Gf of 2 years hasn't fricked me in over a year

My gf is wonderful, she buys me things all the time, she cooks and cleans for me, she goes 50/50 on the bills, she's locked in the relationship for life apparently. BUT she hasn't fricked me in forever. I try to initiate but shez always overestimulated or tired or just not in the mood. I try to treat her right but it's put me in a bad mood lately and I honestly don't wanna hang out with her if she doesn't wanna put out. She says she wanted to frick valentines but I started an argument abt it and went to sleep on the couch blackout drunk. I check her phone (she checks mine too dw healthy boundaries) I don't think she cheats and her coworkers because only work contacts she has is managers. I feel like she gaslights me because she says her love language is "buying things" but I have told her I need physical affection, then she says okay I will try better and then she never fricking does anything. I buy her shit all the fricking time so wtf why can't she respect my love language?
Tl;Dr gf won't respect my love language
We live together and she's black and I'm white btw if that matters any

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >We live together and she's black and I'm white btw if that matters any
    Dump her, you're just a trophy bf.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Rly? Like she shows me to her mom and fricks another? Ig that would make sense

      She cheated on you with Tyrone for sure.

      I don't believe so cuck gay

      >> but shez always overestimulated

      Autists are not people, and you should not have sex with them even if you too are an autist. The risk of pregnancy, even at 1% with an abundance contraception, is far too high a risk of pregnancy. Your girlfriend probably knows this, and is doing the right thing by not having sex with you.

      The only way to overcome it is for bioth of you to permanently and irrevocably become surgically sterilised.

      Imma sterilize my wiener up in ur homosexual ass cracker.

      That's strange. I can't say for sure why this is happening but if you have needs you have needs. What you decide to do with this matter of yours is up to you. Personally I've never had this situation but that's one of the central appeals of a relationship for a lot of people. This doesn't sound too healthy for you

      Thanks for being sympathetic bro

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Wtf are you babbling about now, it didn't even make sense. Sterilise yourself, it should be mandatory for autists on diagnosis anyway. But dw, have you see society lately, majority of normalgays seething over all the shit autists are trying to change? The cages for autists aren't far away. It just takes one more thing to break the camels back and the cages for autists will return.

        Anyway, stop having sex you are not a real person.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Troon

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can give baseless name calling all day but it won't change reality. Autists objectively are not people and never, ever will be. They need to go exstinct and putting them back in cages like we used to, in order to keep them away from society will be a first step back in that direction.

            Autists should never have sex, and thus don't need their genitals. So in a way, it's a good thing that autists are trooning out and cutting their genitals off.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She cheated on you with Tyrone for sure.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >> but shez always overestimulated

    Autists are not people, and you should not have sex with them even if you too are an autist. The risk of pregnancy, even at 1% with an abundance contraception, is far too high a risk of pregnancy. Your girlfriend probably knows this, and is doing the right thing by not having sex with you.

    The only way to overcome it is for bioth of you to permanently and irrevocably become surgically sterilised.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's strange. I can't say for sure why this is happening but if you have needs you have needs. What you decide to do with this matter of yours is up to you. Personally I've never had this situation but that's one of the central appeals of a relationship for a lot of people. This doesn't sound too healthy for you

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She's not attracted to you and is getting sex elsewhere

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Im in the same situation but I can't frick my gf.

    I have PTSD and I am so stressed out all the time I just can't. Everyone assumes the worst about this stuff, but it could be a similar stress related situation for her.

    A year is a long time. I can still manage 2 times a month because I don't want to be alone if she leaves over it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I can't frick my gf.
      >I have PTSD and I am so stressed out all the time I just can't.
      homie you gay.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe it looks that way but we fricked constantly for three years and now the last two, not as good. Getting older maybe.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, you caught the Big Gay. Try men next time.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Projecting. Why are you always thinking about homosexuals?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm gay and can tell homie

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I wish I was gay. Are you actually gay? Do you have friendships with men or does sexual tension ruin them?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What? You just said you were, or is this someone else. Why is this board infested with them.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not OP

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Neither am I. What the hell are you on about homosexual kek

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You just said you were gay
            >homosexual
            Well no because I'm straight

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not sure if bait or not, but kys for being a degenerate.
    Racemixers and baitposters are both the dregs of society.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >her love language is "buying things"
    Social media has destroyed an entire generation of women who must consuume.

    You will not get laid again, OP.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Unfortunately, something that "works except for this one thing" doesn't work, anon. It's a pretty glaring incompatibility, and everything else being good won't replace the part that isn't. You've talked with her about it, had arguments about it, and are now at the point of disengaging because of it. On her part, maybe she doesn't know what's up, or she just ignores the problem, or she's being untruthful about it; none of that is anything you can change for her. She has to acknowledge the problem, feel that it is a problem, and want to work on it herself, not just for you but for herself. Even with all you've said and done about it, she isn't putting that effort in, meaning this is what she's happy and satisfied with. It also means that, outside of some unforseen impetus, this is how things will remain. You can only decide for yourself, control yourself, and change yourself, so all you can do is decide if 99% being good but 1% not is good enough to live like this indefinitely. Maybe she doesn't realize how serious the problem is, and you could express that it's possibly a deal-breaker, but not as a threat or ultimatum because those don't work, just as a pragmatic "we need to talk about things" conversation. Maybe counseling could help, or she may tell you something she hasn't so far, but I wouldn't expect that. She's doing what she thinks is right and okay now, so go based upon that and decide if it's right and okay for you.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My gf is wonderful, she buys me things all the time, she cooks and cleans for me, she goes 50/50 on the bills
    tfw no bare minimum gf
    >she's black and autistic
    kek

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >she buys me things all the time, she cooks and cleans for me, she goes 50/50 on the bills
    worth bot having sex for this
    that aside, try to fix it by talking with her. if it is a deal breaker not having sex then dump her

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She is not interested in you romantically or sexually. Her love language is "buying things"? So she just has you to wine, dine, gift and travel for her? She is not interested in having sex with you nor being intimate. She is probably not being faithful to you.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >she's black and I'm white

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why is that a problem?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    You've never met a hot black girl? You're missing out. If they "act white" (which is more common than you think) there's basically no problem. Also you'd be surprised how many black girls exclusively date white guys. I think some of them get fed up of the behavior of their own men.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The power men hold over women is the power to leave. If she has to do nothing and still keep you around, she has the power.
    If this has being going on one year in the BOYFRIEND stage, you can bet you ass she knows it and is manipulating you.
    If you marry her, you're a moron.
    Dump her right fricking now, maybe use the possibility of going back to make her a temporary cumdump but the moment she starts negating sex, cut all ties and never talk to her again.

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