Hey anons, I'm 28m, sexless, never dated and never been in a relationship.

Hey anons, I'm 28m, sexless, never dated and never been in a relationship. I spent the last 10 years of my life focused entirely on school and career (it did pay off financially). I'm at the age now where my parents and friends are pressuring me into relationships and its getting annoying. I've acclimated to the single life but I won't lie, being sexless is starting to be a chip on my shoulder.

What should I do? I never learned how to pick up women. I don't think I can just show up to a club and neg randos. The whole thing just seems tryhard and degrading. Dating apps feel kinda bleak too. I work remotely so dating coworkers isn't feasible.

But man... I feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me. I regret not trying harder in my early 20s and fell for the meme of "just focus on yourself and the girls will come!". The girls didnt come and now I have this underdeveloped aspect of my life that is making me feel inadequate.

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  1. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    > feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me.
    ew, your attitude stinks and will ward off any decent woman. you will only attract bad people because you are one

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >you will only attract bad people because you are one
      Do not say this
      People like this anon are demons don't listen to them

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        someone feeling entitled to a relationship despite never having worked towards one and then speaking ill of women is a demon. You reap what you sow

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          You have been brainrotted by capitalism. People are entitled to relationships actually, its how we have a stable society.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            a relationship doesn't just fall into your lap. he worked his way up to a good job. he will have to do the same with women. Some guy hating women because he's scared of them has nothing to do with capitalism

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but I hate women because I get their number and then ghost me, without at least agreeing to a coffee date.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Denying a basic tenant of being human and saying you deserve to suffer if you can't pick yourself up by the bootstraps is a very capitalist mindset.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >You have been brainrotted by capitalism. People are entitled to relationships actually
            It's not as deep as that, she's just a femcel lashing out because OP recognizes BetaBuxx exists.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            LULZ ruined your brain

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nope. You literally immediately went to
            >shut up shut up you're a le bad person!
            When you saw OP get too close to the truth.

            > feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me.
            ew, your attitude stinks and will ward off any decent woman. you will only attract bad people because you are one

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >the truth
            even if that were the case (its not because of your blackpill delusions) he is still here asking for advice on women. if you guys truly hate women for how wicked and wretched we are just leave us alone and live without us. You'll claim it's western women this western women that, so that leaves you with poor women in developing countries. Stop being bitter

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            poor women in developing countries that have no other choice*

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >if you guys truly hate women
            >it's western women this western women that
            Meds immediately. I never said any of that and I'm very happy with my relationships with women. But I still don't want to see any naive men fall for being a BetaBuxx.

            If you think That Never Happens then you have nothing to worry about men being wary of becoming a BetaBuxxer. If you are aware that it happens, then you can probably understand why men don't want it. So I'm not sure what you object to.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            you're speaking as if "betabuxxing" is the norm. Your perception of reality is warped. Do you not talk to normal people?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >you're speaking as if "betabuxxing" is the norm
            Where did I imply that?

            It sounds like you know that relationships like this exist (otherwise you'd have said something stronger than it's not then norm). So why be triggered if men don't want it?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            he's not naive if he's already aware of what betabuxxing is and brought it up himself.

            obviously they exist, but I'm saying it's not the norm and you have skewed perceptions to assume that it is.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >you have skewed perceptions to assume that it is.
            Again, I never implied that.

            This board should have IDs, are you still

            > feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me.
            ew, your attitude stinks and will ward off any decent woman. you will only attract bad people because you are one

            ?
            If so I'm curious why OP's a bad person for wanting to avoid this phenomenon that you admit exists.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            he's explained himself and I don't think that anymore, and yes I'm the same person. It was my visceral reaction to seeing yet another thread where OP despises women while simulstenously wanting one but he's better than most the more he posts. I think there's hope for him

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >It was my visceral reaction
            This is why men need to take dating advice from women with a pinch of salt.

            In adversarial situations women are very likely to take the side of the woman and try to shame the man (

            > feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me.
            ew, your attitude stinks and will ward off any decent woman. you will only attract bad people because you are one

            "ew. you're a bad person") into doing something that's not best for them.

            It's very unlikely that you'll get advice from a woman that overcomes their in-group bias unless she's a close friend or family member.

