Hiring a male escort for daytime activities without sex

I want to go on a date with a charming man and I feel like someone who makes their living charming women would be a good choice. I don't want to have sex I just want to be woo'd a bit. Kinda like a Host but I am not in japan so I have been looking at escort sites.

None of the men on them look like nice people though. Is this a thing of 'don't judge a book by its cover'? I don't want to pay 200€ for a frickboy who I will be uncomfortable around. (I am uncomfortable around most men).

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You tried /soc/ for this?

    They have shit like this to completely adopting your ass.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think a /soc/ browser would be able to give me a nice afternoon of fun. They'd probably call me a roastie and steal my socks to jerk off into. Also it'd be difficult to find someone in my area rather than specifically looking through people I already know live near me.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't think a /soc/ browser would be able to give me a nice afternoon of fun.
        The dice roll may be half the fun, maybe you'll find something which exceeds your expectations.

        You can tell them what kind of experience you'd want tailor-fit, and maybe someone will take you up on it. If they can't, they'll tell. That's how it usually rolls.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Failing to get a date on tutorial mode

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have gone on dates but they have never been pleasant. I'd like someone who is there specifically for my entertainment. I give them money, they give me a fun time. Men on actual dates only try to put in the lowest amount of effort in an attempt to sleep with you.

      I don't want a walking date and sex. I want to go to an arcade and have my jokes be laughed at and be given flowers.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Men I choose for dates only try to put in the lowest amount of effort in an attempt to sleep with me.
        FTFY

        Heterosexual dating supply/demand is so skewed that you can get whatever you want without paying, you just need to actually choose it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        > I don't want a walking date and sex
        Yet you’re looking for literal manprostitutes.
        Also, regardless of what you plan to do with them, the appearance counts. Would you believe a guy who claimed he hired prostitutes just to talk? I wouldn’t, and a lot of men will immediately write you off for paying male escorts. Worse for you, it’s the men who are most opposed to the brain dead coomers and horndogs who are most likely to be put off by it.

        >I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl.
        I'm not a cute girl and no man wants to spend time with a woman without expecting sex. I'd rather give money than pussy in exchange for a nice date.

        I’m waiting until marriage for sex, and I know several guys doing the same. I’m not even religious. You’re looking in the wrong places.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Also, regardless of what you plan to do with them, the appearance counts
          I am not gonna pretend I wouldn't select an escort based on appearance along with their profile. If I pay them it doesn't matter. They're not gonna give me a discount cause I think they're unattractive.
          >Worse for you, it’s the men who are most opposed to the brain dead coomers and horndogs who are most likely to be put off by it.
          Idk what your point is here.
          >I’m waiting until marriage for sex, and I know several guys doing the same.
          I don't want to be married so those men would still be expecting something from me I don't want to give.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, I mean the appearance to others of your actions. What you’re doing is the equivalent of a guy renting a hotel room with a prostitute. It’s not a good look.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody's going to know, they're discreet for a reason. I'm not gonna tell my friends that I hire prostitutes to play airhockey with me because they'd probably be worried when they don't need to be.

            I don't have any family so I am fine on that front.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why should anyone care about how it looks to you, a random 4chins poster?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Believe what you like about me. I’m just pointing out that other people aren’t in your head. They only know what they see, and they won’t necessarily take your word if it looks like you did something else.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Who are they and why do you need to please them?

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >(I am uncomfortable around most men).
    sounds like a (You) problem. a problem you should work on first

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe going on a date with men out of my league in low-stress environments would be a good first step to becoming comfortable with men in the real world?
      Idk I just want to hold hands. Maybe go to an art museum and autistically rant at a man who will pretend to enjoy it.

      >Men I choose for dates only try to put in the lowest amount of effort in an attempt to sleep with me.
      FTFY

      Heterosexual dating supply/demand is so skewed that you can get whatever you want without paying, you just need to actually choose it.

