Have to spend another weekend with my gf

I get so depressed in the hours before I go pick her up. Sure, we'll bang once and that's fine, but other than that I'm about to spend the next 3 days just watching tv and doomscrolling, basically just waiting to take her home again. The weeks we miss because of schedule stuff are the best weeks. But yet if I was single I'd instantly be back trying to get a new gf again. Why is it like this?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why are you doing that stuff with your gf if you dont want to

    seems like you should get a gf that you enjoy spending time with

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I used to enjoy spending time with her more. But then again we also used to have bigger schedule gaps or not do as many days at a time. I liked her the most when we met up once a week but only for a few hours, just have dinner and bang then back home.

      Tell her that you want to do other stuff?

      Everything I actually like doing is an essentially solitary activity which she has basically no interest in. I don't mind texting her all day every day because this doesn't really interfere with me working in the garden or whatever, but if she's here then me doing something I want to do basically means ignoring her in the meantime.

      • 3 weeks ago
        sage

        But workin in the garden isnt a solitary activity anon, my mom and dad garden together and stuff sometimes, i think you need a gf that likes the same kinda stuff as you

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She will 100% whine and refuse if I propose something like that, she is interested in nothing but consooming netflix shows and eating snacks. Let's not forget that Dating in the current year is a miserable fricking hell scape and finding a woman who isn't openly abusive is already about the best I can hope for. It feels like leaving her because of muh hobbies would be the stupidest thing in the world.

          >my gf
          what in the absolute frick are you doing in this board then, anon?
          with all due respect, OUT WITH YOU

          I'm here because:
          >here forever even though I recovered from inceldom
          >still hate women even though they will frick me sometimes
          >I have no friends at all
          >I'm incredibly mentally ill

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you're basically a normalgay at this point, as evidenced by you complaining about normalgay problems
            you may do so in any other board you please, >>>/b/

            [...]

            [...]

            [...]

            are that way

            you know how it goes here, no normalhomosexual shit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Shut up tripBlack person

            She will 100% whine and refuse if I propose something like that, she is interested in nothing but consooming netflix shows and eating snacks. Let's not forget that Dating in the current year is a miserable fricking hell scape and finding a woman who isn't openly abusive is already about the best I can hope for. It feels like leaving her because of muh hobbies would be the stupidest thing in the world.
            [...]
            I'm here because:
            >here forever even though I recovered from inceldom
            >still hate women even though they will frick me sometimes
            >I have no friends at all
            >I'm incredibly mentally ill

            I dunno man, eating and watching netflix is a terrible way to spend your life..

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >she is interested in nothing but consooming netflix shows and eating snacks
            Is she fat? Or does she take care of herself when you dont spend time together?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what are you growing? is she your first, maybe find someone who likes plants?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nah I was with my ex for years (BPDemon) so for me "not abusive" is already my only standard. I'm sure I could find a new gf, but going on Tinder is such a fricking chore which everyone knows. Miserable. Is being bored on the weekends really worse than that? Also I'm growing like every fricking thing, my garden mogs bigtime. 42 8' x 2' beds all with different stuff in them.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            42? Sounds like a farm!

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Basically. Not really enough to make real money with but close to enough to live on subsistence farming style if it really came down to it. Definitely I can spend a good few hours every day out there pulling weeds and pruning branches and shit like that.

            Shut up tripBlack person
            [...]
            I dunno man, eating and watching netflix is a terrible way to spend your life..

            It's not how I spend my whole life, just 2 nights a week basically. I would definitely not be able to tolerate living with her and having to be like this every day. But when she's here my life stops and I'm just entertaining her for those days.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thats like an awesome hobby anon.. you really should get a different gf who actually cares about it though, you sound like you and her dont mesh very well at all

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you just sound like a normie that got hit with a BPD girl.

