>got told I am attractive, get matches on tinder. >all of them ghost me within a few exchanges

>got told I am attractive, get matches on tinder
>all of them ghost me within a few exchanges
>one just told me 'damn ur boring' and unmatched
i dont do pickup lines, i dont ask stupid questions about weather or what theyre doing, mostly i say hey and try to just know them beyond the bio, ask and share interests and stuff. i have hobbies (vidya too but i dont say that), i do sports and lift, and i have a good job. i know these women are initially into me because we match and they respond within minutes for the first time. with most i dont get more than 3 exchanges, meaning i dont even get a lot of space to frick up in the first place. they talk with me extremely briefly and unmatch

these arent models, the one that told me i was boring was a 34yo single mother receptionist. im 26, earn good and have about as many hobbies as my time off work can afford to sustain, sports, photography and lifting. wtf am i doing wrong? frick we MATCHED already, they know my looks and height, what else is expected? cant we just talk shit for a bit and maybe go out to eat and frick afterwards? how are tinder conversations meant to go?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ):
    go for ugly girls

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      dude i do, she wasnt pretty, im not beat up because she personally rejected me, im beat up because this always happens 100%

      How about you stop trying to get a gf on a hookup app moron. Everyone on those apps just wants to frick

      i dont want a gf, i want to get experience with sex, i have a bodycount of 2 at 26, i need it, idk why they think its boring, anything less boring would be outright inviting them to frick first thing i say, i dont think that would work but im wklling to try frick it

      I literally haven't gotten a single match ever on dating sites. You should at least be happy someone showed some kind of interest in you at all. Keep going, I'm sure you'll find someone who isn't terrible eventually as there seems to be something that attracts women to you.

      whats the difference of no matches to 10000 matches if they will unmatch you like two or three exchanges later

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i would just act crazy i say whatever i want and speak my mind andif she leaves she leaves u have to think like ur never gonna get her so it dosent matter what comes out of ur mouth if she likes you she likes you text her whatever coems to u head the most out of pocket stuff that makes u laugh have fun

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i kinda do this without getting too autistic, but it doesnt seem to be it

          Can you show some screenshots? Maybe you're doing the wrong approach when chatting

          i got no screenshots because they unmatched me so its all gone, last one went like this
          >'hey did u know tinder bans nipple pics, i got a bad boy warning because of it'
          <'lol why? once ive been warned because of my insta @ haha'
          >'thats so stupid, i can send you full pics on whatsapp if you wanna see them'
          <'bro you didnt even introduce yourself'
          >tell them where i work (its good), that i like sports and lifting stuff and photography, all in like 2 or 3 lines very briefly
          >'damn ur boring'
          >unmatched

          this is almost a full transcription of the thing. i honestly dont know where i fricked up

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Take screenshots next time, it's very hard to know what's going on.

            In your example it sounds like you just tried to boast about yourself and didn't bother to be interested in the girl

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            ??? wtf dude no, she asked for an introduction and i gave her one, wtf am i supposed to do? omit my workplace? like its gov legal stuff, yeah its boring but frick it pays good at least

            i dont get what about it was 'boring', why do girls find me boring, i dont even mention vidya at all, why is a dude that likes sports and lifting and photography seen as boring, arent those acceptable hobbies? like the girl was a single mom receptionist, older, not that pretty, and the song in her spotify thing was from iron maiden. if im boring shes what, dead?

            again its TINDER, they matched with me, i shouldnt have to move mountains, they are into me. wtf is wrong

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This attitude will for sure not help you getting dates

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            then help or give advice, im not arguing against anyone, this woman barely said a thing, why am i expected to do everything and still get labeled as boring

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That particular woman probably had 10 other guys chatting with her. Then you gave some odd vibes and she was rude.

