Guy showed up on date wearing a suit...

Is it wrong this gave me the ick? I tried to tough my way through it but I couldn't help my feelings. It stood out everywhere we went and other girls were giving me looks like I was making a fool of myself.

No, he was not trying to be a gentleman. He likely thought that it would be ironic, and I felt disgusted and unsafe, especially when we were walking through the city.

It was not the impact that he thought that it would have, and I have no inclination to see him again. He kept texting me asking for an explanation, and I told him it was just because I was feeling sick.

I stopped myself from doing the you're a nice guy routine because it is so shattering for men's self-esteem, but I did tell him some girls would be into that.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like a b***h

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it wrong this gave me the ick?
    Not at all. Its super weird.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Where was the date?

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how old are you both? did you know one each other previously? did you ask him why? maybe he had been working or some shit...?

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bro you sound autistic. Dressing in a suit on a date for irony?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >ragebait thread is lazy slop
    many such cases.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Guy showed up on date wearing a suit...
      you went on a date with an autistic neet that has absolutely no grasp of what's socially acceptable or not, guaranteed this was the first time he'd left the house in at least 4 years

      you'd probably wear a suit on a date and see no issue with it, autistic neet located

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nah girl, that;s like, totally ick! he did NOT just wear a suit to your date!!!! omg what a loser, i bet he has a small dick girl

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it wrong this gave me the ick?
    Morally? No.
    It might be counterproductive if you don't logically consider it a big deal (or if you assumed things about him that aren't true), but you aren't obligated to find a guy attractive on a date.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    DIS homie WEARIN A TUXEDO

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I went on a date with a guy and he wore a tan suit with tan pants, no tie and a tan fedora and it was actually really hot. I like when men dress up, personally. People were looking at us and I felt like the luckiest twink in the world because my man was dressing up for me and looked rich. His suit fit perfectly and the color looked good on him because he was South Asian; I couldn't wear tan but he knew what looks good so it wasn't cringe. It wasn't a formal place either, it was like a sandwich shop which was kinda cringe but the place he wanted to go was actually closed and he was kinda embarrassed. But he made it work. Turns out he was kinda famous and had his own Wikipedia page so that was cool. If a guy knows how to dress well, it is a green flag. Your ick is your subconscious telling you that something is dangerous. Your date probably wasn't tailored properly and was way too formal and that's why you cringed.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What kind of suit was it? I suppose it doesn't matter, because unless you're going somewhere ritzy, it's going to be weird regardless. But can you give us a close approximation of what he wore?

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >OP thinks wearing a suit and tie to a date is weird
    So what would you rather him wear? Fricking pajamas with bunny slippers? There is nothing wrong with wearing a suit to any occasion, whether it's formal or not. What did you wear OP?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      aaaand yet another autistic neet with absolutely no grasp of how to coexist with his fellow human beings properly spotted. jesus christ you guys need to stop living out your lives in your rooms and start leaving the house sometimes. there's eccentric, and then there's clueless. you my friend, are helplessly clueless.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is it possible he's a grown-up?

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    FOR
    FRICK'S
    SAKE
    All you shitty ass LARPer fiction writers need to get your own fricking board RIGHT NOW!

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Wow I did not know hating on suits was an autistic dog whistle. Yes, wearing a suit on the wrong occasion is very weird, makes both of you stand out in a crowd, and signifies the guy has very poor social skills. Listen to your gut and don’t pursue further.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Guy showed up on date wearing a suit...
      you went on a date with an autistic neet that has absolutely no grasp of what's socially acceptable or not, guaranteed this was the first time he'd left the house in at least 4 years

      you'd probably wear a suit on a date and see no issue with it, autistic neet located

      aaaand yet another autistic neet with absolutely no grasp of how to coexist with his fellow human beings properly spotted. jesus christ you guys need to stop living out your lives in your rooms and start leaving the house sometimes. there's eccentric, and then there's clueless. you my friend, are helplessly clueless.

      >OP is panic mode trying to salvage his total shit ragebait thread
      Hang it up, OP, you suck

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >the ick
    may you live a long life of suffering and sadness

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like you're just not his type then

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me 23m
    >have a date with girl (Real)
    >want to feel special and nice
    >wear a suit to the date (hope she likes it)
    >date goes wrong and she says she feels sick
    >doesn't explain any further

    what the heck bros I thought I looked good. Does she not like me? what did I do wrong?

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >It was not the impact that he thought that it would have, and I have no inclination to see him again. He kept texting me asking for an explanation, and I told him it was just because I was feeling sick.
    See now, a mature person would simply tell him what's wrong and not to do it again. But women are incapable of that, they never grow up and act shifty and petty their whole lives. Just tell him what you didn't like you dumb fricking b***h.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends whether he pulled it off or not. Based on your reaction I'm guessing no. There's obviously a huge difference between a 20-year-old nerd in an ill-fitting $100 suit and a thirty-year-old professional who knows how to dress. But a suit is now more the mark of a middle management wagie or a tryhard than it is an actual status symbol. Probably best avoided in most situations.

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