Gf wants a threesome

>be me
>gf of 1.5 years says she wants to have a 'threesome'
>she thinks it would be really hot to watch me have sex with another girl
>very surprised by this
>i thought our sex life was fine
>tell her i don't really feel comfortable doing that
>asks why not
>say i like things how they are and don't want to make things more complicated
>says she feels like it would be really fun for the both of us and would make me really happy
>promise her it wouldnt and it would probably just make things weird between us
>says fine and drops it but starts pouting
>keeps bringing it up from time to time and im starting to get uncomfortable

I don't understand why she would want this. It seems like she's trying to frame this as though it would make me happy but i keep telling her it's not what i want and i have no idea where all this is coming from. No matter how many times I tell her that though she won't stop buying it up. What should I do?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You should have one they are really fun

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Because she’s sexually bored and needs a new high to ride. You’re a pussy for having a dick and not letting it get sucked by two girls at once, in fact, you should just dump her because at least then she could be my other girl.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >she's sexually bored
      Is that really it?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        think about it
        shes literally acting upset that she has to have sex with just you
        maybe shes a lesbian
        maybe shes looking for an excuse to cheat (either because you said yes or because you didnt say yes making you less of a man or whatever)
        maybe she has childhood sexual trauma and this is her cope

        there are many options but the bottom line is you alone are not enough to her and she explicitly told you so many times

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          But she keeps saying how she wants to watch. She doesn't seem focused on having sex with the girl at all

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well still she seems to want to do that more than actually have sex with you herself

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well why? What could she even hope to get out of it?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            like i said theres many possibilities
            maybe shes looking for a justification to cheat

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      kys coomer

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I kind of am looking at it from OPs perspective.

      it might make things weird because she could want to do all of the 'porn' roleplaying nonsense. ya know, the kind at the first like 2-5 minutes of a porno where they all just talk and act awkward and I can see why the guy wouldn't want to participate in that.

      plus if a girl wants to do it with another girl, there is always the chance she will use that as leverage so you can both do it with anoter guy and that's gay

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just let it happen

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because she’s sexually bored and needs a new high to ride. You’re a pussy for having a dick and not letting it get sucked by two girls at once, in fact, you should just dump her because at least then she could be my other girl.

      I'm just as much coomer as the next guy, but you should really listen to your heart more than virgins on NSFFW. Imagine if she asked the reverse, bringing in another guy for you to watch as he pounds your girl? It's the same thing she's suggesting. Some are not into that

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    With sex you should never feel pressured to do things you don't like or want to. Even though this situation is basicslly out of a porn film for us, it might not be your tags.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like your relationship is doomed. just call her a bawd and move on. dont let a let prevent you from finding your wife.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >option 1: she keeps pouting forever
    >option 2: you smash and it gets complicated
    Given that your relationship may be ruined either way, I'd take the threesome.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this is solid advice honestly.
      You've voiced that it was her idea, sometimes you can really give a girl what she wants and it works out.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this is solid advice honestly.
      You've voiced that it was her idea, sometimes you can really give a girl what she wants and it works out.

      If it's that important to her I'd rather just break up with her. I don't want to be with someone non exclusively.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You just have to be exclusive on one level consistently. I bet she also eats foods you didn't farm and cook, sits in chairs from wood you didn't harvest and work, consumes media you didn't make, reads books you didn't write.
        In fact you both do all those things non-excusively with near certainty.
        It sounds like the moat of your relationship isn't sex to begin with and you're stuck on a convention, e.g. still not matured of mind in that area. There is nothing wrong with you being like that, but there is nothing wrong with your gf acknowledging that your relationship doesn't center on sex as it is either.
        My point is don't chuck a good relationship because there's one thing you don't like IF it is a satisfying relationship in any area.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I think wanting to have other people involved in our sex life is different from her eating food I didn't make

