Gf is on tinder

> recently had a friend at work ask what my girlfriend’s name was again, hair color and age. I gave him the information and he told me “hey man I don’t wanna worry you but I think I saw her profile on tinder last night”
> I asked if he took a screenshot but he said he wasn’t for sure it was her because he didn’t remember her just that she looked familiar.
I got home from work downloaded tinder but I know they need my phone number but I know that a you can block any contacts or people you know from appearing. So therefore,

TLDR: is there a way to sign up for Tinder without needing a personal phone number?

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  1. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    stop being a fricking pussy and demand to see her phone wtf is wrong w u

    soft approach, dont even tell her what its about, just be like hey can i check something on ur phone?
    go to the app store n look up tinder.
    she can be staring at u scrolling her phone the whole time, dont make it look sus n try to take it away from her or hide what ur doing. just casually scroll through it
    "hey where do u keep ur app store? i cant find it"

    obviously if ur scrolling through the phone and just flat out see the tinder app u can stop there.

    if u get pushback just be like
    my friend told me he saw u on tinder, i want to see if its true. and no matter what u say id still like to see for myself

    keep in mind if she's using tinder she might just be deleting the app every time shes done w it but on the apple store even if u delete apps, itll show an icloud icon showing youve used the app before. ofc this doesnt necessarily prove anything

    also theres a chance that it's just an old account she never deactivated but i doubt that.

    ofc ur friend could jus be wrong too, he doesnt sound very confident at all

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >> A coworker made me feel insecure about my relationship
      >> No evidence needed for me to doubt my gf
      >> Haven't even asked her about it.

      No trust, no relationship. Trust goes both ways my friend, if you're unwilling to give her the benefit of the doubt until your coworker coughs up some evidence that she has an active profile then why are you with her even if she isn't actually on tinder?

      Tell your coworker to show you the profile next time he sees it. If he can't or won't then there's nothing to say. Either way you really have to think about what your reaction to this means for your relationship. Maybe you're too insecure to be in one right now

      I did trust her but the past couple months she’s been hanging out with her best friend and her boyfriend’s roommates so when they go out it’s 2 girls with 4 guys and they’ve been clubbing. I trust her and was never insecure until recently where she hasn’t come by or gone out in almost a week with no reason at all. That’s why when my co worker mentioned and confirmed the name, age, and description of the profile I finally had a reason to be paranoid.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >2:1 M/F ratio going to clubs often
        ye she deff sucking dick on the low.
        and even if she's not, and shes 1000% faithful thats some degenerate ass behavior.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          No it isn't you incel moron. That you think it is, is part of why you will never have sex.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            i used to go clubbing p often, and slept w a lot of girls who had boyfriends, girls i knew (friends or acquaintances) too, girls you would have no reason to believe they'd cheat on their s.o.
            girls just fricking cheat for no reason all the time, cuz they're creatures. Not WORSE than men but just as bad for sure

            n if u dont understand why 2:1 m/f frequenting the club is degen you obviously havent gotten a lot of luck at the clubs muhboy
            seeth more

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            unless they're just doing drugs together, which would explain why they're frequenting the club.

            would also explain the gender ratio & tight knit group of friends (druggie group).
            but even in this scenario, my point stands it's degen behavior, and also shit get's weird within the drug friend group. Everyone starts dating n fricking eachother and cheating, n eventually implodes

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            unless they're just doing drugs together, which would explain why they're frequenting the club.

            would also explain the gender ratio & tight knit group of friends (druggie group).
            but even in this scenario, my point stands it's degen behavior, and also shit get's weird within the drug friend group. Everyone starts dating n fricking eachother and cheating, n eventually implodes

            I should mention that part of my agreeing to her being able to go clubbing with her friends is that she stays away from smoking & drugs, especially if she did cocaine (we’d break up instantly, had friends OD, knew girls who would “pay” for the coke with sexual favors) the no alcohol was her own decision. The rules were set so I was comfortable with it.

