>got told I am attractive, get matches on tinder
>all of them ghost me within a few exchanges
>one just told me 'damn ur boring' and unmatched
i dont do pickup lines, i dont ask stupid questions about weather or what theyre doing, mostly i say hey and try to just know them beyond the bio, ask and share interests and stuff. i have hobbies (vidya too but i dont say that), i do sports and lift, and i have a good job. i know these women are initially into me because we match and they respond within minutes for the first time. with most i dont get more than 3 exchanges, meaning i dont even get a lot of space to frick up in the first place. they talk with me extremely briefly and unmatch
these arent models, the one that told me i was boring was a 34yo single mother receptionist. im 26, earn good and have about as many hobbies as my time off work can afford to sustain, sports, photography and lifting. wtf am i doing wrong? frick we MATCHED already, they know my looks and height, what else is expected? cant we just talk shit for a bit and maybe go out to eat and frick afterwards? how are tinder conversations meant to go?