            Least you didn't have a mental breakdown like me and have PTSD about girls.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh I have PTSD about girls, maybe just different than yours. I'm incredibly suspicious about her constantly in terms of cheating, stealing from me, and just general b***hiness. Even after years I still feel like the second I relax she's going to shapeshift into somebody else and get really terrible instantly.

            women are a burden and you moronic incel simps will find out the hard way

            I already know this, obviously, but a lot of guys fail to understand how good a feel "tfw no gf" is

            Thats like an awesome hobby anon.. you really should get a different gf who actually cares about it though, you sound like you and her dont mesh very well at all

            Thanks, it is hard to justify though.
            >be together like 3 years
            >just leave because I don't like watching tv and want to pull weeds and make tomato paste instead
            You see how moronic this sounds, right? Easy to say "just leave lol" but harder to do it in practice.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >, but a lot of guys fail to understand how good a feel "tfw no gf" is
            They will. They will go through all the hoops, work out, self-improve, humiliate themselves on dates and I have no doubt that they will eventually find some beast of a woman and when that happens, one whiff of what it means to have a relationship will be enough to make them immediately regret everything.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So relationships will make you regret self improving and you would wish to be alone again?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, for most people that will be the case. It's very unlikely that you will find a pleasant woman. I'm not talking about a good looking woman, but someone whose brain is not absolutely cooked. You have a very high chance of never encountering a woman who would be worthy of being in a relationship, let alone marrying.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This, best case is OP scenario where you find a woman who is alright and isn't actively hostile and miserable to be around and despite what idiots itt say he shouldn't leave her. Boring is the least worst thing a girl can realistically be.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yah i get it anon, its really easy to just say "get a better gf lol"
            but you really have to consider like, if you dont enjoy spending very much time with her, is it really worth it to stay? What makes you love her?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what makes you love her
            I used to love her but it's all gradually faded. She's not moronic and is fun enough to talk to about stuff, good memes and all that if we're being real. We've developed that long term relationship secret language built of inside jokes. Still at this point mostly it's just habit and obligation, but I think she does love me for real unfortunately. It feels like it would be really, really selfish and cruel of me to break this girl's heart for no reason besides "idk I'm bored" you know what I mean? Can I really just do that?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >It feels like it would be really, really selfish and cruel of me to break this girl's heart for no reason besides "idk I'm bored" you know what I mean? Can I really just do that?
            Yes, you can really just do that. It's not selfish or cruel. Everything in life is transactional (money or time). If you're unhappy with your current situation and you are from reading your posts, then move on, instead of wasting more of your own time or someone else's doing the current routine you're doing. It's that simple OP.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Oh I have PTSD about girls, maybe just different than yours.
            Yes, if a girl ever shows interest ill just stonewall her or change the subject.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tell her that you want to do other stuff?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >my gf
    what in the absolute frick are you doing in this board then, anon?
    with all due respect, OUT WITH YOU

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What the hell did the bpd girls do to you guys?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >What the hell did the bpd girls do to you guys?
      me specifically
      once the honeymoon phase was over
      cheat on me constantly
      lie about it
      then gaslight me about it
      then when i finally figured it out and confronted her, she said she wanted an open relationship
      had a mental break down because i gave up everything and moved across the country to be with her for years.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ouch
        And that was a good reason for mental break down
        How are you now anon?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          on meds, barely leave the house, on disability

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        NTA but holy shit man, that's rough

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    women are a burden and you moronic incel simps will find out the hard way

  6. 3 weeks ago
    SAGE

    FRICKING FRICK OFF NORMIE Black person
    ALL FIELDS

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    did you... talk to her about that? Did you say that you find watching netflix + eating snacks super boring?
    besides, how old are you? And how do you have your meals prepared - do you have a catering, or do you prepare them yourself?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >do you have a catering
      I'm not answering your stupid ESL ass

      women experience dating through abundance while men experience it through deprivation. if women monkey-branch despite their abundance, you should be able to search too. make yourself more attractive while you're in the relationship, then begin looking.

      Working on it. I'm probably going to bail a couple months from now... but I've been telling myself that for over a year already.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i was asking for catering because i don't know how is it in your country, it's popular in mine so i assumed that it might be the case for you. I was about to suggest you do some cooking with her if you do happen to be using catering, in the name of trying out something new for yourself (and maybe even your gf), which is not an exclusively solitary activity
        now, did you talk to her about you being bored around her presence, that netflix + snacks is boring to you?
        and, how old are you?