            I’ll also add on to reinforce what you guys are saying but frick yea girls get caught up in that party atmosphere and go wild. I never told her this but there was 4 instances when I’d go out clubbing as a single man, and found out the girl had a boyfriend
            > girl from LA thought my friend and I were coke dealers, ended up chatting with her till the club closed, ask me to walk her to her hotel as we made out tells me she got into a fight with her long distance bf, made him pay for the hotel so she had a place to “be at peace”
            > meet girl at a club ask about her tattoos, invite her for a drink, things go good, dance for a bit then and make out and IMMEDIATELY get torn apart by her friends yelling “LEXI YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!” (Weird that they didn’t step in during the dancing)
            > mixed group of my friends encounter another mixed group of friends, we all have fun go to 2 different bars/clubs then as the herd thinned out invite the remaining to my apartment, eventually unwinds to just me and a blonde chick, asks to lie down in bed with me, goes topless, blows me, and I get ready for sex by trying to unbutton her jeans, she stops me and goes “wait I have a boyfriend.”
            Not to mention the countless times I’ve hit on a girl, flirt back and forth, ask for her Instagram and see pictures of her boyfriend a week later
            I feel like I should mention these stories too but I already felt I covered my bases by setting the boundaries with her

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            i must say op, the more context u give the more SEETHING i am about ur predicament. u sound like a pretty put together guy.

            i hope these claims are unsubstantiated and ur gf isnt a fricking prostitute but to be frank, occams razor and all, she's prob a prostitute

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I’ll just be really fricking defeated if I find out she is, I finally found a young girl who was family focused (she’s a 1st grade teacher too) I set aside any sort of insecurity and valued emotional communication but if we have to break up I’ll be devastated until mid spring and I’ll have to go back to the dating cesspool again. She isn’t the only girl I’ve been in love with so I know there is definitely another chance for me out there. The main point of this thread was to try to affirm any and all evidence possible before confrontation. I feel like I have a plan setup for the coming days, thanks guys.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            dont jus leave us in the dark like that

            whats ur plan

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            > Gunna cough up $10 or hang out with a buddy who’ll let me use his phone for tinder where the “Block Contacts” won’t reach
            > Whatever outcome happens I’m still gunna surprise her and pick her up after work for a romantic dinner date tomorrow. >If I have evidence I’ll confront her right there so she can’t make a scene and we can keep the conversation calm.
            > if no evidence I’ll still see if I can coax her into telling me if she’s slipped up and navigate through that
            > or if she was actually all innocent then it’s a win because we can rekindle out love for a bit with a nice dinner.

            If she did cheat or do anything fricked up I’m just gunna walk out without saying a word though. I’ve just been afraid of how much of my heart and future I was prepared to reserve for this woman and the outcome of it all being torn down

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            just be advised, ur gonna have to pay for premium for the unlimited swipes. even if she's 100% guilty and has an active account it wont show up easily.

            also, depending on whoever profile your using may obscure search results.
            idk exactly how tinder works but i know it suppresses unsuccessful profiles.

            if using a new profile then idk how that might effect the search results.

            depending on how big your city is, i think its pretty safe bet that youd be swiping all day & never see her profile even if she has one

            back when i used tinder i remember only ever seeing 1 person i knew EVER.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I was planning to hit NO on all girls untill it showed up, I think it only limits if you press yes, unfortunately we’re in downtown Cincinnati so there might be a lot but his place is whitin 2 miles of the school so I can filter it to 2 Mile radius, at age 25

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            Add your gfs phone number in your friends phone in the contacts, if tinder prompts, let it share contacts, it will prioritize your contact numbers for matches as you swipe

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I FRICKING hate how clubs operate, I got into a shoving match with a bathroom attendant for pumping the soap myself & wiping my hands on my jacket & not taking his paper towel. Imagine being being in your 30s-40s groveling for tips after a drink dude pisses all over the floor and urinal as you wash his hands for him for $2. I’m gunna go back & lather my hands in Nutella see what he does.
            Worst of all is that they pay Instagram girls in drink tickets to show up & fill the place so guys come up & but them drinks. Once went to a club where a buddy was doing one of his first dj sets, I see a cute blonde standing aimlessly by the bar, I go up to her
            > hey what’s your name, i like your outfit is it comfortable to dance in?
            > “yea haha i need to drink a bit before i go dance, usually my friends & I take a shot before we go”
            > “oh where are they at?”
            > “oh they’re all at tables or with some guys who got them drinks”
            > I ask her if she wants a drink & she says yes, ask her “vodka, rum, tequila, whi-“
            > “Tequila.” She says, “but 1942.”
            > in my mind I’m like (b***h that’s at least $100 a shot) and tell her “nah I’ll see what they have for the well probably casamigos or some shit.”
            > she goes “if you’re so broke how did the frick did you afford the cover charge?”
            > I go, “me broke?! There was no cover charge, I’m not the one who got hired to wait around for free drinks.” With a laugh & she stormed off
            > 5 mins later security comes up saying that I was bothering her & what’s my problem & kicks me out. As I get kicked out one of the bouncers go “why come here looking for girls you cant even afford
            To buy em a drink.”
            I just said “no, it’s because she wanted 1942.” He just hit me with a “psssh” & walked back in.
            I had a good line on the drive home though,
            “$100 for a shot?! I can save that money for 2 years so that when she’s too ugly to work here I can find her at the strip club she’ll end up, pay her for 4 dances & still have $20 left over for strip club wings

