Getting a gf is easy you are just lazy

>How do I get a gf
lol
>been tryin for years
What did you ACTUALLY do? Do you approach girls daily? Do you attend local events where young people go? Tried dating apps? Did you try going outside and talking to women? Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???

Unless you're a celebrity GigaChad, women are not going to line up on your door waiting for you to date them. You have to go ahead and actually find a girl out first.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to be honest anon I got a gf but it was mostly luck.
    I have no idea where normal people meet anymore.
    This shit was so much easier in school. My genuine inserests are all things that are solitary even if they are outside. All my friends are people I met when I was on highschool or through work. Most of my coworkers are male and married.
    Dating apps are a lottery women get overloaded with matches.
    That said I did get a gf after only a few weeks of effort and I'm not exactly good looking. I just question the advice of "go outside and talk to people" having done that it's not the sort of thing that leads to success moat people don't go out of their way to hang out with strangers they meet at a park.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >it was mostly luck.
      So how the frick did it happen?
      >That said I did get a gf after only a few weeks of effort
      what was the effort? Jesus dude can you explain anything?

      >Do you approach girls daily?
      Not possible.
      >Do you attend local events where young people go?
      There are none.
      >Tried dating apps?
      Yes. But obviously that doesn't work.
      >Did you try going outside and talking to women?
      No because you can't just talk to random woman on the street or in the supermarket without being a creep and potentially arrested for sexual harrasment.
      >Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???
      Yes, but there are 0 single women at any of these places.

      Why did you reply? We're looking for advice from those who have acquired gf's.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What do you want my whole life story?
        I found a girl on tinder on the other side of the planet while there for work. It was random chance literally a lottery. Now we have a LDR, it sucks.
        >what was the effort? Jesus dude can you explain anything?
        I spent most of my early and mid 20's volcel, I decided to start dating again last year and realized shit changed since I was 19 and tried pretty much what OP said. There's something to be said about trying what he said but it's pretty much throwing spaghetti at the wall until something sticks.
        I can say after trying it I know I hate clubs and most people are antisocial, busy and don't want to talk to strangers.
        Bars are a crap shoot.
        All of these things can work but it's not weighted on any real "effort" on your part it's random chance. The only real effort is being willing to keep putting up with the bullshit and not give up.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          So you dont have an actual girlfriend whom you have sex with, can cuddle with and create a family with? Good job bro

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I did for most of last year.
            Things got complicated recently.
            We both have parents we're supporting financially, she sold her phone and laptop so I haven't heard from her in days and before she did this she told me she was moving back in with her parents instead of getting a visa to move here.
            I want out but I can't even get a hold of her to tell her I'm done.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No woman would sell her phone. She ended it already. Sorry bro.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Now we have a LDR
          So now you're not only an incel but a cuckold kek great job "ascending" bro

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Didn't say or imply that I was ascending.
            I said it sucked.
            I didn't think we'd be long distance this long, I figured I'd go back again for work and she would start her visa application.
            It didn't work out that way.

  2. 1 month ago
    Seanonymous

    i'm beginning to think it's too late to meet someone i can build a life with unfortunately. and it's time to accept i wasted my twenties didn't manage to settle down.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah me too. I'm 27, which is still "young", but I haven't met anyone. by the time I potentially find someone worth dating (6-12 mo), date them long enough to evaluate their worth as a wife (2-3y) then get married, find a house, and start having kids (1-2y), I'll already be in my mid-30s. then I'll be in my 60s by the time my kids start having kids.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you approach girls daily?
    Not possible.
    >Do you attend local events where young people go?
    There are none.
    >Tried dating apps?
    Yes. But obviously that doesn't work.
    >Did you try going outside and talking to women?
    No because you can't just talk to random woman on the street or in the supermarket without being a creep and potentially arrested for sexual harrasment.
    >Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???
    Yes, but there are 0 single women at any of these places.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't just want a rando gf. I want one I can marry one day and raise kids with. Dating for dating sake just sounds like a waste of time and money as well as headaches from dealing with a whiny woman. If I can't have kids with her what's the point?

      Also this.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same experience here. Literally 1:1. Its over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      These “women” you speak of, quite a mythological creature! I wonder how I manage to see them all the time, and you do not. Maybe I’m a schizophrenic…I should ask my wife if she’s real because you, Mr Anonynig, have a great grasp on reality, in my humble opinion.
      +1!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He is real though, single women don't go out on their own.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Reddit-tier post

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Truth nuke.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      MASSIVE blackpill here

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      People who make posts like this speak to another human being maybe once a month

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't just want a rando gf. I want one I can marry one day and raise kids with. Dating for dating sake just sounds like a waste of time and money as well as headaches from dealing with a whiny woman. If I can't have kids with her what's the point?

      Also this.

      Same experience here. Literally 1:1. Its over.

      Truth nuke.

      MASSIVE blackpill here

      If women aren't going to come to me, then they aren't worth it. I'm not humiliating myself with rejection for sum b***h.

      You are going to have to ask a girl out if you want a gf
      You are going to have to ask a girl out if you want. a gf

      The way you look, how much money you make, and your status is not going to replace having to actually ask women out

      Women see themselves as the reward the guy desires and takes for themselves. She is not going to ask you out. You have to ask her out.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Wrong.
        Chad doesn't have to ask out anyone.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >She is not going to ask you out. You have to ask her out.
        I told you, I'm not suffering the humiliation of rejection.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not asking any girl out because i don't like being humiliated by women, but i do like humiliating them

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What if you get humiliated when attempting to humiliate a girl? Your shit doesn't make any sense

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      100% this. The number of different hobbies and side interests I've taken up over the years has led me to the conclusion that women do not have hobbies. No exceptions. It's been so long since I was face to face with a woman my age that I'm beginning to think they don't actually exist and were just a figment of my imagination all along. Even the israeliteellery making and pottery night classes were just boomer sausage fests. Singing lessons? all men.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      They hated him because he told the truth

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Either you live in a town of 20 people (in which case, move to a bigger city), or you're being disingenuous. Plenty of normal people find gfs, so you're obviously the problematic variable here.
      I'm average in about every respect (looks, height, job), and I've never been single for more than three months since I stopped being a shut-in almost 10 years ago. Forget about cold approach, just befriend single women and make a move on the ones you like once you've built some rapport. It's that easy. It just requires you to not be a sperg and go out of your room sometimes.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >go out of your room sometimes.
        and go where exactly?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >concerts, conventions
      packed with b***hes.exe
      >libraries
      let the b***hes read in peace
      >Gyms, parks
      toss up, if you and they are white.....get a dog and your in

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >let the b***hes read in peace
        Why? Libraries are fine to meet new women.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This is an attention seeking video. She doesn't actually want to meet anyone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 1% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
      Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to frick the rich and upper class.
      Then there are chad millennials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
      Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

      tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

      It's truly over.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >replying to yourself

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can approach women anywhere but 95% of the women are not worthy of approaching. Now if you just want to get laid that's a different story.. but if you want a loving wife and a good mother to the children who has a good heart, is modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty, then you you are out of luck because those type of women are very rare.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yeah, but if you actually want that you need to have your shit together first

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The other problem is no women will wait for you, so if you are down on your luck or at a low point in life no high quality will want you since they can just get a guy who has his shit together already. High quality males are more abundant than women, so she can just chose another.

