how am i supposed to acquire a bf if i cant even make friends and have never felt comfortable in the presence of another person something is either wr...

how am i supposed to acquire a bf if i cant even make friends and have never felt comfortable in the presence of another person something is either wrong with me or everyone else

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  1. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Easy. Just post your
    >age
    >location
    >interests
    >neet status
    >bodycount
    >standards
    >ideal life
    >red flags

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      if it was as easy as just posting my info i would have found someone long ago but the issue isnt really finding people to talk to

      If you're not obese you have nothing to worry about.

      i am not thankfully

      Use a dating app / website or use NSFFW and exchange temporary contact info like throwaway email addresses or discord accounts. That's how antisocial people get relationships.

      dont use a dating app or dumb shit like that those men will likely just want your pussy, if you have an Android phone try Alone Days its an app for meeting people outside of dating, or just join a random discord server about an interest you have and make an effort to talk there once a day eventually you will make friends just by being active in the server and people recognizing you

      i tried the discord thing when i was younger and it didnt really work out but maybe i didnt put in enough effort. often times reality is so much more disappointing than my expectations and if i dont get along with someone immediately i lose all hope reee

      I'd like to get into a LDR with a girl, get comfortable with her, then visit her and eventually move in together and marry her. I don't know if this is a solid plan.

      sounds like a solid plan indeed

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        How do you never have friends as a female

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          >How do you never have friends as a female
          i wish i had an answer to that

          >the issue isnt really finding people to talk to
          What is the issue?

          that i always feel like i have to play pretend and put on a mask around everyone, i can never feel comfortable i daydream a lot about having a bf or friends or whatever someone close to me but ive never even been close to that irl

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >i wish i had an answer to that
            I hope you have neglectful parents or some trauma then because those are the only good answers

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >neglectful parents
            hmm maybe? my physical needs were met but we never hugged, my problems were dismissed, never told me they loved me, yelled quite a lot and so on. it got better as i got older because i learned to keep a healthy distance from them. i wouldnt go as far to call it neglect but it probably contributed in some way

            Have you ever went by the tag titano?

            nopeee

            >that i always feel like i have to play pretend and put on a mask around everyone, i can never feel comfortable i daydream a lot about having a bf or friends or whatever someone close to me but ive never even been close to that irl
            Are you crazy and you have to mask because of that? Or are you just anxious and masking to feel better? I will not be your bf but I could potentially be a friend.

            i dont think i am crazy? what do you consider to be crazy? i am quite anxious

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >i dont think i am crazy? what do you consider to be crazy? i am quite anxious
            Not crazy then. Do you think a friend could make you comfortable enough to not mask around them?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Have you ever went by the tag titano?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >that i always feel like i have to play pretend and put on a mask around everyone, i can never feel comfortable i daydream a lot about having a bf or friends or whatever someone close to me but ive never even been close to that irl
            Are you crazy and you have to mask because of that? Or are you just anxious and masking to feel better? I will not be your bf but I could potentially be a friend.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm the chillest man alive, drop contact and ill be uneffected by anything you say

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you want a bf you really need to find someone to be comfortable around.
            I think you should try filling out that other anon's list like your age and country and interests etc.

            Maybe try talking to someone irl that seems nice and down to earth. Do you know any friends of your family? It doesn't have to be a guy, it can be a girl too just so you learn to feel comfortable around someone else.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            sadly no i am in a shitty position right now because i am mostly at home and cant meet new people. hoping things change in the future but for now i am kind of stuck

            I'm the chillest man alive, drop contact and ill be uneffected by anything you say

            only because youre so chill throwawayay
            on dc

            something is wrong with society, you're only like this because it was possible for you to be like this, that wasn't the case not that long ago

            true society is at fault

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >sounds like a solid plan indeed
        Okay, so let's do that. Your day been okay?