            Without screenshot it's hard to say exactly if it could have gone different.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Have you seen those clips of chicks using Tinder, they speedrun that shit. They look at your first picture without reading anything and decide the swipe in a split-second.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > like the girl was a single mom receptionist, older, not that pretty, and the song in her spotify thing was from iron maiden. if im boring shes what, dead?
            It doesn't matter. The standards are not the same. You are expected to be exciting. She doesn't have to be. More often than not she isn't exciting, and that's why she wants you to be. On a Friday night in her 20's she would sit at home and wait until she got 5-6 texts from different guys asking her to do something and she would take her pick of activities. That is her expectation from life. Someone else puts in all the effort of planning in order to entertain her. And you're lucky she's 34 because it's even worse with younger women. These days every time they get bored they just go on Tinder and swipe until they find a guy willing to jump through hoops to entertain them. If they ever go to a new city they put on tinder "just looking for someone to show me around haha" and wait for a guy to offer to act as their personal tour guide. Those are the expectations they want you to live up to.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thats exactly what you're supposed to do. Get them off of tinder asap, get their snap or phone number, or set up date right away. They dont care what games you play or your other "hobbies"

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          bro i asked for whatsapp on my second message and got told i hadnt even introduced myself

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Foids seem like a puzzle even the brightest of minds can't decipher.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        ugly women have ugly personalities

        i kinda do this without getting too autistic, but it doesnt seem to be it
        [...]
        i got no screenshots because they unmatched me so its all gone, last one went like this
        >'hey did u know tinder bans nipple pics, i got a bad boy warning because of it'
        <'lol why? once ive been warned because of my insta @ haha'
        >'thats so stupid, i can send you full pics on whatsapp if you wanna see them'
        <'bro you didnt even introduce yourself'
        >tell them where i work (its good), that i like sports and lifting stuff and photography, all in like 2 or 3 lines very briefly
        >'damn ur boring'
        >unmatched

        this is almost a full transcription of the thing. i honestly dont know where i fricked up

        >bro you didnt even introduce yourself'
        yeah see don't give your full-ass bio here, something like
        >I'm anon and I wanna get together with you online is boring
        or like
        >I'm anon and I peel hella oranges
        or something. I'm not the best at this shit either but I can definitely say that talking about work/lifting/photography ain't it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >talking to femanon
      >get kinda close
      >she seems very understanding
      >try to be vulnerable with her
      >tell her I'm afraid she thinks I'm boring
      >its an insecurity
      >next day says I'm boring
      >says she didnt mean it
      >damage is done
      Why did she have to do that...

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How about you stop trying to get a gf on a hookup app moron. Everyone on those apps just wants to frick

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I literally haven't gotten a single match ever on dating sites. You should at least be happy someone showed some kind of interest in you at all. Keep going, I'm sure you'll find someone who isn't terrible eventually as there seems to be something that attracts women to you.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Can you show some screenshots? Maybe you're doing the wrong approach when chatting

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Key word is fun, you guys have to have fun and be funny.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How did you manage a body count of 2?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    thanks all for the advice. i will try behaving a little differently, but im still mad

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >a 34yo single mother receptionist. im 26
    Different life experiences there, she probably realized conversations weren't gonna be strong and didn't want to take the chance that you'd improve at them. If you're a virgin, you should be looking for another virgin or a younger woman, preferably both. And no, they're not harder to obtain.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      not a virgin but barely. 2 at 26. im down bad and im taking anything, im talking anything really, i lift and i dont look too bad i guess

      there was no conversation, i get ditched at 2-3 exchanges. i see your point but age is visible and she knew mine and still swiped right, what gives

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >i see your point but age is visible and she knew mine and still swiped right, what gives
        If she's a single mother swiping on an obviously younger man... well think about it? What could she want other than Dick? Even the biggest golddigger in the world would assume that a young guy is not the best target to leech off, and she didn't conversate so she wasn't looking for "friends" or a boyfriend. She wanted dick.