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          >someone feeling entitled to a relationship despite never having worked towards one and then speaking ill of women is a demon
          I'm sure the low IQ jocks/scumbags and all the abusive "exes" have all worked towards relationships to get to frick and date so many attractive women lmao

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            They have, obviously. Unlike you - they've had relationships.
            Think about that. Dumbfrick, violent men have more to offer women than you do.
            Sounds like you're dumber

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >They have, obviously. Unlike you - they've had relationships.
            >Think about that. Dumbfrick, violent men have more to offer women than you do.
            So by "doing the work" you mean be born with good genes for looks? Great advice, I'll try it some time.
            If that's not what you mean, what part of their personalities these violent men have worked on to attract their girlfriends?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >duuuuuuuur
            FTFY
            >what part of their personalities these violent men have worked on to attract their girlfriends
            According to every NON-SURVEY analysis of relationships the three key components the man needs
            >all of which easily trump his physical appearance
            are, in order
            >Self-confidence, meaning he honestly believes he is of high value
            >the ability to clearly and comfortably communicate in social settings, even if introverted
            >A tendency to not cave into peer pressure but rather form his own opinions and make his own way
            Again, these were from series of personality tests and observation by trained psychologists, not surveys.
            So that over-confident guy that is funny or engaging at parties and doesn't care what everyone else is thinking?
            Highly attractive to women regardless of his appearance

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >duuuuuuuur looks don't matter bro just bee yourself lol trust the science
            FTFY

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Incels
            >Y ugly manlet have GF, me no have GF?
            Also incels
            >me know only tall handsome Chad have GF, never ugly manlet like me

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      Calling out western women for being spiled entitled prostitutes is wrong now.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        then go find a third worlder. be that guy with the mail order bride. you can afford it 🙂

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      watching this thread because i'm basically OP but less successful/no IRL friends, at least not anymore.

      >you will only attract bad people because you are one
      i worry about this a lot - that not only am i not presentable to other potential mates, but i don't even know what any warning signs look like because i lack experience

      You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.

      Of course we understand why you are afraid.
      Being alone is scary. Social networks prey on this shit. That did not improves the problem, it makes it worst instead.

      You need to overcome the fear of rejection.
      So touch grass. A bit more each day.

      You are not going to have a nice day, so better try to make this life more livable.

      >You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.
      Yeah, I'm aware it's mostly cowardice.

      >So touch grass. A bit more each day.
      Last two times I went out downtown, nothing seemed like fun. I talked to two people: one random tourist guy that shared my first name, and then the bartenders I saw. Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.

      >captcha: days2k

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i worry about this a lot
        start with group therapy, try to make female friends to realize they're human and also be mindful of your own negative biases towards women. To be a good partner that is also attractive to good women you have to get close to women and realize they're human just like you. how you speak of them in your post says you aren't there yet. exposure is important. For any hobbies or social opportunities you're interested in would be a good way too.

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          >how you speak of them in your post says you aren't there yet.
          Again, this is fricking me up because "potential mates" is in my lexicon and it warranted this sort of response. Am I just a broken fricking person? I feel like I unlearned how to have female friends once puberty hit. Maybe it's the porn exposure, I don't know, I feel like such a frick up

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's not even just that. but talking about having to "neg randos" if you go out. Too much internet and porn for sure.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.
        Just go to a salsa class bro! I've never been to one, but everyone says they're full of single women eager to date other members of the class.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        To add: yes, the one random tourist guy I talked to was alone, it was awkward, and he left the conversation before I even finished my cigarette.

        I'm not diagnosed autistic but watching Love On the Spectrum is making me consider speed dating pretty seriously.

        >i worry about this a lot
        start with group therapy, try to make female friends to realize they're human and also be mindful of your own negative biases towards women. To be a good partner that is also attractive to good women you have to get close to women and realize they're human just like you. how you speak of them in your post says you aren't there yet. exposure is important. For any hobbies or social opportunities you're interested in would be a good way too.

        >start with group therapy, try to make female friends to realize they're human and also be mindful of your own negative biases towards women.
        I do individual therapy once a week, but I could probably try group therapy. Female friends? I dunno, I just have stupid niche interests that lean male-dominant. I get that "potential mates" is probably not the way to phrase talking to and being interested in women, it sounds pretty sex-focused and primal.

        I'm also aware that I'm probably coming off as like... desperate? Even in casual conversations with coworkers. I was chatting to one, and she mentioned her girlfriend in the next sentence. I was already aware she was in a relationship, but maybe something subtle I'm doing or saying is giving away that I'm chatting to her for reasons beyond just work boredom.

        >Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.
        Just go to a salsa class bro! I've never been to one, but everyone says they're full of single women eager to date other members of the class.

        >Salsa
        I lurk in /adv/ kinda often. Is this some sort of meme? I view doing something like this or attending a yoga class as creepy if there's even a hint of ulterior motive beyond wanting to improve at either (and I do not care for salsa music, yoga seems cool but I'd rather learn the beginner stuff privately)

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          > dunno, I just have stupid niche interests that lean male-dominant.
          would you be open to something that is more mixed and open to all kinds of people? or even just a local meetup group? There's a lot of resources, Facebook groups, meetup.com, reddit for your area, discord for your area, the library if it has adult programs, checking out bulletin boards in local places for events. etc

          The conversation with your coworker is normal. People do that all the time and this further confirms to me you have a chip on your shoulder which is off-putting to people. Talk to your therapist about this too and ask about group therapy

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >more mixed and open to all kinds of people? or even just a local meetup group?

            Maybe? I was looking into hiking groups on meetup before getting a job. The city I live in runs on tourism and transplants (should be an easy guess where). I lurk the subreddits and discords for my locale, instagram for shows and events, I just keep talking myself out of most of them, or going to one and feeling like I am radiating loneliness so badly that people smell it on me (I actually practice hygiene I hope to god I don't actually smell off-putting)

            It's not even just that. but talking about having to "neg randos" if you go out. Too much internet and porn for sure.

            I'm not OP, although I relate to it pretty heavily. Negging randos seems like a bad time and I'm a pretty quiet guy, I'd say negging isn't even in my realm. I have issues talking to people in the first place, let alone women, let alone women I find attractive.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            to clarify, I have all the resources for events, I just get there and feel like a loser, or am so spaced out and quiet that no one pays any mind to me. Feel like legitimately spazzing out at one of these things would be much more successful than shyly drinking, passively observing, and leaving early

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Have you tried focusing on one on one friendships then? groups can be intimidating but getting close to one person is less daunting and yields better results and makes it easier to work your way into groups

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >one on one friendships then?
            Aside from work I just have no idea where to start with this.

            I've been considering one idea: I have a long-time friend that lives in the state I grew up in, that has a (female, in a relationship) cousin that we mutually went to high school with that lives in the city I do now. She wasn't a friend back then, but she didn't hate me either. Maybe if I talk to him, ask him to talk to her, and see if she's cool with including me in a hangout with her friend circle, that would help. I think I'm more lonely in general than I am about wanting to leave KHHV-hood with urgent immediacy.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Maybe if I talk to him, ask him to talk to her, and see if she's cool with including me in a hangout with her friend circle, that would help.
            Holy fricking shit have some dignity. You don't need a woman, you need companionship - you need friends

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >You don't need a woman, you need companionship - you need friends
            That is legitimately the purpose of asking my friend if he can talk to his cousin, to vouch for me and get me included with her friends.

            just realizing that my default in any adult social setting is to
            >shyly drink
            >passively observe
            >maybe interject once or twice should someone bring up something i'm interested in
            >leave early
            just complete wallflower social ineptitude

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Sorry but I don't think you realize how pathetic that is. A guy asking to be included in a female friend circle? What the frick you wanna do with them? Sip latte and paint each other's nails while gossiping about taytay swift? Have some self respect bro goddamn you should be looking for male friends

            also - I HAVE NO DIGNITY! I'm 28, KHHV, friendless and alone, what fricking dignity?

            If this is the mentality you wanna adopt - of undignified desperation for female praise then it's over for you lil bro, you gonna become a walking ATM for some used up roast beef pussy c**t

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            also - I HAVE NO DIGNITY! I'm 28, KHHV, friendless and alone, what fricking dignity?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            wait are you pretending to be OP kek

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >pretending
            No, I said here

            watching this thread because i'm basically OP but less successful/no IRL friends, at least not anymore.

            >you will only attract bad people because you are one
            i worry about this a lot - that not only am i not presentable to other potential mates, but i don't even know what any warning signs look like because i lack experience

            [...]
            >You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.
            Yeah, I'm aware it's mostly cowardice.

            >So touch grass. A bit more each day.
            Last two times I went out downtown, nothing seemed like fun. I talked to two people: one random tourist guy that shared my first name, and then the bartenders I saw. Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.