      The whole point of first dates is getting to know someone. How am I supposed to know what they will act like on a date before I go on a date with them? How am I supposed to look at a person and know they will bring me flowers or open doors for me? With an escort I can immediately tell them my demands and they'd - hopefully - oblidge it because that's their whole job. Although even better would be if I don't have to tell them at all.

      But that's the thing, i also don't know what escorts act like on dates and I am anxious to take the plunge.

      I'm sure there exists a boyfriend experience with male escorts just like there is a girlfriend experience with woman escorts. There's usually a filter or atleast a searchbar for that in whoring sites

      I saw one that had a lot of extras he offered including +1 to family events or going shopping with you. I also read in articles that for male prostitutes the job is a lot more about providing charismatic company. I just.. don't know how to figure out if they're worth the money.

      >I don't think a /soc/ browser would be able to give me a nice afternoon of fun.
      The dice roll may be half the fun, maybe you'll find something which exceeds your expectations.

      You can tell them what kind of experience you'd want tailor-fit, and maybe someone will take you up on it. If they can't, they'll tell. That's how it usually rolls.

      Idk the dice roll seems like the worst part.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I just.. don't know how to figure out if they're worth the money.
        What's it cost? Maybe like $200 bucks? I've wasted more in an afternoon at the bar with far less to show for it. Or that time I bought some accessories I've not even bothered to take out of the box yet. Or those games I never even installed.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          most of them have rates at inquiry only, the ones who do have rates up seem to be around 100-200€/hr. I'd hope that a date without sex would run cheaper. It's not like I don't have the money but I'd want the date to be 4 hours at least and 800€ seems excessive.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You don't have to consume $800 just to test it out though. You can get away much cheaper when you're just seeing if it's a good fit

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sure there exists a boyfriend experience with male escorts just like there is a girlfriend experience with woman escorts. There's usually a filter or atleast a searchbar for that in whoring sites

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      jeff pls go

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Who Jeff and where do they need to go?

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just have dates with decent people. FFS women are completely moronic. Filter the frickboys out on dating apps and you will find cool guys that wants you to have fun. I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl. Sure, they are not model tier but women are moronic and only like the top 10% at best.

    TL:DR : Stop being moronic and use your power in the dating market.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Just have dates with decent people. FFS women are completely moronic. Filter the frickboys out on dating apps and you will find cool guys that wants you to have fun. I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl. Sure, they are not model tier but women are moronic and only like the top 10% at best.
      They'd rather have the model-tier frickboys.
      They might say otherwise, but actions speak louder than words.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Filter the frickboys out on dating apps and you will find cool guys that wants you to have fun. I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl. Sure, they are not model tier
        One of my good friends is a doctor in his late 20s who owns a house outright. He's a genuinely good person, in good shape, actually has a good face and wants a serious relationship.
        Because of his baldness and average height he can't find one.

        It makes my blood boil when a woman would literally prefer paying a Chad for a fake date than giving a chance to a normal guy that would be the happiest man on earth to listen to her ranting about some obscure topic. She outright refuses to create real connections and prefer fake ones. Disgusting.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I don't think I am a good person but I also don't think any man is entitled to my time or affection. Just how I am not entitled to theirs. That's why I am happier paying someone to pretend to like me than whining that nobody does. I've tried going on dates. It did not work out. I am an adult with money and time to spend and no one to be accountable to. I want to be romanced in a way men have shown themselves unwilling or unable to do.

          Why not pay for a fantasy?

          You're literally asking for a hot man that will be forced to listen to you rant about your shit. What the frick are you talking about ?
          Did you try the asexual community? Tons of guys in there that would be happy to form a real and deep connection with you without wanting to pound your holes. You didn't even try to search for those kind of men and you're already giving up.

