GF insists on paying for sex

I started dating this girl like 2 months ago, we met on an app, went on a few dates...
She's older (32, I'm 24) but man she's gorgeous.

From the first time we've banged it's been weird though. She insists on PAYING me for it..
Like, after she'll reach into her purse and give me like a hundred or two.
I've told her like... We're dating... You don't need to pay me, but she just ignores me or pushes it on me.
If I leave she'll send it through her banking app or Paypal.

Last time it turned into an argument. Me telling her that I don't want her money and to stop paying me, and her being just unreasonable and yelling at me.

I don't fricking get it
Is it a fetish?? Why is she doing this?

Man-made Horrors Shirt $21.68

CRIME Shirt $21.68

Man-made Horrors Shirt $21.68

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are not her boyfriend, you are her frickboy. She insists on paying you because it proves that you're not her boyfriend to her massive ego. She's 32 and youre 24, so she thinks you're a kid and not man enough to be "her man", instead just using you for sex and to make her feel young and pretty.

    My take.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She’s fin domming you or this is the only way she can believe you’re getting something out of fricking her. Just set the money aside or spend it all on her.

      She thinks you’re a broke boy

      Don’t try to understand the severely mentally ill, they’re just irrational and crazy

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think it might be an issue of a quite autistic rationale around "value of money at the time".
      Remember when you were small and you thought that 5$ was a lot? Now your perception changed and you might think 500$ is a lot, because right now you get a substantial boost in life quality by having 500$ more.

      I think she wants to do you a favor by helping you out because she genuinely has a good time, but feels she can't repay the favor in company because you're just in different phases of your life. I mean do you see yourself going to parties with her? Alternatively it might also be

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She’s fin domming you or this is the only way she can believe you’re getting something out of fricking her. Just set the money aside or spend it all on her.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She thinks you’re a broke boy

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Use the money to take her out to nice places

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What app?

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly if there is no way around it use it on her. Use it for nice dinners between you and her or presents for her. But it makes no sense lol.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just bag the money moron, it's free. Most b***hes would be draining your bank account instead of increasing it.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >From the first time we've banged it's been weird though. She insists on PAYING me for it..
    She's mentally ill and probably afraid of commitment and pain in love, so she's pretending that your relationship is transaction in order to avoid feeling vulnerable and dependent on you.
    Boom. Another armchair psychologist W.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's an escort silly

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Escorts don't usually pay me to frick them though

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You need to frick her better and gain some success/status. This will guilt her into treating the relationship like a joke and put you back in control.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >She's older (32, I'm 24) but man she's gorgeous.
    How did you score her?
    I want an older gf so badly.
    Please tell me how you did it (general or specific, I want any advice you got).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      When I was OPs age I had older women too. Females in their 30s... Sometimes 50s.
      Worked in a grocery store and exemplified customer service. Was charming and funny. They became frequent customers because of me.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I do this indirectly with my boyfriend (also younger). I pay some of his bills and for his food 95% of the time.
    It allows me to have the upper hand sexually. He can’t deny what I want given all that I do for him, within reason of course. I respect his clear boundaries but sex does lean towards my favour,

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what on earth do you want to do with him sexually that you feel the need to give him money to make up for it?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well I do partially get off on spoiling him.
        But I'm into femdom and role-reversal. We both enjoy me objectifying him and his body is beautiful. I think the fact that I pay for things encourages him to make himself more enticing for me, it's cute.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't see the problem.

    Enjoy being a "call boy" while it lasts.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t be a frickin idiot. You’re fricking a gorgeous woman and getting paid for it. You’re living the dream. Keep it going for as long as you can.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She might have a findom (not Femdom, financial dom/financial sub) fetish unironically

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fascinating. Usually op is a gay but this time he's a prostitute

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you win dumbest advice thread ever

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A man's dillema is another man's dream

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Letting your ego stop you from having a sugar-momma
    This is even more advanced than "first world problems"

    Take the money and set it aside or invest it, you can always give it back later.

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *