GF found out I was a femboy

I used to be a femboy around 2020, I have since left that life, I now am straight, have a beautiful girlfriend and an amazing life. However, I used to be a femboy and posted some pictures on an old reddit account that I had, I forgot about the account and moved on, I don't know how but my girlfriend confronted me about it, I don't know how she found those photos or the account itself. She is destroyed, I tried talking to her and telling her that that was my old life, I am no longer that person but she doesn't buy it.

What can I do to win her back?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Did you ever do gay stuff? Hookups or a boyfriend? If not she's being a b***h. If so she should dump you. Why'd you stop?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No, never did gay stuff nor hookups, however, some photos were fully nude or with women's clothing on.

      I stopped that life when I felt disgusted at myself, posting myself nude on the internet just to grab someone's attention.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why did you stop it in private though
        >fully nude
        Lol. I mean whatever, lots of straight celebrities have posed naked, and I'm sure mostly gay men loved it.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what exactly is she upset over? being a "femboy" can be as simple as having a "goth" phase

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know, she is really sensitive, she had nightmares before of me secretly being gay and just using her for cover up.

      If she's creating problems out of nothing
      Out of pictures on stupid social media
      Tell her to get it together.
      If she doesn't, realize she's not worth it. That's some dumb drama out of nothing crap and any HUMAN worth the air they breathe should see that.

      I'm trying to talk it out with her, I hope she listens to me, those photos are OLD and she knows that I am not gay, she is scared that I am secretly having another life or something.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think she wants to frick a femboy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        don't try to be her emotional manager. this gal sounds like a toxic high maintenance disaster.
        >manage my made up fears that you're gay! boo-hoo

        I'm not going to be able to give you concrete advice here because this story already makes me so angry. In your shoes, I would have already told her that I was looking for a woman with some self-respect and confidence and that I value my time too much to deal with this kind of pointless shitstirring.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >she had nightmares before of me secretly being gay
        sounds like you're a gay in denial and have subtle tells that she's picked up on

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If she's creating problems out of nothing
    Out of pictures on stupid social media
    Tell her to get it together.
    If she doesn't, realize she's not worth it. That's some dumb drama out of nothing crap and any HUMAN worth the air they breathe should see that.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Once a femboy always a femboy you ain’t getting her back so get the razor out and go put that cute little outfit back on

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your gf fricking sucks. If my bf had a femboy phase or whatever I wouldnt give a shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why would you ever date a homosexual? A man is ruined forever once he sucks dick or fricks a guy or whatever

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        According to what. What logic does that make I'm a bi girl? Why would I shit on any guy for like maybe taking dick once? Thats hypocritical and fricking dumb.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          According to any non-midwit philosophy and more importantly God. If a man has taken dick or fricked another guy it's a major red flag, because it shows that he prioritizes transient pleasure over his dignity and virtue.
          >I'm a bi girl
          If you don't have sex with women then it makes no difference, if you do then I suppose you deserve each other.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Jesus christ you are such a fricking homosexual.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Lmao how tf would you know if a guy sucked a dick one time

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Finding out your boyfriend tried to cosplay your gender in a vulnerable state to be a sexual object is the worst ick and you cannot recover back to straight from that reveal.
    It's also funny how men are on the finding out end of their posts on the internet.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I know the dangers of the internet, however, I used a different user from what I normally use, either it got reccomended to her because of the "People you may know" thing or she is a tech goddess and knew about the user beforhand (Keep in mind I haven't used that account in 4 years nor do I have reddit on my phone

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        There are "catch-a-cheater" websites that tell you usernames from emails and numbers used.
        You are not free to do however you want anymore.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >in a vulnerable state
      ?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sorry to hear than anon. i know ive regretted fapping to weird stuff in the past. im trying to put that life behind me. im like a month "sober"

    i know changing yourself took effort. something pieces of shit will never understand.

    i dont think your relationship can be saved. women dont believe in a changed man.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Some people here are trying to freak you out deliberately because they are bastards. In reality, just have faith that everything will turn out fine, and keep on going on, soldier. Maybe ask you gf why she's so concerned and if there's anything you can do to address her concerns.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    but were you a cute frickable femboy? We need to verify this. Because if you weren't then yikes.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a shit test.
    If you walk out of the argument with a smug witty sigma chad smile, then she'll be overwhelmed by your maturity and say that "actually I think it was hot".

    If you cave in to her scolding, she'll never respect you and she'll just dump you.

    Just stay your ground and CALMLY YET FIRMLY insist that you know better what to do, that's the only right way to deal with girls, and after, after she calms down you can compromise a bit if there is some objective rationale necessity.

    Like I'm 100% sure your girlfriend wasn't a virgin either when you met so she has no moral ground to preach from.

    If she WAS a legit 100% virgin though, then, yeah, you can drop the pretense and open up sincerely, and the rest will sort itself out one way or another. But only if she was a virgin before she met you and if she lost her virginity to you! That is the only case where you are legitimately obliged to any actual sort of unironic explanation on your worldview and behaviour. Otherwise you're just both two adults with your own lifestyles.

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