            >captcha: days2k

            that I was in the same position as OP. I'm not pretending to be him, I'm just in the same boat

            Sorry but I don't think you realize how pathetic that is. A guy asking to be included in a female friend circle? What the frick you wanna do with them? Sip latte and paint each other's nails while gossiping about taytay swift? Have some self respect bro goddamn you should be looking for male friends
            [...]
            If this is the mentality you wanna adopt - of undignified desperation for female praise then it's over for you lil bro, you gonna become a walking ATM for some used up roast beef pussy c**t

            >What the frick you wanna do with them? Sip latte
            Yeah that sounds pretty good actually, I've been working on my espresso shots

            >undignified desperation for female praise
            At this point I'm not trying to scour the metaphorical dating rug for some pussy crumb, I'm just lonely and trying to figure out if I'm radiating social-moron waves (the answer is yes, but I wonder how the toxic waste is leaking...)

            that's not a good idea if your intention is to get to the cousin. You should only be reaching out to him for interest in spending time with him as friends, not some ulterior motive to get to his cousin who might not even be single. Are you even OP? who the frick have I been talking to, I take back what I said about having hope for OP I think this thread is full of trolls and I wasted my time

            My intention is NOT to get the cousin, I'm not attracted to her and she has a boyfriend. My intention is to make a friend in the current city I live in who's from the city and high school I grew up in, and see if she knows anyone that I would maybe click with more than her, regardless of whether they're male/female. Sorry if the typing tone is too similar to other posters in here.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            also prostitution is legal not too far from here, so if I wanted to drop the virgin label, I could buy my way out, but all it would do is drop the label. I think my core issue is that I don't know how to start friendships from scratch anymore, which is stopping any chance at a romantic relationship dead in its tracks before it can happen

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            that's not a good idea if your intention is to get to the cousin. You should only be reaching out to him for interest in spending time with him as friends, not some ulterior motive to get to his cousin who might not even be single. Are you even OP? who the frick have I been talking to, I take back what I said about having hope for OP I think this thread is full of trolls and I wasted my time

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.

        You have to understand first this:
        This "virtual" rejection only exist inside your skull.

        Do this neurological experiment:
        Gulp a xanax and a beer or some shots of vodka and just go on your daily errand just as everyday.

        Do you feel now people look at you with disdain?
        Of course not.
        People seems friendly and charming now, accepting and wholesome.

        This appear as the ultimate BlackPill, but it's just science, and could be a motivator.

        Now you KNOW everything it's inside your head, stop caring and don't give a frick, and just go on.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP here

      I feel like i was just being realistic about my eventual life trajectory. But I guess it came off as rude.

      You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.

      Of course we understand why you are afraid.
      Being alone is scary. Social networks prey on this shit. That did not improves the problem, it makes it worst instead.

      You need to overcome the fear of rejection.
      So touch grass. A bit more each day.

      You are not going to have a nice day, so better try to make this life more livable.

      Dont worry Im not gonna KMS. Im honestly quite content with life overall. I get your point on rejection, so I guess get rejected a million times and play the nunbers game? I think my hang up is where do I even start? Especially in this day and age where everyone is so atomized.

      watching this thread because i'm basically OP but less successful/no IRL friends, at least not anymore.

      >you will only attract bad people because you are one
      i worry about this a lot - that not only am i not presentable to other potential mates, but i don't even know what any warning signs look like because i lack experience

      [...]
      >You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.
      Yeah, I'm aware it's mostly cowardice.

      >So touch grass. A bit more each day.
      Last two times I went out downtown, nothing seemed like fun. I talked to two people: one random tourist guy that shared my first name, and then the bartenders I saw. Everyone (actually, everyone, 100%) in their little groups or out together as a couple, and it feels really wrong to interject as someone on their lonesome. I didn't see anyone walking by themselves unless they were working. I thought schooler rhetoric was bullshit, but I felt really out of place being on my own.

      >captcha: days2k

      Good luck to you my friend!

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        > I guess it came off as rude.
        it's not that it's rude. it just speaks to subscribing to woman hating ideologies. No woman wants to be with a man that resents her and assumes the worst of her, just like a man wouldn't want that. Fix your view on women and content/spaces thst focus on hating women. They are half the population and human just like you.

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          Is it women hating though? I have friends that are in these relationships and I feel its a pretty good situation for the woman and the women are doing quite well for themselves. I'm not really making a value judgement, I'm just saying im dont want to get settled on, yet.

          But of course Im not gonna go around saying this stuff IRL haha, i appreciate your opinion though!