        She probably expected a thristy one liner. Frankly that sounds awful to entertain, but if that's your goal then the only thing to do is be more direct when you're matching with obviously horny, desperate women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Come on. It's not like it's that big of a difference.

      >i see your point but age is visible and she knew mine and still swiped right, what gives
      If she's a single mother swiping on an obviously younger man... well think about it? What could she want other than Dick? Even the biggest golddigger in the world would assume that a young guy is not the best target to leech off, and she didn't conversate so she wasn't looking for "friends" or a boyfriend. She wanted dick.

      She probably expected a thristy one liner. Frankly that sounds awful to entertain, but if that's your goal then the only thing to do is be more direct when you're matching with obviously horny, desperate women.

      >mindreading
      b***h could've said she wants that dick.

      Anon this is a learning moment. The thing women want most is "excitement", not attractiveness. When they want attractive men, it's because attractiveness and excitement often coincide. Attractive people grow up with easier lives, become extroverted and confident, and are generally more exciting to be around thanks to that. As opposed to an incel who has suffered in life, lacks confidence, and decides to hide away in his room. You will often see women with ugly men, because those ugly men are exciting, which is the most important thing.

      >excitement
      Like shitting at walmart?

      You are acting moronic.
      Once you are matched you should just say
      >Hey, you look pretty, I really like your hair/eyes
      From here you just respond naturally one or two messages
      They you say
      >So lets meet tonight for dinner?
      Or if you are chad you say:
      >My place or your place?
      That is it. No rocket science.
      Stop talking about hobbies, women only care about going out or fricking.

      >liking hair
      What is he? Some gay hairstylist?

      > like the girl was a single mom receptionist, older, not that pretty, and the song in her spotify thing was from iron maiden. if im boring shes what, dead?
      It doesn't matter. The standards are not the same. You are expected to be exciting. She doesn't have to be. More often than not she isn't exciting, and that's why she wants you to be. On a Friday night in her 20's she would sit at home and wait until she got 5-6 texts from different guys asking her to do something and she would take her pick of activities. That is her expectation from life. Someone else puts in all the effort of planning in order to entertain her. And you're lucky she's 34 because it's even worse with younger women. These days every time they get bored they just go on Tinder and swipe until they find a guy willing to jump through hoops to entertain them. If they ever go to a new city they put on tinder "just looking for someone to show me around haha" and wait for a guy to offer to act as their personal tour guide. Those are the expectations they want you to live up to.

      A professional lady of the night seems to be more convienient.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >not a creepy weirdo
        lol, good luck me with that.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've had similar experiences (although I have not been told I am attractive and don't believe that I am).
    I think if you're using Tinder and you just want to frick you should skip the small talk and bullshit really. Maybe if you just immediately turn the conversation very sexual that will work eventually. I think a lot of the girls on apps like that are only using it when they want a "dick appointment" and are horny. This may result in a lot of rejections initially but at least you will not be wasting time trying to make useless conversation with them. I have come to this conclusion myself after about 4+ years of using these shitty dating apps and I think I will be using the method I mentioned above the next time I try using them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon this is a learning moment. The thing women want most is "excitement", not attractiveness. When they want attractive men, it's because attractiveness and excitement often coincide. Attractive people grow up with easier lives, become extroverted and confident, and are generally more exciting to be around thanks to that. As opposed to an incel who has suffered in life, lacks confidence, and decides to hide away in his room. You will often see women with ugly men, because those ugly men are exciting, which is the most important thing.

      acknowledged, thanks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      try a different approach. make it well known in the first couple interactions you're just trying to frick

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anon this is a learning moment. The thing women want most is "excitement", not attractiveness. When they want attractive men, it's because attractiveness and excitement often coincide. Attractive people grow up with easier lives, become extroverted and confident, and are generally more exciting to be around thanks to that. As opposed to an incel who has suffered in life, lacks confidence, and decides to hide away in his room. You will often see women with ugly men, because those ugly men are exciting, which is the most important thing.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You are acting moronic.
    Once you are matched you should just say
    >Hey, you look pretty, I really like your hair/eyes
    From here you just respond naturally one or two messages
    They you say
    >So lets meet tonight for dinner?
    Or if you are chad you say:
    >My place or your place?
    That is it. No rocket science.
    Stop talking about hobbies, women only care about going out or fricking.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Come on. It's not like it's that big of a difference.

