should be. Go get 'em tiger.

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    One time in high school a girl poked me in the sides when I was drinking from the bubbler, I think I like turned and looked at her and then walked away.

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would anyone accept a woman as a girlfriend/wife? Just rub one out or frick prostitutes. I never understood this since I knew since childhood that all women are prostitutes.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There's more to a relationship, Todd.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >keep telling you are anything but a hole

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          When I walk down the street Todd, I can't help but glance at men like you and immediately get the ick as I involuntarily clamp my pelvic floor muscle. Stay indoors and obey mommy.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I clamp my ass when I see men like you
            That looks like an invitation

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've seen this happen too, be it at school or at work. A guy at work who only knew a female manager platonically is able to touch them effortlessly with no issue.
    I glance and thought to myself "damn if I did that I'd get arrested holy shit". Though, as one would expect, the guy was physically attractive.

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When I was on highschool I girl slipped on a degree and I held her and she pushed me away. A woman call be falling to their death now that I'd ignore it tbh

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like an instant prison sentence. No thanks

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