          It's really sad and it's over.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >children
        Giga cucked.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao what a loser. And this is coming from a guy who also is too afraid to talk to strangers.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Kek the truth has really made the normalgays upset, huh?
      Can't handle the black pill?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      /adv/, but the OP pic is giving us advice
      >OP: listen, here's how you can do this thing that you want to do
      >random anon: actually, none of that will work. i have absolutely no experience to back up any of what i'm saying. in fact, i get all my knowledge of people from infographics posted on NSFFW and books, (read: not real life experiences) but this is all BULLSHIT and you should have a nice day. dumb gay homosexual.
      >everyone else: yeah what he said, i appreciate that this guy is justifying my pussy mentality
      >OP: ...
      pussies like u make my day, i fricking love laughing at u

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Who are you quoting?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is unfortunately the truth.
      I've tried it all. Board game clubs, the gym, a sports club, language classes, dance classes, cooking classes, bars, clubs. There are no single women at any of these places. And if there is one, she will already have at least 200 other orbiters desperately simping in hope of some pussy.

      I 100% unironically believe that population statistics are all fake and the male/female ratio isn't 50/50 but more like 80/20. Everywhere you fricking go it's only men, men, men, men and more men.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The women have to be stashed somewhere.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Yes, but there are 0 single women at any of these places.
      Make friends with taken girls and ask them if they have any single girlfriends

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        And how is this not creepy?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          How IS that creepy? That's how your grandfather got laid son.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I see no scenario where asking the one girl you know if they know anyone who'd want to bone you wouldn't be weird. How would you ever even bring that up? Talk about how you're lonely like a pathetic frick?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I see no scenario where asking the one girl you know if they know anyone who'd want to bone you wouldn't be weird. How would you ever even bring that up? Talk about how you're lonely like a pathetic frick?

          >everything men do is creepy unless they're 6'4 chad
          This is why I dont bother with women

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Wow it's actually really over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Not possible to approach girls daily
      Do they have a fricking forcefield? Why the frick not?
      >No local events where young people go.
      Do you live in a bunker? I’ve lived in towns of <1,000 people that had regular dances or movies in the park or something to get people together.
      >Dating apps don’t work
      This I’ll give you a pass on. Dating apps are set up to keep you scrolling for as long as possible, so you’re right.
      >Can’t talk to randos because they might claim harrassment.
      No, they’ll claim harrassment if you keep bothering them, run up and touch them, or you act extremely creepy. Don’t do these things.
      >There’s no single women anywhere
      You’re just deluding yourself to justify your failure. Stop being a lazy piece of shit and put in some effort.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hard facts

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Meant for

          >Do you approach girls daily?
          Not possible.
          >Do you attend local events where young people go?
          There are none.
          >Tried dating apps?
          Yes. But obviously that doesn't work.
          >Did you try going outside and talking to women?
          No because you can't just talk to random woman on the street or in the supermarket without being a creep and potentially arrested for sexual harrasment.
          >Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???
          Yes, but there are 0 single women at any of these places.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you pretending to be me?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >>Not possible to approach girls daily
        >Do they have a fricking forcefield? Why the frick not?
        How and where do you even approach women without dying of fear and embarassment?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Fear of what? Rejection? Her saying something nasty to you? Oh, the horror.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Am I supposed not to dread that? And then she tells all her friends about me and all women in the town avoid me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's over.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What are you replying to yourself?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This anon is absolutely correct. I forced myself to cold approach every day for months and after a while it was easy and I got a lot of results. None of you pussies are even trying.

      moron.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Dates? Sex? Gf? What did you say in the cold approach and where at?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          All of the above. I settled down years ago now. Talk to anyone, everywhere. Other men, old ladies, whatever. Chat to the checkout person, chat to the postman, chat to the librarian. Just have something worth saying. Once you get over that mental barrier, talking to women you like gets a lot easier. If you go to concerts or meetups or clubs you immediately have something in common and something to talk about. Just play your advantages by putting yourself in scenarios where you can say something relatable but interesting.

          There is no substitute for practice. You just gotta do it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same experience here.
      All the confidence and "approaching" and "personality" cope only works if you are already attractive.
      If you're ugly no amount of hobbycelling or cold approaching is going to get you a woman.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is this bait or do you morons actually think someone will call the cops because you talk to a woman? LMAO

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >he's still replying to himself

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          nope I'm a different anon. But he's mostly right. Every event I've gone to never had single women. It's always in groups or with their boyfriends.
          The girls in groups aren't open to talking.
          Local events are pretty rare unless you go clubbing or something like that but that's filled with inner city thugs and bawds
          Dating apps don't work for me
          I'm outside every day and never meet girls at all
          Like I'm genuinely serious I think OP is making a joke. I don't meet girls there at all.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why does this have so many replies?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Most of it is samegayging

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Picrel is too fat to be taken seriously as a life guard. You'd drown before she managed to waddle over and then the pool would empty of water when she tried to dive in...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > the pool would empty of water when she tried to dive in
      and then your life will be saved, homosexual

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You didn't think that through very well did you?

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If women aren't going to come to me, then they aren't worth it. I'm not humiliating myself with rejection for sum b***h.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OP is actually right.
    I am lazy, indeed. But I'm also a cheapass and too honest for my own good (too lazy to think of small lies that'll make me look more desirable). At least I'm not fat.
    After getting friendzoned several times in my twenties I kinda gave up. The hope is not dead yet but it's diminishing every year. I've been approached a few times by "working girls" but that's not what I'm looking for, obviously.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I like how every reply to a topic like this is always
    >um i actually never bothered socializing and meeting women, so thats how i know for a fact socializing is a waste of time and would never work for me it is le over

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bbc over gf anytime tho

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Spot on
    The incel dream is waking up in an isekai with a harem that will take the first step, that will never happen.

    Sorry guys

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 6’6 and been rejected by every cold approach and coworkers that are females don’t want to be my friend because they only want to befriend people they want to frick.
    I considered paying money to lick feet but have yet to find escorts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >asking coworkers out on dates
      ngmi

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The young virgin white women at work just racemix with black men and have children with them.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gaslighting

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    He's right tho. There are no single, available, interested women for us.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >>How do I get a gf
    I used to be an incel, now I just see no point, women are random and belong more the specie and genre than men. They are thus generic and to find love with a woman you would need to lower your counsciousness, to be emotionnaly interested in her or in what she has interest and qualities. It's impossible to find a genius woman, or to admire a woman. Yo can only be lustfull and emotionaly insecure and bored thus the females can have a power of attraction on you, as the incomplete, lower vibration, lower counsciousness man that you still are.
    Thus it's impossible to find the love that have been sold to us when we were young and in need of the love of our mothers.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That’s evolution for you! Everything about modern “culture” is anathema to how humans are supposed to live. No one else is going to say it, but the truth is that women’s liberation was communism in disguise and now that we have fully turned on nature nature is turning on us. This is what we get for being led like sheep to the slaughter by a select powerful few whose nefarious agenda is the enslavement of mankind. Invert everything and make life as difficult as possible is there MO. Women aren’t meant to be living the way they do and neither are men. We’re literally designed to take care of them and make sure that our combined genes are passed down to healthy offspring so that they will prosper and eventually do the same. This is the way God intended. All we can do is pray for rapture.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >>How do I get a gf
    It's impossible if you don't beta-buxx maxx or find a woman of lower value (older, ugly,...) in fact women are low value creatures but it doesn't depend on that but on their self-perceived worth, according to their modern current market value. It's all just a speculative bubble, that will burst when they will reach 40yo, or when society will turn it's back on feminism, or at most at death. Then all you speculation will go to 0, with yourself, because you made yourself available to women by lowering yourself to their way of being : you became soft, in comfort, living for the cares of the body and society, for money, all things useless for a woman, but needed to please women, useless for the afterlife or glory, but needed if you bought into their idea of love and wanted to have a beta-buxx pity frick. Really women should be the ones comforming to men, and men should never comform to women. But since it is the rule of the modern age, incels are the really men, and pussy-men, transexuals of the spirit are now the ones who frick. The modern man is on a path of immorality, of egoism, of spiritual unrest, to find rest for his body, he is a slave for the body and thus for the feminine and women, and will die with it, as his soul is already dead, and his spirit unstable. One can be an incel because he found no worthy woman, but did any existed at some point ?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >useless for a woman
      useless for a man*

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I had this art class last semester. I’m a web dev major but I do draw. I spent a lot of time on this nature pattern painting we had to do. She really liked and became very interested in my art. After about month of her waiting for me to ask her out, she asks if I want to go to Starbucks with her across the street. I say at Starbucks, “wait do you like wanna date me?” She says yes super happily. My only hobbies are (not counting NSFFW which I obviously don’t tell her about) art, the gym, and marching band and I have no friends

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need a group of friends and you’ll find one through mutual friends or people they know. An added bonus is that you’ll be a happier and more well-rounded person and therefore more attractive

    I know it’s difficult but most of our problems can be tied to isolation and individualism tbh

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but I'm deformed tho.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That doesn't matter bro just bee urself it's do easy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >You need a group of friends.
      No you don't. I have gotten laid while having no friends, stop coping and go meet women already.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Getting laid == serious relationship, virgin. Just because I stick my rod into a wet hole does not mean I care about the person I'm sticking the rod into.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      So how does one get a group of friends?

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Basically you're admitting that the man has to do all the work and the woman doesn't have to do anything. True...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes? It's been like this for millions of years, what's your point?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Is it even worth it? I can just play video games.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Nah, in the past women were used as commodities, or taken as playthings but the most able.
        Romanticizing is a relative new phenomena, but even that is dying out.
        Female hypergamy is the new hot shit and is literally destroying our civilization.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The main issue with getting a gf is that by the time you do you have put in so much effort into getting good at it that its a weird feeling to know that you're "done" if youve found a wife material gf. Feels like such a waste of a skillset by then

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're never done.
      A "material gf" has to keep you on your toes, just as you should keep her. Once you get into a relationship the game changes but you still have to play.

  19. 1 month ago
    prince charming

    anon i have had a few girlfriends so i will give you my experience (21m) I met a lot of girls from the internet, Yubo when i was a minor, and then the normal dating apps tinder hinge and bumble, i had most success on bumble and i did pay lifetime premium on it (200 bucks)

    One of my girlfriends worked at security at the same place i worked at and she actually came up to me first i didnt really know she existed beforehand but I figured why not, she was a latina and a virgin and she was skinny soo i figured why not, she was kinda ugly though but i didnt care cause a hole is a hole and she had a nice body so its not really a big deal. after a while i broke it off but we still see each other and i did cheat on her throughout the entire relationship but i made sure she never found out, if you are going to cheat do it so youre partner doesnt know.

    about a year after that girl i was working someplace else and instead of security it was actually a coworker who asked me out this time ( i made no first contact) she is a tall asian we havent actually dated we have just seen each other a few times but she is a good hole and she lets me cum in her raw so i dont mind her being fat. she does have a nice face too. but i wont date or marry a chink.

    my current girlfriend i kid you not i met on omegle, she lives in Europe and we have met twice now, she was a virgin as well before we met, she has a killer body, she is white, blue eyed and doesnt smoke or drink shes also an autist,

    i want you to take in how insane it is to meet someone on omegle like the sheer probability of it happening and the right moment in time for two people to be on it and happen to see each other and just happen to exhange info. and then to date irl.
    now the reason i chose this girl anon was because she fit a list of standards, alwasy have standards with awoman, no matter her looks, my gf is not a 10, she is probably a 6 but she holds standards i care about and is a good woman.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you're just a trashy moron who lies about who you are, if she knew you cheated on your girlfriends and thought of them as holes to be used she'd dump you in a second.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      sites
      so you are very tall, I assume?

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I go to events where young people go, but it's not easy. Used to be way easier in college. There's one thing I want to test, and that is to go to outside some offices at 6-7pm and strike random convos with women there. A lot of working women are single because they don't have time to meet anyone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I once met a gf on a bus stop outside of college after I had graduated and was only there to pick up some papers, literally just cold started with "what are you studying?" that came out of nowhere for me and it went from there. I feel like it could be an underrated spot for cold approaches, and you always have a bunch of good reasons for being there even after you graduate

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bad idea, b***hes leaving the office at 6-7 PM don't have the time required for dating

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >You have to go ahead and actually find a girl
    That's the issue: where are they? Be specific.

    "Dating" apps? Even though I do get matches, none of these hoes are interested in having a conversation longer than 3 messages, let alone get off their ass and actually meet, ever

    Outside? Daily walks with my dog take me all over town, and there are ZERO appropriately aged women out there, not even now when the weather is finally starting to get nice

    Introductions via friends and acquaintances? They'd love to help me out, but invariably face the reality that young women nowadays simply don't want to go out and do date activities anymore; they all just sit at home and scroll TikTok and watch Netflix

    At work? Not gonna happen, male dominated field

    Bars/clubs? Last place on earth I'd go looking for GF material

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      See:

      People who make posts like this speak to another human being maybe once a month

    • 1 month ago
      prince charming

      anon you may just not be attractive, i talked about it in this thread already but i work at a job thats like 99% men and one of the women there asked me if i wanted to hang out sometime and we fricked a few times now. ive head success more than once from dating apps, work on your appearance.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think you missed the part where I mentioned getting matches on dating apps, which unattractive or even average guys do not

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >That's the issue: where are they? Be specific.

      >Anime and Comic conventions
      >Gyms
      >Local parks
      >Libraries and bookstores
      >Concerts
      >Clubs (not just talking about nightclubs, also board game clubs work also. Let Google do the work for you if you can't find them)
      >Local events in your area

      Let me guess, I'm not being specific enough? You need more? Shut the frick up and stop making excuses, or are you just a pussy and it's too hard for you to do?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        and Comic conventions
        >>Gyms
        parks
        and bookstores

        (not just talking about nightclubs, also board game clubs work also. Let Google do the work for you if you can't find them)
        events in your area
        Literally 0 (zero) single women are in any of these places

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Do you have a single fact to back that up? Or is this more incel cope?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Do you want him to upload GoPro footage of going to all said places or what?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >upload GoPro footage of going to all said places
            Incel instantly thinks of going on a rampage, classic

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ah I see, you're trolling

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well claiming that there is absolutely zero single women in almost all areas where you can meet them is a pretty big claim to make. Do have a source on that, or did you just make it up as an excuse to blame everything but yourself?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >claiming that there is absolutely zero single women in almost all areas where you can meet them is a pretty big claim to make
            Precisely why we're having this conversation in the first place, isn't it? Single young women are no longer meetable at venues that used to work in the past, they're at home scrolling.
            *IF* they had any real interest in actually meeting someone of the opposite sex, you'd think they would at the very least sign up for dating apps since, you know, they're on their phones 24/7 anyway, but nope, only a small fraction of them can be bothered to do even that.
            Shit's completely fricked once you're out of school.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Gotta agree with the schooler on this one. And it's not that he's intrinsically right, it's that circumstancially young zoomettes don't even go out any longer. In my french class I literally talk to zoomettes and they say they don't even go out, at all. It's just wake up, school class, scroll social media, sleep. That's fricking it and the trend in my c**t boils down to that for both sexes.

            They don't even use dating apps at all. This is why when I setup my profile to be visible for men and gender bender queers, I get dozens of swipes per week. But when I switch it back to women only, I get nada. The trend nowadays is that most couples meet via social media or school

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I meet lots of women but never fell like I should settle for her, or her, or her, I would feel bad for her knowing I just decided to talk to her rnadomly with no reason, and and she is just one woman among millions.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Getting a gf is easy you are just lazy
    For some values of "gf"

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What did you ACTUALLY do?
    Everything
    >Did you approach girls daily?
    Not daily, I have work and stuff to do, but whenever I could, yes.

    Do you attend local events where young people go?
    Yes, on the weekends. I also go on trips alone, because I have no friends. I live in a shithole country though

    >Tried dating apps?
    Yes. Literally only horny troons, and men swipe right on me.

    Did you try going outside and talking to women?
    Yes. Around 20-50 times. Got shot down each time.

    >Have you gone to Gyms,
    Yes

    >parks,
    Yes

    >libraries,
    Yes

    >concerts,
    Yes

    >conventions,
    Yes

    >FRICKING ANYWHERE???

    Yes dumbass.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Larp

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I have no friends
      dating apps?
      >Yes. Literally only horny troons, and men swipe right on me.
      In other words, you're ugly and have no social skills.
      So you know the problems, now fix them

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >In other words, you're ugly

        Yes. Also I don't know how to take pictures. BUT that's a non-sequitor

        >You don't have social skills

        Black person are you 12? I work 48 hours weekly, REMOTELY. I train every day, study, engage in my side projects and when I have a slither of free time, I go outside and search for people. I live a normal adult life. I don't have +60 hours a week to do social activities and guess what? Whenever I shoot my shot I get turned down; Men or Women.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I get turned down; Men or Women.
          no homo

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yeah I forgot about that #nohomo

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You made this up

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Larp

        What the frick would I gain by LARPing as an isolated person? Yes, I'm fricking ugly. Yes I had zero social skills back then. Yes I wasted my time going to a crap college, because I wasn't able to pass the entrance exam in my dream college, and never met anyone there; I separated from my neighborhood friends when I was a kid, because I felt insecure. I basically did everything wrong during my early years. I don't know how it is in the US, but if you don't have a circle or friends or a girlfriend by the time you're out of college, you're shit out of luck.

        I was raised in a crappy town in my first 8 years of life. Gunshots everywhere and I couldn't go outside without getting mugged or kidnapped (common occurrence back then), so I spent my days playing vidya, after returning from school dejected from the kids refusing to acknowledge me.

        When I moved to another suburb I had 9 friends in my neighborhood and those were the three best years of my life, but then most of them just moved away and we never kept contact. Then I started hanging with other people back in middle school and got into alcohol and drugs. Those morons weren't real friends and I fricked up a lot.

        I then dropped out from high school at 15 and homeschooled to get my diploma. I failed to enter the only college in this God forsaken country where apparently you can make friends and find a gf.

        I had to bust my back at 17 to pay tuition in a shittier college and wagecuck ever since. I only dated an older woman who manipulated me, cucked me and spread rumours about me. Despite that, I always approached women and asked them out in many occasions, and I got rejected.

        The scamdemic hits and now I had to get a new job because bills are starting to build up, then another job years later; all of them remote with no people my age and no one wanting to be friends.

        I learned two foreign languages; went to concerts, parks, museums, beaches, hike tours, art expos, it wasn't enough apparently.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          What country?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            With the information I shared that's enough to dox myself in this shithole. It's a country of 3-5 million people. In the Americas.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    reposting from another thread
    the other day i went out to the nearest big city to practice a bit of observational drawing
    I sat down on a short wall near a very trafficked part of town (the entrance of the walled city) to draw a cool building, i noticed that the people passing by would kind of peak over my shoulder to see what i was doing and sometimes they would comment something nice to the people they were walking with, I pretendend to be too focused on the drawing to hear them but I'm just autistic
    at some point a girl around my age who was walking her dog came up to me and said "you're pretty good", i smiled and thanked her and she walked away.
    then an immigrant guy said something in ukranian or russian and then "nice" and i responded "spasibo" which made him laugh
    I wonder if I can leverage this drawing outside thing to make friends or talk to people
    thoughts? is it wishfull thinking? is drawing outside sending the same message that a person reading a book or listening to music does?

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 1% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
    Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to frick the rich and upper class.
    Then there are chad millennials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
    Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

    tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I disagree with this post and this post alone in this entire thread. As a zoomer who used to work minimum wage jobs and go to a community college, I have seen model tier attractive women working these jobs and going to trash community colleges because they are too moronic to monetize their beauty or simpily did not want to use their beauty to get ahead.

      This post is just doomer talk and one should not take it serioulsy. Yes zoomer women are getting flown out but it a tiny minority out of the millions of women in the U.S.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    As someone who's never had a gf I feel like it's easy to get dates but I'm too damned picky

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just genuinely don't understand how you're supposed to start a conversation with a stranger without seeming like a creep who wants to have sex.
    And I'm not even a maladjusted incel, I've simply actually gone outside. The only people I have ever seen start a conversation with someone else has been obnoxious old people talking to other old people on the bus. You go into a place, you do your business, and you walk out. You're walking down the street, you're listening to music and trying to get somewhere. What actual reason would a man have to walk up and talk to a woman other than asking for directions or because they saw they have a big rack and they wanted to smash? You have no rapport, nothing else to talk about, there's simply no other conceivable reason.
    This immediately makes you out as the harasser while the woman is just trying to go about her day, instantly putting you in a negative light even if you did have anything to actually say. Because you both know what you're doing, you both know why you're there, and you both know that it's creepy and wrong.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's why you're supposed to learn how to talk to people you don't want to have sex with, so you can get used to being chatty without having an ulterior motive. unfortunately i'm too nw euro for that.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >haha you should introduce me to your other friends that we don't already know for whatever reason, you know, friends of the female variety. Just so I have more people to talk to! For no other reason haha

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          no i'm talking about getting used to talking to random people you don't know at places like the store like other guys or old ladies. that way you can get to be chatty with people you don't want to get with, and then if you talk to someone who happens to be attractive it's not weird and obvious that you're only doing it for one reason.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Kek I did the same with some "friends" and none of them introduced me to their girl friends.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    And how the frick are you supposed to talk to women with friends? They walk together for this exact reason, to stop guys from coming up to them, because no woman wants a man to come up and start telling them how much he wants to have sex. Even assuming you are completely lacking in self awareness to the point that you're able to do this, you're just supposed to choose one of them and go "You're hot enough that I want to have sex with you, but none of these other ones", that's somehow NOT supposed to be weird? They're just supposed to stand there and watch?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you wont single one out from a group they will protect each of their members unless they all like you. Just approach them and talk to them, see what happens and stop overthinking it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      As long as you are friendly and open, no issues at all. Just pay attention to their body language and leave them along if they are closed and/or obviously discussing something heavy.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You cannot

      not a single Black person who posts shit like this has ever been outside in their fricking lives

      you wont single one out from a group they will protect each of their members unless they all like you. Just approach them and talk to them, see what happens and stop overthinking it.

      Write exactly what would you say for entire duration that leads to forming relationship with them. Write an hour long conversation in every place you believe this can be done
      If you dont do it, you admit you havent done it and dont believe it could happen

      so far you wrote nothing meaning you dont believe anyone can do it, in your post you also wont write anything that leads to relationship just hi and begging for number like all indian Black folk

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    That b***h is thicc

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I got my gf by befriending her for 10 years, starting when she was still a virgin, and when she went through 2-3 guys that treated her like shit she eventually went to me lol
    The long game was very successful for me, just befriend a girl for long enough, be decently attractive and when she realizes she has shit taste in partners she'll just go to you. Am i a rebound? Maybe. We're coming up on 2 years though and she lives with me, relationship is basically perfect

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      jesus, what a cuck

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >haha I was orbiting this girl for years while she was getting fricked by other men and years later she finally settled for me so she can leech off my money, I am le alpha chad!
      Uh huh

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think if you're uncomfortable with a gf who has a past body count, you shouldn't be dating at all.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >uncomfortable
          more like disgusted but you just date virgins then

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I think it's more about how it took her getting old to actually think of that guy as an option. I mean, why was he not enough back then? He was right there for 10 years and she just didn't give a shit until she found her options dwindling.

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Feel bad for you, son. But damn what I wouldn't give for that woman to sit on my face and pop my head like a grape.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >libraries
    Out of curiosity, how does it work and what kind of girls do you meet there. libraries are mentioned everywhere and at least where I live, you can only find a gf in a library if you are a pedophile or a GILF hunter

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I had a gf for a month in middle school but outside of that every time I've ever approached a girl she said no. Been rejected 6 or 7 times this month. I make money. I work out, I dress nice. But none of that does it. I'm just an autistic frick so if I ever have a relationship it'll be luck.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No dude I'm made of biology so I cannot physically transit to a location containing women, and I also cannot express sexual interest in girls since evolution told me not to.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    She could lose some weight

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's true. I'm married, fat, 40's and I still pulled a couple of hot 20 something stacies. I'm not even chad

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No, I am not lazy, women are just not interested in ANYONE, read my thread

    [...]

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Have you done...
    NO NO AND NO AND IDC, OP IS A homosexual

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just tell women they are beautiful, warm and that they matter to be kind but then some of them want me inside them and it stresses me out.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm never asking a girl out. I'm not risking that humiliation when there's a 99.9999999% chance of rejection. No sane person would take those odds.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >there's a 99.9999999% chance of rejection.
      Source?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The source is women being unattracted to you.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    thick frick frick thick FRICK THIC BREED AAAAAAAAAAAA

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you approach girls daily?
    Never "approached" a girl in my life
    >Do you attend local events where young people go?
    No. I don't think those exist
    >Tried dating apps?
    A couple years ago. Didn't get any matches so I stopped
    >Did you try going outside and talking to women?
    No. I don't think I've talked to a woman my age in about 5 years now >Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???
    I go to the gym but that's it

    I don't really care if people think I'm "lazy". I'm making the rational choice of not wasting my time on something that's unlikely to work. I'd rather stay home and play video games, honestly.

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Unless you're a celebrity GigaChad, women are not going to line up on your door waiting for you to date them. You have to go ahead and actually find a girl out first.
    So why bother? That just means women will never love me like they love Chad, they're settling for me, and will always resent me deep down.
    No thanks.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Not gonna serve as random women's ego-boost rejection fodder. Sorry.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >She is not going to ask you out.
    my two first GFs were the one to ask me out first, maybe you are just ugly?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Your imaginary girlfriends you made up for your larp don't count, sorry.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        nice cope but that's just how it is, if a girl really likes you she doesn't mind asking you out first if she's physically attracted to you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I love how every discussion on this topic starts with
      >"bro looks don't matter at all bro just bee confident and urself bro it's so easy"
      and ends with
      >"lol ur just ugly xD"
      Great way to prove blackpillers right.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What is your height?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        6'3

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          and you are attractive? where did you meet women, college?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            One asked me out in the supermarket, the other after a college class

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          One asked me out in the supermarket, the other after a college class

          Why are you larping as a chad to demoralize others? Fricking weirdo.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why do you think I am lapping.
            Just go to the gym and women will be interested in you as well. Of course they arent going to ask out some fat slob

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If you were 6’6 they would run away. moron women say they want a giant on dating sites but in real life they run away. They don’t know what 6’6 actually looks like.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it is very easy but it's very limited in terms of place

    there's nowhere at all for a man to approach a woman outside of schools or mutual friends

    there's absolutely no one to speak to outside whatsoever, there's no possible words to be spoken to these women sitting kissing their boyfriends to get them

    There's FRICKING NOWHERE outside of schools or friends to ever speak to women for a man at all, your reddit list does not include examples of conversations for a reason, no one has ever done it and never will

    You cannot find a girl outside of school try and write a 30+ minute long conversation in all of Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE where you believe complete stranger grown ass man can break a woman away from her meat cube

    You cannot, you just wanted to post reddit spam

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Everytime you see a Black person who writes reddit spam location but doesnt include words they'd say, they admit they are pussy coward moronic autist admitting they are terminally online

      Every single normal human knows men cannot speak to women outside of schools and friends only pussy-less homosexual autistic indians would ever say something about harassing strangers in parks or even use word "local event"
      every normal human would name specific event they mean and link location of it occuring but OP didnt do it because he's just internet cancer, terminally online incel indian who cannot do anything but spam comments from reddit everywhere

      [...]
      look at this spam
      typical incel indian desperate to spread his quora ass believes

      no conversation, no example of what his Black person brain would say, just spam

      have a nice day or write an actual hour long conversation that leads to a girl knowing enough about you to go out. You cannot write one in any of the locations you've spammed

      no amount of coping will change reality, sorry homosexual ass OP

      You cannot

      not a single Black person who posts shit like this has ever been outside in their fricking lives

      [...]
      Write exactly what would you say for entire duration that leads to forming relationship with them. Write an hour long conversation in every place you believe this can be done
      If you dont do it, you admit you havent done it and dont believe it could happen

      so far you wrote nothing meaning you dont believe anyone can do it, in your post you also wont write anything that leads to relationship just hi and begging for number like all indian Black folk

      [...]
      >no conversation
      Holy shit you are literelly an autistic moronic indian and admitting to it to everywhere

      >Where to meet depends on where you are and what to say depends on the flow of conversation.
      That literelly leaves only schools and mutuals as there's NOWHERE ELSE to ever say anything so there's no possible conversations and you just proved it you autistic moronic coward homosexual

      There's nowhere else on the planet to speak to a woman and you proved it, no conversation nothing.
      You just did exactly what I've said, 0 conversations just reddit spam and avoidance, you are a shut in autistic moron incel unaware how ANYWHERE in the world is like outside.

