Femanon here. Why should i get a boyfriend or any type of relationship?

Femanon here. Why should i get a boyfriend or any type of relationship? I literally don't get it, i don't feel it. I feel the biggest amount of disgust my entire life when i think of someone touching me. Friendship has never remotely been an issue for me (not men, i have never really been friends with men, i just don't get along with them or whatever, i don't even like them). So it's not like i can't deal with people because i loved friendships. I don't see or understand "love". and like i said, someone touching me is not even a question, it's not happening. My mind does not get what the entire world seems to permanently celebrate. I feel nothing. Is that mental illness? Being normal? Being aromantic/asexual? Being a lesbian? Am i a Psychopath? Even though, i would also not let a woman touch me. I will NOT force myself to do these things and basically rape myself to "fit in", i'd rather die. Is love that important or what is it even? Do i need it? Or am i "missing out"?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    then don't, doesn't matter either way

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    aroace

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it sounds like you have no inclination towards sex. you are not typical, but I don’t think that’s weird. and you have a right to decide what to do with your body. i would say to live your life but not worry about pleasing people when the question of relationships come up
    live your life how you want to

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you for your answer. It feels absurd to me to force myself to do certain things just so i can "get what people are talking about" and be Part of it. But how do i know i'm not missing out on something? Is love as amazing as people say? Maybe i am missing out, i dunno, maybe i'm doing something wrong.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thing about love for a man is it also comes with unbearable pain. He will mind and heart frick you to death.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why is that?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can only guess that most men are innately insecure and the only way they know of to counter that is to break you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sounds like the nightmare i'm trying to avoid..

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why do you not like/get along with men?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      All the most negative men i met horrified me entirely, the thought of having a violent, disrespectful men in my life is ridiculous. Maybe i should just get over that though, somehow...also i don't know what to talk about with men in general, i need to talk about feelings a LOT, i don't need a block of ice next to me who still needs to act tough or whatever

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Most men remain immature horrible bullies their whole life. Stay away from them. But I have met a small number of confident kind men and I feel like I won a life lottery. These men would rather die than harm me or see me harmed.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          And what does a relationship feel like?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What did the men do that you found negative?
        (P.S., you’re engaging in a conversation with a bunch of men on this thread about feelings. Men talk about their feelings or something directly tied to them on this site constantly. No gf, poor, etc)

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Pointless aggressive behaviour, display of Power Play, allllllllll the insults towards woman how worthless we apparently are, sexual abuse. I have to say i'm a confident woman so a tyrannical man will quickly have an issue with me, if i don't act like a slave woman around him that only takes orders...maybe i only concentrate on the negative ones and never met the "good" ones because i never tried anymore lol

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hmm, I doubt you live in the west as that stuff rarely outright happens here. Regardless of where you live for that to happen, the vast majority of these men are the way that they are because of external influences. Products of their culture, household, whatever. You are projecting feminine toxic traits (covert social plays, words, etc) in place of actual toxic masculinity, which is just straight up violence because that’s how men express their aggression as compared to women. The men that are projecting this “toxic femininity” are, well, feminine. Obviously in your world men view women as some sort of item that brings them social/personal status, which is obviously not a result of women in their lives. Looking at this site you may think otherwise but trust me, men look for a relationship with women. If they aren’t looking for that, they aren’t there for a relationship.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Every time but one I was drunk. I like it but when I wake and sober I don't want the guy near me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What do you even mean?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I need to be a bit drunk to get over the initial revulsion and fear of being touched. Uh, then the sex part feels really good. But then I want him to go away.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That does not sound exactly healthy...do we have issues?

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You sound autistic.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm autistic and have expressed almost the same perspective you have. Seeking a professional opinion on that helped me understand it a lot more.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So as a last question, is trying out love worth it, how would i even try that out?

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why should i get a boyfriend or any type of relationship?
    you shouldn't, you don't have the emotional capacity to be with a man and not let his gender define how you "feel" about him.
    aromantic/asexual? Being a lesbian? Am i a Psychopath? Even though, i would also not let a woman touch me. I will NOT force myself to do these things and basically rape myself to "fit in", i'd rather die. Is love that important or what is it even? Do i need it? Or am i "missing out"?
    you're a w*man you don't need to love, just like any other w*men you're incapable of unconditional love. which is understandable nature led to this inevitability

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    frick off? this site is for men homosexual frick moron.
    okay?
    have a nice day thanks!

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