Does anyone actually like their gf more than their friends?

Does anyone actually like their gf more than their friends? I got a fight with my gf (3 year relationship) over it and while I didn't tell her, I really do think my friends are more important than her. I can't imagine any girl being more important than my friends.

Is that normal?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yes anon, and that isnt gay at all ngl

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bros before hoes or whatever you American people say

      Nothing wrong with homosexuality.

      These Black folk are pussywhipped don't mind them

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing wrong with homosexuality.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You should like your girlfriend more than anyone else except maybe family. If you don't you don't love her.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like homosexual emotional cheating

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you're fighting about it, you'll probably have to communicate a bit more openly that both things matter to you. Don't be baited into talking about favorites. That's stupid. It's not a realistic choice - it's healthy to have intimate relationships and friends at the same time.

    You might want to try using a shared calendar and scheduling dates or other together time specifically, so that they don't feel ignored or unappreciated while you're unavailable. Ask her if she can point to specific things you do or don't do that make her feel ignored.

    If she's complaining about not feeling prioritized or important to you, that's something you should take seriously, regardless. It can be very difficult to recover a relationship from that kind of resentment if it's not addressed.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im going through the same shit
    i drop everything im doing to hangout with her and she still takes it as an insult if im ever busy
    we call for like 2 - 4 hours a day....

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Break up with this girl, she isn't the girl for you. The girl for you is your best friend and number one priority.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My girl *is* my best friend. We've been together for 6 years, we know eachothers inside and out and I genuinely never get sick of her company. l

    My friends have stagnated in life, while I appreciate them as they are I struggle to relate to them now. I've busted my ass and made a life I'm very proud of, they have worked entry level jobs if they've worked at all and never made steps to do anything more. I'd gladly jump (and have jumped) through hoops to help those guys out but we've grown apart as my priorities shifted away from the escapism lifestyle they indulge in.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That's pathetic as frick. I see my girl as good company and maybe even the rank of acquaintance, but in no fricking way would I ever say my gf or wife is my BEST friend. My parents have been together over 30 yrs and even they hang with old co workers or family, they don't sit under each others buttholes all day.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Your wife is your life partner? What are you GAY or something? My life partner is Tommy we're buddy best bro buddies, not some frickin GIRL

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You can still have other friends while being closest with your partner. No rational person is going to say you can't have friends outside of your gf or spend time with other people. It's just that if you're in a situation where you have to choose, your life partner should probably come first.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >That's pathetic as frick. I see my girl as good company and maybe even the rank of acquaintance, but in no fricking way would I ever say my gf or wife is my BEST friend.
        I feel bad for you man, I really hope you find someone who makes you feel like you're complete with them in the same way that I have. There are girls that you date and partners for life, sounds like you have the former and haven't had the latter.

        >My parents have been together over 30 yrs and even they hang with old co workers or family, they don't sit under each others buttholes all day
        I still have friends, new friends from work/college and old friends that I struggle to relate to but still love being around. I'm in the process of starting our next Dnd campaign and dragging as many of my friends as I can to the gym. Just because my partner is my best friend doesn't mean I can't have other close friends, it just means that the person I spend the most time with also happens to be my favorite which makes a lot of sense considering we're planning a life together.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on the stage of the relationship but obviously at some point between dying together surrounded by your grandchildren and going on your first date you are going to start feeling she is more important than your friends.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    We ended up fighting more about it and I talked to her about breaking up and now she's crying a lot. I'm worried I'm going to be spineless and cancel the breakup to try and make her happy. Is there any way to break up smoothly?

    This is both of our first relationship and we live together, by the way.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bros before hoes

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >We ended up fighting more about it and I talked to her about breaking up
      Oh, whoa. Sounds like you kind of fricked this up. Didn't really seem like it should've been that big of an issue.

      >Is there any way to break up smoothly?
      No. I don't know how you weren't able to communicate about this in a way that didn't instantly involve breaking up. That it came up is not a good sign for smoothness in any respect. It really does seem like you just don't really value this person very much at all, and should probably consider whether that's fair to them.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Everyone said we should break up so I figured that's what I should do. I just feel bad about it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Everyone said
          This may strike readers as unfair, but I genuinely believe that you would have to be a very uncritical thinker to just instantly do whatever an /adv/ thread trended to suggest without considering the truth of it for yourself and your own situation. Do you really want your closest relationships determined by committee?

          >I just feel bad about it.
          Yeah, I bet you do.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends. If the b***h actually rises through the ranks then yeah she automatically is given more importance since she can carry my child, but if it's just a regular ass relationship that can end at any time then no, because if we break up, im not gonna go to her to destress.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you're over the age of 25 and still care about friends and are still trying to keep your group 2012 8th grade friends together you're mentally ill.

    You're worse than a cat mom or a dog dad, you're a fully grown adult why are you trying to play super smash bros and hang out at the skatepark still

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're not wrong, but tell me you lack friends without actually saying it. Are grown adults just supposed to sit in silence? Even my 70+ dad will call his cousin to be catty gays about football. I agree that you should always be updating your friend pool, but to act like you're somehow a loser because you and friends enjoy ageless activities is pretty sad my guy, I guess day drinking is more your speed.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Even my 70+ dad will call his cousin
        That's fine, family comes first

        That's pathetic as frick. I see my girl as good company and maybe even the rank of acquaintance, but in no fricking way would I ever say my gf or wife is my BEST friend. My parents have been together over 30 yrs and even they hang with old co workers or family, they don't sit under each others buttholes all day.

        >My parents have been together over 30 yrs and even they hang with old co workers or family, they don't sit under each others buttholes all day.
        Again, family is fine.

        But this idea that your 19 year old friends are more important than your potential wife? That they're all gonna be part of your life 50 years from now? Absolute nonsense.

        Especially when these days "friends" is just people on a list on your Steam profile or social media accounts.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The fact that your gf didn't break up with you instantly is sad tbh, she deserves better than you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I think she's emotionally dependent on me

  14. 1 month ago
    MKG

    It varies by the individual, but yes.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >friends more important than your gf/bf
    this is fem*le behaviour. i know you are a roestie, the gay anime delates you

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What do you guys like about your gf over your friends? What do you talk about?

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