Friend's gf "raped" me, doesn't want me to tell

>last weekend
>be at party with friend, friend's gf and other people
>friend leaves early because he has work in the morning, his gf stays
>we play a lot of drinking games and get drunk
>his gf sticks to me because she doesn't know anyone else there that well
>end of the night she is always holding onto my arm, I feel a bit uncomfortable about it but chalk it up to her being drunk
>people start leaving, I say I'm going to bed cuz drunk and tired
>say goodnight and go to bedroom (I have stayed here before and it's normal, guy who owns the house is my friend)
>go to sleep
>wake up to friend's gf crawling into bed asking if she can sleep in there because she doesn't know or trust the other guys, I say okay because idgaf and go back to sleep
>at some point wake up again and she is bouncing on my dick
>too drunk/sleepy to really understand the situation, monkey brain go "Oh I'm having sex apparently" so just let it happen and pass out again when it's over
>wake up in the morning, think it may have been a dream and hope it was a dream
>nope, friend's gf is naked next to me
>she apologizes profusely, says it was a mistake, makes me promise not to tell him and we can forget it happened, she'll owe me a debt etc. bullshit like this
>texted me every day begging me not to say anything
>supposed to hang out with them again this weekend
What would you do in this situation? Btw this was me losing my virginity on top of everything.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Call the police, put her in prison for 30 years.

    That would be just. That would be appropriate. Don't give women a pussy pass.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women cannot "rape" men. You got hard which means you wanted it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Men cannot "rape" women. b***h has a gash, means she wants it stuffed.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Women cannot "rape" men. You got hard which means you wanted it.
        You only say that because you always get hard when men rape you.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Uh, what’s the problem? You got laid. All of the cels here would have given their left nut to be in your shoes.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women cannot "rape" men. You got hard which means you wanted it.

      reason why male issues aren't taken seriously. always these pussy ass simps crawling out of the woodwork like roaches to put the blame on their fellow man

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have sex incel

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have sex. that doesn't change you being a worthless simp tho tbf

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          have a nice day simp

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This dude wants to buttfrick Harold really badly. I'm adding that to my list of bully names from now on, I got Communist furry who drinks gasoline, Harvard student, and now dude who wants to have smart guy Harold all to himself.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'd tell the friend asap. Be ready because she'll come up with some bs like rape or something. Hope you have proofs.

        fricking this

        Have sex incel

        Grow up moron

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        cry harder homosexual, just like we hold women somewhat accountable for rape, we do so for a man.
        >male issues
        homosexual please, male issues used to be not finding outlets for clear mental illness and issues and dealing with that, not a cry space for weak b***hes like you that cant fight off a woman or thinks "woe is me" if you cant find a gf. Do you lack strength? Are you afraid to hit a b***h? Black person I've been damn near blackout drunk and even I can fight someone off whom I perceive as a threat. But lemme guess, the freeze response and alcohol are valid reasons as to why you as a man cant fight off a woman pulling your pants off

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          frick off with your hard man bullshit. you can't fool anyone you're a b***h at heart and a traitor to your sex too. I really fricking hate 'men' like you like you couldn't believe

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Too much text. You’re a woman.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Too little comprehension, but hey keep crying homosexual. Maybe you'll get lucky like OP one day.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >MUH FELLOW MAN
        Just admit you're a homosexual.

        OP is probably gay too. What happened to him sounds fricking hot. He should be grateful for it rather than acting like such a gay.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          We live in an age where men are encouraged to be as b***h made as possible so im not surprised. Even teen boys who fricked their teacher in the early 2000's are less of a gay than the guys in this thread crying about "male issues"

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >lol, all sex is good sex, ooga booga
          Kys degenerate

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if it's not larp that's textbook rape. if I did that shit as a man I go in for a decade. up to you how you handle it but I'd but that b***h in jail

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Save all those fricking texts in 20 computers where she admits to raping you, cheating, it's her fault, etc.
    Since you were both drunk apparently, even though you were unconscious, she could easily flip the script on you and you get raped again by lawyers.
    Might be worth baiting more definitive apologies / confessions to keep for record.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bullshit, he has everything he needs to put her away for sexual assault.
      He should to, she could end up doing this to other drunk men.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Something similar happened to me, I never said anything and my friend found out we fricked years later because she felt guilty and told him. But she lied and said she fricked me before they were together so I guess the half-truth made her feel better?

    I don't think the law really cares about female-on-male rape, but you could try I guess.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      To add: I never said anything because I assumed everyone would think I was the one who raped her and I didn't want to lose my friend either. Women unfortunately have the power in these situations. That said, I did not feel bad about being raped. I actually liked it. Only thing I felt bad about was betraying my friend.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        press charges you stupid homosexual. you're letting an abuser go free.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This was a decade ago. She finally told him last year. They're also about to be married. I'm just gonna leave it where it is. I understand how you feel but it involves me and I personally don't care that much.

          and this is why you weak gays dont get pity from me, no wonder you were raped because it was clear you lack a spine. I would burn shit down to get back at someone who fricked me like that
          >muh believe women
          that's why you provide proof you moron

          I didn't ask for pity, kek. I don't even feel that bad about it, it didn't traumatize me or anything. A man being fricked by a woman is different than the reverse. Now if she had fricked my butthole with a strapon or something this would be a different story, I'd take her to court for something like that.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        and this is why you weak gays dont get pity from me, no wonder you were raped because it was clear you lack a spine. I would burn shit down to get back at someone who fricked me like that
        >muh believe women
        that's why you provide proof you moron