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think most guys actually enjoy the company of women. The only time I do is when they're sort of just tagging along while I do something I actually enjoy doing.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    christ i fricking hate homosexuals like you. you don't like spending time with her so fricking end the relationship you disgusting mongoloid. what is the point of your ashen relationship if you count the days until she leaves and you get to be alone again. dumb frick

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    women experience dating through abundance while men experience it through deprivation. if women monkey-branch despite their abundance, you should be able to search too. make yourself more attractive while you're in the relationship, then begin looking.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take your fat girlfriend on a hike and turn make her watch you do the stuff you want to do. If you let them make you slow and fat you've already doomed the relationship. Women are parasites for attention and time, to their own detriment. It is your job as a man to regulate there neediness in a way that is healthy for the relationship

    You both sound really fat but the way. Fix it

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do you guys have long term plans? to get a house or have a family?

    sounds like theres no glue keeping you two together

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Negative, we actually explicitly agreed that we should never move in together and it's in the interest of our relationship's survival to have some boundaries and a healthy amount of alone time always. Which is true, without that we wouldn't have made it this long.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >we actually explicitly agreed that we should never move in together and it's in the interest of our relationship's survival
        That's how you make sure your relationship never progresses to anything meaningful. That's just extending the death of a relationship that you don't believe will be live.
        If you guys don't have any hobbies that you share then you should both be trying out new ones to do together. You bring it up that you enjoy being around her but you feel limited in what you can and can't do, that you want to be more productive with your time not just sitting around and watching Netflix. Explain that it's fine if that's what she wants to do with her time when she's around you, but she has to choose to either be okay with letting you enjoy your hobbies while she does that, or to try new hobbies with you.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Just for myself I'm not really interested in getting married or anything. It is in fact important for my mental health to have ample alone time since I'm inherently antisocial. But you're right that I should just be more assertive with what I want to do. Inherently the feeling of my life being on hold while I entertain her isn't a good way to do anything but build resentment.

          >she is interested in nothing but consooming netflix shows and eating snacks
          Is she fat? Or does she take care of herself when you dont spend time together?

          She is fat as frick of course but I like it that way (no cope, only architecture) and if I left her I'd be looking for more fat ass again the next day. I'm in good shape myself, outdoorsy hobbies and good diet and all that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Damn so not only you're fricking a fat b***h, you're spending time with a fat b***h in a way you don't even like. There is your answer honestly. Fatties are rarely into active lifestyles. What hobbies could you share with them? Do you have any in mind?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We used to paint and stuff together, art projects, and that's part of what we connected over when we first met. I kind of dropped off though because I'm a perfectionist freak and got too fricking depressed with being shitty every time I made something and just called it, realized I was ngmi as an artist, and gave that up altogether. I like cooking which I think a fat b***h should be into and she kind of is but she's really b***hy about it and acts like she knows better than me when in fact she is dramatically worse. I think anything outside is pretty much off the menu though. I don't think she is bothered by this turn of events though, she always seems to really look forward to our weekends together because that's her time away from her regular life and there's no expectations or pressure at all.

            my ex gf is searching for a room for us to frick next week, never seen her so proactive with this, guess a switch flipped within her, maybe she got a fat wiener hit her cervix thus why she changed her behavior, still not getting back with her, just want to frick

            May as well drop a physical description and vague geographic area if you're going to post like this so if you're lucky and guess my gf then I'll be trolled

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >May as well drop a physical description and vague geographic area if you're going to post like this so if you're lucky and guess my gf then I'll be trolled
            i dont understand a single word on this post anon, sorry

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's ok, just means you're ESL and a moron