          I think my friend talked about an asexual dating page she's been on. I don't think I am asexual.. and I don't know what I would expect from an asexual man. Just using him for some dates seems bad.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Completely reasonable

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I want to be romanced in a way men have shown themselves unwilling or unable to do.
            You want to be romanced in a way that the men you specifically select have shown themselves unwilling or unable to do.
            The small portion of men you select are not all men.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Sounds like OPs choice to hire an actor would be the right call then, no?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Maybe, maybe not.
            I just want some honesty as to what the situation actually is.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Implying whoever normal guy is would be entitled to any of that. Paying for goods and services is the foundation of our society

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl.
      I'm not a cute girl and no man wants to spend time with a woman without expecting sex. I'd rather give money than pussy in exchange for a nice date.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You didn't even try, how can you be so sure ? As I said, filters the guy that are just after your pussy and you'll find cool guys.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You're assuming I have been going for frickboys and hot men. Most of the men i have dated I have met through friend groups, most of them were awkward nerdy types. They were chubby or incrediboy skinny, with glasses, balding or intense acne. I don’t mind any body shape or appearance really.

          I just think men are lazy or plainly don't know how to be romantic. Maybe men just have different ideas of what a fun time is. Idk. Rather than continue to hope a man will be fun and interesting and interested I'd prefer to spend some money and have a nice afternoon without the underlying expectation for sex.

          >Filter the frickboys out on dating apps and you will find cool guys that wants you to have fun. I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl. Sure, they are not model tier
          One of my good friends is a doctor in his late 20s who owns a house outright. He's a genuinely good person, in good shape, actually has a good face and wants a serious relationship.
          Because of his baldness and average height he can't find one.

          I don't want a serious relationship I just want to go on non-sexual dates.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You're literally asking for a hot man that will be forced to listen to you rant about your shit. What the frick are you talking about ?
            Did you try the asexual community? Tons of guys in there that would be happy to form a real and deep connection with you without wanting to pound your holes. You didn't even try to search for those kind of men and you're already giving up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Filter the frickboys out on dating apps and you will find cool guys that wants you to have fun. I have a good amount of friends that are cool guys, have their lives in order and just want to make happy a cute girl. Sure, they are not model tier
      One of my good friends is a doctor in his late 20s who owns a house outright. He's a genuinely good person, in good shape, actually has a good face and wants a serious relationship.
      Because of his baldness and average height he can't find one.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In the US you want something like RentAFriend, Dinnermates, or Cowboys4Angels.
    I had a brother that used to do that, mainly going to weddings or family parties so people would stop bugging a girl to find a BF, but sometimes to make sure a woman had a nice evening knowing there would be no expectations of sex.
    It is specifically for taking a guy to a party or to have the boyfriend eperience with zero sex.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Cowboys4Angels
      Frick I wish I lived in america that one is awesome. None of those websites seem to work in europe but thanks for the response. It seems at least it's possible.

      Do you happen to know the rate your brother charged for a boyfriend experience date? And how did he want the clients to interact with him?

      You don't have to consume $800 just to test it out though. You can get away much cheaper when you're just seeing if it's a good fit

      You think so? I don't want to mail an escort and insult them by asking for something that isn't industry standard like a getting-to-know date.

      Women will do anything in their power to avoid asking an incel out on a park date and tell them to bring flowers.

      I don't want to go on a park date and I don't think an incel can be nice or romantic. Same problem as the /soc/ anons.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Do you happen to know the rate your brother charged for a boyfriend experience date?
        It was$150-$200 for a long afternoon and he tended to bring a gift and to buy a treat or two

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          That sounds really nice. I was sorta expecting to be paying for everything on the date. Having a surprise gift would be pleasant. I've never been given something by a date.

