Do you want to be in a relationship?

Or no? If so, what kind of relationship do you want?

I've been thinking about it a lot lately, and I'm not even sure that I want a long-term relationship. I think what I want is basically a live-in maid/chef that I can occasionally have sex with. But the distinction of her being paid is important because I don't want to engage with her emotionally at all. I'm just kinda fine by myself doing my own thing 90% of the time, and I don't really want to have to worry about a wife/partner constantly. Sometimes I wish I could keep a b***h in one of those capsules from Dragon Ball and just bring her out when I'm horny/lonely, then back in the capsule she goes when I'm good.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >If so, what kind of relationship do you want?
    A rich girl with connections so her dad can give me an easy career job. lol

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >wants a gf to be a wage slave
      ngmi, have a nice day now

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i thought i did but i feel pretty depressed. i might just shoot myself instead

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, I'm a natural loner

    But I'll still talk shit about femoids online

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want a relationship that is equal with no dominance, where neither of us have to do any traditional gender roles and where we just enjoy the simple things in life and are nice and caring to each other. No children and no marriage but it's a long term hopefully lifelong relationship

    Which is why females will never accept me

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes and no. I already keep the few friends I have at arm's length, so I probably wouldnt be much better with a gf. Im generally more comfortable alone, but sometimes yearn for a real relationship. Would prefer to be the protector and provider, but it doesn't have to be like that. Id unironically do anything for the right girl

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >a live-in maid/chef that I can occasionally have sex with. But the distinction of her being paid is important because I don't want to engage with her emotionally at all.
    lmfao you've never been with someone for longer than 3 months, did you?

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would wanna be in a relationship with a girl yeah, I just want someone to see me. That's all. I feel like Im wasting away and not letting people be aware of me if that makes sense. I'm not a complete loner obviously but Ive probably got aspd,

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >what kind of relationship do you want?
    loves me as I love her, supports me as I'd support her, and we strive to be the the best version of ourselves together.
    on my end,i've noticed I work better when I have an actual result to my effort. "experience" or "growth" are too vague concepts for me to give a shit about, but "working extra hours means my family will be better off" is a bit more grounded. and having a visual measure of how much it's paying off also works. a partner would be like a confirmation of effort paying off

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want a gf with her own job who goes to work in the day like i do, and then she comes home around the same time as me and we have a plan for dinner and go to the gym or on a hike or visit one of our parents and i like her parents and she likes mine, and we watch movies and play games together and have sex sometimes.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, I want my relationship with my ex back ;_; he's the only one I can love.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what was he like? what was his name?

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you want to be in a relationship?
    No. Not anymore. I lucked out and found the perfect woman, but I was too mentally ill to appreciate her. She was perfect, accepted all my flaws, showered me in gifts. She loved me. And I ran away. I will never love again. I'm just going to force myself to be single for the rest of my pathetic life.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, I want a relationship.
      I would really REALLY love a woman who would just give me smiles and hugs every time I saw her.
      I would also like it if she were a bit clingy. and obssesive. and prone to texting me alot.
      I guess what I'm describing is someone who would give me all the attention in the world.
      I can only dream.

      I hope you get better anon.

      I want a girl to hold and hug tightly and she is leaning her forehead against the place where my neck and chest meet and I kiss her forehead and say I love her and I just enjoy her warmth as we lie on our sides in bed and I doze off and she sits on me and I hug her from behind as we watch a movie on the couch and she's warm and it's a little uncomfortable but it's alright and I watch the movie and I rest my chin on her shoulder and then she says my short beard feels weird so I lift my chin and she leans back and it's not that comfortable for her either so she tries to get away but I stop her and I hug her closer cause I don't want to feel her heat leaving mine and then we keep watching the movie we have sex sometimes but it's nicely soft and slow and I get feel her body and she is smiling and we just watch random things on the internet together and draw together and create fantasy and sci-fi worlds together and we talk about food while we eat instant noodles and get chips and then I feel obligated to work out because she does as well and I when she asks me for help I'd stop being so hesitant and just help her as best as I can and im gonna kms