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            facts bro. good story, actually enjoyed reading ur greentext

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            except getting into a physical altercation w the shitty bathroom attendant. mf is just doing his job kek

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >> I don't communicate with my gf
        >> I haven't raised my concerns with her
        >> I don't actually trust her despite claiming otherwise
        >> I am insecure
        >> My coworker said something ambiguous and without evidence but I'm going to use that as justification for what I was already feeling.

        Go to her house, knock on her door, say

        >> Hey babe, I haven't seen you in awhile so I thought I'd stop by with dinner so we can hang out

        Then have a conversation with her about how you've been feeling. This isn't rocket science and if you can't figure this simple stuff out on your own how will you go when you have an actual real problem?

        No idea why you aren't going out clubbing with your gf, but if being around other men makes you think you have something valid to worry about then guess what you don't trust her. If you don't trust her, you don't have a relationship.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I literally haven’t gotten concerned until yesterday. I let her have fun with her friends, yes to many it looks bad but I have always trusted her in going out and what she does, I wasn’t insecure until other people mentioned I should check in. Also she’s 25 and I’m 28, I hate clubs, i would go when I was her age too and I went with her a few times but it’s just a cesspool of shitty music, drugs and immature entitled people. I told her these opinions and she reassured me that she keeps her distance, doesn’t drink, just dances and that her group protects her. Her friends are normal early 20s people, just not my crowd.
          I personally enjoy wienertail bars/lounges with live music or a quieter DJ, movie theater events, bookstores/places to read in public and cooking at home or niche mid level dining. She appreciates that I want her to accompany me with these things but she just gets bored or just scrolls through Instagram.
          I brought up to her that we may be having incompatibility issues, worked them out compromised and spoke about our plans for the future (she wants kids in the next 1-2 years, i own a building, am starting a company and work part time) I was just thrown off by what my coworker said yesterday and I’m on here looking for advice asap and in different perspectives before I confront her.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            you literally sound like her safety net

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I’ve felt that before but I reassured myself by reminding myself of my accomplishments, what I have to offer, my friend group etc, and thought “I’m confident, I provide excitement and romance” but I may have to reassess if this gets worse. I’m not too hung up on it, if we break up it just means I have to really look that my next girlfriend is set in a calmer yet more intimate lifestyle that I’m trying to lead.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ask your moronic friend to at least get a screenshot before making a thread.

            You are a moron for being ok with your gf clubbing without you in a clique of 4 other guys.

            It definitely shows she’s cheating on you and/or playing the field and exploring her options.

            You should probably break up with her.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is a dateless kissless virgin incel trying to give advice on relationships.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      shitty replies

      actual answer:
      tinderophone (google it)
      but SNOOP HER PHONE
      colleague saying she's still on tinder is enough ammo to do this legitimately, mental search warrant granted

      she could easily say she forgot to switch it off, but be fricking 10 guys on the side, which you'll never know if you do anything else

      is decent advice

      another option using tinderophone or whatever is to make a really hot catfish and see if she matches

      as someone who dumped his prostitute gf after snooping her phone, and would probably still be getting cheated on if he hadn't, SNOOPING IS LEGIT IF YOU HAVE REASON and a colleague suggesting she's on there is reason

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        You probably got cheated on because you were an butthole. It's a shame that you're still not with her because you really come off as a homosexual. I hope your next girlfriend gives you herpes.

        And, by the way, you're not a victim of anything.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >stop being a fricking pussy and demand to see her phone wtf is wrong w u
      Verification not required.

  2. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >> A coworker made me feel insecure about my relationship
    >> No evidence needed for me to doubt my gf
    >> Haven't even asked her about it.

    No trust, no relationship. Trust goes both ways my friend, if you're unwilling to give her the benefit of the doubt until your coworker coughs up some evidence that she has an active profile then why are you with her even if she isn't actually on tinder?