      You proved it in 2 ways
      1) claiming harassing strangers is how couples form
      2) being unable to write what would you say for 1 hour plus which is minimum to get to know someone
      These are contradictions meaning you dont believe in this spam yourself

      have a nice day and take out as many of your crockroach relatives as you can

      >tell people to harass strangers in groups
      >sperg out into histerinincs when asked what would they say

      every
      single
      time

      with these moronic incel homosexuals
      everyone who uses word "approach" is a homosexual who has never done it, they all just prove it every time they make posts

      if they really spoke this way to women, half this thread would be examples of long conversations

      if you dont follow up with 158 posts of what would you say in each setting all long not just number begging like scammers you adore then you are just proving you have never done it and you dont believe anyone can ever do it

      every post without conversation is just further proof no human ever did it (out of school or friends) and never will and you agree

      if you post anything but long detailed conversations with back and forth questions you are just an autist who agrees you are trolling and spamming reddit out of your sheer moronation

      go ahead, we're waiting for these 159 posts, surely you've had this many if you claim they happen share every single conversation you've ever had by accosting strangers so far in your life that leads to dating

      remember, no jumping to number begging, get to know the person you are harassing and acknowledge all of her friends she's surrounded by during this time

      low quality schooler demoralization/bait

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Everytime you see a Black person who writes reddit spam location but doesnt include words they'd say, they admit they are pussy coward moronic autist admitting they are terminally online

    Every single normal human knows men cannot speak to women outside of schools and friends only pussy-less homosexual autistic indians would ever say something about harassing strangers in parks or even use word "local event"
    every normal human would name specific event they mean and link location of it occuring but OP didnt do it because he's just internet cancer, terminally online incel indian who cannot do anything but spam comments from reddit everywhere

    [...]

    look at this spam
    typical incel indian desperate to spread his quora ass believes

    no conversation, no example of what his Black person brain would say, just spam

    have a nice day or write an actual hour long conversation that leads to a girl knowing enough about you to go out. You cannot write one in any of the locations you've spammed

    no amount of coping will change reality, sorry homosexual ass OP

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The frick do you want him to do? You want him to say go to Jack's Bar on latin night in some specific city and then give you a Google maps location? Where to talk to woman will depend on where you are. And yes you will need to talk to them at some point.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        >Give me the exact location and write a word by word script on what I need to say.

        Holy shit you are literally autistic. Where to meet depends on where you are and what to say depends on the flow of conversation.

        >no conversation
        Holy shit you are literelly an autistic moronic indian and admitting to it to everywhere

        >Where to meet depends on where you are and what to say depends on the flow of conversation.
        That literelly leaves only schools and mutuals as there's NOWHERE ELSE to ever say anything so there's no possible conversations and you just proved it you autistic moronic coward homosexual

        There's nowhere else on the planet to speak to a woman and you proved it, no conversation nothing.
        You just did exactly what I've said, 0 conversations just reddit spam and avoidance, you are a shut in autistic moron incel unaware how ANYWHERE in the world is like outside.

        You proved it in 2 ways
        1) claiming harassing strangers is how couples form
        2) being unable to write what would you say for 1 hour plus which is minimum to get to know someone
        These are contradictions meaning you dont believe in this spam yourself

        have a nice day and take out as many of your crockroach relatives as you can

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You cannot

      not a single Black person who posts shit like this has ever been outside in their fricking lives

      [...]
      Write exactly what would you say for entire duration that leads to forming relationship with them. Write an hour long conversation in every place you believe this can be done
      If you dont do it, you admit you havent done it and dont believe it could happen

      so far you wrote nothing meaning you dont believe anyone can do it, in your post you also wont write anything that leads to relationship just hi and begging for number like all indian Black folk

      >Give me the exact location and write a word by word script on what I need to say.

      Holy shit you are literally autistic. Where to meet depends on where you are and what to say depends on the flow of conversation.

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tell people to harass strangers in groups
    >sperg out into histerinincs when asked what would they say

    every
    single
    time

    with these moronic incel homosexuals
    everyone who uses word "approach" is a homosexual who has never done it, they all just prove it every time they make posts

    if they really spoke this way to women, half this thread would be examples of long conversations

    if you dont follow up with 158 posts of what would you say in each setting all long not just number begging like scammers you adore then you are just proving you have never done it and you dont believe anyone can ever do it

    every post without conversation is just further proof no human ever did it (out of school or friends) and never will and you agree

    if you post anything but long detailed conversations with back and forth questions you are just an autist who agrees you are trolling and spamming reddit out of your sheer moronation

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    go ahead, we're waiting for these 159 posts, surely you've had this many if you claim they happen share every single conversation you've ever had by accosting strangers so far in your life that leads to dating

    remember, no jumping to number begging, get to know the person you are harassing and acknowledge all of her friends she's surrounded by during this time

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I rate your rage bait post as a 2/10

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I get a gf
    Stop asking this question and go to near countryside.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Near countryside
      Bro looking to frick some horse pussy lmao

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Bro looking to frick some horse pussy lmao
        Too many comforts, they make the soul depraved, and thinking too much makes you chud, in the country, there are various holes, you just need some creativity.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >you are just lazy
    very true. im also burdened with severe mental health issues that i wasnt aware and am now addressing.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yo im a lesbian so idk if my tips will apply to men too but here ya go
    .being urself is really cliché, but it often works when youre tryna find someone. go to the clubs/museums/whatevs YOU like. if yall dont have anything in common the relationship is likely gonna go down the drain. and if there aint anything except video games or stuff, get a hobby. like ceramics courses or smth. no girl aint finna like you if youre not interesting, so often working on urself is better than directly searching a gf. youll meet a good person along the way.
    .respect is rlly important, trust me. especially showing her respect, acknowledging her existence and letting her know that shes special to u and that you love her (also works with friends platonically btw just being honest abt your feelings help very much) but try to not do it too often to not come over as desperate lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You will never be a woman

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        huh

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What are you replying to yourself?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >idk if my tips will apply to men too
      They won't. Didn't read the rest.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's because of your looks and height, the current standards are insane and unforgiving. If you aren't at least 6 ft and 7 facially you are relegated to betabuxx.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Which place worked for you? How many girls have you slept with???

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Normalhomosexuals really won't ever understand huh

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fricking a b***h is easy.

    Getting a normal girlfriend is hard

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Ex
    Met via her close friend who I met through hobbies. Hanged out, befriended them and got along well. I fell for her eventually, and gathered my courage to tell her about my feelings via text, and we agreed to talk more about it meeting in person. Things didn't work out in the end (we parted with no hard feelings), but that's irrelevant here.
    >Wife
    My highschool sweetheart. We met in school, and she found me interesting (I did art, and was the only boy in the school with long hair) so wanted to befriend me. She pretty much adopted me into her small clique of friends, and I started hanging out with them at school. As we became better friends, she liked to tease me to get reactions out of me, and even made me valentine's chocolates (just like for her other friends, as the day is here also about celebrating friendship, not just love). I started having feelings for her, and eventually I confessed. She told me she didn't feel like she was ready for a relationship yet - while I was sad and disappointed of course, we didn't let it make things wierd between us. As we kept hanging out, we actually slowly grew closer, until some fours months later we kissed, and I asked her out again.

    So based on my experiences, I would give the following advice:
    1. Get hobbies, let them show.
    2. Stand out positively in some way.
    3. Interact with people, be it at school, hobbies or at work.
    4. Relationships built on friendship are more likely to work out and last.
    5. If you get turned down, do your best to not make things wierd. No is a no, but not now is an opportunity - just don't pester about it.
    6. Have patience.
    7. Relax, don't be a sperg.
    8. Obligatory take care of yourself.

