>GF spends time with her ex without telling me

>GF spends time with her ex without telling me
>I find out but forgive her on the condition that she does not do again
>She does again
>I block her for a while but she sends letter to my apartment saying she is sorry and wants to get back together.
>I accept and she promises never to do again
>Walking home
>See her and random guy walking together
>Say if she gives me 3,000 dollars I will forgive again
In this situation should I take the money or not?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are you dumb or just plain stupid? Also, don't misuse Rashomon for your pathetic posts, clearly there's no trust if she broke it so many times and went back on her word, so just call it quits and dump her. It will do you lots of good in the long run, shit ain't worth it as it is and there's no recovering this relationship.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You misunderstand. My intention is to take the 3,000 dollars *then* leave her.
      No gf and $0 < No gf and $3,000

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You really think she's going to give you such a large amount of money so you forgive her? You're an even bigger fool than I thought, but it's your life and you bare the consequences so do as thou wilt, anon-kun.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    First and foremost, OP is an idiot for thinking his GF has $3000.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do I break it to my girlfriend that I don't want to move in with her and especially not buy a house together, at least not yet?
    I think I must have given mixed messages when she first started talking about this, because she's started to send me house listings now. It feels like I'm in too deep to tell her I'm not ready at this point.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go over finances with her. If she isn't providing, financially, then she has no right to pressure you.

      If she'll go half with you, maybe it's worth considering.

      Mainly, however...

      >Is she long term material?
      >Good sex life?
      >Shared goals?
      >How long have you been together?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >too deep
      If she isn't a materialist then you just tell her, and she accommodates.
      If she is a materialist, you tell her, she blows up, and you dump her.

      Either way you tell her.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Update lads, she has transferred 1,200 and is waiting for pay day to send the rest. I actually feel pretty shit taking it.
    She also has given me her laptop and watch until she gives the rest. Is she playing 4D chess or did I win?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is your idea. Follow through.

      Technically, she's playing smart too because she'll claim that you stole her laptop if you dump her before you get full payment. If she doesn't pay in full, she wins. Enjoy this stupid game you started.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon she could make up some fricking narrative against you by transferring the money, send the money back

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She likes the attention and bf vibes you give her while she gets ravishly fricked by Chad. Your best bet here is to take the money and silently demote her to fwb while becoming Chad yourself and fricking other broads on the side.

      At the very least you'll have to accept the fact that she won't ever stop seeing other guys on the side. I know because I was in a similar situation with my ex gf. Perhaps they mean it in the moment when they say they won't do it again, but each time you take her back she loses respect for you and it becomes easier for her to sleep around again.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She's obviously gonna use this as ammo for something later. Probably going to say you stole it.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This girl is pure evil and you’re an idiot for not noticing the money is a threat.

    She bribes her way back in, you dump her, god knows what she’ll tell authorities.

    Just let it go before things get really bad you fool.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You know they say. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

    Absolutely take the money, and forgive her. That doesnt mean ever having to talk to her again.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bitches like that do this kind of stuff because there are people like you that allow them to. She's probably some mid 5/10

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Might as well takethe 3 grand then kick her out

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How much is the price for you to be a cuck, are you in to it or considering it? Because it seems like it, dude, don't take the money have some self-respect and move on

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I am fine with being cucked for 3k every few months, but maybe I am just more sigma than the rest of you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If she actually pays the $3k then she's probably innocent lol

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