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            what do you cook for her? fatty foods?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I cook a lot of stuff, I'm kick ass, and she likes everything I make regardless of if its fancy, hearty and homestyle, or depraved and fatty friendly like some pulled pork or homemade 'za. But she's a b***h to cook with so while we've tried cooking together before, by mutual agreement, it's better if she just chills while I cook.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            From all I have read, you are way too good for her. I wish you were mine.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks, on some level I kind of feel like that too but you can presume that she really does love me on this basis and I've had the kind of life experience that lands a man on this board so based on both of these things I'm inclined to stick with her even though I definitely could "do better" in some sense. It's tough almost dreading spending time with this girl even though she loves me and hasn't done anything wrong or hurtful to me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Do you just want to tend to your garden and you're bored of netflix when you're with her or is she actively bothering you? Do you talk a lot? You said you're tried of doomscrolling so it doesn't look like you have a lot of real interaction during her stays.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We spend a lot of time just with the TV going and one or both of us on our phone in the meantime. We talk about the show or whatever and we have some Conversation, she's not like really annoying or anything. I think we would make good friends probably, just talking about Life and stuff. We get along fine, just fricking boring to actually hang out with her multiple whole days a week every week. I like her better when we're texting and just chatting about whatever than when she's actually here.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >She is fat as frick of course but I like it that way (no cope, only architecture) and if I left her I'd be looking for more fat ass again the next day. I'm in good shape myself, outdoorsy hobbies and good diet and all that.
            Well there's your problem, fat women are fat because they have some sort of psychological damage that propels them into sedentary and unhealthy lifestyles. Get a fit girlfriend and stop coping with the "I'm attracted to fat women" lie. Get some self respect.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I already explained this in the previous post but no cope, I've been blowing ropes to fat b***hes since I was about 12. You might be right about the lifestyle factors though. Need to go against my taste in women in the physical sense to get somebody who lives in a way that makes them more enjoyable to be around long term.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You seem to be under the impression that having a woman should make you happy. It doesn't. Women aren't the end goal. You're unhappy because you have shortcomings in other aspects of your life that you either ignore or haven't recognized. (Professional, career, hobbies, family, gym)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is bullshit! I should have been born in Africa hunting lions and stealing honey from bees!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >This is bullshit! I should have been born in Africa hunting lions and stealing honey from bees!
        Why do you want to play life on hardcore third world mode?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Very female take, how's life on easy mode? There's nothing softcore about being a man in '24.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You want some cheese with that whine? I hope your girlfriend gets ovarian cancer you shitty sex haver

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my ex gf is searching for a room for us to frick next week, never seen her so proactive with this, guess a switch flipped within her, maybe she got a fat wiener hit her cervix thus why she changed her behavior, still not getting back with her, just want to frick

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I started going out with this overweight asian girl I met on tinder. Lets call her Monica. Very nice girl. But she is clingy. I have nothing in common with her. She likes comic books and Marvel and is obsessed with The Sims and watching gay guys on youtube wear makeup. She tries to get me to watch it. Its really lame.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >fat asian girl
      Fetish material
      >very nice girl
      Incredibly rare
      >clingy
      Good shit, means she's really into you
      >nothing in common with her
      Makes actually spending time with her fricking boring as shit in the best case. This is the issue we're having.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    doing literally nothing all day with my boyfriend is the best thing ever. it makes me feel like the happiest person alive. doing it alone made me feel soulless. i miss him so much.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And why did he leave you?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        he could not hand my autistic girl swagger (constant emotional breakdowns because of my continuous worsening mental state due to life circumstances)

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          this is the only thing I can handle, nothing pisses me off more than when a girl I'm dating starts to get her life together and feels good about herself baka

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i would spam call him 100 times when i was melting down and threatening to kill myself regularly.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This b***h has been asleep with her legs on me for about 3 hours now. On the TV is fricking avatar the last Airbender. I've posted in about 30 different NSFFW threads. My brain is turning into glue. Why can she not just go the frick to bed and give me some time to myself if she's going to be sawing fricking logs anyway? It's like she's trying to piss me off on purpose.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why don't you enjoy her presence?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not so touch starved that being in the same room as a girl is enough to keep me from being bored out of my fricking gourd after several hours of essentially being on the couch by myself just brainrotting on my phone

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I was gonna say something like "why not enjoy the boredom" but on second thought, that does seem pretty difficult.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Doing everything I can to do so, I've gone on hour+ long wim hof breathing journeys to muscle through this kind of thing. What I need is a good phone game probably (there are none)

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Modern technology and its consequences... I'd love to not be so dependent on my phone.

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    probably not with the right person

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