      Beautiful anon.
      Hope you find her.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I need a cheerleader in life. A maid, paid or not, won't do that for me

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I want is basically a live-in maid/chef I can occasionally have sex with
    For me it's a mommy/therapist I can have sex with.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want a girl to hold and hug tightly and she is leaning her forehead against the place where my neck and chest meet and I kiss her forehead and say I love her and I just enjoy her warmth as we lie on our sides in bed and I doze off and she sits on me and I hug her from behind as we watch a movie on the couch and she's warm and it's a little uncomfortable but it's alright and I watch the movie and I rest my chin on her shoulder and then she says my short beard feels weird so I lift my chin and she leans back and it's not that comfortable for her either so she tries to get away but I stop her and I hug her closer cause I don't want to feel her heat leaving mine and then we keep watching the movie we have sex sometimes but it's nicely soft and slow and I get feel her body and she is smiling and we just watch random things on the internet together and draw together and create fantasy and sci-fi worlds together and we talk about food while we eat instant noodles and get chips and then I feel obligated to work out because she does as well and I when she asks me for help I'd stop being so hesitant and just help her as best as I can and im gonna kms

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes and no, I like the idea of having someone, but I also already know that I'll never feel comfortable enough around other people for it to work
    if I magically woke up with a gf tomorrow, what the frick would I even do with her?

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i think at a certain point it becomes why do people get bored
    now you never have to be bored

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    u might be aromantic

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, i can only do so much without any positivity in my life

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in a relationship and I hate it.
    I was better off alone, because I had all the time in the world to think for myself and all the money I made at work goes straight to my pocket. We've been together for years and she wants to get married and have children and I just want to get away from it all. If we start a family, it will be the typical dysfunctional one you see everywhere else.
    Everyone is looking out for themselves and my girlfriend is no exception. Some of you might think I'm living the dream because I have a completely loyal woman, who has no friends, never goes out, doesn't have a father I have to impress, wants my babies and wants to get married, but it's all a ruse. She just wants kids so she can quit her job and stay at home all her life while I pay for everything and feed everyone. She's so unaware, she even says tells it straight to my face that the reason she wants kids is to hang out with other moms and leave work. She has no intentions of raising a human being, just wants a cute baby to play dress up with. And when the baby grows up, she gets fat, sits on her ass and farts around the house all day long. That's not how I want to spend the rest of my existence. I'd rather be the one getting fat and farting around the house by myself, rather than spend all of my physical and mental energy to support someone else to do that.

    Consider mine a legitimate cautionary tale, because I know a lot of robots yearn for something like what I have. Stay alone, seriously, don't bother.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes this is very true. Happens to me with all the women I have dated and I always end up bailing. I rather be alone then do all that shit.

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I get extremely jealous of the relationships my friends are in but I haven't even seen let alone met a girl I want to be in a relationship with in the last decade. I think it's just severe untreated BPD. I strongly desire a relationship but I can't see myself in a relationship with another person. I hate it.
    I'm going to die alone, lonely, and likely at my own hands.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Thought I did, but then this chick at work came on to me pretty strongly, saw a lot of red flags in her and then called it quits. Kind of has me doubting myself

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what sort of red flags? what kind of doubts? was she just ugly or something?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Not ugly. A little chubby. Taking medicine/drugs to lose weight
        >has a kid and is only 1 year older than me
        >still living with ex and their family
        there is more, but I'll keep it short. Anyways, I'm a pretty antisocial guy so I thought maybe I'd try to make it work, but it was so much work. Trying to set up stuff for us to do together, talking to her everyday at work and "flirting" with her. After calling it off, I've come out of it even more even more antisocial and now I'm thinking I'm just not built to have a relationship like that

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A fun and constructive one with a cute and smart girl where I'm not just a meat dildo/ATM. Think I coulda had it a long while ago, but I fricked it up out of lack of confidence. Now that kinda thing just doesn't exist

