Escalating with older women

Any advice on escalating with an older woman? I’m stuck in online chat. Met through online affair forum.

Started chatting again with this lady in her early 50s. We had chatted about a year ago but lost contact as I felt ashamed about the situation (personal issues relating to my mother were developing) and I soon got a gf anyways a month or so later.

I thought she had been warming up to me but I also lost interest from lack of results. We had never met in person. She was still “developing trust”. However I recently got back into contact with her again. Reaching out for my lack of effort of staying in contact, wanted to make it up to her by the dates we had talked about before. She hits me with the same “too young” line (22). She said the same thing last time but deleted it before I could respond (iPhone kept it in the lock screen) and instead said “you’re handsome but maybe too young for me”. We’ve gotten back to discussing common interests (dancing, bars/clubs and area we live in).

I am genuinely interested in pursuing her not just for sex and possibly developing a relationship. Am I just being used for attention or is there any chance of escalating this?
>She’s in the search for an AP.
>Should I just go be a “normal” 22yo.

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  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Online affair forum as in the forum was online the affair was not to be strictly online.

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I just being used for attention or is there any chance of escalating this?
    she wants to frick you and is looking for an excuse to do so, just act mature for your age, compliment her, and try to meet up asap

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Granted. Since I lost contact the first time I’m starting from square 1 no pictures have been sent. Last time she sent body lewds but none of her face.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just don’t know how to dig myself out of this hole. Bump

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just throw your little youthful weiner in her old saggy orifices and get it over with

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m frickin trying help a brother out

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        NTA but just invite her for a coffee or dancing or whatever she's into. Tell her Friday at 9pm or whatever. And if she doesn't respond then she doesn't respond. Apparently she already likes you but women need to have respect for you. so don't disrespect yourself by being a doormat.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yea I can dig that. I’ve basically done exactly that a few times. “Place, time, and activity” but she’s got her own life going on.

          Just did it a few hours ago, straight up said “what’s your week looking like, let’s get drinks and dance salsa” she legit told me nothing tmrw but she should do some paperwork then the rest of the weeks is prepping for a trip she’s taking this weekend.

          ¯_(ツ)_/¯

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    this meme is so fricking real

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Can’t tell you how many times you pull up to a pretty girls spot and it’s like that.

      Then I say “damn me too lol”

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Any women into young men is interested in sex and will be very direct.
    If not, then she is looking for a grown man with money, as most 50 yo female.
    So she is just using you for online ego boost.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That’s what I was fricking saying the first time around like I worked my way up to adding her on other socials but she still had all these defenses up. I can understand the apprehension of online interaction developing to in person. I tried the laid back approach and then the very direct approach still it was “I need to develop trust with you”
      > for fricks sake just let me blow your back out already knock a hip loose or something kek

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That’s what I was fricking saying the first time around like I worked my way up to adding her on other socials but she still had all these defenses up. I can understand the apprehension of online interaction developing to in person. I tried the laid back approach and then the very direct approach still it was “I need to develop trust with you”
      > for fricks sake just let me blow your back out already knock a hip loose or something kek

      I just addressed everything else she said except tmrw. Like she didn’t give me much room with the “gotta do bills” bullshit.
      >I’m definitely just something to pass the time at this point huh?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Kinda got something going

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hotel?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      hotel
      she is barely putting any effort into the conversation but she's just trying not to seem too interested, i guarantee she wants to frick

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Quick opinion. Should I go “ever stayed at the …?” or just straight up say time and place? I have a decently classy hotel in mind but area is kind of industrial.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          time and place

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      what subreddit did youu meet her on

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Good luck bro, bagging a older women and making sweet love to that matured body is the holy grail. I pray for your success

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you bruva. I shall navigate these new waters with your blessing.

      what subreddit did youu meet her on

      I can’t recall exactly she had different posts in a few subs. Maybe r/affairs or r/dirtyr4r. I believe I accidentally stumbled onto one of them by searching “my location f4m”. If your city has a popular abbreviation, searching variations of that yields more results than just staying in your local r4r sub.

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im getting a boner. Keep going, moron.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Splooge thyself brother.

      Still feel like she’s playing around it tho. Conversation lost focus off the hotel now it’s about the bar I suggested.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Context she’s not grossed out by the bar it’s a positive reaction. I’m just not sure if I should circle back to the massage

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't think you need to mention the massage again. She already responded positively, bring it up when you see her in person instead.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            She’s busy ;( I may have full court pressed too early. She didn’t scare off completely but she needs more time. In her defense traveling weeks are difficult. I think she also dealt with some “cubs” who wasted her time. I thought cougars was cool but cubs makes me feel weird kek

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