          Professionals selling their time shouldn't be put off by asking what the smallest and largest timespans offered are. It should be a daily occurrence to them

          That's a fair point, maybe I am anxious for no reason.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Professionals selling their time shouldn't be put off by asking what the smallest and largest timespans offered are. It should be a daily occurrence to them

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women will do anything in their power to avoid asking an incel out on a park date and tell them to bring flowers.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you think women should seek out incels on parks and tell them to bring flowers?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Probably because it's easier than paying literal manprostitutes for dates. At this point I am certain that facing a gun and being told
        >Death
        >or
        >A long happy life with a ugly incel as a husband who will give you a stable home, loving family, and will listen to your wvery want and need.
        90% of women under 35 will tell them
        >Pull the trigger there is nothing worth living for without Chad.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Lots of assumptions, lots of claims, but very little to back it up

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ITT: roastie mad she can't get dates with Chad on Tinder considers paying a gigolo because he's "charming" and "funny" (read: tall and hot).

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Uhhhh mrs. Femcel, if you are going to a literal male prostitute you are not going to find a "nice, charming man". The type of girls who go to male strip clubs are the most depraved and disgusting women who love wieners getting shoved in their face. If you think regular guys are unromantic then the idea that you can turn to sleaze for fulfillment is outright ridiculous.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's plain to see that what she means by "charming", "funny", and "romantic", is "6ft", "handsome", and "rapey".
      Women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have actually known men who used to work at stripclubs and they have been nice. Besides wouldn't someone who gives the boyfriend experience at least know how to put on a nice act?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you a male stripper? How do you know?

      Businesswomen would do better as single and available women offering sexual favors to their superiors.

      According to who? You?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It is obvious, you disingenuous c**t.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I can make shit up too you know

          T. Joe Biden

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Are you a male stripper? How do you know?
        Because my girl keeps in contact with her friends from high school. These women were all turbo bawds and ended up knocked up single mothers. They relate to my girl their disgusting experience and my girl relates them to me. Even my girl thinks of these people as being subhumans and says they never used to be like that in high school.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Are you sure it's not a statistical illusion? Consider this:
          >criminals on TV are dumb
          >only dumb criminals get caught
          >you now think all criminals must be dumb
          When your gf only associates with thosw kind of people, you'll only get a very limited view into their specific behavior. Were you a male stripper you could have a broader sense of what all kinds of people coming there are like

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Find a high-end escort agency. As a matter of fact, the majority of male escorts are hired for exactly that reason - to be charming dates, most often for businesswomen who need an escort for some social or professional event that can pass for men of quality and breeding. (if they end up in bed, that's a separate arrangement and not part of the original deal) Just make it clear that that's what you're looking for and the agency will pick an appropriate man.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Businesswomen would do better as single and available women offering sexual favors to their superiors.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >deranged femcel posting anime femboys and wanting to hire a male prostitute
    I don't think you're gonna find the type of guy you want. Why don't you want to get married? Just ask out some guy you find attractive. Seems like you only think anime boys who look like girls are hot though. Sad

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you kidding? That's like half of male escort services.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What? Feminine homosexuals? For some reason I doubt they're gonna be the heckin' wholesome boys OP wants

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Great actors. It's almost like their livelihood depended on it or something. They can be however OP desires. OPs request isn't that unique even

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Why don't you want to get married?
      It's a lot of labour. I was in a very long term relationship once with a man I thought I would marry but it was a lot of work for little reward. I find more comfort now in solitude and platonic friendships. I don't want to share my living space, I don't want to compromise on my goals in life for the sake of a partner. My ex was awesome in a lot of ways but it still did not work out and it still wasn't worth it.

      If I could have someone I'd meet every one or two months who bought me flowers and called me pretty that'd be pretty ideal.

      Real life doesn't have romance, I accept that. But I'd like some escapism. I've never been gifted flowers.

