>girl I've been seeing for ~2 months said "I love you" for the first time

>girl I've been seeing for ~2 months said "I love you" for the first time
>I instantly respond with "you don't even know me".
Energy got awkward. It hasn't been addressed. Where do I go from here? I didn't mean it as a joke, it was a visceral low self esteem reaction. But I wish I never said it.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Really fricked that one up huh

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sigma mastery

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're a fricking idiot

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    That’s true doe, she doesn’t. Do you love her?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      He doesn't even know her.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He should say
        >Well let me get to know you
        And frick her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lmfao good one

        https://i.imgur.com/GPZilmv.jpg

        >girl I've been seeing for ~2 months said "I love you" for the first time
        >I instantly respond with "you don't even know me".
        Energy got awkward. It hasn't been addressed. Where do I go from here? I didn't mean it as a joke, it was a visceral low self esteem reaction. But I wish I never said it.

        its okay she will probably understand. i wouldnt be surprised if romanticised even. im a cis girl and i had friends who were like this, its kind of "cool and mysterious" sometimes. But at some point i realised its just straight up weak man and i cant stand when someone does that, but you know, she will probably understand, since you knew each other for months she will probably just feel bad. Apologize and try to be better. Good luck

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous
  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Energy got awkward
    Yeah no shit. All you can do is apologize and explain yourself, that it was a knee jerk low self esteem reaction and nothing against her personally. But that might not be enough still

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do not apologize. That's how you frick this up.

      IF she brings it up:
      •Ask her what she thinks love is.
      •Ask her what she thinks she loves about you
      •Ask her what she thinks she knows about you
      •Ask if she wants to actually get to know you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah you don't have to apologise

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        There's nothing wrong with apologising. OP didn't say whether or not he loved her back or even whether or not she does know enough about him to love him. He simply said it was a low self esteem reaction. Obviously if he does love her back and she does actually know enough to love him then he should probably explain, say sorry for being moronic and say I love you. She's not necessarily in the wrong for saying I love you, we need a bit more info to know whether what OP said was technically accurate or just a frick up.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >There's nothing wrong with apologising.
          You are a woman and your opinion will make everything worse.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't mean apologising in the sense of
            >Oh I'm so sorry I just have no confidence and le anxiety boo hoo nobody could ever love me 🙁
            I mean saying something more like
            >Sorry I just said it without thinking, I was being a bit of a moron.
            Then from there he can clear the situation up. Whether he loves or not or he does think she doesn't know him enough, it doesn't matter really. The apology just generally sets a better tone because a girl who has just been snubbed after saying I love you isn't going to take well to OP acting confrontational and asking her why. You don't have to be a woman to realise that women are emotionally unstable and asking them emotionally charged questions after an awkward moment like that will just upset her.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >double down on autism

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >he doesn't know that apologizing to women is a death sentence
          the second you do that they'll start plotting on how to use it against you. never to apologize to women, not even if you're outrageously wrong

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >it was a visceral low self esteem reaction
    If she brings this up again and you actually trust her, tell her that.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would give anything for a girl to say she loved me (unless she was boring or I didn't like her back)

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How old are you guys?

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >you don't even know my pronouns
    also this reeks of larping incel

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