        • 5 months ago
          Anonymous

          my day was finee but pretty uneventful, cleaned my room and watched some youtube, browsed LULZ. how was yours?

          if you are in greece I will be your bf

          i am not greek

          >everyone else
          nope, not really. you must be different.
          just start getting used to other people first, don't jump right into getting a bf. make online friends, get used to talking to people.

          you might be right..... but its so hard to make the first step to try and make friends because i dont even really care about that, if i just had a single close person i could share everything with id be content. but then again i have to talk to people in order for that to happen guess theres no way around it

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            What do you typically watch on YouTube? I'm finding it impossible to find anything worthwhile, but I mostly watch old documentaries.

            Also, my day has been horrible. My sleep schedule is fricked up and break ends tomorrow, so I know I'm not going to be getting good sleep tonight.

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            i also mostly watch documentaries or video essays, found a channel that analyzes cave diving accidents and i binge watched their videos lol its crazy
            what type of old documentaries?
            and yeah same im supposed to be up in 5 hours or so and im wide awake, my sleep schedule has been horrible

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1704671373093188.jpg

            If you ended up on NSFFW of all places as a woman then you must be extremely moronic and completely lacking in personality. Have you thought of working on yourself first?

            i am moronic you got that right. no i will not work on myself

            >i dont think i am crazy? what do you consider to be crazy? i am quite anxious
            Not crazy then. Do you think a friend could make you comfortable enough to not mask around them?

            i guess? if we got along and had the same interests thats the only way i could feel comfortable

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            >same interests
            so what are your interests?

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            Political, historical, and conspiratorial documentaries. I also watch video essays and old radio broadcasts from people like Dave Emory and Mae Brussell (even if I don't agree with everything they say).

          • 5 months ago
            Anonymous

            so you basically know what you have to do, you just have to get closer to people.
            be warned, relationships (both bf and friends) are not as dreamy as you want. you might disagree, argue at times. you need to start buidling your own personality too

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >the issue isnt really finding people to talk to
        What is the issue?

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        >if it was as easy as just posting my info i would have found someone long ago but the issue isnt really finding people to talk to
        Yes it is since you can't make the right friends

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        wdym it didn't work out?

  2. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you're not obese you have nothing to worry about.

  3. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Use a dating app / website or use NSFFW and exchange temporary contact info like throwaway email addresses or discord accounts. That's how antisocial people get relationships.

  4. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'd like to get into a LDR with a girl, get comfortable with her, then visit her and eventually move in together and marry her. I don't know if this is a solid plan.

  5. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    That's the funny thing you don't
    good luck m8

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      its joever man

  6. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    dont use a dating app or dumb shit like that those men will likely just want your pussy, if you have an Android phone try Alone Days its an app for meeting people outside of dating, or just join a random discord server about an interest you have and make an effort to talk there once a day eventually you will make friends just by being active in the server and people recognizing you

  7. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    if you are in greece I will be your bf

  8. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >everyone else
    nope, not really. you must be different.
    just start getting used to other people first, don't jump right into getting a bf. make online friends, get used to talking to people.

  9. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    SHUT THE FRICK UP YOU SON OF A b***h LET ME WIN FOR ONCE

  10. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk, I can even get a femanon to say goodnight to me regularly.

  11. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    something is wrong with society, you're only like this because it was possible for you to be like this, that wasn't the case not that long ago

  12. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you ended up on NSFFW of all places as a woman then you must be extremely moronic and completely lacking in personality. Have you thought of working on yourself first?

  13. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you're thinking thoughts like that then you're probably at least a bit different, if you know you know. I think its always better to just try to focus on finding friends and acquaintances you can be yourself around and feel comfortable expressing your thoughts with, work on that over thinking about finding a bf. I had something else to say but then I heard foxes screaming outside and it derailed my train of thought
    Stop this shit though because sometimes there's just some ice to be broken and you can have a great relationship with someone, no-one is perfect
    >if i dont get along with someone immediately i lose all hope

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      true, my priority isnt really looking for a bf first just someone i can talk to. its just that i keep overthinking how im supposed to ever find that one person if i struggle with the first step of getting to know others and making acquaintances. and yeah not everyones perfect, it probably always going to feel awkward for me at first. i get caught up in my own head a lot and should probably try and work on that, it ruins things for myself. damn foxes :[

      I was in a space where I thought I was comfortable and welcomed but apparently it was all a lie, they turned on me the second I showed weakness
      even friends of 10+ years threw me away for their own comfort. don't trust them, OP, you are better off like this.

