Does being a virgin for too long have a negative effect on your mental health?

Does being a virgin for too long have a negative effect on your mental health? All the virgins I know are depressive or angry and all the sexhavers I know are happy.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes but the moment you get pussy it all goes away so

    just frickin stop being an incel virgin jesus christ how much more are you going to wait? uh?

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    being a virgin past your late teens effectively makes you a pariah. Whether you want to hear it or not, it means something is terribly wrong with you, be it physically or mentally.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I feel like after a certain age you "know".
      I have a friend who is 31 now. Its become very clear to me that hes likely an undiagnosed autist. The "weird/nerdy" quirks of HS and college have either evolved or become much more noticeable to me as someone who lacks the ability to socialize with others normally. It grates on me sometimes, but I don't see him as much as I used to, so its not that big of a deal. I would find it hard to believe hes unaware of it. But who knows.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But how do you fix it?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      im 31 yo virgin, with 3+ years of nofap and counting and i am physically and mentally far superior than the great majority of sex-havers

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >falling for the nofap meme
        Porn is the issue, not jerking off.
        >i am physically and mentally far superior
        You probably aren’t, at least mentally, if you’ve got to brag to a bunch of anonymous nerds.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        So instead of your dick it's your ego that has erections now?

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only if you make a big deal out of it. It's not anything special, archangel gabriel didn't descend from the heavens and give me keys to success the moment I inserted benis in vegana.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It goes in one of two ways: you either get frustrated to the point where you destroy yourself and/or the world (Eliot Rodgers, Columbine shooters), or you use those libidinal energies for creation (numerous philosophers, mystics, and artists). In my case I really wanted a gf in my teens - early twenties but I was too awkward back then. Instead I got into art.. started drawing a couple of hours every day, found out about the fundamentals, eventually worked my way to 8-12 hours. When I was 27 I got my first gf. Came as a huge shock because by then I’d figured I was just going to be alone. Anyhow, I dumped her just a few weeks after that, even before there was any sex. The reason was because it cut too much into my art time. At 29 my friend introduced me to a 22 year old who became my second gf. Despite me making it clear that I needed a minimum of 6 hours to draw, she kept pestering me with texts and calls until I dumped her. Now I’m 31. Still a virgin, but quite content with my decisions.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >or you use those libidinal energies for creation (numerous philosophers, mystics, and artists).
      you have become the mystic philosopher

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Columbine
      >No gf

      The GF literally bought the firearms and ammo for them.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Neither of them were dating her. Neither of them were in long-term relationships.
        She was just a friend.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      you forgot the third path: you coom your fricking brains out every day

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    only if you let it. What's the obsession with sex anyway? I understand wanting a proper relationship and starting a family, but the obsession with virginity is moronic to me.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only if you obsess about it. I'm a 33yo virgin but I don't obsess about it because I don't want to have sex. I'm a furry and I'm not attracted to human women. If I could have a relationship like pic related I'd definitely pursue it but as it is, human women just don't do anything for me.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      mhmm

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Rope now

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can't deny the superiority of dragonesses over human women.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          come back to reality, brother

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why? There are no dragons in reality.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This rocks. You rock. I have mad respect for you, dawg. Like, genuinely

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks man.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No.
    Incels being bitter and angry is why they are incels, not a result

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think this could become a chicken or the egg argument..

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dear Incels,
    No one gives a frick about your whining.
    None of us use dating apps just like none of us cry ourselves to sleep and we don't give a frick about your whining.
    80% of us are not in the top 20% of looks but we have all had sex and GFs and wives and we don't give a frick about your whining.
    What we DO give a frick about is you shitting up every boeard so that actual good content is drowned in a deluge of "which of these shirtless men is sexy?' and 'OMG, I am only 5'11" tall, i wanna die!" and "i never talk to women so I hate them because they don't come to me" and the rest of your moronic fricking whining.
    So please, do us a favor, do yourself an favor, do the WORLD a favor -
    Either STFU or KYS

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bit mad there lad, aren't you?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes.
        I am.
        And I explained why.
        being pissed off at people shitting in your yard is not a surprise

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      NSFFW has always been a home to incels tho, it's invasive normies that named this space their own

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        That’s just what incels believe in their twisted little incel minds. Normies have been browsing NSFFW since its conception. The guy who founded the website was a normalgay, not a raging autist like the morons who pollute this website.

