fembots who have ghosted someone you used to love. Why? I exhaust myself thinking of why and how she's doing.

fembots who have ghosted someone you used to love. Why? I exhaust myself thinking of why and how she's doing. All I want is an answer. If she hates me thats okay, if there's someone else thats fine. I want at least a single sentence.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Lol, she never loved you homosexual. If she loved you she'd call. She doesn't even hate you because that would mean on some level she cares. She doesn't. You are nothing to her.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    because females hate confrontation but love drama

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Why? I exhaust myself thinking of why and how she's doing
    What was her name?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What makes you ask that

      Lol, she never loved you homosexual. If she loved you she'd call. She doesn't even hate you because that would mean on some level she cares. She doesn't. You are nothing to her.

      She loved me at one point at least, even if it was dellusional.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >She loved me at one point at least, even if it was dellusional.
        No, she pretended to love you because she's mentally ill and likes the attention until her mental illness tells her you're now icky and she moves on to the next guy to pretend to love and the cycle repeats

        I just want to hear it from her. She never had any problems before telling me anything. If she doesnt care about me at all anymore, then I want to hear it

        And now she lives rent free in your mind, like a sickness she has inflicted upon you
        She's telling you she doesn't care through her action of ghosting
        People don't ghost people that they genuinely care about, she won't give you the closure you're seeking. It's all part of their deranged mind games.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >She's telling you she doesn't care through her action of ghosting
          i was about to say this

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          nta but I've really come to feel like my ex did that to me.
          she moved on, sent nudes to two guys after breaking up within weeks, and even met up with some guy over 20 years older than her. She couldn't live without me and loved me even though she was unhappy and unfulfilled - until two days later when she "didn't love (me) the same" anymore.
          almost every fricking thing she did in the last 3-4 months went against something someone who truly loves you would do. granted I did break her trust once but nothing anywhere as insane as the prostitute shit she did.

          0%, I stalk her through various means she's not in a pysc ward. Why did you never call afterwards though?
          [...]
          >No, she pretended to love you because she's mentally ill
          she did have borderline, but she loved me really intensely and did alot for me. I dont think she pretended to love me.
          >She's telling you she doesn't care through her action of ghosting
          I dont know, I go between thinking this and then gaslighting myself that she's hurt and confused. I cant move on, and I dont know how to live my life like this

          were you ever with her irl?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >were you ever with her irl
            yeah
            You broke her trust once?
            Same. Pornography. I don't like telling people this because they don't believe it, or they'll use it to tell me she's mentally ill. But she always made her position clear, I used it and didn't tell her until 4 months after we met. Which turned good memories into traumatic ones, she threw the term rape around a few times, I don't know if she still feels that way. She sent nudes to someone else a week after finding out, but while we were still actively talking and being intimate every day. I don't know what she's doing anymore, probably sending nudes to older men on duo or reddit for "validation". I'm too exhausted right now to type more, but I still think she had a really good heart and I feel like I betrayed her.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        There's like a 1% or less chance I could be her because I used to ghost people when I got sent to the longterm psych ward.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          0%, I stalk her through various means she's not in a pysc ward. Why did you never call afterwards though?

          >She loved me at one point at least, even if it was dellusional.
          No, she pretended to love you because she's mentally ill and likes the attention until her mental illness tells her you're now icky and she moves on to the next guy to pretend to love and the cycle repeats

          [...]
          And now she lives rent free in your mind, like a sickness she has inflicted upon you
          She's telling you she doesn't care through her action of ghosting
          People don't ghost people that they genuinely care about, she won't give you the closure you're seeking. It's all part of their deranged mind games.

          >No, she pretended to love you because she's mentally ill
          she did have borderline, but she loved me really intensely and did alot for me. I dont think she pretended to love me.
          >She's telling you she doesn't care through her action of ghosting
          I dont know, I go between thinking this and then gaslighting myself that she's hurt and confused. I cant move on, and I dont know how to live my life like this

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you can move on, by telling yourself you cant move on your fulfilling a self fulfilling prophecy
            it may seem hard but you can do it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ty, your right that it's self fufilling though. Its also that I dont want to move on, I dont ever believe I could love someone the way I loved this girl, and burying her feels like burying myself. I dont want some pointless bullshit with someone else. I know thats disapointing to anyone who cares about me, that just makes me want to hide more. She was the only person I ever felt guardless with.

            Ok yeah im not her because I don't really have socials unless you mean steam. I don't reach out afterwards because I hate myself, and I cut people out of my life to purposefully harm myself and make myself feel like shit because I feel worthless and like I deserve to be alone. I did try to reach out once, but they wouldn't talk to me.

            Sorry anon. Did you really love them? How do you know if you did.

            A chick did this shit to me too and it ruined my life, honestly. I can't believe I was weak and gullible enough to let someone do me like that. I'm a cold, empty husk now. Love is a lie. All we truly have is ourselves; everyone else will come and go. Trust me, she won't come back. It will NEVER change.

            It wasnt exactly out of nowhere, I did some fricked up shit to her I wont go over here. I truly believe we couldve been perfect and really unlocked the good ending together. If I had just been better. I still believe in this shit, and I hope you will too sometime.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I did some fricked up shit to her I wont go over here.
            What did you do? Because I bet it wasn't shit and she just guilt tripped you to death over some mundane thing that wouldn't bother a sane person

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what it sounds like you are saying is you are not ready to move on, dont confuse this with the inability or lack of desire to move on
            eventually you have to move on, reflect on where you went wrong and what you could do differently
            you can also reflect on what she did wrong, how it impacted you and your choices
            remember; wanting her will not bring her back

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Sorry anon. Did you really love them? How do you know if you did.

            Yeah, I did. For the past 2ish years I've tried to avoid relationships though because I feel unlovable and like an absolute tard. I don't think anyone would want to be with someone who has regular mental breakdowns and needs near constant support.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ok yeah im not her because I don't really have socials unless you mean steam. I don't reach out afterwards because I hate myself, and I cut people out of my life to purposefully harm myself and make myself feel like shit because I feel worthless and like I deserve to be alone. I did try to reach out once, but they wouldn't talk to me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Most of us have been in your shoes before, it's such a common story
            Robot meets BPD girl online, she lovebombs him, he falls deeply in love with her, she ghosts
            Literally happens every day
            You can either adopt a mindset of waking the frick up and realize what happened to you and has happened to countless others like you, or you can continue to let her live rent free in your mind and spiral into sadness and despair while she's off blowing some guy in a bar or love bombing her next victim
            For me it was the realization that they don't love you, they never loved you, and if you thought they loved you it's because they're great at pretending to love and making you feel like a king
            Besides, imagine you have an opportunity to meet another, sane woman. If this BPD b***h is still living rent free in your mind and occupying all of your thoughts, you're going to let future opportunities slip. This is part of their mind virus they implanted in to you, they don't want you to meet another woman. They want you to suffer in limbo.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I exhaust myself thinking of why and how she's doing.
    You're dying of Oneitis my homie
    Sooner or later you'll realize that she isn't anything special and that you shouldn't waste time and energy caring about people who don't care about you
    Probably just some dumbass BPD b***h doing her lovebomb and run routine on you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I just want to hear it from her. She never had any problems before telling me anything. If she doesnt care about me at all anymore, then I want to hear it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >If she doesnt care about me at all anymore, then I want to hear it

        If someone tells you they don't care about you at all, they're lying. If they didn't care about you, they wouldn't even talk to you. And that's what's happening here. Take the hint.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A chick did this shit to me too and it ruined my life, honestly. I can't believe I was weak and gullible enough to let someone do me like that. I'm a cold, empty husk now. Love is a lie. All we truly have is ourselves; everyone else will come and go. Trust me, she won't come back. It will NEVER change.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sorry I'm not responding anymore, this is too overwhelming to think about. My bones feel hollow, and I need to go work. Ty for all the responses

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    this happened to me too, it would have been quicker and easier for both of us if she just told me she hated me and left right away

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Two weeks ago she ghosted me. I took it on the chin for two weeks, but then I lost it. I had her mom's phone number, so I escalated to her and she helped me get the closure I needed

    I would almost rather she cheated because then at least I could see a solvable problem with myself, I could look at what he offers that I don't. But she didn't leave me for someone else, she just left.

    All my love, affection, care, over a year of emotional labor... and she just stopped loving me. It felt sudden, but looking back now I felt her distancing herself from me more and more.

    Logically I knew something like this would happen, but since I'm a male the lonely emotional side of my brain took over entirely and I basically gaslit myself into believing all the obvious lies she told me.

    I know it was rigged, but I still mourn for the loss of the happy life she promised me. I know even if I took her back some day, she could absolutely never give me that. She never would have. But I still yearn for it.

    It's a hell of a thing. When you're an incel for 30 years, and you finally get the female attention you craved so badly. Even if it's a lie. There's nothing you won't believe.

    It feels like emotional waterboarding. It's so cruel. Only females are capable of this level of selfish callousness. This type of evil.

    A man will punch you in the face and steal your wallet, but he'll leave you alive. A woman will destroy you from the inside out, little by little, for pure joy of the sport. Just because they love the drama.

    I am immeasurably sad. I am happy I won't die a virgin now, but that is a very tiny drop of happiness in a sea of agony.

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    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >30 year old man
      >calls his ex's mom to ask why she dumped him

      Gigacringe. Cringetality even.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She's a typical bedrot femcel. I thought I could fix her.

        protip: you can't fix her, nothing can. Female narcissism is incurable.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          We all need to learn this lesson for ourselves. Better luck next time.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            that's the thing with robots though, it's not like we have better options

            it's the BPDemon or nothing, in most cases, and yeah a BPDemon causes a lot of pain but there's undeniable moments of love and warmth too and it's easy to forget and forgive the awful things when you get the love you crave.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            worst shit is that all the awful things usually happen closer to the end and just spiral out of control, from my experience

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Same happened to me.
    She was a normal girl, loving, caring, 9/10 both in face and body, we even lost our virginities together, everything a man wants, we were together for years.
    suddenly out of nowhere she does this, i can't understand why, we were madly in love with each other then she vanishes, no explanation whatsoever.

    It's been a time now, a long time, and i'm still fricked, i'm broken, a husk, i can't believe she isn't suffering like i'm doing.

    The worst part is that i have a very good memory, i can remember everything we went through together, and that hurts like being stabbed in the chest.

    I remember her running to hug me, laughing, getting blushed when i used to hold her in my arms, getting on her toes to kiss me, saying how much she loved me, asking me which dress she should buy just to appear later wearing it and making my heart melts, holding my face when we were fricking and moaning saying how much she loved me and that she was mine forever.

    I see no end to this pain, this girl really broke me beyond repair, i would do anything, ANYTHING, to have her again, i'm losing my mind, my soul, i'm lost and i want to die, the pain is just unbearable.

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