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Definitely someone to talk with. I hardly talk. It's actually weird how little time I spend speaking compared to other people. And sex. Can't really think of anything else right now

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want a cute gf that I can love and kiss a lot

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i want a relationship of mutual devotion and obsession and possesion. i want to belong to her and her to belong to me. I want to know everything about each other, discuss every topic, shape and improve each other. Replace our individual egos with a common one. Like a binary pair system that orbits each other perfectly while draining and basking in each other's energy...
    she can be dominant or switch or vanilla, idc as long as she's not a total masochist. also dont care about her past relationships or mental health issues as i intend to fix her <3

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      infinite jest is the best book you can possibly read. you can get high on the book and not get high on the book. there's phds in it and going insane.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >infinite jest
        >genree- New sincerity
        nice, nothing is a better recommendation, i promise i'll read it!

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For as long as I have been alive (25 rn) I cant think of a single person I wanted to be around with long term. Yeah I get horny and all that, but even back in my school days I never had actual crushes or anything. Which is funny because I love my siblings and find the idea of being a father very appealing. I dont know if its because everyone is so neurotic and unhealthy now or what. I think on another level I find the idea of someone actually loving me that way kind of bullshit too, the mysticism has been annihilated and its clear as day now how transactional relationships really are, so who is to say I am not just the designated ATM at that moment? Childhood was fricked too so there are issues there as well.

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've grown pretty apathetic about the whole idea. A lot of it has to do with no longer viewing relationships of any kind as being able to fill a hole; it seems kinda ridiculous now to have those unrealistic demands about how others should act for your own sake. I don't think most people are capable of real love due to their reasons for "loving" are to get something in return or to come across a certain way. I'd say real love is possible when you don't have any of those demands or ulterior motives, which also makes you pretty indifferent to relationships in general when you don't need something out of them and you just love because you can't help it. My last relationship was 2 years ago and there was the initial high of the newness, but then I became filled with hate and wanted to control her. At some point I saw that there wasn't any love going on despite what we said or thought we felt, it was just negative all around. I wonder how many people experience this.

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I've been thinking about it a lot lately
    And you don't see this as a problem?

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd like a relationship with someone that genuinely cares about me and doesn't flake or change her mind. Someone that can seriously dedicate themselves to something and do whatever they can to keep it afloat. Honest, sweet, considerate all that stuff. I'm a bit fricked up after my only irl relationship and I wouldn't mind someone with their own problems if they can try to leave them behind too. It might even be preferable if they had some serious issues because it'd make it easier to talk about mine and I think being able to vent to eachother would be healthy. Like a building eachother back up sort of thing? Kids would be nice, I'd like to have a family and give something better to the world than I was given. My parents were mostly nice to me but my home life as a child was chaotic, and their fights before and after the divorce destroyed a lot of my trust in them. The only other things I can think of are mostly shallow in comparison to what I described.
    >not morbidly obese
    >white, like myself
    >between 20 and 30
    >american, midwestern is ideal

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I do, but my need for social safety and my cowardice strongarms my want for a relationship, so i typically stay hidden from everyone

  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want to wait for marriage with another virgin. After marriage I want to spend a year or two just enjoying our time together, basically a massively extended honeymoon before we start having kids.

  32. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you want to be in a relationship?
    Yeah, I do.
    >If so, what kind of relationship do you want?
    I'd like to be in one with a girl who's passionate about the kind of stuff I am but also can relate to me on being a bit of a shut-in. Someone who likes for me for who I am and likewise me to her. Won't happen though, girls ghost you if you're a NEET, let alone someone who never got a high school diploma. My 'tism isn't of interest to girls really either, they're never interested in the kind of stuff I am.

    I can always dream at least.

  33. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in a relationship with another man and it's bangin. Been dating for three years and living together for two. It must suck to be straight these days.

  34. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I think its too late for me to get into relationships.
    t. wizard in 30s

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