    For full disclosure, I am a diagnosed assburger.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Last time a woman told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship she got together with her “friend” a few days later. I’m still a virgin.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Women use that excuse all the time. It just means she didn't feel too attracted to you therefore she wasn't ready for a relationship.. with YOU. It's a soft rejection

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well I’ve been rejected by every girl since I was 13 and I’m 30 now.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I've been getting rejected for 17 years but instead of just going to the gym and looksmaxxing i'm going to waste my tie whining about on the internet
            Based moron.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I had plastic surgery. It’s because I’m only attracted to my own race, pale white girls and they only want blacks.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sorry to hear that Anon. I know "not now" gets used as a soft rejection too. And there's much more than sex to fulfillment in relationships - I've been together with my wife for over 10 years, even though she's asexual, and we've never fricked.

        getting advice from people like you is like getting finacial advice from a millionaire’s son
        >bro just let it fall into your lap

        I kinda get where you're coming from, but I wouldn't have had success either time without being proactive myself - I still had to seize the opportunities I found.
        But feel free to ignore my advice if you feel it is of no use to you, its your life.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I don't even want sex I just want to makeout with her feet.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      getting advice from people like you is like getting finacial advice from a millionaire’s son
      >bro just let it fall into your lap

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >getting advice from people like you is like getting finacial advice from a millionaire’s son
        Don't do a frick and let daddy pay for them.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Do men really find OP girl's body type attractive?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      High T men do.

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >You have to ask a girl out if you want a girlfriend
    this only works if the girl is interested in you dumbfrick

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You want a vegana and not a girl.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have no romantic feelings towards anyone due to years of neglect and abuse, it is physically impossible for me to find love

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you aren't in the top 20 to 30 percent of men thanks to israelites you get nothing

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Being top 20% is extremely easy though.
      Even top 10% is easily achievable for everyone putting in at least some effort.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It literally isn't, being the top 10% requires meeting all the genetic standards of women

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    None of your stupid shit matters when you are a turbo manlet like me
    >b-b-b-b-b-but I knew a very short dude who got entire harems of women
    yeah yeah, for some reason everyone has that dwarf friend who fricks different women on the daily

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 5"5 it is literally impossible for a women to be attracted to me. Even if I did, she'd probably cheat on me with first tall chad that asks

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    its hard to attained events if you have nobody to go with

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a fricking spurg.
    I got dating apps but the moment I get liked or matched up with someone, I shit the bed and don't reply.
    And this is with them hitting me up first.

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    such lady like pic are feminist

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good morning sir.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous
  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Did you just get your first girlfriend? Where did you meet?

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is having a friend group a requirement to getting a gf?

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    start first with a woman as friend to calm down your fustration and ask her what you need to change to have one..

    rather than share on NSFFW your depression

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you approach girls daily?
    Not allowed in 2024
    >Do you attend local events where young people go?
    I'm 30
    >Did you try going outside and talking to women?
    Doesn't work.
    >Have you gone to Gyms, parks, libraries, concerts, conventions, FRICKING ANYWHERE???
    Women don't want random men talking to them in those settings.

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1. Love at first sight can only be predicted by physical attraction. [ https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12218 ]
    2. Attractiveness and race matter the most in online dating. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656621000131?via%3Dihub ]
    3. Being physically attractive makes your personality seem better. [ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797610388048]
    4. Height determines your dating pool. [ https://www.gertstulp.com/pdf/Stulp%20et%20al%202013_Anim%20Behav_The%20height%20of%20choosiness.pdf, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1071721/ ]
    5. Short men have 2x the suicide rate of tall men. [ https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/full/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.7.1373 ]
    6. Tall men have more kids and partners. [ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s002650100370 ]
    7. The most important dating bio term is being +6ft. [ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/dating-app-tinder-bio-words-most-right-swipes-music-gym-6-foot-badoo-a8512541.html ]
    8. Height predicts relationship satisfaction. [ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/147470490900700310?icid=int.sj-related-articles.similar-articles.45#articleCitationDownloadContainer, https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/147470491000800401, https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886917302003?via%3Dihub ]
    9. Men's facial masculinity determines female interest. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1364661305003 ]
    10. Symmetry is universally attractive/attractiveness is objective. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513897000032, https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-9280.1994.tb00629.x#articleCitationDownloadContainer, https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16318594/ ]
    11. Your looks define perception of your personality in online dating. [ https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/weexperimentonhumanbeings.html ]

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cont.

      12. Parents treat attractive children better. [ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/04/050412213412.htm ]
      13. Physical attractiveness in adolescence predicts better socioeconomic status in adulthood. [ https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0063975 ]
      14. Attractive people are perceived much more positively than they really are. [ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4757567/, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4415372/, https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886912005028?via%3Dihub ]
      15. The taller presidential canadite wins the majority of the time. [ https://en.wikipedia.org//wiki/Heights_of_presidents_and_presidential_candidates_of_the_United_States#Electoral_success_as_a_function_of_height ]
      16. Realtionships signifigantly predict happiness. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886918305348?via%3Dihub, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-019-00074-1 ]
      17. Facial masculinity determines female interest. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1364661305003207 ]
      18. Dominant looking men have sex earlier. [ https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1994-44767-001 ]
      19. Men with deeper voices have more children and relationship opportunities. [ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513805000176, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2391230/ ]

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's great anon, so what are you going to do about it? Maybe you can't get taller, but a more masculine face and deeper voice are attainable naturally - I've done it. If you saw the girls who were into me despite me being below 6" you would shit yourself.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >so what are you going to do about it?
          Nothing, there's nothing fun about playing a game stacked against you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not trying to do anything, I am just here to prove it isn't "laziness". The world is very unfair, and the idea that unsuccessful people are always lazy is just plain wrong. It is a fallacy, the based in emotion.

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Picrel is grotesque

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry she doesn't look like your perfect 12 year old anime waifus. You fricking pedophile.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That was a weird leap to make. Only a paedo would make that kind of a comment. It wouldn't enter a normal persons head. She's grotesque because she's fat.

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wasn't there but my buddy told this girl that I have a crush on that her and I should hook up (in a dating kind of way, not sex.) He said that when he said that she "turned beet red and smiled from ear to ear. I also think she was flirting with me at a wedding but idk. Is this a sign that she may like me back or no?

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The mental acrobatics incels go through to keep themselves single never cease to amaze me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You have to remember that they are perfectly comfortable and content with things as they are, which is why they keep them that way. It's just that it's socially considered to be a low-status situation, so they need external excuses to justify it to themselves and others. That's when they pretend they live in Saudi Arabia where talking to women isn't allowed, or their jaw angle is too obtuse, or they find some other way of saying "I'm intimidated about asking someone out".

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I am not, ever since I was 13 I have been drooling for a young pale white gf thats not fat. I want a wife I can come home to everyday so badly!

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Getting a girlfriend is easy if you'll settle for a fat b***h like picrel. But if you want an attractive girl, it's harder.

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fat girls don't deserve love.