      i mean i do enjoy my own company and being alone too, but the loneliness really gets to me sometimes. how did you deal with it after they left you? i cant imagine what it must have been like to lose friends of 10+ yrs

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just like anything the more you try it the more confidence you'll get, putting yourself out there is not a meme, its a requirement. I'm assuming you're young so you probably have more chances to find people you can talk to at least. Just keep in mind that you still have to maintain the relationships you start, you won't be a loner at that point even though you're used to it. Truly the real challenge

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        I feel the same way, I guess. You get tired of being by yourself and want to feel enriched by others.
        Part of the "break up" has been really comforting, I honestly feel way better day to day knowing that I don't have to step on eggshells or be sit through things that make me uncomfortable for them, but it's obviously sad. But it's just sad, and not the depression I was going through to try to do right by them and neglecting myself.
        I was being a little dramatic earlier, friends are worth it, but you gotta know when and how they're good. It's far better to like yourself than have friends, because if you can't be your own friend, others won't see the fun in it, either.

  14. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was in a space where I thought I was comfortable and welcomed but apparently it was all a lie, they turned on me the second I showed weakness
    even friends of 10+ years threw me away for their own comfort. don't trust them, OP, you are better off like this.

  15. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    are you looking for friends, OP? sddfs

  16. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    you are like SOOOO le femcel SOOOO le serial experiments lain SOOO le weird but awesome anime girl SOOOOO robotlike, just like us! you know what you have to do, and you know you can do it, but you come here to complain about the social equivalent of a fricking sore shoulder to people who are literally dying because of loneliness. you are not a robot, you don't know what suffering is, you will always be catered to because you're a woman, and you will never relate to the men who inhabit these corners of the internet. your life is easier than everyone else's and yet you still fail? how fricking moronic can you be?

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      lol youre a moron. the call is coming from inside the house. "life is so hard because im a man!!" shut the frick up homosexual. imagine thinking men are the only ones who can be lonely and rejected by society you are a dumb ass b***h

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        YES, life is harder for men BECAUSE THEY'RE MEN. how can you deny this in any way? i don't give a frick about who can feel those things, i'm concerned with the people who experience these feelings the most intensely and the most frequently. guess who those people are? MEN. all my life it's been "shut up and listen to my feelings! i'm a human too!" from women, but when did they ever stop to think about the emotions that men feel? you say anything and they bring up the patriarchy, inceldom, being scared to walk at night, etc like you're hanging out with fricking supervillians. but yeah let me go another 20 years prioritizing the feelings of a group of people who have done nothing but invalidate me. frick off.

  17. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know but this is hilarious because you unironically sound exactly just like me but I'm a man

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      are you literally me?

      you are like SOOOO le femcel SOOOO le serial experiments lain SOOO le weird but awesome anime girl SOOOOO robotlike, just like us! you know what you have to do, and you know you can do it, but you come here to complain about the social equivalent of a fricking sore shoulder to people who are literally dying because of loneliness. you are not a robot, you don't know what suffering is, you will always be catered to because you're a woman, and you will never relate to the men who inhabit these corners of the internet. your life is easier than everyone else's and yet you still fail? how fricking moronic can you be?

      and you are le homosexual im not reading all that

      I feel the same way, I guess. You get tired of being by yourself and want to feel enriched by others.
      Part of the "break up" has been really comforting, I honestly feel way better day to day knowing that I don't have to step on eggshells or be sit through things that make me uncomfortable for them, but it's obviously sad. But it's just sad, and not the depression I was going through to try to do right by them and neglecting myself.
      I was being a little dramatic earlier, friends are worth it, but you gotta know when and how they're good. It's far better to like yourself than have friends, because if you can't be your own friend, others won't see the fun in it, either.

      i guess it might have been for the better, i feel the part with stepping on eggshells a lot and honestly at that point i think its better to be alone and learn to enjoy your own company too. the wrong friendships are draining and not worth it in the long run and even the right friends cant help you when you cant deal with yourself. obviously its still sad but yea im glad you were able to grow more comfortable in your own skin too anone

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