      [...]
      >mindreading
      b***h could've said she wants that dick.

      [...]
      >excitement
      Like shitting at walmart?

      [...]
      >liking hair
      What is he? Some gay hairstylist?

      [...]
      A professional lady of the night seems to be more convienient.

      It doesn't matter what you say about the hair or whatever. You just have to signal you know basic social protocol of complimenting people you are interested in, and are not a creepy weirdo.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Open with "hey bby want som frick??", then read the reply a day late and say that you couldn't reply sooner because were at a Trump rally and went to frick some b***hes afterwards.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I were single again and online dating. I'd do silly stuff with women online in my approaches with them:

    * silly non-sexual non-offensive absurd questionnaires where you pretend you're using the questions to filter them out but really the questions are ridiculous and meant to be amusing

    * begin a choose-your-own-adventure style narrative with her. She has to choose a d&d character and then you're the dm.

    * insist that you think you already met her somewhere and then propose all these absurd weird non-sexual non-offensive places/scenarios/things she was doing or people she was and you ask her if that was her

    Most guys' approaches are dumb/simple as frick and the women get bored. No effort, no creativity. I've found that the more I avoid anything sexual or suggestive, the more their interest is piqued.

    Practically everyone on this board is super smart and creative but I think sometimes you guys forget to use it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Practically everyone on this board is super smart and creative but I think sometimes you guys forget to use it.
      Bad/small training data and no feedback.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ha, OP it's probably long gone but he doesn't have text game.
    It's gotten easier and more direct. Like they literally wouldn't know what to do with you if you really are witty. They want to frick and they want you to make the first move because whoever does that is the one who might face social rejection. They're studying you. This is a lot to consider for a situation where you can just send them a dick pic or find some way to toy with their fetishes and get an idea of if you're going hook up or not right away.
    It's all getting there without creeping them out because they're taking a risk seeing a stranger, looking for a guy who will choke them but not kill them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >social rejection
      On a dating/frick app? By whom? kek.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Long term texting seems like setting yourself up for failure on these dating apps. They're likely dealing with dozens of messengers doing backflips trying to keep their attention.

    Skip that bullshit and try to get an in-person date going as soon as possible. Texting is for morons who think they can multi-task social connection, but it's become popular so you have to convince these morons to meet you in an actual social setting. They might be more hesitant for that, but that means they're more hesitant in general and are more likely to drop/ghost you so better off moving on anyway.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women like fun and unless you can entertain them, they're going to drop you. That's why looksmaxxing is fricking moronic, because even though it might grab attention, it's not going to do you anything once it goes past just looks

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    not reading because you seem like a homosexual but the only thing that ever made dating apps work for me was:
    >get annoyed, decide to frick around
    >fill entire profile with dumb jokes
    >make main picture me holding a (toy!) gun to a cute puppy's head (it was my colleagues basset hound, v sad eyes)
    >impact font caption saying "SWIPE RIGHT OR I KILL THIS DOG"

    that got em rolling in, and more to the point they all had senses of humor that matched mine. a few of them are good friends to this day

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >"SWIPE RIGHT OR I KILL THIS DOG"
      That's genius! I love it. KEK

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >How are tinder conversations supposed to go?
    I mean, I haven't gotten a match on those that didn't immediately unmatch before I could say anything, but if I was using it just to have sex as it sounds like you're doing, you should either say a dumb pickup line that ends with some variation of can I get your number, or even outright say "Wanna frick?". The women are using those apps to get fricked that evening, not to have a chat kver text.

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