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >That said, I did not feel bad about being raped. I actually liked it. Only thing I felt bad about was betraying my friend.
        Oh okay so OP was never raped in the first place. Just got so drunk he forgot. I fricking knew it. Told you.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    honestly? I would say and do nothing and pretend like it never happened.

    but I'm sure there is a more morally correct answer

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine getting "raped" as a male by a woman kek. You should troon out at this point for being such a beta homosexual

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Larp
    Its cardiovascularly impossible to get an erection while pass-out drunk

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I used to do it when I was young, can't anymore though (34)

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Its cardiovascularly impossible to get an erection while pass-out drunk
      As a girl I can tell you it is not true of frick buddies I have had
      >inb4 prostitute, dilate, etc
      I know I know

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This probably didn’t happen, but hypothetically, this
    >>wake up to friend's gf crawling into bed asking if she can sleep in there because she doesn't know or trust the other guys, I say okay because idgaf and go back to sleep
    Is where you fricked up. Don’t do this with your friend’s gf, regardless of circumstances. If she doesn’t feel safe (first of all, why the frick would she go to parties with random dudes and then stay the night?), drive her home or call her bf and say that she isn’t comfortable staying the night.
    If she’s just really tired and worked out staying the night at the house in advance, don’t share. If you want to be chivalrous, give up the bed, or you could shut it down and tell her it’s not appropriate, then find her a different place to sleep.

    >What would you do in this situation?
    Kms for being such a moronic degenerate that I not only went to a party, not only got drunk at it, not only slept with a woman there, but betrayed my friend to top it all off.

    If you actually want advice, then if she’s begging you not to say anything, you should strongly encourage her to come clean to her bf herself (with the implication that youlll do it otherwise). And don’t be a moron. Record everything. Screenshots, voice recordings, everything. Don’t let her claim you raped her when both of you were equally responsible for your drunken misbehavior.

    >but I’ll lose my friend
    You already lost him with what happened. He might choose to forgive you, but that’s even less likely if he finds out you lied to him/kept this a secret. Being a good friend means you aren’t only concerned with yourself, with the benefits you get of having him as a friend. Letting your friend know the truth, even if it could end the friendship, is a prime example of that. Are you willing to sacrifice for your friend?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Is where you fricked up. Don’t do this with your friend’s gf, regardless of circumstances. If she doesn’t feel safe (first of all, why the frick would she go to parties with random dudes and then stay the night?), drive her home or call her bf and say that she isn’t comfortable staying the night.
      >If she’s just really tired and worked out staying the night at the house in advance, don’t share. If you want to be chivalrous, give up the bed, or you could shut it down and tell her it’s not appropriate, then find her a different place to sleep.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lots of victim blaming here
    Now I see why men don't come out about being raped very clearly.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They were both drunk, OP was physically stronger, and he already put himself in multiple layers of compromising positions. It’s not like he was one-sidedly taken advantage of against his will.
      I wouldn’t have much sympathy the other way around, either.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah because you are a piece of shit.
        Frick you piece of shit I hope your entire existence is cursed from this point on.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I’m not the one going to drunken parties with strangers and whining when it blows up in my face.
          I’m not saying they deserved to be wronged. I don’t WANT them to suffer.
          I just have better things to do than waste tears on people who created their own problems.

          And if they’re both drunk, can you really call it the same crime as a sober person deliberately taking advantage of incapacity?

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Save every messages, videos, ask your friends if they tool any videos with you in it and have them send it to you. Collect the most evidences possible. She could transform this story into you raping her. Protect yourself. Having her admit it on text would be perfect for you. After that, it's up to you, you can force her to confess to her bf, tell him yourself, go to the police or take it to your grave. Your choice.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to be the voice of reason in this sea of underage homosexuals.

    You were raped, full stop. No quotation marks. Report her to the police, tell your friend what happened, and depending on their reactions, ditch those "friendships" if necessary. What she did was disgusting and inexcusable. I would also recommend finding a therapist; I used to be very anti-therapist because I had the cynical attitude of "why would I pay a stranger to pretend to care about me," but they are professionals who can not only explain the effects of trauma but can also provide you with skills to process said trauma. Therapy isn't a meme, it is a medical practice that is genuinely helpful.

    I'm sorry this happened to you, OP. That girl is evil and if your friend takes her side, he's evil too. Don't let them make light of what was done to you.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Doesn't matter, had sex.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He reports rape to the police. Then the real story comes out
    >She has video of the entire thing
    >Guy is totally wanting it and totally into it bc he is horny
    >Guy doesnt just give consent, but kindof demands it
    >Girl gives in bc she is drunk
    >Guy is so drunk, he forgets it all after cumming.
    >Girl: Yes officer, he came in me and I didn't consent.
    >OP ends up in jail on rape charges bc he forgot all the shit he did bc he was so stupid he got passed out drunk
    Forgetting what you did and wanted bc you were too drunk to remember doesn't erase the fact you did it.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't say a word about it but that's because I have no moral compass and don't care about the sanctity of relationships. Plus your friend will stop being your friend even though you aren't at fault.

    Just hang onto that favor and cash it in if something comes up. At least then you have something to gain.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, if that situation was reversed you’d be in full-on, pound-me-in-the-ass prison for a decade. I’m not saying you need to call the cops on her or anything but you should probably tell your friend, at least if you know him well. There is a chance that he’d blame you instead of her but that depends on him, I don’t know this guy. Up to you if you want to warm her or not before you tell him, again that depends on how well you know each of them.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Oh and make sure you have screenshots of all your relevant texts with her. Unlikely that that would come up but if it does it’s very important that you have them.

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