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Some philosophers get jealous when their best friends find new friends to have intellectual conversation with. It's a matter of personal priorities.
            Besides, banning polygyny is about tradition, not about general morality.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What are you getting at? That I shouldn't care? Tradition or not monogamy is important to me. I'm not gonna start a family with someone who's not fully committed to me alone.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How commited are you really to getting your sexuality fully integrated? If you had already done that you would not have attracted a girl who's into the idea of sharing you with another girl. Your proposed "solution" appears to be to ignore reality, cope and practice pure repression because I see zero mention of you doing anything out of the ordinary to work this through, and not being a fully integrared, fully individuated person is sadly the norm in society.
            That cope would be cruel to yourself and to her both.
            Sounds like a case of hypocrisy.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Either she drops the idea or we break up. I'm not going to have sex with anyone else nor will I let her. Like I said this came out of nowhere, I never had any reason to think she was interested in this.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty much this. Your relationship if you’re not a kinkster or swinger is essentially over anyways, would you rather it end right away, or with a
      > you wanna hear about my FFM threesome?
      Story?

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Even if you’re fine, is she? Is she fulfilled?

    If she is getting bored she may cheat on you.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    well it took this long for her to finally show her true colors
    at least it wasn't longer
    break up now

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is a test from her to check if you are loyal. The moment you cave and say yes she will dump you. It's a shittest.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like a dodged bullet if she dumps you for that

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        true honestly
        he should do it and take it from there honestly

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Break up with her. She’s either a degen prostitute or a porn addict.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kek I love this belief. Your gf / wife will agree with you to make you happy, meanwhile they did anal and threesomes with her exs.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    pic makes me want cheetohs

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you do it and then you hear "now it's my turn to have another guy"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bump

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not if he tells her that shit won't fly. And to make shure she didn't have a guy in mind he's going through with it because she brought it up.
      If she flips out, you knew that was her play. If she doesn't, who says OP needs to go through with it? His dick, his choice.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Not if he tells her that shit won't fly
        she might still feel its fair for her to have sex with someone else and do it behind his back

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ding ding ding

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    People act like it's impossible to have harems and stuff but it's always the guys being gays and refusing threesomes. I basically never see threads about the opposite.

    I'm starting to think whenever I bring up my dream of a polyamorous life and it gets shit on in discord and stuff it's just guys projecting their monogamous preference over anything else.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lol kys

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hurr durr. How about you do it?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Op here. I decided to talk to her about it. I told her I wanted her to stop bringing it up because I was seriously starting to get uncomfortable. She totally lashed out at this. She started calling me a gay, saying what kind of guy doesn't want to frick two girls at the same time, etc. I told her she needed to leave and she stormed out after kicking a hole in my drum set. This was like 20 minutes ago and she already texted me saying she was sorry for doing it but I basically told her to frick off and I don't want to see her again.

    I have no idea why she reacted that way. I only know it can't mean anything good. I don't know what to do now.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Anon who posted

      You found a cuck queen, a rare species. A lot of people would kill to be in your position but you sound like a good and honorable man who wants to be faithful to one woman only. I think that’s commendable and the fact that you have the foresight to realize this would frick up your relationship long term is incredibly wise. I honestly think you and your girlfriend are probably sexually incompatible (especially if she keeps bringing it up) and you may be better off seeking another partner.

      here, didn’t read the thread before. Glad you got out of there.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You found a cuck queen, a rare species. A lot of people would kill to be in your position but you sound like a good and honorable man who wants to be faithful to one woman only. I think that’s commendable and the fact that you have the foresight to realize this would frick up your relationship long term is incredibly wise. I honestly think you and your girlfriend are probably sexually incompatible (especially if she keeps bringing it up) and you may be better off seeking another partner.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She's trying to get an excuse to break up on you or cheat on you. The moment you accept the offer she's going to 360 and suddenly you've "cheated" on her.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is really simple. One of three things is happening here;

    1. She has a specific girl she's attracted to and wants to sleep with, so she's framing it like this so you don't take it as cheating.

    2. She has a guy in mind that she wants to frick, and is setting this up so she has something over you so she can justify sleeping with him

    3. She's already fricked someone else, feels guilty af and is trying to use this to "make it up to you" without telling you what she did.

    In all of these cases she's already having some kind of an affair, so you should drop the dumb b***h like a bag of hot rocks and never look back.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Too much moon sugar you filthy degenerate go shit in your litterbox

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