      >inb4 shouldn't have dated chad
      I thought my boyfriend was handsome but objectively he wasn't. He was short, chubby and balding. He had a great personality but no sense for romance and our life goals never aligned. I loved him and I don't regret being with him. I just don't feel like repeating it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        So you want the fruits of a relationship without putting in any of the work? You sound a bit narcissistic, a healthy person would just forgo all romantic and sexual relationships if they chose this path. It'll probably be pretty empty and depressing if you do anyways. Find some zoomer femboy to groom or something idk

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I want like 1/20th the fruits of a relationship in exchange for some money. I know it's narcissistic. I just don't have the energy anymore to really love someone.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I know it's narcissistic
            Is it though? Would you consider having a haircut narcissistic? How about buying a cup of coffee at starbucks? Paying for services seems about as normal as you can get

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I understand what that other anon means that desiring all the good of a relationship with none of the drawbacks is a bit self-centered. Although as I said earlier I don't think any man is entitled to my attention. Whether I stay entirely single or pay an escort for some fun shouldn't matter to anyone else.

            How long have you been single? Why don't you just try to be content with nothing for a little bit? Take a year, humble yourself, delay gratification, and then reevaluate. Maybe you'll want to get back in the dating market.

            I broke up with my partner about 3 years ago. I started going on dates again about 8 months after the break up but none of them were fun and they never went far. It's been a good while since I have dated or tried to date. I got a new phone last year and never redownloaded any dating app. At the same time I had some invite from friends every weekend so I have been busy.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's fine, you just seem a bit burnt out. Keep being social and only date if you find a guy you really like. Nothing wrong with that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Alright, that was sorta my plan.

            Guys don't buy gifts and woo women anymore because it doesn't work in 2024. She'll think you're her gay bff or something. Flowers and chocolates are for someone you've come to love over many years, not asexual women who want attention. Doing this stuff with no relationship is the female equivalent of putting out on the first date. It's not technically wrong but it's a bad look.

            I think that's their right and choice but then I should have the right to not date them and seek other alternatives.

            >I want to be romanced in a way men have shown themselves unwilling or unable to do.
            You want to be romanced in a way that the men you specifically select have shown themselves unwilling or unable to do.
            The small portion of men you select are not all men.

            Yeah, we already went through this. But these are things you can't figure out without already putting in a substantial amount of work. Men don't walk around with signs that say "will hold open doors for you and kiss your hand".

            How old are you? What age range are you looking at?

            26. I'm not too concerned about the age. Nobody too young and nobody in my dads age range. So 22-40 is probably fine. 25-35 would be the sweet spot.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you want just a charming date then you will pretty much need to get an older guy, like 30+.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            it seems most escorts are 'older'. The one I have been looking at would be 32 and there's another one at 39. Not sure if the age changes anything but I would feel weird hanging out with someone way outside my age range. Little in common and all that.

            That 32 year old offers tours of museums or art galleries, he lives a bit away so I may just request his rate for that and travel to see him if it's under 300. There's been some good advice itt that has helped me be less anxious about it.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How long have you been single? Why don't you just try to be content with nothing for a little bit? Take a year, humble yourself, delay gratification, and then reevaluate. Maybe you'll want to get back in the dating market.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >you want some fish without going fishing? Normal person would just forgo eating fish altogether. Buying salmon or lobster will leav e you empty

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Guys don't buy gifts and woo women anymore because it doesn't work in 2024. She'll think you're her gay bff or something. Flowers and chocolates are for someone you've come to love over many years, not asexual women who want attention. Doing this stuff with no relationship is the female equivalent of putting out on the first date. It's not technically wrong but it's a bad look.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think that matters with escorts. You can simply describe the kind of a guy you want and that's what you'll get

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >old school romance is the equivalent of taking wiener on a first date

      You are fricked in the head.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Nah, he's right.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Nay, he wrong

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah, he is right. Girls don't want flowers or chocolates unless you're 6ft+ chad

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They wrong tho, you're just imagining things to suit your narrative

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nope there is no narrative, you are wrong.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You repeating it won't make it any more true no matter how much you want to believe it, no matter how convenient it would be for you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You repeating that it is part of some narrative doesn't make it true either.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don't really have to, since nothing was provided to support the original argument. Feel free to justify it if you can'

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How old are you? What age range are you looking at?

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >wake up
    >open le chins
    >see moronic foid failing at tutorial mode yet again
    >feelsgoodman
    keep suffering thanks

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