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            if you're talking about mail order types it's funny you speak fondly of that. It's women who have no other choice or want to "betabuxx". it's long form prostitution

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Oh no, I mean relationships where the women are older and are looking to settle down and the guys a bit dull or nerdy but makes good money and are inexperienced romantically.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ah yeah. Thats not a relationship dynamic you see every day. It's so much more common to see older men with young women. Generally what I've noticed is the same people who are in relationships either stay together and break up and date other people who have been in relationships. it's unheard of for an older guy who is inexperienced to suddenly date women his age. Typically they are the ones with the younger girls or they stay single.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Oh no, Im referring to relationships where the women are a bit older and are looking to settle down and the guys romantically inexperienced but makes a good living.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >ew
      This post was written by a resentful woman.

      You have been brainrotted by capitalism. People are entitled to relationships actually, its how we have a stable society.

      This

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >resentful woman
        yet I'm still here being helpful. how have you helped?

  2. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    You are afraid of rejection your whole life, and all this bullshit you wrote it's just a rationalization against the hurting truth that you are just coward.

    Of course we understand why you are afraid.
    Being alone is scary. Social networks prey on this shit. That did not improves the problem, it makes it worst instead.

    You need to overcome the fear of rejection.
    So touch grass. A bit more each day.

    You are not going to have a nice day, so better try to make this life more livable.

  3. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me
    Many such cases unfortunately.

  4. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do you have any good friends? If not you fricked up big time. Women are worthless scum. If you need companionship then focus on friends, if you want sex then get a vasectomy and pump & dump. The modern woman is not worth investing time and effort into and I say this as someone with a gf.
    She told me a story of her work colleague that's cheating on her husband. The dude works 2 jobs in a different city to pay the mortgage and provide for his family and comes home on the weekends, while she is fricking men in hid bed while this husband is away. She also told my gf a secret that this woman was ready to cancel that wedding if another guy she was cheating with just said a word.
    Stop putting pussy on a pedestal, women are worthless, valueless and I'm gonna stand on this 100%

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP here

      Yes thankfully I have great friends.

      And good lord that sounds like a fricking nightmare, something like that would destroy me. I guess this is why some people avoid relationships and just sustain off prosties.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        It is a fricking nightmare, the guys clueless completely, he is working hard for his family and his wife prostitutes herself out in his own bed. The guy is a firefighter aswell, 2nd job is at samsung idk what he does there.

        What fricks me up is my gfs stance on this. She doesn't care about that, doesn't want to message the guy privately to give him some clues or something. She interacts with that woman as it's nothing. Like my gf can literally save a man's life and she chooses to stay out of it, because I don't see it any other way - the truth will come out, and that guy will hang himself.

        I fricking hate women so much. The only reasons I'm with my 'gf' is because she cooks (badly), doesn't spill a drop when sucking me off and kinda has nice breasts. She was talking to be about buying a house together in the future, little does she know she's getting dumped in the spring kek
        Fricking spineless moron, I can impose any political view on her, I can decide anything for her, I literally told her to do a fricking somersault on the floor then bark for me and she did it
        Thanks for listening to my schizo rant, I needed to vent a lil, I fricking hate women.

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          >d
          sounds like you have a regular ass pet woman
          there are obvious benefits to this situation anon
          you should probably line up another piece before ejecting this one if you really have to

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            I dont see any benefits except having my balls drained by her even then a silicone pussy and some lube is just as good if not better - no pregnancy risk
            I rather go cycling with the bros in the sun than waste my weekends with her honestly

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          Get a different girl for sure. This kind of woman is evil
          You can weed out bad women by asking their stances on cheating and important moral issues a couple dates in.
          If they get offended that you don't like their answer, tough shit. Dump them and you saved months or years of time

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Hates women
          >Probably won't contribute anything to the >development of ectogenesis

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          if you actually cared and have a gf who would do anything you asked, why not tell her to tell the husband the truth? oh wait, you only care about your own satisfaction and want an excuse to hate women. I'm sure if the genders were switched you'd be celebrating him. Shitty people exist, you're one, your gf is one, and so is that guy's cheating wife.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            But I don't care about her. She is not worth investing into a future with. she has no spine at all, she doesn't want a husband she wants a handler and I'm not gonna be that.
            >I'm sure if the genders were switched you'd be celebrating him
            You are clueless completely. I'm talking about facts, real life events and youre ranting about made up scenarios and gender switches. Typical worthless sub 80iq femoid behavior, consider this post a spit in your fricking face you worthless trash

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            cared about the guy being cheated on dummy. You're so full of blind hatred you can't even think clearly besides any opportunity to insult me. My point still stands. You just are using this dude as a prop to profess to the world your hatred of women, if you actually cared about your fellow man (you don't, you exist just to hate which sounds miserable) you would tell her gf to find a way to tell the husband. instead you are here foaming at the mouth over how much you hate women

