Got a big crush on this one chick. Smart, funny, beautiful, the jazz.

Got a big crush on this one chick. Smart, funny, beautiful, the jazz. The problem is I have zero sexual attraction towards her. On one hand she's wife material in many ways and I think we could really have something special, but on the other hand I don't really want to start something and get myself in a situation where I can't frick and have to explain that "sorry ur just not my type lol"

What do? Move on? Go for it then wait for that inevitable awkward conversation? Pop boner pills and hope I get into it eventually (or pop them forever)? Have a platonic romantic relationship? Something else?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >zero sexual attraction
    How is that a crush?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You never had one as a teenager where you just want to look each other in the eyes, hold hands and kiss, but without any lowly sexual thoughts? To me there's quite a big difference between sexual lust and a romantic crush, especially in this case.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No. Wtf

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You never had one as a teenager where you just want to look each other in the eyes, hold hands and kiss, but without any lowly sexual thoughts?
        I never had any sexual or romantic interest towards other people until age 20, when I did it ironically to mock all the people who'd rather care about their wife than play the damn videogame.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You never had one as a teenager where you just want to look each other in the eyes, hold hands and kiss, but without any lowly sexual thoughts?
        I never had any sexual or romantic interest towards other people until age 20, when I did it ironically to mock all the people who'd rather care about their wife than play the damn videogame.

        But, it turns out enjoying things ironically is still enjoying them, and I discovered what a crush was when I realised "oh shit I actually like this person, they aren't just a means for me to mock the idea of gf aggro".

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Asexual threads are the glow-bot theme today.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No. Wtf

      It's possible to have a "crush" without sexual interest?
      I thought a crush WAS impulsive sexual interest.

      >when i like a girl it's always sexual
      Is this like a weird insecurity flex, similar to how girls say their veganas smell like peaches because they're ashamed to admit it's more like tuna? Or is it actually quite common to not feel any separation between sexual and romantic attraction?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >beautiful
    >don't want to frick

    pick one, OP

    >platonic romantic relationship

    do you realistically think she'd be okay with this? are you even talking to her? how can you get wife material vibes if she doesn't even acknowledge your existence?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >pick one, OP
      I mean, I adore her. I can't really take my eyes off her when she's around. Yet I can't imagine me fricking her. Does that sound weird?

      >do you realistically think she'd be okay with this?
      There's a chance she might be, but there's also a fairly significant chance that she'll be hurt by me proposing such a thing to her, or going into a romance with the knowledge that I'm not her type sexually and revealing it when it's "too late".

      >are you even talking to her? how can you get wife material vibes if she doesn't even acknowledge your existence?
      Yeah, I talk to her, but not about this stuff. Not sure why you'd make that assumption.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm not her type sexually
        she's not mine, hurr

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I mean, I adore her. I can't really take my eyes off her when she's around. Yet I can't imagine me fricking her. Does that sound weird?
        I'm feeling a similar way about a woman at the moment
        I thought about it a few times at first but after a while I didn't want to
        She seems too innocent and 'good' to think about her like that
        As times gone on I've thought about her sexually a bit more and I definitely am sexually attracted to her too, but for a while I didn't think of her like that, are you maybe experiencing a similar thing?
        I suspect, either way, your body will know what to do if the time comes

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >She seems too innocent and 'good' to think about her like that
          Are you imagining the two of you in a loving relationship or are you imagining her as a pump and dump?
          Innocence and goodness are 100% compatible with a loving relationship.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            A loving relationship
            I don't think my previous post was very clear, it is thinking about her sexually that I was avoiding because she is innocent/good
            I was not avoiding thinking about her romantically

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >She seems too innocent and 'good' to think about her like that
          Yeah I was seeing someone like that too for a bit. Wasn't my type sexually either, but the one time that stars aligned and were gonna fug- I mean, make sweet sweet love, we got interrupted so that didn't happen and the whole relationship kinda fizzled out, so never got another chance. Kinda annoying but it all happened for a reason, I think.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like you're asexual

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can assure you, that is not the case. I have a fairly standard sexual appetite. It's just that, as I said, I don't see this particular female that way.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    > I don't really want to start something and get myself in a situation where I can't frick and have to explain that "sorry ur just not my type lol"
    OP here, now I'm thinking it would be better to just reveal my sexual preferences to her in a casual conversation before making any moves. She'll then most likely put 2 and 2 together, realise she doesn't fit the criteria, and most likely friendzone me, but if some kind of romance does come from this, then she would at least have fair warning about what she's getting into. Sounds fair, right?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      this is absolutely delusional thinking. she's not going to "put 2 and 2 together", she's going to to correctly assume you're a fricking weirdo who's too nervous and unconfident enough to tell her how you really feel. she'll then begin to withdraw and eventually ignore you altogether.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >she's not going to "put 2 and 2 together"
        Not sure what you think I meant, but I literally meant that me telling her what my type is will make it obvious to her that she doesn't fit the bill. She's not dumb, I'm sure she can figure it out.

        >she's going to to correctly assume you're a fricking weirdo
        Why? It's not like my sexual tastes are weird or anything, they're just very particular.

        >who's too nervous and unconfident enough to tell her how you really feel
        What do you suggest I do? Confess my love? lol. My thread describes exactly how I feel. There's no need to make things awkward between us just yet.

        >she'll then begin to withdraw and eventually ignore you altogether.
        If that's what she decides, fine. At least then she'll be making an informed decision and my question will be answered for me.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's possible to have a "crush" without sexual interest?
    I thought a crush WAS impulsive sexual interest.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This OP is underageb&

    I remember back in high school we would talk about stuff like this, like how we wouldn’t think about the chicks we had a crush on when we jerk offd because it would be a disgrace to their innocence. When you get older you’ll realize how insane and backwards this is.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >OP is underageb&
      I can see why you'd think that, but it's not my first rodeo - I've had several gfs and plenty of teh secks. Maybe I've gotten tired of all that and have gone full circle and it's 2006 again?

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