>former fwb guy friend of 5 years (probably my closest male friend) is super excited for me to meet his new gf

>former fwb guy friend of 5 years (probably my closest male friend) is super excited for me to meet his new gf
>we are both 26
>I show and he's sitting across from a 20 year old girl who is still school (college)
>as we talk I learn that he met her when she was 18(!?)
I feel like he is throwing his life away. How can I relay this to him without seeming weird?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I feel like he is throwing his life away

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      *why?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why is an almost 30 year old man talking to a girl who hasn’t even finished college? In fact I don’t even think she has seriously declared a major yet

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Cause she's not an insufferable c**t yet (usually happens at the age of 26)

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          LMAO 26 is not almost 30 your salty c**t. I'm going to be 32 in like 5 months and would drag my balls through broken glass to frick an 18 year old

          Cause she's not an insufferable c**t yet (usually happens at the age of 26)

          This, funnily enough my ex and I split right before she was 26. We started dating when I was on the cusp of turning 23 and she was 17. Last few years of our relationship she started becoming an insufferable c**t obsessed with her job.
          Young pussy loves older wiener, simple ass.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >turning 23 and she was 17
            Bruh. You need to admit that you're a predator or you have a seriously stunted brain. Most likely both
            >waaaahhhh I ended up not liking her when she finally matured and became an adult

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >5 year age difference
            >predator
            We were both in school, she entered college early and I was starting grad school which is just extended college. And she asked me out, I had no intention of dating her but just figured "frick it, she seems nice enough."
            Keep being salty and die mad tho

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > 23 - 17 = 5
            Stunted brain detected. How is your art and theatre degree treating you?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I said the cusp of turning 23, which means I was still 22. Guess you don't know what "cusp" means. She was also not just freshly 17, she was about 4 or 5 months from her 18th birthday as well.
            Do you need me to provide the exact differential between our ages in years, months, days and hours, you dumb fricking roastoid?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >a pedophile uses semantics and wordplay to justify dating a teenager as an adult
            The absolute state of your mind anon

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you sound bitter as frick tbh what's the big deal, must be american

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            A 20-something year old guy dating a girl in high school is highly suspect even if he isn’t a manprostitute like OP’s “””guy friend”””, but come on. That’s not pedophilia.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You got BTFO faster than your used up pussy

            A 20-something year old guy dating a girl in high school is highly suspect even if he isn’t a manprostitute like OP’s “””guy friend”””, but come on. That’s not pedophilia.

            We were both in college, literally the "same stage" of our lives or whatever moron logic people use to say that an age gap of a few years in a relationship is le wrong

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > We were both in college, literally the "same stage" of our lives or whatever moron logic people use to say that an age gap of a few years in a relationship
            I don’t subscribe to that, to ‘power imbalances’ or the other new-age rationalizations, either.
            I’m just going by motives. The guy is usually there because he prefers women as young as he can get away with, and/or because he primarily wants sex. And the woman is either okay with that or is totally naive and bereft of decent guidance from family and friends.

            Are there some innocent/wholesome relationships with that gap? Sure. I just treat the gap with suspicion, because that’s not the norm.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >go to uni
            >forced to be around 18-20 year olds
            >now you are a creepy pedo because you want a gf in the same stage of your life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            There's a reason you're this upset about it instead of just accepting your brain deficiency, anon. You can't handle the fact that you are attracted to immaturity, underdevelopment, inexperience. This is all because it speaks volumes about who you are as a person: somebody who relates more to a girl who hardly knows how the world works and how to take care of herself than an adult who can survive with her independence and experience. You're afraid that somebody closer to your age would discover how incompetent and inefficient you are at life.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I don’t subscribe to that, to ‘power imbalances’ or the other new-age rationalizations, either.