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            tell your gf*

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Where in the frick did you get that i WANT the guy to find out the truth?
            It's that woman's behavior and my gfs attidute to It that's pissing me off. How nonchalant they are to something like that, the fact that I would have to push my gf to do what's morally right, because she won't by herself.
            The fact that I have to explain this speaks volumes. Women have no morals, no dignity, no self respect. Just a sex drive of a literal ape. No wonder yall never built anything of value in civilization, everything leeched off of man's achievements like fricking parasites. Artificial wombs can't come soon enough

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            this thing likely wants children. don't bring more monsters into the world

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            How many women have you dated? I disagree with what you're saying because I've dated based women and shitty women. That being said i hate women so much it's unreal. Love from Kazakhstan

  5. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    you can either:
    1. get an escorts and find out that physical intimacy is a literal meme
    2. try dating and open up your heart with the equal potential for joy but also pain
    personally i just go with 1 every few months to suppress the reptile urge to procreate

  6. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    > I don't think I can just show up to a club
    You can, nothing prevents you from doing that. You don't even need to "neg randos", just go and check how it is. You can just leave at any point.
    > I never learned how to pick up women.
    You can learn now, it isn't something complicated and you'll be as good as everybody else in a year or less.

  7. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    anon read the book, "double your dating" by David De Angelo just a 70 page book
    start from there

  8. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    You will have to go through everything you didn't go through.
    Learn by trial and error.
    Talk to women.
    Flit with them, even ones you are not interested.
    Gain experience.

  9. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    30m here. Living below poverty line with no debt and various startups I am part of hoping to hit big. Snagged a 20yo gf by just being friends with her. We met because of my freelance work as an artist.

    Best advice I have for you is to get a hobby that is good for men and women both and attend it weekly. Don't be afraid to be part of a community. Focus entirely on making new friends rather than dating. My gf was my confidant and best friend. Now we're a pair.

    Lastly, ignore the people around you. They don't pay your bills. They aren't setting you up on dates. Reverse it on them and ask them to introduce you to someone.

  10. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What should I do? I never learned how to pick up women
    Audience, this is what poker players call a "Tell".
    Emotionally mature and stable men in their mid- to late 20's that actually have a stable life, successful career, etc. have two things as well:
    1) at least basic social skills
    2) at least some friends.
    THUS these men know that to find a GF you do not
    >"pick up girls
    OP *proves* he is actually a socially moronic, emotionally stunted outcast with this
    > I don't think I can just show up to a club and neg randos
    Again, outside of the freaky zone of terminally online social outcasts 'negging' is a bad joke no grown up would mention as even an option.

    These two things plus the general tone of OP's whinefest point to him being a crab in a bucket trying to demoralize others with his weird fiction.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >No True Scottsman would use that word!

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I have no fricking idea what the No True Scotsman fallacy is
        FTFY

  11. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anon, you're actually in the perfect place to find a girl who's touching on her 20s, rather than someone used up.

    Don't settle for less.

  12. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    All the good looking women who would make good wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single and have a good heart. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
    Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to frick the rich and upper class.
    Then there are chad millennials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
    Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

    tldr; single good looking young women don't really exist except in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >All the good looking women who would make good wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest
      How do you cope with getting two of them back in high school and fumbling the bag with each.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        You don't
        >t. 31 year old who cheated on the virgin he magically snagged and deflowered after senior year of college because he was too much of a lecher to deal with the dry spells that come from time to time in long term relationships, and is now resigned to his fate of dying alone

  13. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Pay a hooker, moron.

  14. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Go back to undergrad.

  15. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    You aren't going to get any decent answers, all the negative answers are from roasties angry at men.
    The best advice is do what makes you happy, if getting into a relationship makes you happy go for it. If being in a relationship doesn't make you happy avoid it. It isn't your job to be anyone's provider unless you want to be.
    Or you can be like me, I live on the outskirt of a college area, and went into town when I wanted to talk to girls. I managed to get into a relationship 21 year old junior in college, she is amazing.
    Also if you are someone who has their shit together you have more weight when it comes to the dating market, as any smart person looks for stability.

  16. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I feel like I fell for biggest scam of our times, by becoming the stable, safe, provider just to have some woman in her late 30s whos done having fun to eventually settle on me
    The biggest meme is that any man who says this is, unironically, a full beta male with less test than a 9 year old girl. How is you relationship with you father, Op?

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