    Tell your coworker to show you the profile next time he sees it. If he can't or won't then there's nothing to say. Either way you really have to think about what your reaction to this means for your relationship. Maybe you're too insecure to be in one right now

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      not op, i was the gay who responded 1st,

      right obviously trust=relationship
      & the 'correct' choice in this specific situation is to just ask, that's what i would do with my wife because she's not a slimey fricking prostitute so i would deff assume
      >coworker was wrong
      >some sort of misuderstanding
      and even if it ended up being true, she prob would jus feel guilty n tell me cuz we trust eachother.

      but obviously op is not in a situation where he can afford that option, he's fricking asking how to make secret tinder accounts so he can swipe until he finds her. Op is moronic & in a moronic relationship obviously.

      how bout u give some real /adv/

      ADDENDUM

      stop being a fricking pussy and demand to see her phone wtf is wrong w u

      soft approach, dont even tell her what its about, just be like hey can i check something on ur phone?
      go to the app store n look up tinder.
      she can be staring at u scrolling her phone the whole time, dont make it look sus n try to take it away from her or hide what ur doing. just casually scroll through it
      "hey where do u keep ur app store? i cant find it"

      obviously if ur scrolling through the phone and just flat out see the tinder app u can stop there.

      if u get pushback just be like
      my friend told me he saw u on tinder, i want to see if its true. and no matter what u say id still like to see for myself

      keep in mind if she's using tinder she might just be deleting the app every time shes done w it but on the apple store even if u delete apps, itll show an icloud icon showing youve used the app before. ofc this doesnt necessarily prove anything

      also theres a chance that it's just an old account she never deactivated but i doubt that.

      ofc ur friend could jus be wrong too, he doesnt sound very confident at all

      :
      if you do look at the deleted app but it says it has been downloaded before,
      redownload the app. I believe it will automatically log in because it's linked to a phone number right? then you will be able to see if it's an active account or not

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Frick off you dumb c**t.

  3. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    just buy a burner sim/google phone number if your locale allows and create it that way
    alternatively ask anyone from your family to send you the confirmation code from the text
    do not tell her that you suspect something, do all of this asap, so you can confirm her active status to triangulate the timing, select & swipe age range +/-1 in case she didn't provide her actual date of birth

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      There’s a google app I found that charges $10 for a fake number but I literally just need it for an SMS verification where they text you a code, I’ll see if I have a friend or cousin who’ll do me the favor

  4. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I found out my gf had Badoo for a year, and has met and fricked a few dudes behind my back.
    We were together for 4 years and I moved countries for her.

    Your mind is now in a sunk cost fallacy, ditch the prostitute and go be sad for a month. Next time establish better boundaries before rushing into a relationshit.
    It gets better.

  5. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are shit, m8. I was with my gf (polish traditional, wife-tier better than anyone I've ever date) for over 7 years, we were livving together, our parents were friends, we'd be a ton in eacother's houses (parents' houses), we lived together over the years and on the 5th year of being together when I had a ring and was going to propose (this was in October) she revealed that she cheated on me with some random guy that Summer during a work trip (she was in Tourism and her organization sent everyone overseas to one of those 4 day camps).
    So, yeah. When even the best, wifey women cheat, you can be sure that some american trash/mid woman is cheating on you, OP:

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      also, just break up. It's better for your mental health and everything else. Love is meaningless and staying together after being on is pure masochism. i believed in Love. it doesn't exist or is simply impotent.

  6. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    goddamn just ask to use his tinder account for a quick search. Frick the knots you guys put yourself into just so you don't have to find something. You're chasing a phone number and wasting time with that. Frick the screenshot, frick burner phones and fake shit and ask to log into his account and do a quick search. 10 minutes and you are done.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you swipe left on a girl, you wont see her again (at least for a while)
      he needs to make a new account and swipe left untill he sees her

  7. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tinder stores profiles, especially pretty girl profiles and shows them off as a way to entice desperate guys. If your GF had a legit reason to use Tinder in the last few years, it's completely possible that Tinder is using that inactive account, especially since deleting your account is intentionally made difficult and obtuse.

    Though the fact this worries you might mean that you think your GF actually could be cheating, if only emotionally. I'd just bring it up to her and ask her about it. Even if she lies, you shouldn't be shady or have unreasonable doubts. If you want honesty, you gotta inspire it by being honest yourself.

  8. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Gf is on tinder
    >not duolicious
    you should dump that b***h, she's got shit taste in dating apps

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