            >immaturity, underdevelopment, inexperience

            you can only choose one. besides what's wrong with dating someone close to you in experience when you're "incompetent and inefficient"?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm the anon who posted

            > We were both in college, literally the "same stage" of our lives or whatever moron logic people use to say that an age gap of a few years in a relationship
            I don’t subscribe to that, to ‘power imbalances’ or the other new-age rationalizations, either.
            I’m just going by motives. The guy is usually there because he prefers women as young as he can get away with, and/or because he primarily wants sex. And the woman is either okay with that or is totally naive and bereft of decent guidance from family and friends.

            Are there some innocent/wholesome relationships with that gap? Sure. I just treat the gap with suspicion, because that’s not the norm.

            The anon you're replying to isn't me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You sound cranky, grandma, go take a nap

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I met my wife when I was 41 and she was 16. Three months after my 41st birthday and one month after her 16th birthday.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            gross

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

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          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Special needs girls are pretty easy to groom eh?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This one is so jealous that she’s insulting the teenage girl instead of me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You'll answer to your sins someday anon

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I’ll die of old age with my still young and beautiful wife by my side and surrounded by my many children who love me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            b-bait?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm going to be 32 in like 5 months and would drag my balls through broken glass to frick an 18 year old

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Why are older girls always so jealous of younger girls.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Because geriatric roasties are physically decaying like a rotting mummy corpse and losing the only reason why people tolerate their presence, while young girls are smartly locking down all the prime men early in contrast to the foolishly wasted advantages formerly possessed by the aging roastie.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >almost 30
          >is 26
          >female logic
          The rule for age in relationships has always been half your age plus 7. So 20 is perfectly fine for a 26 year old. Even if she were 18 it would still be fine. Girls like older guys and guys prefer younger girls. It's just nature.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Because he’s a manprostitute. That should be obvious to a prostitute like you. You had a relationship entirely predicated on sex, and you’re actually surprised he’d do it again, just with a younger woman?
          I’m sick of you degenerates creating your own problems and then blaming everything but your choices for them.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    FWB is the worst of both worlds unless you're a massive cuck fetishist.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ahahaha sounds like someone's salty they didn't get picked

    cope and seethe while your homeboy fricks immaculate college pussy

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >male "friend"
    >close male "friend"
    >"fwb"
    >super excited to show you another women

    The only peace between men and women is sex. The longer you ignore this, the worse off you are. You yourself are proof of this.

    It sounds like you're the one throwing your life away.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Idk, Anons. Seems like you're mad at him for not picking you. I've been through this shit, and I know it sucks. Best you can do is reduce contact and move on with your life.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >former fwb
    >closest male friend
    yuck, get your shit together

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    do girls actually think they can stay "friends" with a man who they used to have sex with, even if he has a new gf?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I stayed friends with girls I used to have casual sex with, sure

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Both are consenting adults, a 6 year gap isn’t a big deal. It just sounds like jealousy to me

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my gf is 6 years older than me
    is that ok OP? does it only bother you when you feel bad about getting old?

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >he is throwing his life away
    hit the jackpot more like.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >we are both 26
    But you are ageing out of the dating market and he isn't.
    Just 4 more years till your age begins with a 3, at which point you run into all of the 30+ age filters, and simply vanish from the sight of men.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What's the problem exactly about it ?
    As a woman I dated a 22 yo man wen a was 17 for two years, then a 32yo when I was 22. Now 24 and married to a 31yo.
    > inb4 daddy issues
    Maybe, my dad is 20 years older than my mom actually. Yes they got together as adults (30-50yo).
    I've yet to meet anyone IRL who finds age gaps in relationships weird, as long as both are adults (16-17 is okay-ish to date until you're 25 I'd say).
    Hell, my best friend used to date a 20yo guy when she was 30.

    I've nooticed it's mostly older women who react like this, probably out of jealousy or something. Honestly, I'm sorry for you, 26 is still young and you can make it, find the right man and form a family before you turn 40 and live with cats I guess ? And leave your former lover with alone with his gf.

    Although he really wanting to present you seems like a weird power move, I'll admit.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Seething roastie just now realized she was nothing but a hole to be fricked and has been thrown away like trash now that she’s borderline geriatric. Gotta love it.

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