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's about finding an opportunity to talk to them. Some find them while clubbing, some find them after taking some classes in common, some find them while practicing sports outside.
    >What did you ACTUALLY do?
    Cold approached a few times, DMed some I had classes with, tried to frick some at the club etc. Most of the time I didn't go in with the intention of going out with the person, but simply to see if she could be potentially interested in me. I simply placed myself in a position where I could see if the girl was interested or not and then saw where it could go from there.
    >Do you attend local events where young people go?
    Yes, these are called "bars", "clubs", "colleges", "concerts", "sports events", "iceskating" etc.
    >Tried dating apps?
    No because unless you're genuinely good looking they won't work.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Bars
      I just go in there, order a drink, sit around for 10 minutes looking at nothing and leave. It is nice to get a drink but hanging there after for no reason is a waste of time. Not like I can stay there and get wasted either since the closest one is within driving distance of my house, not walking. I've already gotten shit for drunk driving in the past and I do not want to go through it again.
      >Clubs
      Clubs are fricking miserable, it's like a bar but with shitty loud music and drug addicts acting like morons. WOOOO I'M SO YOUNG AND FREE, GO WILD, frick off.
      >Colleges
      I've got a college degree already. It was shit for dating unless you were also into clubbing, see above.
      >Concerts
      I never got the appeal of live music. I'd probably just sit awkwardly and wait for it to end then drive back home.
      >Sports events
      While I would still subject myself to a concert, I would definitely not subject myself to watching morons kick balls around or run. Chances are, the women there will be there to get wet watching the athletes rather than talk to the average joe two seats over who clearly doesn't care enough to even fake wanting to be there.
      >Iceskating
      lmao

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You sound boring and miserable, no wonder women aren't into you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          NTA but to me someone who goes to bars, clubs, sport events and concerts sounds boring as frick.
          Typical copy-paste normie NPC.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah someone who posts about never getting laid on NSFFW all day is infinitely more interesting right?
            It wasn't even about if you do those things or not...I don't drink so I don't do bars either. It was just about your mopey attitude and way of speaking in that post. That and how you haven't offered up any ideas of what you find fun and interesting instead that are supposedly so much better.

            Meanwhile most women's entire personality is doomscrolling social media apps for 9 hours a day and they never have to worry about being too "boring" for a man. Curious.

            Putting aside that even if they don't "have to worry" about that it would still be the fault of men for allowing them to get away with it and not having higher standards...what does that have to do with you?
            Are YOU a woman anon?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > it would still be the fault of men for allowing them to get away with it and not having higher standards
            I don't see your point. I'm just criticizing the current state of society, and I don't really care whose fault it is that modern women are mindless drones. I'm simply complaining that they are, and that men are criticized for something women are 100x worse about.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry honey, but the state of men AND women is all your fault. This is why you and all men must be punished.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >men are criticized for something women are 100x worse about.
            According to you, but that doesn't make it reality.
            Women don't "doomscroll" but for the sake of argument, let's say they did. Doomscrolling on social media vs doomscrolling on here for 9 hours a day instead...is there really any difference? Are you seriously going to prevent yourself as better here anon?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >doomscrolling on here for 9 hours a day instead...is there really any difference?
            Yes. One being that I don't do that. Another being that actively posting and discussing things is still a million times more interesting than mindlessly consuming TikTok content that was likely created by AI.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's rich when a good percentage of the posts on this board are literal AI doombots.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you agree women lead far less interesting lifestyles than men and are never criticized for it, nor does it impact their dating success at all, that was all I wanted to argue.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't necessarily agree, but even if that were true it literally DOES NOT MATTER.
            You're not a woman anon, so you don't play by the same rules as them and furthermore you shouldn't want to. Have some basic pride.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Meanwhile most women's entire personality is doomscrolling social media apps for 9 hours a day and they never have to worry about being too "boring" for a man. Curious.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Relationships = simping

            The only reason why a woman will tolerate your ass instead of simply sharing the local alpha male is if you're giving her some other form of value. Only thing she needs is a functional pussy. Welcome to mammal sexual dynamics.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Getting a gf is easy you are just lazy
    this
    It's about time men grew some brains and actually revolted against the gynocracy & get a gf by force rather than being depressed betabuxxers or canon fodder for the elite

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >simps get owned
      Many such cases. This shit is common knowledge by now and has been observed with every single deployed US soldier who was dumb enough to be married at the time. I'm rooting for women to absolutely gigacuck all simps out of the genepool. Go raise a misogynistic alpha's kids, betabuxx simps.

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do you approach girls daily?
    i like the implication here. just don't think about whether or no she is a good match for you, is good looking or is pleasant character-wise. just ask out everything that has a pair of breasts attached to it. eventually someone will say yes. do a daily grind. go out waste your time talking to rando's all day.
    >Do you attend local events where young people go?
    yes and there aren't as many women as you think there are
    >Tried dating apps?
    lmao
    >Have you gone to Gyms
    you're a fricking moron if you think that's a suitable place to pick up girls, especially with that complete "that-creep-looked-at-me" meltdown the other year. girls are on alarm mode over there with men in every corner
    >parks
    what?
    >libraries
    emptiest place in history, only held alive by the state's funding to not "let knowledge/culture die"
    >concerts
    if you're gunning for a hoe maybe
    >conventions
    most people attend these places with their entire friend circles and i'm no different in that regard. good luck finding a single woman over there strolling around on her own.
    >FRICKING ANYWHERE???
    square town
    bus stops
    shopping malls
    cinema
    not really successful with any of it

    i'm not trying to say it's impossible but it's not easy either. you sure will have a bunch doomposting gays around here who didn't even shoot their shot and get sad over literally nothing. OR didn't even bother to look/behave appealing the begin with. but most people are also just broken and tired of the countless hoops we have to jump over just to get rejected somewhere down the line. or being recorded at our pick-up attempt, only for that footage to land online and be labeled as a "creep". or not doing every single step on a date correctly and get ghosted now without any chances of remedy whatsoever. or getting wiener-blocked by her fat friend. or turning this into a fricking "numbers game" where daily pick-up routines are fricking needed to get anywhere. i'm tired man i really am.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      incel
      If you don't dedicate your life to the service of women while the coast on your money and attention, then you are literally a nazi.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Friendly reminder:
      If anyone is telling you to go to a gym to try hitting on girls, they're an incel or have zero actual dating experience because they stumbled into a relationship by no effort on their part. Gyms are quite possibly one of the worst places to try shooting your shot

      Good post. This is all true. "go out and meet girls" only works as "advice" because it increases your odds from literally 0% to 0.01%. You're still playing the lottery when it comes to the right time in the right place with the right girl AND she likes you enough

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Getting any GF is easy. Getting a pretty one is hard.

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been rejected by over 400 women so far. Bars, parks, parties, on the street, you name it. Losing the motivation to continue.

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    go somewhere women work in large numbers and make slight eye contact to see if a pretty one thinks you're attractive, if so you will probably naturally figure out how to get her number.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Does the eye contact thing really work? I've never had eye contact where they didn't immediately start looking away.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're doing something wrong then, it will totally frick with your body too. Even if they look away, you should have met eyes for a brief time at least. If you judge it to be enough interest, casually try again during conversation. Do not stare them down like it's a fricking staring contest, just be playful about it. And you do have to look right into their pupil for it to have any effect... At least, I think so.

        Then again I saw something on YT about you can just look at their ear and they can't tell the difference. Should totally mess with their body, but leave you unphased. I haven't tried this.

        As odd as it seems, recognizing/cultivating/nurturing this physical attraction is not the entire game. Believe me, I know. It fricking kills me too. Still.

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They self-isolate out of fear and anxiety. The only other conceivable way to stay single for an extended amount of time (if you don't live in a monastery) would be truly bottom 1% looks and / or personality, and while NSFFW certainly attracts the bottom of the barrel, I can't imagine that applies to all the people whining on here.

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