        There is NO home for incels. Nobody likes people who b***h incessantly about things that they refuse to put any effort into.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          So you think NSFFW, /k/. NSFFW, NSFFW, etc are ALL just incels?
          No, kid, no.
          /NSFFW/ is your containment board to keep you away from the Humans

          Stop lying. NSFFW has always been a normie site. Incels came here after getting kicked off reddit. Your kind has never been welcome here. The board [...] is your containment board.

          cope, normie

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >normie
            lurk before posting, newbie

            go watch NSFFW meetups and NSFFW panels at otakucon and tell me those people aren't fricking socially-adjusted normalgays

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        So you think NSFFW, /k/. NSFFW, NSFFW, etc are ALL just incels?
        No, kid, no.
        /NSFFW/ is your containment board to keep you away from the Humans

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Stop lying. NSFFW has always been a normie site. Incels came here after getting kicked off reddit. Your kind has never been welcome here. The board

        [...]

        is your containment board.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >NSFFW has always been a home to incels tho
        typical incel revisionist history.
        in the 2000s NSFFW was for the most part normal people that just had weird hobbies/interests. they may have been a little socially awkward but they still had social lives and found this site as a way to blow off steam. were there also the typical neckbeard manchild virgins? of course but they were in the minority. however ever since GG/2016 election, this place has become increasingly flooded with actual incels that have no social life and no hobbies/interests outside of seething about women and politics. you've managed to drag this entire site in a short couple years to the point where outside of super slow boards, there's a good chance most threads get derailed by one of you homosexuals whining about something off-topic.

        you may be here in the majority now but know that you will never belong here. you will never fit in. you will always be a pariah.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          The flood of incels also coincided with the inflow of homosexuals and troons. There is a disproportionate amount of trannies on NSFFW.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          so then why has wizardom and tfw no gf been a thing on here almost since the site’s inception, well before 2016 or GG? revisionist history gays such as yourself are the cancer that is killing NSFFW

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            yeah those were small fricking memes then. they were not the prevailing attitude of the whole site. there was no bitter spitefulness going around seething about how all women are roasties and only frick chad etc etc. there were no elliot rodger types. frick you and fricking have a nice day already you pathetic lout, you are of no worth to anyone.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only for as long as you let it. At some point you'll get fed up enough to fix whatever it is you're deficient in, and start putting yourself out there

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They are not depressed just because they can't get laid.
    It's a projection. Many "incels" here have much deeper issues, but those are so painful, so that attention moves towards height problem, appearance, penis size...

    Anyone can find a girlfriend, literally. What one honestly deserve, even better sometimes.
    Don't rate women and don't buy into bullshit dating science. Many people around here don't even know how relationships work. You get a girlfriend and then what? Live life, not fantasy.
    Guys who indulge in hookup culture hard and frick chicks around a lot: It's easy for them and it's part of their lifestyle. If you want it too, work on your appearance. If it doesn't work but still wanna frick, pay then. It doesn't matter.
    Either way you and your friends are putting sex on pedestal, guys who are promiscuous don't.

    You deserve to feel better, but having a girlfriend, steroid muscles or some other cope will just mask a pain. It won't bring a happiness you are waiting for.

    Seek help soon and you will see things will come itself. Be well.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, it is that they are depressed and angry that they are undeserving of a partner to have vulnerable intimacy with. Trains deserve tracks, not endless bodies to run over.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    well, let's say that having sex is not that much of a deal. Being recklessly in love though, is something worth experiencing.

    If you're a virgin in your 20s you probably never cared much for casual sex anyways.

    >explain how
    Completely give up on it, and stop giving a frick about anything. Act like if your chances with women are so slim that you don't even contemplate the chance of a girl being into you.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a 31 year old virgin woman.
    Am doing better than most people my age.
    >heathy weight and body fat range
    >exercise regularly
    >can afford a mortgage alone in Melbourne with no parental support
    >professional job
    >paid off student loans

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not a virgin, I've been with a few women but despite being able to get sex from decent looking women, I can't get a date or a relationship. I am worse off mentally than actual incels, because while they look forward to the idea of sex as this escape that they look forward to, I don't even see it that way. There is no optimism or hope for someone of my mentality unfortunately.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bump

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There is no such thing as "sexhaver". Anyone can have sex if he wants to.

  17. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    It's only as much of an issue as you make it, dude. I personally do not care and as a result, women don't get creeped out in my presence and are more than willing to speak to me. Having sex won't make your life better, especially if you believe that it will.

  18. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >Does being a virgin for too long have a negative effect on your mental health?
    No, but being a virgin while simultaneously caring about your lack of sex does.
    >All the virgins I know are depressive or angry and all the sexhavers I know are happy.
    That is because your virgins fail to be satisfied while sexless.

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